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James Salter Obituary

James (Jamie) M. Salter III, 47, of Lee's Summit, Missouri, passed away unexpectedly at his home on October 29, 2006. His career was in Information Technology which was matched by his love for music. He was an accomplished guitarist, fisherman, avid KC Chiefs fan, and collector of sports memorabilia. Visitation will be Wednesday, November 1, 2006 from 6-8 pm at Langsford Funeral Home followed by cremation. Jamie is survived by wife, Raylene, stepchildren Kendra Bottorff and Cody Stubblefield (Vanessa Stubblefield); mother Joan Salter, father James M. Salter II; brother Barton Neal Salter (Noelle Salter); three grandchildren, two nieces and many cherished friends. In lieu of flowers, the family request contributions to the Head Start Program of the Independence School District, located at 218 N. Pleasant, Independence, MO. 64050 (Arr: Langsford Funeral Home, Lee's Summit, MO 64063 816524-3700)

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Published by Kansas City Star from Oct. 31 to Nov. 1, 2006.

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Gary Roland

October 28, 2024

Still hurts to hear this, even almost 20 years later. Jamie was a very talented guitarist and vocalist, and a great friend. We had some great times.

Andy Akers

October 25, 2024

It seems so recent I was getting a surprise package in the mail from Jamie with some football cards inside and a funny note. Still can't believe he is gone and he missed this Chiefs dynasty! I hate the Chiefs but even more I would have loved for him to see the way the Chiefs are now.

Grant Losiewicz

October 29, 2022

16 years. Damn. Miss ya buddy.

Grant Losiewicz

October 29, 2019

13 years today. Miss ya buddy.

Grant Losiewicz

May 14, 2019

12.5 years? Crazy. Signing the guest book again. Hope your family is well.

Grant Losiewicz

October 26, 2015

Approaching 9 years in a few days. Wow. Hard to believe how fast time goes by and how far apart people grow. Still miss you.

Patricia Sander

January 25, 2014

Jim, I just became aware of your tragic loss. Although Pam and I were not close to the boys, I know how much you loved them. Deepest condolences.

November 21, 2012

Jim, I just came across the obituary for your son, Jamie, and my heart aches for you.I realize he passed six years ago but I`m sure the loss and sadness is always with you.I hope you found comfort being surrounded by loving family and friends.I am so sorry for your loss.

Fondly,
Dolores Durrett Nemiro

Dave Archer II

November 5, 2012

Jamie - Six years ... it still feels like yesterday when I got the call from Jason ... We all are keepin' on, fighting the good fight. Kenny still cheers for the Raiders. Don't know why. Rima still collects Errict Rhett. Don't know why. I still collect Dennis Northcutt. Don't know why. One thing I do know is that we all miss you terribly. I do know why: you were an outstanding human that gave without ever asking for anything in return and we were all blessed with your friendship and our memories of you will never fade. Take care my friend. Until we meet again ...

Kenny Baguio

November 4, 2012

Jamie, it's been 6 years and we all still think about you. We all miss you. In honor of you, we're still giving away our cards to other collectors. I will never forget the little note you sent me 'No Raiders in my house - Jamie'
Thank you and we'll keep that giving spirit alive in your name!

Rima Kane

October 29, 2012

It's hard to believe that it's been 6 years. You are still very missed. I'm sure you are watching everyone from Heaven, so you know Kenny is still a Raiders fan and they stink (he doesn't know any better lol) and, sadly, the Chiefs aren't much better! I miss your humor and your incredible kindness. Keep rockin' on in Heaven, Jamie, and one day we will finally meet! xo

Grant Losiewicz

January 24, 2012

Jamie,
I still think about you buddy. I cannot believe it's been over 5 years. Such a good dude that impacted many people that never even met you personally (myself included). I know if I still think about ya, boatloads of others do too. I'll catch up with ya later brother. Love and miss you.

Barton Salter

December 26, 2011

Jamie, Dad and I had a wonderful Christmas with my children Natalie and Nathan. You met Natalie once, Nathan wasn't born yet. We smiled fondly and with reflection of our Christmas' past.

Rima Kane

November 21, 2010

I was thinking of Jamie today and just wanted the family to know that he still resides in the thoughts of his friends he met online. All my best.

John Wandzilak

August 6, 2007

I did not know that there were any more Wandzilaks. Our name is endangered.
My brother Jim Wandzilak and I live in the San Francisco Bay Area. I have a son Sebastian who is seven. Good luck all

Jim and Joan Salter

December 12, 2006

As Jamie’s parents, Joan and I want to share with all those who remember him our gratitude not only for the many expressions of loss at his passing, but particularly for the remarkable insights and understanding those comments have brought to his entire family.

Jamie was a person of passion and conviction. He loved his music, his friends, and his family. And he loved to fight for those whom he felt circumstances had slighted - he was The Happy Warrior. We knew these dimensions of him. But parents often do not really know their children as adults; they somehow always retain the aura of children.

It was in the light of a fuller and deeper understanding of Jamie that the warm and happy remembrances of his friends so moved and supported us, revealing facets and depths of his life and work that before had been only dimly perceived. He quietly accomplished more while he was here than any of us knew and gave to others the benefits of his experiences – good and bad. He had been there and done that. He left a worthwhile legacy of selfless giving, and the friendship of his many friends was his lasting reward.

We share our memories of him and our thanks with each of you.

Peter Leong

November 15, 2006

May your hearts soon be filled with wonderful memories of joyful times together as you celebrate a life well-lived.

I didn't know Jamie very well, but in the one chance I did get, he hleped me out...for that I am grateful.

Thank you

jaderock

Karen Lamphere (Crowley)

November 11, 2006

I remember Jaime as a passionate, talented musician who recorded a wonderful song, "Rusty" with my dear friend, Maggie Murray. I had a tape of this recording for the longest time, but with all my travels, I have since lost it...a true shame. In any case, Jaime, rest in peace. If there's a rock n' roll heaven, you must have joined one hell of a band...

Thomas Ziagos

November 11, 2006

It's been so long since I have seen Jamie I cant even remember...but I do remember his smile and love for music...we went to highschool together, I was at his first wedding in fact I drove the bridal car, and he "tried" to teach me to play my bass. I know he was a very giving person and was loved by many friends & he will be missed...I hope his family can find peace. I was happy to see at least that in the end Jamie died doing what he loved most...playing his guitar!!....Rest well my friend...ZIGGY

Gary Edward Roland

November 10, 2006

I hadn't seen Jamie in over twenty years, when I called him about a year ago. We played phone tag a few times and I told myself I would have another chance to catch up with him, once business slowed down. Needles to say, I am shocked and immensly dissapointed I won't see my friend again. Jamie and I played guitars together in High School and he was my best friend. Jamie had more natural talent in his little finger, than most people have in their whole body. I'll never forget the night he called me up and invited me to play my first gig ever(The Jamie and Gary Duo). He was a true artist and had a great sense of humour about life. God Bless him!
He had a "Heart Of Gold."
Gary Edward Roland
Highland Park High School Class Of 78
and always a member of "The Cool Breeze Band"(Jamie's High Scool Band)

Donna

November 10, 2006

To Jamies Family,
Joan, Jim, Bart and his wife and family my thoughts and prayers are with you all. Jamie was a very special person in so many ways, I am sure you and Jerry can now make wonderful music together. And I surely hope they have fishing there and you can catch all the Bass you can handle, I am sure your grandfather will help you.
I learned a lot from you, with our 10 years together. I am so glad you have found peace.
You obviously were loved and will be missed.
Godd Bless.
Donna Salter P.

Clayton (ton_63) Jones

November 8, 2006

My thoughts and prayers to the Salter Family. Jamie was a great guy and will be truely missed by everyone

Ryan "raylew52" Schear

November 7, 2006

Such a loss can't be described. Just know that you were a true ambassador for the hobby in a time where money seems to be everything. We will miss you.

Paul "scotsman" Barclay

November 6, 2006

A genuine heart of gold and a terrific sense of humour that extended across the water to England through his written word. My thoughts are with your family Jamie.

Fran (Kempster) Britton

November 6, 2006

I was rather touched to see that Jamie always loved music, because I remember so well how he would want me to play the piano for him while he fell asleep on Belleview. Playing for him was the only time I ever felt like a "great" pianist.

I never knew him as an adult, but I am so sorry to hear about his passing. He was a sweet, bright little boy, and I feel sure he grew to be a wonderful man. Please give my condolences to his Mom and Dad, and Bart, and of course the rest of his family. My sister Jeannette is still in the KC area and she noticed the obituary and told me about it.

Roni (Veronica) Clark

November 5, 2006

Jamie's love of music, his family, and sports, along with his excitement of his new job with the elementary school pretty much says it all. He loved so very much, and was loved in return by so very many.
I will miss him terribly, as he was a wonderful friend.
My condolences to the entire family. May time heal your hurt.

Dave and Stephanie Hildebrand

November 5, 2006

It was a shock to hear about this earlier in the week. Jamie was a great person all around. It was great joking about sports and collecting and at the same time be able to carry on a serious conversation. We have indeed lost one of the best on CP and I have lost a true friend. Just because you meet someone over the internet and never face to face doesn't mean you can't grow a strong bond and friendship with one another. Thanks for everything that you did for us (CP and friends) and my wife and I both thank you for your generosity as well.

Jay Sheppard

November 3, 2006

As many have already said, we have all lost a great person. My thoughts are with his family.

cano_collector from CP

November 3, 2006

Jamie, man this is a shock bud! Thanks so much for helping me through my tough times and being there for me to talk to. God Bless you man! You will be severely missed and you will always be loved. CP is going to be a little less than it was without your whitty comments. God Speed brother and my prayers are with your family as well. This is truely a HUGE loss to anyone who ever knew you!

Michael Usilton

November 3, 2006

God Bless You!

Jameson Foster

November 2, 2006

I love seeing people from all across the country sign the guest book. The power of the internet is great, but generosity and sincereness do so much more. Jamie was just that.

November 2, 2006

May God Bless Your Soul. You will be missed.

CP'er Steve (Murphy1313)

Ben (CP) Minton

November 2, 2006

Jamie, what can be said that hasn't already been written? You were one of the kindest people I had the pleasure of meeting. I will miss our chats about football. May God be with your family in this time of need. Rest assured one day we will be able to talk football again.

Dave Archer II

November 2, 2006

First, Jamie, thank you for being you and letting us (the CP community) getting to know you. Out there, in this hobby, there are a lot of 'bad dudes'. We were lucky enough to have a special bond with one of the best.....you bro. You will be missed and thank you for everything you've done.

Thanks for the DN's you sent a month ago and thanks for being there for us when we needed someone to just get stuff off our chest. I'll miss you a lot....more than words can say. My thoughts and prayers and with his family and friends.

R.I.P. Jamie. We all love you and always will bro.

Michele Melichar

November 2, 2006

Jamie,

You know how much you meant to me...you will always be in my thoughts and my heart. The world is better for having known you and far worse for losing you too soon!
L, MMM

John Wandzilak

November 2, 2006

though i know you will never read this i hope someone does you were my friend and a second father to me, i wasnt your son but you loved me all the same, I will never forget what you taught me and how you taught it I will instill these ideals in my son who you will regrettfully never get to meet i love you jambo you were the man who everyone loved in my eyes and my heart is broken to realize i will never hear from you again

love you bud
love
johnbo

annie wandzilak

November 2, 2006

jamie,,this feels like a bad dream,,you never left my heart or my thoughts, and you never will,,you have a special hand to hold now,,find nicole,,be with her,,she is waiting for you....god bless you,,and to your family and your wife,,may you be blessed with wonderful memories of him,,his devotion to life and love are treasures..

Scott Stanton

November 2, 2006

Jamie, you were a wonderful and proud man. The love you shared with us at Collector Planet "CP" with your beloved Chiefs and hatred for the Raiders will not be forgotten. You will be missed and we look forward to laughing with you once again.

P.S. Give my baby Michaela a kiss from her daddy.

Ernie Dow

November 2, 2006

You'll Be Missed Jamie .

Joey "CP" Vilardo

November 2, 2006

Rest in peace man. You will be missed.

Randy Holtzclaw

November 1, 2006

Jamie you were such a great man that had a huge kind heart. You will be missed greatly and I hope to actually get to meet you someday!

Cris (Scrappy) Chavez

November 1, 2006

Jamie you will be missed. I am truely blessed to have known you and had you be a part of my life. You will not be forgotten, EVER. You were a great friend and always there with a helpful comment when needed.

Rest in Peace.

My thoughts and prayers are with your family during their time of need.

Mike Vosburg

November 1, 2006

Jamie was a great friend and a selfless man that always thought of others first. He will be greatly missed.

rexvos

Robert Riina

November 1, 2006

Jamie, all I can say is thank you for bringing so much laughter and kindness to people's lives. I will never forget how genuine you were and helpful your advice was to people who asked for it. You touched so many people and that is something for your family to be proud of. We know you are in a better place but will always remember and be thankful for the time we had you here.

My thoughts and pryers go out to your family and friends. Rest in Peace good friend and say hi to Jerry for me.
Rob (GiantFan)

Kenny Baguio

November 1, 2006

Jamie, I'll miss you very much. I'll never forget you and what you've done for me and our hobby. You made CP a very fun place to hang out at. I'll miss your comments when the Raiders lose. I'll miss calling you 'old man'. I can't believe you're gone. God Bless you Jamie Salter III

Alan Cahn

November 1, 2006

Rest In Peace my friend.

When someone you love becomes a memory, the memory becomes a treasure. Blessed are they that mourn for they shall be comforted. Matthew 5:4

Dan Rykiel

November 1, 2006

Jamie, I don't know what can be said that hasn't already been said. Just wanted to say thanks for all the laughs that were shared and the kindness that you always showed. You will never be forgotten.

Jason

November 1, 2006

Jamie was a great person and will be dearly missed! Thoughts with the family and friends right now!

Matt Meeth

November 1, 2006

Best Wishes you the friends and family, RIP JAMIE you will be truly missed

Jason Wilson

November 1, 2006

its a sad day around CP, but as randy posted earlier, you wouldnt want us feeling sad for you, but celebrating the time we had with you, even if it wasnt enough time...
sliqwill CP

Ben Karch

November 1, 2006

Rest in Peace Jamie. I wish I was able to have known you as well as the others, seeing as how much better you made their lives. You are a good man.

Jon Wrigley

November 1, 2006

You will be missed, my thoughts and prayers will be with the family.

Lorenzo Castro

November 1, 2006

You will be missed Jamie.

Paul Korn

November 1, 2006

Jamie, thanks for the laughs and good times. You made us all happy in the time that we were fortunate to know you.

Michael Mandola "ToXSiC"

November 1, 2006

Jamie was a very gracious and giving person and although i only talked to him for a very short time it seems like we talked forever. You will truly be missed by all. My thoughts and prayers go out to your family.

Justin Podomnik

November 1, 2006

Such a sad day.My thoughts and prayers go out to his family and friends.

Benjamin "Krusin" Hilyer

November 1, 2006

Jamie will be dearly missed by all that were touched by his kindness. We never meet in person but I considered you a true friend. My deepest sympathy to the family.

Rima Kane

November 1, 2006

Although I never had the chance to meet Jamie face to face it doesn't take away from the shock and hurt I feel in his passing. Always looking out for others, he was a truly kind person.

Rest in Peace Jamie...you will be missed.

Peace, prayers & love to the family~
Rima

Jameson Foster

November 1, 2006

Jamie, what can I say that hasnt been already said? Time and time again you went out of your way to help even the largest of strangers. You are one of the most genuine friends I know, and I feel blessed for just knowing you.


God bless...you will be missed.

Dustin Nosler

November 1, 2006

I never had the pleasure of meeting Jamie face-to-face, but he was one of the best. His generosity and kind heart will never be forgotten.

Phil Andrews

November 1, 2006

No words can accurately describe what a truly great person the world has lost. We will miss you Jamie.

Kelly Tackaberry

November 1, 2006

I'm sure many will miss you Jamie. You were a great person. My thoughts and prayers to your family and all as shocked as I by your passing.

Godspeed good friend. You will always be remembered.

lumm0x

Tim Monahan

November 1, 2006

I never met Jamie in person but he made people feel like his best friend, always willing to help anyone.

You will be missed my friend, and I'm glad I can call you that.

Andy Akers

November 1, 2006

Jamie was a very special guy. Completely selfless, a great friend. He did far more for me than I could ever do for him. I will miss you, Jamie

Jason Buck

November 1, 2006

Jamie was a very nice, caring, and generous man. He will be greatly missed.

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