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Bette Vassalli Obituary

GODDARD-Vassalli, Bette Ann Age 82, entered this world on December 14, 1933 in Bourbon, MO, and went to her Lord on Monday, June 20, 2016. Bette was a loving wife, mother, grandmother and great-grandmother. She was greatly loved by all who knew her and will be dearly missed. After high school, she completed business college and went to work for the railroad. She met her husband of 63 years, Dale, in Bourbon, MO, where they married in 1952. They moved from Kansas City into the Wichita, KS area in 1973. She loved being a mother and was actively involved serving as Brownie leader, PTA volunteer, Cub Scout leader, and classroom Mom. She was the stay-at-home-mom for the neighborhood children as well. After moving to Goddard in 1975, she went to work at the IRS where she retired as the secretary to the Chief of Criminal Investigations. She and Dale traveled extensively around Europe and throughout the US for many years. She is survived by her husband; son, Dale, Jr. of Austin, TX; daughter, Cindy Poteete (Tom) of Goddard; son, Gregg (Kirsten) of Wichita; daughter, Kim Roskam (Grant) of Wichita; eight grandchildren; and three great-grandchildren. She was preceded in death by her mother, Eleanor Nicholson; stepfather, Sylvester Nicholson; father, Vernon Mecomber. Visitation beginning at 9 a.m. followed by the Funeral Services at 10 a.m. Saturday, June 25, both at Goddard United Methodist Church, 300 N. Cedar St., Goddard, KS 67052. Burial service will follow at Greenwood Cemetery, 6231 W. 47th S., Wichita, KS 67215. Memorials have been established with Harry Hynes Memorial Hospice, 313 S. Market, Wichita, KS 67202.

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Published by Wichita Eagle from Jun. 23 to Jun. 25, 2016.

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Kim Roskam (Vassalli)

August 2, 2016

Mom, I'm am missing your sweet face and the warmth of your laughter. I can picture you dancing around heaven with Elvis with a huge smile across your face - that image brings me joy. You will always be considered the best mom by me and I thank God you were mine!

Rebecca Gobel

June 28, 2016

So very sorry for your loss! Prayers for the whole family.

Jennifer Ramirez

June 27, 2016

Praying for you and with you. You and your family are in my heart and mind. My condolences on the passing of your mother. Jennifer Ramirez and family.

Nancy Friend-Blue

June 26, 2016

Dale, was so sorry to hear about your Mom's passing! It's been a long time since I've seen you! Hope all is well! Keeping your family in thought and prayer!

Jeanie Wilson

June 24, 2016

To the Poteete family- I'm so sorry to hear of your mom's and grandma's passing. What a sweet lady ! I know she'll be missed terribly.

Todd and Tanis

June 24, 2016

Our thoughts and prayers are with your family.

Michelle Miller

June 24, 2016

Bette was always warm, welcoming, and quick witted. I admired her love of reading, which translated into lively conversations with her. She loved her family with a gentle heart. My thoughts and prayers are with you all.

June 23, 2016

So sorry for your loss. A Mama is a special person and will be missed. We will keep your family in our prayers. Mary and Gary

Tonya & Bill

June 23, 2016

Miss Bette was a lovely lady! Her sense of humor was infectious, along with her quick wit. She will be missed. Sending our love and prayers to you Dale and the rest of your family.

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