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Connor Michael Thomsen, 17, passed away on Dec. 11, 2010. Connor was born Aug. 17, 1993, in Overland Park, Kan., to Lori Thomsen and Mark Thomsen. He was a member of the Class of 2012 at Blue Valley Northwest High School. Connor was a loyal, loving son and friend. He will be remembered by family and friends for his kind manner, his warm, infectious smile and sense of humor. He loved music - everything from classic rock like Journey to indie bands like Owl City. He loved cars, skiing, watching movies, and spending time with his many friends. He displayed the skills of an aspiring architect -- first building Lego structures as a child, and later drawing extravagant sketches of buildings by hand and creating Sims buildings on his computer. He was a former member of the Blue Valley Northwest Howling Huskies Marching Band Drum Line, the Blue Valley Northwest swim team, and the Nottingham Forest South Neptunes Swim Team. Connor is survived by his mother, Lori Thomsen of Overland Park; his father, Mark Thomsen and stepmother, Kristin of Lee's Summit, Mo.; a brother, Stephen of Lawrence, Kan; stepbrother, Tyler and stepsister, Jayme of Lee's Summit. He also is survived by his maternal grandmother, Jean Bangert, Seward, Neb. He was preceded in death by his maternal grandfather, Fred Bangert, and his paternal grandparents, Norman and Devota Thomsen. A memorial service will be held at 11 a.m. Tuesday, Dec. 14, at Church of the Resurrection, 13720 Roe Ave., Leawood, Kan. A reception will be held at the Church immediately following the service. In lieu of flowers, the family requests memorial donations be made to The Connor Thomsen Memorial Fund, c/o First National Bank, 8800 W. 135th Street, Overland Park, KS 66221.

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Published by Kansas City Star on Dec. 13, 2010.

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Heather Wiebke

December 20, 2010

Lori,

I think of you often. My daughter, Victoria Wiebke, cared about your son a lot. Connor helped out Vicci on Friday with her computer program. Please let us know if we can do anything for you. Victoria really enjoyed visiting with you last Friday after school. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

Nicole Porter

December 16, 2010

To the Thomsen family,
I had the pleasure of tutoring Connor in AVID at BVNW. He would always light up the room when he entered and was a great student. Keeping you in my thoughts and prayers.

Nicole Porter

Thom Donaldson

December 15, 2010

Dear Mark,
Please accept my deepest heartfelt sympathy and shared sorrow for your loss. You are in my thoughts and prayers. Take care of yourself and those around you who will need your strength and support. God bless you and your family.

Char Downer

December 14, 2010

Dear Lori and family,
Please accept my deepest sympathy during this very difficult time. I hope that God's love will bring you comfort. May God bless you all.
Char Downer

Jennifer Majetich

December 14, 2010

Lori- My heart aches for you, from one mother to another. To say I'm sorry for your loss does not say enough, but that is all I can say. With love.

Catherine Spangler

December 14, 2010

Lori: My deepest sympathies are with you and your family during this difficult time. May God offer you peace and comfort now and always.
Catherine Spangler

The Kennett Family

December 14, 2010

My thoughts and prayers are with you!! we are truly sorry for your loss. I pray that god will be close and comfort you during this time. My son is also a junior and knew Conner.

Jeff Bausback

December 14, 2010

Lori,
I can't imagine how you are feeling with the loss of Connor. My deepest sympathy is with you in this time of grief. I will be praying for you and your family.

Dave & Renee Coufal

December 14, 2010

Lori,
Our thoughts and prayers go out to you in this difficult time...with deepest sympathy.

Dawn Kosinski

December 14, 2010

Dear Lori,
My heart goes out to you during this difficult time. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers....with deepest sympathy, Dawn Kosinski

December 14, 2010

Mark and Lori,
My heart and thoughts are with you today, as they have been since I learned this heartbreaking news. We are family, and the time and distance between us does not change the love and care I feel for you both and the sorrow I feel for your loss.
Jocelyn Thomsen
Newburyport, Massachusetts

December 14, 2010

We are so sorry for your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time. Our heart breaks for your family. May you find comfort knowing God's protecting him and will give you peace.
Bruce and Theresa Hays (Natalie's parents)

Stephanie Blasiar

December 14, 2010

We are so very sorry for your loss. Conner was a sweet young man and a good friend to our son, Dalton. He will be greatly missed.

Adrienne, Justin and Matt Dreier

December 14, 2010

Our thoughts and prayers go out to your entire family during this difficult time. May you find comfort in God and know that Connor was loved and admired a by many in the BVNW community.

Harriet Kader

December 13, 2010

Lori....I was so very saddened to hear of the loss of your son, Connor....You are & will always be in my thoughts & prayers...

Jan Cooper

December 13, 2010

Lori,
I am so sorry for your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this difficult time.

Kathleen Alexander

December 13, 2010

Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time. The Alexander Family

Leslie & Gary Monsees

December 13, 2010

Our thoughts are with you.

December 13, 2010

We are so sorry for your loss. Our prayers and thoughts are with all of you. May God comfort you during this most difficult time.
-Mickey, Michelle and Mason Owen

December 13, 2010

Such a painful, painful loss! My heart breaks with you and for you. I pray you find comfort in God's Grace. HUG!!! --Jill English, Cody's Mom

Pat Guritz

December 13, 2010

Lori, My heart goes out to you in your time of sorrow. May the comfort of God help you during this difficult time and may the love of those around you help you through the days ahead.

December 13, 2010

Lori,
Today, I learned of Connor's tragic death. I am so very sorry. Connor's absence will leave a deep hole. I'll remember you in prayers.
Bette Bramman

Jan Parnell

December 13, 2010

Dear Lori, I will be praying for you in the days to come and ask God to comfort you during this time of grief.

December 13, 2010

Lori, Mark and Stephen - We are so very sorry for your loss. We just loved Connor like one of our own, and I know that Tucker will miss him dearly for a long time to come. I pray that your sorrow and grief will be replaced in time with only happy memories of Connor that bring a smile to your face and warm your heart. I pray that God will give you the strength to face those difficult days ahead and help you find the peace that your heart so desperately searches for. Please let us know if there is anything we can do. In Deepest Sympathy, The Shelton's ~ Rose, Tucker, Andrea and Allison

Shelle Olson

December 13, 2010

I am so sorry for you loss! You'll be in my families thoughts and prayers,

Dave Lanter

December 13, 2010

Lori and Mark:
I am at a loss trying to verbalize my feelings for you at this sorrowful time. I will always remember Connor as the sweet little kid across the street, and will hold these good memories tightly as I pray for you.

May God bless you and hold you close during this trying time.

Dave Lanter

Claire Johnson

December 13, 2010

We are so sorry for your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time.

Cheryll McKimm

December 13, 2010

I am the mother of Josephine and Christoper Clarke, Josephine was very close to Connor and over the summer Connor was always over my house and I loved having him over, as he was so nice and had a wonderful smile. I am glad he was in my daughter's life. Connor will be greatly missed and we will keep you and your family in our prayers always. Our prayer flame will never go out. If you need Anything at all, please know we are there.
God Bless you and your family.

Jan DeFalco

December 13, 2010

Lori,
I am terribly sorry for what you are going through right now. I have lost a son suddenly and understand. I know the shock is devastating. My heart grieves for you.

suzanne buckley

December 13, 2010

Dear Lori,

You are in my thoughts and have been for 2 days. I am so sadden by this and know you have my heart felt sympathy during this time of sorrow and pain. You have my support and friendship if needed at anytime.
Thinking of you and wishing you strength and courage in the days to come.
Love You,
Suzanne Buckley

Chris Sealy

December 13, 2010

Lori- My deepest condolences to you and yours. I am so sorry to hear of your tragic loss.

Atilio Moran

December 13, 2010

Our thoughts and prayers are with you in such sad time. With deepest sympathies, A. Moran and family

December 13, 2010

Dear Lori-My heart goes out to you and your family at this most difficult time. With Deepest Sympathies, Annette Goldberg

December 13, 2010

Lori & Mark, as parents ourselves, we can only imagine but not comprehend the depth of the loss you are feeling with Connor's passing. Although we never met Connor, knowing he was your son underscores the fact that he was a wonderful individual, who got his character and personality from the great parents and people the two of you are. Our thoughts will always be with you. Linda & David Cole (HP).

Jeff Edlund

December 13, 2010

Mark, I am speechless. What can the Edlund family do for you in a practical way to meet your needs as you deal with this loss? I grieve with you and pray that you will feel God standing with and supporting you at this time of loss.

Yvonne Ernzen

December 13, 2010

Dear Lori - I am so very sorry for your family's loss. Connor was a handsome young man with a wonderful smile. Grace said he was a fun guy who loved to laugh. You will remain in my thoughts and prayers. Much Love to You and Your Family. Yvonne Ernzen, Grace Arehart and Family

December 13, 2010

Lori - I will continue to hold you in my thoughts and prayers. I am so sorry for your loss. Connor was a handsome young man with a wonderful smile. Grace tells me he was a lot of fun and loved to laugh. Much Love to You. Your neighbor, Yvonne Ernzen

The Jack Hiegel Family

December 13, 2010

Lori,
May our God of love fill you with His peace as you grieve the loss of Connor. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.

CHERYLL MCKIMM

December 13, 2010

I am Josephine and Christopher Clarke's mom. I got to know Connor over this summer as he was at our home a lot. He was a GREAT young man who will be missed by my kids and I. Josephine was a close friend of Connor's and they were always laughing about something with the other gang of kids that came over. Our prayers are with you and your family. If there is ANYTHING you need, please let us know. We will always keep Connor and you in our hearts and prayers.

Judy Gerstein

December 13, 2010

Dearest Lori, My heart goes out to you and your family at this most difficult moment. Knowing you, I am sure Connor was an outstanding young man. With deepest sympathy, Judy Gerstein

John Senger

December 13, 2010

We are so sorry for your incredible loss. You and your family are in our prayers. John, Chrys and Austin Senger

Roz Clemens

December 13, 2010

Lori,
Words can not describe the sorrow I am feeling for you. Please know you will be in our prayers and I hope our Heavenly Father can help relieve some of your pain you are feeling. I am so sorry for your loss...

Deb Vargo

December 13, 2010

Lori, so sorry for your loss. Please know you are in my thoughts and hope time will bring peace to you and your family.

Denise Cowan

December 13, 2010

HI Lori,
My thought and prayers are with you as you go through this difficult time. I didn't know Connor, but I do know, just how very special he is to you.
Denise Cowan

Neil Gerstein

December 13, 2010

Lori,

I am so sorry to hear about your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you at this time.

December 13, 2010

I am so sorry for your loss and am praying for you during this difficult time. Officer Esther Zimmerman, Blue Valley Campus Police Officer, Blue Valley Northwest High School

Kathy Judson

December 13, 2010

I did not know Connor but the way my daughter (Brittney) spoke about him he was very special person. He could always make you smile, we are sorry for your loss, you and your family are in our thoughts and prayers.

Sally Bisson-Best

December 13, 2010

Lori, Mark and Stephen,
I am so very sorry for your loss. The Bissons have great memories of our visits to Kansas City when the kids were young. You are in my thoughts and prayers.

Kent and Cindy Snyder

December 13, 2010

We were so sorry to hear about Connor. Our thoughts are with you and your family at this difficult time. Please accept our deepest sympathies.

Kathy Judson

December 13, 2010

I did not know Connor but my daughter spoke highly of him. He always knew how to make people smile this is what my daughter Brittney says of him. Your family is in our thoughts and prayers

Terese Karkhoff

December 13, 2010

To the Thomsen Family, You will be in our prayers and thoughts. Alex enjoyed spending time and running with Connor.
The Karkhoff family (BVNW)

Marianne Schlick

December 13, 2010

Lori
My thoughts and prayers for comfort and peace be with you.

Mark Mancuso

December 13, 2010

Mark & Lori,

All I can do right now is shed some tears at your loss and pray for all of you.

December 13, 2010

Lori - our thoughts and prayers are with you. Reed and Sherry Fuller

Courtney Osborn

December 13, 2010

To the Thomsen Family-
I am truly sorry to hear of Connor's passing. I remember him as a very kind young man and a good student while he as at Harmony Middle School. My thoughts are with all of you.

December 13, 2010

I am so sorry to hear of your loss. May our many thoughts and prayers for you and your family be a comfort to you.

Janet and Mark Davis

December 13, 2010

My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Connor was an amazing kid, and will be deeply missed.

Rebecca Elledge
(Spencer Montgomery's mother)

Jann Stevens-Moore

December 13, 2010

Lori, Thinking of you and your family at this difficult time. Jann Stevens-Moore

Melanie Emshoff

December 13, 2010

Lori, my heart aches for you and your family. Cherish the memories and the comfort they will bring. You are and will continue to be in my thoughts and prayers.

December 13, 2010

Dear Thomsen family,
I never had the opportunity to know Connor, however I wanted to pray that God's love, comfort, peace and wisdom surround your family and that you may find strength and faith to lean into Him. "Blessed are those who mourn, for they will be comforted." Matthew 5:4
In Jesus name, Amen. Tami Ingalls (HMS teacher)

Casey Wiliams

December 13, 2010

My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

Bob Walrafen

December 13, 2010

Mr. & Mrs. Thomsen & Stephen, on behalf of the House Corporation of Lambda Chi Alpha at KU & our alumni, please accept our deepest sympathies for your loss. We will keep you in our thoughts & prayers.

Krause Family

December 13, 2010

Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. We will cherish the memories of Connor and the fun times he and Zach had playing growing up in NFS.

Ken Conner

December 13, 2010

Mark, I'm sure I speak for everyone on the softball team when I say how sorry we are for your loss. We'll keep you and your family in our thoughts.

Missy May

December 13, 2010

Lori, Mark and Stephen, Our deepfelt prayers are with you and your family. May God's grace give you peace. We are all here for you. God bless your family. Mike, Missy and Alex May

Ken & Stephanie Hanaway

December 13, 2010

Stephanie and I are truly sorry for the loss of Connor. He was always a joy to be around. We will always remember him joyfully from our skiing adventures and softball adventures when he came to the games. You will all be in our thoughts and prayers in this time of need.

Darcy Carpenter

December 13, 2010

I am so sorry for your incredible loss and sorrow. I will be praying for your comfort and peace.

Kristen Braxmaier

December 13, 2010

Lori, I am deeply sorry for your loss. Please know that our prayers are with you and your family at this time.

Leah Axdorff

December 13, 2010

Lori,
I'm so sorry for your loss, please know I'm praying for you and your family and am here should you think of anything I can do for you.
Sending love and hugs,
Leah

December 13, 2010

Connor worked for us at Sunset Grill. Although he hadn't worked for us long, he was well liked and a great server. It is with utmost sadness that we say goodbye to such a sweet guy! Our thoughts and prayers go out to his family and friends. He will be greatly missed!
Rod and Annie Lampe
Sunset Grill

December 13, 2010

My heartfelt condolences to the entire family and all of his friends that loved him so.
Janelle Floyd (Philip's mom)

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