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BENJAMIN McCLENDON Obituary

McCLENDON Ben McClendon born Dec. 30, 1979, passed peacefully July 23, 2011, at home. Funeral services Noon Saturday, at Crossroads United Methodist Church, Belton, Mo., with visitation 10 a.m. to 12 p.m. Burial Raymore Cemetery. Memorials to McClendon Children's Education Fund. Survived by wife, Emily; three year old, Chloe, one year old triplets, Aidan, Bella, Sophia; parents, Robert McClendon (Staci), Dalene Hall (RD); sister, Edie Bruce (Alex); grandparents, Donna and Jerry Miller and Peggy McClendon; several nieces and nephews and a host of friends. Ben was a US Army Veteran of Afghanistan. Arrangements: Cullen Funeral Home, Raymore, Mo., (816) 322-5278.

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Published by Kansas City Star on Jul. 28, 2011.

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July 22, 2012

Ben was a find kid growing up an even better man an Father. I like him as a friend .

Taylor Skivers

March 28, 2012

I love you Uncle Ben - Taylor Skivers Your First and oldest neice

Annette Phillips

August 5, 2011

I am so very sorry to hear about Ben. I will keep you all in my prayers. May God give you peace and comfort.

Ben, Sophia and Chloe

Dalene Hall

August 4, 2011

Terry Henry-Flowers

August 2, 2011

I am very sorry about Ben. I will keep you in my prayers.

frank, judy, cf and sherd pritchett

August 1, 2011

darlene and edie, i am so very sorry. sherd told us the news and we are all praying for you. may god comfort you always.

July 31, 2011

Dalene & Family, we are sorry to hear about the loss of your precious son! Our hearts and prayers go out to you. May God comfort and bless you! Janice Jarrett & Family

Wanda Kiefer

July 30, 2011

Dalene, Emily, Edie and Family
My thoughts and prayers will be with you. You never stop missing them but God & time makes it easier to bear. Ben was a grandson to me for several years and I still picture him as a small boy. God bless and keep you all.

Sharon Marshall

July 30, 2011

Emily, I am so sorry for you loss! You and your children are in my thoughts and prayers I know how much Ben LOVED you! . I wish that I could have been there for you today I may have not been there physically but, I was there in spirit! I love you and I will see you soon. Love Always, Sharon Marshall

July 30, 2011

Robert-our deepest sympathy to you and your family on the loss of Ben. May God bless you and comfort you.

Darlene and Stacey Brown and Karen Brown Wissman. Grandview,MO

Jocelyn Hart

July 29, 2011

Dalene and Emily,

I've never had the privilege of meeting Ben, but being a former soldier, there's still that connection; plus knowing and loving Mona and Mike for so many years. I would like to offer all of you my deepest sympathies, and pray that you will not suffer this heartache for much longer knowing that Ben is so loved, and is now love and light forever. Jocelyn Hart (Independence, MO)

July 29, 2011

I'm so sorry to hear about your loss. May God hold you close and my prayers are with you and your family. May God bless you and your family.

Tersita Green

James & Kamela Eddins

July 29, 2011

Dalene, Emily and extended Family: Our prayers and thoughts are with your family during this time of loss. God is near to those that are broken in heart and crushed in spirit (Ps 34:18). Lean on God for your strength as the days ahead will be hard. Remember you are not alone.

Shirley Stephens

July 28, 2011

Dalene,RD and family,

My condolences to you all and my deepest and heartfelt sympathy. My heart aches for you and you are in my thoughts and prayers.

Diane Snowden

July 28, 2011

Dalene, you and your family have my deepest and heartful sympathy.

May God Bless You and your family!

John Boone

July 28, 2011

My condolences are for you an the Family. Ben was a very good person in my eyes.

First day of being a new daddy (Sept 19, 2007), birth of Chloe Elizabeth

Dalene Hall

July 28, 2011

Dalene Hall

July 28, 2011

Emily - we know this is going to be tough on all of us, but we will band together and do what needs to be done to get the children raised and you taken care of as well. Our tears will be flowing for days and some time years, but leaning on each other will be the main thing. Love ya sweetie.

Connie Deese

July 28, 2011

So sorry to hear about Ben. My deepest condolences are with you and your family. May your hearts soon be filled with wonderful memories of all your times together. Ben lives forever in your heart and in his children. May God hold you in his arms and comfort you.

Cheryl Williams

July 28, 2011

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

July 28, 2011

God Bless this young man and his family! Ben was so young to leave his family, but God has something special for him to do.
He will be missed but never forgotten! My prayers and thoughts goes out to his loved one's!
Vicki Champ
Heart"n"Hand Ministries

Lisa Cable

July 28, 2011

To Ben's family: My heart aches for your crushed hearts. I wish there were words to ease your pain, however there aren't. The words God kept in my heart to try to bring me comfort after losing my own son is
Eccl 3:2 There is a time to be born and a time to die.
God kept in my heart that no one is going to die before their time and no one is going to cheat death and live longer.
I am so sorry you all have been thrown onto this off beaten path in life. While the rest of the world moves on, you will be left not wanting time to move on. You will always be a step behind the rest of the world, but know that there are others right there with you, a step behind.
May your memories bring a smile to your broken hearts as the tears fall soflty.
Ben......be with your family whether it be a gentle breeze through their hair, the sunshine upon their face or a beautiful butterfly or dragonfly flittering about them.

The Cable Family

Edith Carpenter

July 28, 2011

Emily, Dalene, RD, Nancy and the extended family, my thoughts and prayers are for you as you cope with the loss of Ben. I had the opportunity to meet Ben when he visited Dalene at the GSA building. He was a special person who obviously loved his family very much. May Heavenly Father fold you in His arms and provide comfort in the coming days.

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