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Gary McFall Obituary

Gary McFall passed away on April 17, 2007 of recently diagnosed pancreatic cancer surrounded by his family and loved ones at his home in Lee's Summit, MO. He was very courageous, positive and uplifting throughout this time not only for his family but also for all his co-workers, giving us all great inspiration. Gary was born on December 13, 1953 in Kansas City, MO, the third of seven children born to John and Nina McFall. He was a lifelong resident of the Kansas City, MO area. Gary graduated from Raytown South High School in 1972. After a few years working for the Raytown School District, he started his longtime career with Kansas City Power & Light, just falling short of retirement after 30 years. He began as a "helper" working his way up through the years to a Supervisor in the Substation Department and then as the Transmission Division Safety & Training Coordinator. He was a self-sacrificing individual who had enormous responsibility, taking control without ever bringing attention to himself and remaining behind the scenes. He was a doer who did a great job and had all the attributes that many of us only hope to obtain someday. He was a very special leader to ever-so-many. He was a self-made man and a very good provider for his family. Gary was a lover of the outdoors, spending much of his spare time in his boat on a lake and traveling. He had numerous Harley-Davidson motorcycles throughout his lifetime and even named his devoted dog "Harley." Gary possessed a great sense of humor with his laughter filling a room. We will remember you smiling, proud and strong, and miss you immensely. He touched many people throughout his lifetime and we were truly blessed to have him as a son, brother, uncle, husband, father and friend. Gary was preceded in death by his first wife, Peggy McFall, the mother of their son, Joseph Garrett McFall. He is survived by his loving wife, Josephine and beloved son Joseph Garrett of the home. He is also survived by stepsons Tom Watson, IV and wife Jennifer of Independence, MO; Jared Watson and wife, Courtney of Revere, MA; Joel Watson of Las Vegas, NV and Joel's sons Devin and Darin. Other survivors include his father, John and wife Martha McFall of Oviedo, FL; mother, Nina McFall of Royersford, PA; brother, John and wife Paige McFall of Atlanta, GA; sister, Loretta and husband Mike Gordon of Leander, TX; sister, Angela and husband Mike Norris of Pleasant Hill, MO; sister, Nina McFall of Royersford, PA; sister, Marcella McFall of Grover Beach, CA; sister, Valerie and husband Joe Mieluchowski of Royersford, PA; and four nieces: Amy Anne Mitchell, Natalie Norris, Stella Blu McFall, and Tallulah Tate McFall. There will be a private interment at the gravesite by Charter Funerals. You are invited to bid Gary farewell in your heart rather than in a memorial service, and to join the entire family for a celebration of his life on June 2, 2007 from 1:00 to 5:00 p.m. at The Cove at Lakewood clubhouse, 4105 Lake Drive, Lee's Summit, MO. We will have a potluck picnic so bring your memories and a favorite story to share.

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Published by Kansas City Star on Apr. 19, 2007.

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Joel watson

April 13, 2025

Miss you Dad.

Joel Watson

April 17, 2021

We miss you and your loving personality.

Loretta Gordon

April 18, 2020

It has now been over 13 years since you left us. So many changes for all of us in this journey of life. We don't physically get together as often as we used to, as we seem to be scattered all over the world now, but we still have our grapevine of communication and stay in close contact with each other. We are all so very fortunate to be healthy and not have caught the Coronavirus that has reached so many globally. it is certainly trying and challenging times we are currently in but we will get through this together. You are thought of and remembered often and always will be. I would sign off by saying - take gentle care and stay safe - but you are already there,

Love,
Loretta

Joel Watson

April 18, 2020

I think of you often and the memories you left with us. May you rest in peace. Miss you.

Jo

April 16, 2020

You are never out of my thoughts. I miss you and love you. Thank you for choosing to share your life with me all those years.

Joel Watson

April 14, 2019

Thank you for all you did for us all. You left us with memories that will last a lifetime. You always took care of our family with love and support. You loved my mother unconditionally and though God called you home a little early, we all will never forget you. Love you Dad.

Mike

April 13, 2019

I miss you and love you!

Laura Engel

April 23, 2008

I did not know Gary well, but I do know that with him my aunt was happier and more content than I'd ever seen her. They had found that thing that we're all looking for and it seems so unfair that they had so little time to enjoy it. I know that my aunt and Gary's whole family will miss him forever. It is truly a lesson to live life and love to the fullest every day because none of us really knows when it will come to an end. I know that Gary is still bound to Jo and his family by the love and memories that they've shared. I love you Aunt Jodie and my thoughts and prayers are with you, Joseph, and the whole family.

John McFall

May 26, 2007

Thinking or you is like sharing moments together again. I have a vision of you, around ten years old, with a brand new guitar. "Rock Star" is written all over that moment. Whatever you were going to do, you were going to do it to the fullest. You ended up helping families stay warm when it was cold, and made sacrifices at all hours to keep the world rocking along. I think of you enjoying all those quiet times on the lake. Drifting on the water, under the stars, soaking up the magic of the night. Somehow I think you understood the mystery of the world more than any of the rest of us. The quiet on the lake helped you become a patient listener while the world around you was confused and loud.

Adventure was always part of your spirit as well. Your curiousity as a toddler was apparent when you started the kitchen table on fire on Bales Street. I wish the house would have burned down. We could have moved sooner. Then there was the time you backed the car out of the garage without raising the door first. Probably on your way to visit a girl friend. Go guy!

I always thought of you as the Johnny Carson of Lee's Summit. Your sense of humor consistently brought on a series of belly laughs. You could comment on real serious people, with real serious issues, and distill it down in a way that was so comical we would suddenly realize how silly everything can actually be. I adored your perspective on things. It helped us care about what really matters.

The world is certainly emptier without you. I really miss you, but your spirit will always continue to illuminate and resonate with fond memories.

Your brother,
John

Gina Meyer

May 1, 2007

To my neighbors, Jo and Joseph, how sad to lose Gary before we all got to know him. We are here for you. The Meyer Family

Loretta Gordon

April 30, 2007

To my brother, Gary,

Who would have ever imagined that I would be writing this to my younger brother. Needless to say, you are in my thoughts and heart daily. As I go through the photographs I have, that you are part of, to be included in your “Celebration of Life,” it makes me pause through each one and remember when it was taken and what we were doing. I am so thankful to have as many memories as I have, but so sad when I realize that the future will be without you present. I am also truly thankful that all of us siblings remained close to each other throughout all these years, still remain in constant contact with each other, and that we were able to get together as many times as we did. Here’s to all those wonderful and crazy times we shared!

Your legacy is the wonderful son that you and Peggy created. Even though Joseph has now lost both of his parents, he has gained several surrogate parents. Between all of his aunts and his uncle, plus your wife Jo, he has a very special place under all our wings. Not to worry, Gary, you will be so proud of Joseph, just as we are all so proud of you. How fortunate he is to have so many that want to be such a big part of his future. We shall all be there when he graduates from high school, when he graduates from college, when he gets married, when he has his first child, when he. . . I know that you will also be there, but never fear, he will never be alone.

I never knew how special you were to so many. The outpouring has been overwhelming. Your kindness and caring touched so many people, and you never had a clue. You must be smiling! When it is my turn to join you in heaven, if I receive half of the accolades you have, I will be blessed.

Years ago, I remember going back East to see our Aunt, Sister Salesia, at the Motherhouse, and noticing a plaque on the wall. I asked her what all the names were for. She replied, “Oh, those are the lucky ones.” I said, “Why are they the lucky ones?” She said, so calmly, “They are already in heaven.” Yes, Gary, you, too, are one of the lucky ones!

Love you, miss you,

Joel Watson

April 28, 2007

To my mother (Josephine): Mom, I love you and I am so sorry for your loss. Remember, I will always love you.

To my step-father (Gary): You were always like a father to me and I want to thank you for all the memories I have of you. Thank you for taking me and my boys out on the lake on your boat, those are cherished times. Thank you for opening up your home to me when I needed a place to stay. Most of all, I want to thank you for loving my mother and taking care of her always. I will truely miss you.

Your son,

Joel (Mike) Watson

Jo McFall

April 28, 2007

My Dearest Gary - Joseph and Harley and I miss you SO MUCH! The day you were laid to rest (August 19, 2007) was PERFECT - not a cloud in the sky - boating weather at it's best. The only moisture came from the tears in our eyes. You would have been pleased with the ceremony - Father Jim did a marvelous service! Things are moving slowly for us - we still look to you for guidance. The headstone you chose will be on the grave site by June 2, 2007 - the day of your Celebration of Life.

I know the Celebration of your Life isn't EXACTLY as you wanted it, but your sister, Loretta, has a nice ceremony planned. It's going to be held at the Lakewood main clubhouse.

There will be pictures, in Exel format, flashing on the wall, just as you asked for. Loretta is formatting music, from your favorite CD's, to be played in the background. Friends and family will dress casualy and tell of their experiences with you. It will still be somewhat sad, but we will try to put a smile on our faces, JUST AS YOU ASKED FOR! Forgive us if it isn't ALL smiles. It's only that we should be celebrating all your wonderful life WITH YOU THERE IN BODY and spirit, not just in spirit. It is all SO UNFAIR, Sweetheart!

Gary, know that we love you, more than you know, and we are striving to do things as you would have them done. Until next time, I LOVE YOU! Hugs and kisses, your wife, Jo

Beth Olvera

April 27, 2007

Kay,
Hugs to you as you lose your beloved husband. It's really hard to read his obit...he is even younger than my husband. I can't imagine what you are going through. Stay strong,
Beth (ByndeweedBeth)

Lenny and Marie Engel

April 24, 2007

Jodi:

So deeply sorry for your loss. We thought Gary was a real nice guy and wished we could have known him better. You, and your family, will be in our prayers. We are here if you need us.

Lenny and Marie

Marcie Nye

April 24, 2007

Kay,

I just wanted to let you know that you are in my thoughts and prayers. I know how hard it is to watch your spouse move on..and also the relief that he is out of pain. If you ever need to talk you know how to reach me. (BamaBelle)

Dawn Taillon

April 22, 2007

Kay and Joseph you are embedded in my heart, in thought and prayers and for God`s loving touch and comfort.

Kimberley Broyles

April 21, 2007

You're all in my prayers. God bless and comfort you, bring sweet memories to make you smile, and wrap His arms around you.

Love,
Kimberley (Gardenwife at Dave's Garden)

Marcella McFall

April 20, 2007

Gary,
You have enriched my life tremendously. I'll do my best to follow your lead (example). May our crossover journey prove to be onward and upward as we enter the glorious Kingdom of GOD. I look forward to you greeting me when it is my time to come. Love you lots,
Marcella

Lizh from Daves Garden

April 20, 2007

My thoughts and prayers are with you and the family.

Laura Stroud

April 20, 2007

Thinking of you at this time and sending hugs across the ocean. We will all be there for you...
The Wonder Down Under
Daves Garden

franklin troiso

April 20, 2007

kay - gary was a wonderful person and will be missed by all.

prayers are going out to you and your family.

frank
(herbie43)

Steve Gaedtke

April 20, 2007

Altho I have never socialized with Gary, I have worked with him for many years at KCPL. Gary was the kindest man I think I have ever met and he was so dedicated to his work. He will be missed here at KCPL. My thoughts and prayers are with his family.

Jo McFall

April 19, 2007

This is Gary's wife, Jo. Joseph and I thank you for your entries - Gary would have enjoyed reading them. We will miss him DESPERATELY! He was loved more than he could ever know, by his family and friends. I miss you so much, SWEETHEART!

Scott & Conni Gutelius

April 19, 2007

Dear Mcfall Family,
Scott & I last saw Gary at their 20th high school reunion. It was so awesome to see Gary again and "catch up"! This comes as quite a shock to us, we got word of Gary's passing from Charlie "Chuck" Hennon. We have such fond memories of the Mcfall family at the house off Gregory Blvd. and of course the St. Bernards!! We will plan to attend the gathering in June. We would like to see Gary's sisters and other old friends, in memory of a really cool guy.
Our most sincere thoughts for the family of Gary.
Scott & Conni Gutelius

Stephenie Barosh (White)

April 19, 2007

The McFall Family I do not know if you remember me I lived with the family after high school and you were good enough to take me in. Gary was always so kind to me and I enjoyed the time I spent with him, he grew into a wonderful man it sounds like, my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Stephenie Barosh (White)

Angela Norris

April 19, 2007

I am going to miss you brother more than I ever imagined. Please know how much I love you and I am anxious to see you again in eternity. Love, Angela

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