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Debra K. "Debbie" Rhea

1954 - 2019

Debra K. "Debbie" Rhea obituary, 1954-2019, Wichita, KS

BORN

1954

DIED

2019

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Debra Rhea Obituary

Rhea, Debra K. "Debbie" 64, passed away peacefully surrounded by friends and family in Wichita, KS on Wednesday, August 7, 2019 after a courageous battle with breast cancer. Born September 18, 1954 in Kiowa, KS, Debbie was an only child and spent her early childhood in Hazelton, KS. She moved to Medicine Lodge, KS in 6th grade and graduated from Medicine Lodge High School. She married her high school sweetheart Terry Rhea on August 24, 1974, while both attending Southwestern College. She graduated from Southwestern and taught Elementary Physical Education in Wichita until the arrival of their children. Debbie was a former member of the Wichita Junior League and actively involved with her Sorority, Beta Sigma Phi, with whom she made lifelong friends. She worked at Trio's and the Plaid Giraffe for 25 years, where she applied her design talent and love for beautiful home décor. She was preceded in death by her parents, Lloyd and Ruth Bower of Medicine Lodge, KS. She is survived by her husband, Terry Rhea; sons, Jared (Lily) and Andrew (Kate) Rhea; grandchildren, Atigun, Marelia, Blake, and Caroline Rhea; and many loving in-laws, aunts, uncles, nieces, nephews, cousins and a host of long-time friends. Debbie loved her family, friends, grand-dogs, going "home" to the family farm, traveling, taking cruises, ski trips to Colorado, playing pitch, celebrating holidays and birthdays, enjoying great food, a simple walk around Bradley Fair and the lake, and just being with her family. According to Debbie, she "lived a good life" and only wished to see her grandchildren grow up. She will truly be missed by those who knew her, but especially by those who loved and appreciated her. When you think of her, she wants everyone to remember: "Don't you be sad!" Visitation at Downing & Lahey East Mortuary, Thursday, August 15 from 5 - 7 pm. Funeral Services at Eastminster Presbyterian Church Friday August 16 at 10 am. Graveside Service to follow at the Highland Cemetery, Medicine Lodge, KS at 3 pm. In lieu of flowers, memorial donations to: Wichita Children's Home; Eastminster Presbyterian Church; or ClearPath Hospice. Share tributes online at: www.dlwichita.com.

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Published by Wichita Eagle from Aug. 11 to Aug. 13, 2019.

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Don Williams

August 6, 2024

Debra was a very pretty and nice lady. She will always be missed.

Don Williams

August 5, 2022

Heavenly Father, Jesus and the Holy Spirit be with Terry
and family always. Condolences to you all. I am sorry for being late on that.

Don Williams

August 5, 2022

Debra was very sweet, kind and very beautiful. I will always remember and miss Debra for the rest of my life.
Heavenly Father, Jesus and the Holy Spirit be with her always. Love you forever Debra.

Don Williams

August 5, 2021

Debra was alwas kind and sweet to me. I am devastated that she passed away. I wanted to talk to her but I could not find an address. I will miss her for the rest of my life.

Don E Williams

November 28, 2020

Debbie is a very dear friend and
alway will be. I am going to miss
Debbie very much for the rest of my life. I am so sorry that I didn't get to talk to her one last time. Love you

Vickie Lukens

August 15, 2019

My thoughts and prayers are with Terry & family. Debbie put up a good fight and I am sure she will be missed by many.

Judy McGonigle

August 13, 2019

I was truly saddened to hear of the passing of such a loving and giving classmate. Bless you Terry and your sons. My prayers go to the family.

Comfort Planter

Jennifer Elliott

Sent Flowers

August 12, 2019

Terry
I am so very sorry to hear about the loss of Debbie. May God's grace and peace comfort you and the family.
Chris Anderson

Living Spirit Dishgarden

a loved one

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Larry and Anita Ewart

August 12, 2019

We were so heartbroken to learn of your loss of Debbie. What a sweet lady! May your fond memories bring you comfort now and in the days ahead.

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Aug

15

Visitation

5:00 p.m. - 7:00 p.m.

Downing & Lahey Mortuaries & Crematory - East Wichita

6555 E. Central, Wichita, KS 67206-1924

Aug

16

Funeral service

10:00 a.m.

Eastminster Presbyterian Church

KS

Aug

16

Graveside service

3:00 p.m.

Highland Cemetery

Medicine Lodge,, KS

Funeral services provided by:

Downing & Lahey Mortuaries & Crematory - East Wichita

6555 E. Central, Wichita, KS 67206-1924

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