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J. Graber Obituary

J. Murray Graber, 60, of Liberty, MO, passed quietly from this life on August 31, 2011 with his family at his side. Visitation will be held from 5:30 pm until 8:00 pm on Thursday, September 1, at the Park Lawn Northland Chapel, I-35 at 291 Highway, Liberty. A funeral service celebrating Murray's life will be held at 1:00 pm on Friday, September 2, at Liberty United Methodist Church, 1001 Sunset, Liberty. Burial will follow in Glenridge Cemetery. In lieu of flowers, you may honor Murray with a donation to the American Cancer Society. Murray was born October 31, 1950 in Chicago, Illinois, the son of Max and Mary (Best) Graber. The family moved to Liberty in 1959, where he graduated from Liberty High School. He later received his bachelor's degree from William Jewell College. Murray owned Frank Gleason Ceramic Molds in Excelsior Springs for 18 years. He later became a realtor in Liberty, working for Prudential. He was a member of Liberty United Methodist Church and served on the board of directors for the Lighthouse Preschool for Exceptional Children. Murray was preceded in death by his father, Max Graber, and son, Zachary Graber. Survivors include his wife of 35 years, Jenelle (Tolle) Graber; children, Katy Lee (husband Ryan), Scott Graber and Kelsey Graber; mother, Mary Graber; sister, Jacklyn Graber Johnson (husband Dean); grandchildren, Camryn and Hudson Lee; mother-in-law, Virginia Tolle; brothers-in-law, Phil and Steve Tolle; as well as numerous nieces, nephews, other relatives and friends. Arrangements: Park Lawn Northland Chapel (816) 781-8228.

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Published by Kansas City Star on Sep. 1, 2011.

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September 4, 2011

you are in our thughts and prayers. Murray was a joy to work with at Prudential Carter-Duffey. Peggy and Noel Shull

September 4, 2011

I love this picture of Murray - it shows the fun loving nature. I can hear his laugh in my head.
Mary and Dave

Jodi Melichar

September 2, 2011

My thoughts and prayers go out to all of you and so wish I could be there with you. I will always remember uncle/cousin murray's big welcoming smile and laugh. Sending lots of love.

Susan Broome

September 2, 2011

May the love of friends and family carry you through your grief.

Lorie Calder

September 2, 2011

My grandmother, Mildred, had such fond memories of working with Murray at Brant's all those many years ago. She always spoke so fondly of him. You are such a wonderful family, and I am so sorry for your loss. Please know that our prayers and thoughts are with you.

Dee Bratcher-Mallams

September 2, 2011

I am so sorry to hear of Murray's passing. Having grown up in the same neighborhood,I have seen him evolve from a kid to a track star at Liberty High School, to a great father and family man. Well done Murray--you will be missed!

Bob Veyera

September 2, 2011

Jenelle, Katy, Scott and Kelsey...I just wanted to extend my sincere sympathies at your time of loss. Murray sold me my house in Withersfield. When I would come home from business trips from time to time I would stop next door to the model home to visit. He always had a smile and a quick story to keep me laughing. It was especially rewarding when I walked in and caught him napping.

Murray was a man that will be missed by all he touched.

Regards,

Bob Veyera

Nicole Anderson

September 2, 2011

I'm so very sorry to hear of your loss. Many prayers for your family.

Cathy & Timothy Moon

September 1, 2011

We were so sorry to hear of your loss. The thoughts of many are with you at this time of sorrow.

Susan Shaul

September 1, 2011

Murray was a wonderful man that put his family first. His face would light up when he talked about his wife, children, and of course his grandchildren. He always brightened my day at Prudential. My thoughts and prayers are with his family for their great loss. God bless.

Crystal Holthouse

September 1, 2011

Seeing Murray every morning, during the years I worked at Prudential, was always a moment I looked forward to. Each day he would walk by my office with a skip in his step and ask me how the numbers looked. Know that he will never be forgotten and that every trip I ever take to Mexico, I will always take time to toast my Bud Light to him. RIP

Kent Thomas

September 1, 2011

Murray was one of my first managers as I worked for him (while in high school) when he managed Bud Brant's Shoe Store in downtown Liberty. I have many great memories of those days as Murray was a wonderful teacher who gave me valuable lessons on how to sell. These early business lessons from Murray and Bud have been with me throughout my entire career. I am sure they never knew how much influence they had on me and the others who worked for them. My thoughts and prayers are with the entire family during this difficult time.

September 1, 2011

We at The Dish will miss you very much! We always loved seeing you with your wife

September 1, 2011

Jenelle, I babysat for Katy and Zack many, many years ago and your family has always held a special place in my heart. I received this link via fb and I wanted to take the opportunity to tell you how very sorry I am for your loss. Please know that prayers are coming to you from Colorado. Janna Smith Perlinger

Mick, Kathleen, and Mary Quinn Quinn

September 1, 2011

We are so sorry for your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.

Love,

Kim Hansen

September 1, 2011

Our hearts go out to you at this time and in the days ahead.

Judy Stroder

September 1, 2011

Jenelle, I want you to know how very sorry I am for you and your family's loss. There is really nothing anyone can say at this time but I can feel your pain as we've had nothing but tragedies this whole summer in our family as well. Just know that he was loved by SO many people and that he will never be forgotten by anyone that knew him. He will be sorely missed. With all my love and prayers, Judy Stroder

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