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Idella Daniels
November 8, 2010
Sue,
My thoughts and prayers are with you as your heart is still feeling the pain from loss of your wonderful son. Thank God for the love you shared as you cherish the loving memories that will always be with you.
Who knew that one year later that I would be greiving the loss of my grandson. Thank you for remembering me, even in your time of sorrow.
We must all live each day letting the ones we love know how we feel because we never know when that opportunity is gone forever.
You are in my prayers and may God Bless you and your family.
Your friend and Co-worker
Idella Daniels
Christi Thompson
November 8, 2010
Ted and Family, I wanted to let you know that you will be in my thoughts and prayers today.
November 24, 2009
Dear Ted, Just though our short conversations, I know how much you loved both your sons. I want you to know how sadden I was to hear the news of your son's death. I will keep your family in my prayers and hope there will a time for healing for all of you. You are truly one of the kindest men I know, and I know you son could be nothing less.
May God help you find Peace and Healing
All my love, Sheila MacDonell Overland Solutions
Tom Bruetsch
November 20, 2009
Dear Ted and Sue,
I'm so sorry for your loss. When I heard the news I was shocked. I remember Ben as a bright, loveable boy back in the days when I was at Visitation and he was a friend of my son growing up.
I would most certainly like to contribute to the Ben Sullivan Memorial Fund in his memory. Please let me know the details to make a donation.
Depression is a terrible disease. And to lose a son so young must be unbearable. As a parent my heart goes out to you for this tragic loss.
Here is my email address:
[email protected]
Elise Feinberg
November 19, 2009
My heart goes out to you at this time and in the days ahead.
November 19, 2009
Dear Ted, Sue and Tim,
I know this is indescribable pain right now. My thoughts and prayers continue to be with you.
Peggy DeSeure
Rose Dillon
November 19, 2009
Ted, Tim & Sue - Ben was such a bright spirit and a joy to spend time with. I'm so sorry for your loss. I will keep you all in my prayers.
Bill Kleine
November 17, 2009
Dear Ted & Sue,
My dear son John suffered this two years ago. They were both classmates at Bishop Miege but I do not believe they knew each other. John's twin cousin, Laura, is a bridge between both these wonderful and sensitive young men. There is a difference to this type of tragedy and sometimes it can be helpful to speak with someone who has been there. There is a local organization that has been helpful to my wife and I: www.sass-mokan.com. I (and or my wife) would be very willing to speak with you, if it would be something you want.
God Is,
Bill & Maggie Kleine
7040 Granada Rd
Prairie Village KS 66208
(913)384-4853
(816)936-5410 (work)
Olga Barratt
November 17, 2009
Dear Ted & family - I only knew Ben from the light in your eyes when you talked about him. My heart is aching for your heartbreak and surely God is cradling Ben in his arms as he is you during this grief.
Maria Braeckel
November 17, 2009
Sullivans,
I am so sorry to hear about your loss. Ben was such a kind and generous person and he will be missed by so many classmates, friends, and teammates. Your family is in my prayers.
Tina Denes (Schultz) Phillips
November 16, 2009
Dear Sue and Ted,
My heart goes out to you. Memories of Ben's kindness, gentleness and wonderful heart will be with me always. He was such a joy.
Love Tina Denes (Schultz) Phillips
Trina Taft
November 16, 2009
Sue and Family, I was so sorry to hear about your son. Please know that you are all in my thoughts and prayers.
Lisa Linville
November 16, 2009
No bond is as great as that between a parent and child. My deepest condolences are with you as you grieve.
Susan (Dusheke) Puhr
November 15, 2009
Dear Sue and family,
I was so sorry to learn about the loss of your son Ben. Please know that you and your family are in my thoughts and prayers during this difficult time.
Ed and Valda Stroesser
November 15, 2009
Dear Ted, Sue and Tim,
You have been in our thoughts and prayers and will continue to be. We are sending you big hugs.
Somewhere deep within the HEART is a place where we CONNECT with all that is DIVINE and ETERNAL. Sending thoughts of PEACE and STRENGTH to ease the sorrow and lift your SPIRIT --- author unknown
Haley (Box) Steiner
November 14, 2009
Sullivan Family - Seeing Ben at the Stations anniversary earlier this year was such a highlight. We spent a great evening reminiscing about old Stations days and talking about our lives. My thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time and I am so sorry I could not be here to help support you. Ben was a wonderful, intelligent person who brightened my life with his positive outlook and constant kindness. He will be greatly missed and always remembered.
Eunice Alexander
November 14, 2009
Ted,Sue,and family
Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this time of loss. May God give you the strength to carry on.
Francis and Eunice Alexander
Erin Hogan
November 14, 2009
Sullivan Family-
Though I never spent much time with Ben, I remember the positive spirit he brought to both the Visitation and Miege communities. He was a person that was intuitive to the needs of others, helpful, and always gave of himself. He contributed his many skills and talents, always sharing them with others.
I remember when I began debate and forensics at Miege how revered his name was in the community. The DeSeure's were always talking about him. I even remember Paula used to have a little tune to which she would sing "Ben Sullivan."
Following in the same path as Ben, attending both Visitation and Miege, he was a positive role model for me of what a person could accomplish with a good attitude and hard work.
I am so sorry for your loss. Ben was a very special person who contributed so much of himself to others. My thoughts and prayers are with you now and always.
November 13, 2009
I did not know Ben very well except for sharing classes with him at SLU. He always had a smile on his face and was very kind.
I would like to make a donation to the fund, but am not sure where I can do so. Is there anyway you can share more information?
Anne & Gene Vogel
November 13, 2009
Dear Sue, Ted, & Tim,
We are saddened by Ben's death and are keeping you in our thoughts and prayers. Wishing you strength and peace during this difficult time.
Dinah Feinberg
November 13, 2009
Dear Sue,Ted,& Tim,We are very deeply saddened by your loss of Ben. It has broken all our hearts here on Kenwood.We will remember him with fondness and wish you the courage and strength to hold his memory close in your hearts as you are letting him go.We know you will also find many ways to honor his memory and his life with the passage of time.He has touched so many lives in a positive way for which we know you are and will remain so very proud. Dinah, Larry, Laura, & Elise
November 13, 2009
To the Sullivan Family:
We met Ben through his friendship with the DeSeure family. What a charming and wonderful young man. We saw him in some of the productions at Bishop Miege, where his talent was obvious and he was a joy to watch. We share your pain and loss. The world has lost a great gift and Heaven has gained a brilliant new star. You are in our prayers.
Sheridan and Beth Bohon
Mark Favoino
November 13, 2009
I am very sorry to hear about your loss. I had the pleasure to meet Ben during a SLU cycling event that he and my son Matt participated in. My sincere condolences and prayers go out to your family during this very difficult time.
November 13, 2009
Your family is in my heart and prayers, Ben will be greatly missed. ~ Elizabeth Muraski ~ Bishop Miege alumni
Teri & Brian Kurtz
November 13, 2009
Sue, Ted and Tim,
We're so sorry for your loss. Brian and I will always remember Ben as a happy, sweet 5-year old - with his great smile and disposition - always helping you with the little ones - a big brother not only to Tim, but to Chris and Tessa as well. Please know that you all are in our thoughts and prayers.
November 13, 2009
Ted and Sue and Tim,
I am so sorry for this unexpected turn of events. Ben will live on in your hearts until you see him again, as the Lord has told us.
I found the class photo from Vis and included it for you.
Barbara Bruetsch-Cockrell
Marion Favoino
November 13, 2009
The Sullivan family,
I met Ben when he was on the SLU cycling team with my son Matt Favoino. He really was a wonderful young man and a great cyclist. I will keep you all in my thoughts and prayers
Kay Bender
November 13, 2009
Dear Ted & Family
Your family is in my thoughts and prayers. If there is anything I can do please let me know. I met Ben at The Family Conservancy and enjoyed his company when he was helping out with the computers here at the Agency.
Mary Ann Rosas
November 13, 2009
Ted and Sue - this is Mary Ann Rosas nee Martin for myself and Helen Cesena - she just called me with the sad news - We can remember his shower and birth - seems like yesterday. Our condolences and prayers are with you - rest assured he is with the angels. Mary Ann Rosas
Mary Ann Rosas
November 13, 2009
Ted and Sue - this is Mary Ann Rosas nee Martin. Helen Cesena just called me to tell me of your loss - Sylvia had notified her. Our condolences and prayers are with you during the sad time. We both can remember his shower and when he was born. May God comfort you. Mary Ann and Helen
November 13, 2009
Wow, Sue, I remember you talking to me about your son, when you were with Bright Horrizons. My heart and my prayers truely goes out to you and your family. I know how trying a time like this is..Just hold on to your faith. God will bring you through.
Debra Stewart
Joe and Pat Landwehr
November 13, 2009
Sue, Ted and Tim,
We are so very sorry to hear about your loss. Our hearts go out to you and we are keeping you in our thoughts and prayers.
Pat Webb
November 13, 2009
Sue my prayers are with you and your family may God's spirit be with you at this time of sadness.
Andrew&Suzan Sullivan
November 13, 2009
We're so sorry for your loss. Even though I didn't know Ben that well, as a fellow cyclist I felt a sense of cameraderie. He will be missed. Wishing you strength and love.
Pat Muller
November 13, 2009
It was an honor to know Ben the limited time I worked with him at TAV and performed with him in Stations. His presence seemed like music to those he engaged. Kind, thoughtful and patient; Ben was certainly a better young man than I ever was. Any words feel so inadequate to describe how blessed we were by his company.
Ted, Sue & Tim you have my sincere sympathy and my prayers.
Sharon Adams
November 12, 2009
Dear Ted, Sue and Tim,
You are in my thoughts and prayers. I feel honored to have known such a fine young man.
Kay Gentges
November 12, 2009
Sullivan/Bruemmer family: I have been thinking and praying for you and your family since Barb called me Sunday with the news. I am sorry for your loss. May God give you strength through this difficult time.

Gentle Ben, just starting out...
November 12, 2009
Barb & Dave Domke
November 12, 2009
It was a joy watching Ben grow from a young, shy boy to the kind and thoughtful man he became. We loved rooting him on as reached yet another achievement time and again and were just giddy at bragging about our friend, the rocket scientist. We are proud and grateful to have had him as a part of our lives and will sorely miss him. To Ted, Sue and Tim we offer our deepest sympathy and continued prayers. As Ted sang many times in "Stations" we remember that "our love is forever to keep us together, whatsoever." God bless you, Sullivans.
Barb and Dave Domke
Bobbye Fuller
November 12, 2009
Sue, please know that I feel your pain. I have and will continue to pray for you and your family.
God be with you all in the name of Jesus Christ and the Holy Spirit.
Love Bobbye
Morgan Weinrich
November 12, 2009
Ted and Sullivan family, you are in my thoughts and prayers, as well as my family's. I will miss Ben's smile and willingness to help. He was always so kind to me and a huge part of our Stations family. I will never forget him.
Dorice Ramsey
November 12, 2009
Dear Sue and family, my thoughts and prayers are with in your time of grief. With deepest sympathy, Dorice
Aileen Murphy-Swift
November 12, 2009
Sue and family,
It would be impossible to assume that words are enough to console you through your loss, however, I hope that you are comforted in knowing that you have friends here to offer up support and whatever else you may need. We are thinking of you. ~ Aileen and your friends at Operation Breakthrough
Christina Mancuso
November 12, 2009
Mr. and Mrs. Ted Sullivan and Tim:
Ben was my nephew Carleton Sherman's roomate and best mate at SLU. I met him at graduation - we saw him when he had to announce his own name for his degree before he walked across the stage! Carleton said that Ben really worked on his paper plane ( their balcony was involved somehow!) and it did fly high that afternoon in the gym! He spent a wonderful Fourth of July weekend in my sister's pool in Dallas - beautiful sunny days - surrounded by friends and our family. We enjoyed his wit , humor and bright intelligence. We always heard eclectic stories about Ben and Carleton - their cycling rides, cycling adventures , what could Carleton cook for them both , Ben's tried and true cooking specialties and stories about their balcony! He was a true and loyal friend to Carleton. Know that they had many bright bright days. My thoughts and prayers are with you all. Christina Mancuso
November 12, 2009
Dear Ted & Family -
I can't express in words the sadness I feel for your loss. Whenever we met at St. Luke's, I was always eager to hear an update on your sons and Ben's latest experience at NASA. My wife and I are getting ready to make a Thanksgiving trip to the Houston area near the NASA complex. If there is anything we can do for you while we are there, please let us know. Did Ben frequent a particular church there?
Please try to remember that the Lord is forever at your side. You and Ben will always be in our prayers...Mike & Cathy D.
Idella Daniels
November 12, 2009
My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.
November 12, 2009
Ted, My wife and I are so sorry for the loss of your son. We have walked down that path, and please know that we are both praying for you, your wife, and son Tim. If there is anything I can do please don't hesitate to call on me. John and Cathy Sheeley
November 12, 2009
Ben came into my life thru my son Carleton. I enjoyed seeing him at SLU and was happy to see him when he visited Carleton at our home in Dallas. A bright, warm thoughtful guy who had a positive impact on our life. It is difficult to accept that he has left us, that my son Carleton will not be riding bikes or camping out with Ben in the future from our home in Texas. The pain of couldas, shouldas, ifas will fade and the generous memories of Ben will take its proper place in our memories and heart. My best to his mom, dad, brother and other close relatives and all who loved and enjoyed him. gene davis/Dallas
November 12, 2009
Ted and Family
I know there are no words that will ease the pain you are going through, but wanted to let you know you are in my thoughts and prayers.
Christi Thompson
Ellen Snell
November 12, 2009
Ted, Sue, & Tim- Our hearts are hurting as yours I am sure are broken. We began praying as soon as we heard the news and haven't stopped. God will hold you up and comfort you all. Though your souls are troubled, He will wrap his arms around you and give you peace. When I think of Ben all I can see is his huge smile and sweet personality! We LOVE you so much! Ellen, Eric & Abigail Snell
Maggie Holley
November 12, 2009
Sue and family,
I am holding all of you in my heart, and will keep you in my prayers for courage, strength and peace. You are not alone.
Love,
Ellen Oak
November 12, 2009
Dear Ted, Sue, and Tim,
Ben was a young boy when I was at Visitation. I remember your family fondly - - the joy, warmth and strength of your love for one another. I hold you in my heart, thoughts, and prayers at this devastating time.
Love,
Ellen
Peter Knudtson
November 12, 2009
It was an honor to know Ben throughout our years together at SLU. I have fond memories of working with him on SAE and AIAA projects. He was a kind and compassionate classmate, and I feel privileged to have known him. My prayers are with him and his family.
Veronika Mancuso-Davis
November 12, 2009
Sullivan Family,
Our family got the pleasure of getting to know Ben during the time he spent with us in Dallas during the evacauation of Hurricane Ike. I will always remember a conversation Ben and I had about his dreams of becoming an astronaut and how he hoped one day to look down at earth. Today I believe he is soaring with the angels. My thought and prayers are with you all, at this time of great loss.
Carleton Sherman's mother,
Hunter Myers
November 12, 2009
I am very sorry to hear about your loss. I knew Ben from SLU - he was one of the first people I met there, and we were on the same senior design team. He was a lot of fun to be around, and I wish I'd known him better.
Vera & Mark Sullivan
November 12, 2009
Ted,Sue and Tim,
We were really saddened when we heard the news of Ben. He always had a smile on his face and was a real joy to be around. The kids loved playing football with him on Thanksgiving at Ray and Kathy's.
We will keep you in my thoughts and prayers.
Terry Steele
November 12, 2009
Ted, Sue and Family,
Sad am I to hear of your son's passing. You have my sincere sympathy and condolences. May God support and keep you at this difficult time, and bring you peace. Words seem trite to express our true feelings at times like these, but please know you are in our thoughts and prayers.
Barb King
November 12, 2009
Sue and family:
Our hearts go out to you - we are keeping you in our prayers.
November 11, 2009
We didn't know Ben that well, but were so excited about his job. Excited for him as that is what he had wanted. I know you have wonderful memories and a faith that will see you through. We think about him through the day and are praying for all of you. Love, Jay and Shirley
Amy Foster
November 11, 2009
Sue, Ted and Tim:
I am so very sorry to hear about your loss. I can't even imagine what you are going through, but please know that you are in my prayers and thoughts. Ben was a wonderful man and a joy to know during his summers at The Family Conservancy.
I am thinking of you always.
Amy Foster
Vicki Cederburg
November 11, 2009
Please know that my heartfelt prayers and thoughts are with all of you.
Lupe & Joe Green
November 11, 2009
Ted,Sue,Tim,
May God comfort and help you during this difficult time. In the days ahead may you find some small comfort in your many happy memories of Ben. Your family is in our thoughts and prayers.
"Trust in the LORD with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding" Proverbs 3:6
November 11, 2009
We loved having Ben here in Dallas during the hurricane. Carleton and Ben made such great roommates and cycling friends. I am so very sorry.
My prayers are with you all.
Carleton's Oma ; Veronika Obrecht , Dallas, Tx
Casey, Christy and Jane Pointer
November 11, 2009
Ted, Sue and Tim our thoughts and prayers are with you today and all the days as you mourn the loss of your son/brother. Your strong faith combined with close family and friends will be the backbone to your healing. We love you and are always here for you. God Bless
Andy Lobonc
November 11, 2009
I had the pleasure of knowing Ben during my time with him on the SLU cycling team. It was only for a few years, but in that time I saw a human being that was smart, kind, so much fun, motivated, and overall just an amazing person. I feel so honored to have gotten the pleasure to know such a person, but so sad that he is no longer with us. I will cherish the memories that I have with him and will not forget the person that he was.
Jamie Closson
November 11, 2009
Dear Sue, Ted & Tim,
Don & I are heartsick about your loss. Knowing you, we are sure Ben was a wonderful loving person, and we hope that knowing he is in God's care will lessen your sorrow.
Please know that so many people care and are praying for you.
Don & Jamie
Jennifer Langle Corder
November 11, 2009
I am so sad to hear the news about Ben. While I did not know him, I do know you and cannot imagine how this feels and affects every part of your lives. My prayers go out for Ben, for you and your family. May you find comfort to pass through this difficult time.
Carlos Navarro
November 11, 2009
Ted, Sue and Tim:
I hold Ben very dearly in my heart. I appreciate how much he was a part of all the gatherings we had at your house. And it was a blessing to know how he turned out to be a remarkable young man.
Karen and I send you lots of hugs.
Jesse Procknow
November 11, 2009
I will always remember Ben playing and smiling with the SLU Band during basketball games. I know he really enjoyed it and the band and I will miss his beat and that smile. Please accept my condolences.
Dana Ballentine
November 11, 2009
Ted, Sue and Tim,
I am saddened to hear the news about Ben. I have fond memories of seeing him during the Berkley years. I will remember him as a nice, smart, patient and compassionate person. Know that you are in my thoughts and prayers today and in the days ahead.
November 11, 2009
Dear Ted, Sue, and especially Tim, my thoughts, heart, and prayers go out to you in this troubling time, but please remember, time will help and heal. And aobve all, my phone line is always open if there is anything you need. May God bless you all, and R.I.P. My Big Ben. Love always and forever, Nurse Geri
Dennis & Kelly Bentson
November 11, 2009
My deepest condolences go out to you. Please know that Ben was beloved by all of us that were lucky enough to have met him here in Houston. He'll be remembered fondly. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Tim Hayes
November 11, 2009
Dear Sue, Ted, and Tim,
So very sorry, and condolences to all of your family.
Sandy Dolan
November 11, 2009
Ted, Sue and Tim,
I pray that God's grace will give you the strength you need during this difficult time. Ben will be remembered by all as a kind and gentle young man. From my favorite Stations song, Ben is now the "guest of God".
Lyndsi Rutherford
November 11, 2009
My deepest sympathy to your family during this difficult time. The sudden loss of a loved one is heartbreaking beyond any words. May God hold your family in his arms and give you strength and peace to make it thru the days, weeks, etc. ahead. Your family is my thoughts and prayers.
Kelly Cappeltti
November 11, 2009
Ted and Family,
I cannot express the saddness in my heart for your loss. I am praying that God's comfort and blessing will be upon you and that your memories of Ben will be an eduring treasure.
Scott Doyal
November 11, 2009
It is so difficult in knowing what to say at this time. I hold so many fond memories of Ben and being involved with the shows at Visitation. Ben was in inspiration to me as we would talk and share music(Drum) ideas and laugh together about silly things that would occur throughout the shows and the music. I will miss his laughter and his smile, May God be with you.
Janice Raach
November 11, 2009
Ted, Sue, Tim -
If there are good words to help you in your grief, I don't know them.
You are in my thoughts and prayers,
May God's Peace bring you comfort,
and God's Strength see you through.
Janice
November 11, 2009
Ted, Sue , and Tim, our deepest sympathies to you and your family. Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time. Keep all the precious memories God has given you with Ben close to you hearts. Love Mick & Sheri Brown
Helen Thompson
November 11, 2009
My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.
Ray & Mary Romero
November 11, 2009
Dear Ted, Sue and Tim.
Our prayers and thoughts are with you during this time. The love of family, friends and your memories of Ben will help ease the pain of your loss. If there is anything we can do, please let us know.
Marty Mueller
November 11, 2009
Sullivan family,
I was saddened to hear the news of the loss of your son and brother.
I want you to know that Ben will be with you always...he will live on in spirit and you'll see that often in the things and people around you...and it will amaze and comfort you.
May the good Lord bring you peace and comfort today and during the tough days ahead. I pray that your faith remains strong. You may need to draw on it often.
I pass along this Psalm that a good friend passed on to me 4 years ago after we suddenly lost our 4 year old daughter Christine:
Psalm 34:18
The Lord is close to the brokenhearted; he rescues those who are crushed in spirit.
As the passing days turn into months and years, you will certainly grow to understand what God means when He says 'Do not be afraid, I am with you...'
My heart is heavy today. I will keep Ben, the family and friends in my daily prayers. I know that your faith, family and friends will help you make it through this challenging and sorrowful time.
May the Peace and Grace of God be with you today and everyday.
Katherine Meiners
November 11, 2009
I am so sorry for your loss. Ben was such a nice person and I feel very blessed to have known him.
Nora Gillespie
November 11, 2009
Sue and family
Our prayers and thoughts are with you at this time. Take care of each other and hold on to the precious memories of your son. Love and prayers Nora and Woody Gillespie
November 11, 2009
Prayers and much love to the three of you and all of your family who will miss the presence of Ben's gentle spirit.
Jean Marie Hiesberger
Francey Ericson
November 11, 2009
I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me.
Phillippians 4:13
May this scripture give you strength and comfort.
Larry and Beth Gardner
November 11, 2009
Our sincere condolences go to you, Ted, Sue and Tim. Words can't adequately express our heartfelt sympathy. You have been in our thoughts and prayers since we received the news about Ben. We know God's arms are wrapped around each of you and will help you through this very difficult journey of healing in the days to come. Cherish the memories you have and know you have friends who love you.
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