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Debbie Ewing
December 27, 2012
As I was searching online for John, I was hugely saddened to come across his obituary. I cannot believe that he is gone. I met John while in high school and have thought about him many times since then. I have nothing but great memories of him, laughing with him and that smile....the best smile...I hope your memories have and will continue to lesson your sorrow. I am so sorry for your loss and the loss of such a wonderful person.
Debbie Ewing
December 27, 2012
I recently began searching for John online, always having thought of him through the years and how he was doing. I was shocked and saddened to hear he had passed away so many years ago. John was one of the sweetest guys I knew, I have wonderful memories of times we spent together, the laughs we shared and that smile....I loved his smile. I know that your memories have and will carry you through each day without him. My thoughts and prayers are with you on the loss of such a wonderful man.
Ernesto Marquez
January 12, 2009
I wish to express my deepest sorrow and sympathy for your family and friends. John is and always will be a good friend and I am very saddened to hear of this loss. I wish you loving support and that God grant your loved ones peace and comfort. Sincerely, Ernesto Marquez
Marylee Harris
August 30, 2006
Dearest "Dr Michelle" - I hadn't seen you for some time and I was so terribly sorry to hear of your loss. I pray for God to sustain you and your parents and his boys and all the other family and friends who miss him. I will pray for you and your family.
Gina Rogers
August 27, 2005
Michelle and Family,
We are so sorry for the painful time you and your family are going through. You are with out a doubt an incredible and loving sister, friend and beautiful daughter. Your family is in our prayers.
Gina and Randy Rogers
Sallie (Cates) Steele
August 2, 2005
Celina and Bob,
It's hard to find words to describe the sorrow I feel for you both. I know how much you loved John Mike and will remember always what a wonderful example of family you guys set for all to see. Your family has been a blessing for so many that I am sure God will give you the grace to continue, even at this most difficult time. I love you Celina and will keep you in my prayers along with the rest of your beautiful family. You all have my deepest sympathy. Sallie
Ronna Hunter
July 18, 2005
John, you will never be forgotten. When I think of you, I will smile.
Mary Helen Sorrentino
June 5, 2005
I've known Celina all my life and we have been friends since we first met. I have known her family and felt close to all of them. J'Mike was one of a kind. He was always smiling and would go out of his way to greet people. No matter where you were he would walk up to you and tell you hello. I have felt his absence everyday and I know Bob and Celina have a rough road ahead. I was deeply touched when I talked to Celina on her birthday ,June 4th...JoMichael had remembered her as I knew he would...just goes to show what a great Mother she was...she raised a wonderful and caring son. Be proud...he is gone to make a place for you when you next meet.
Melissa Baker
June 2, 2005
Celina,
I am so sorry to hear of J'Mike's passing and regret that I only heard of it tonight! I know this past month has been difficult for you, Bob, Michelle and the rest of your family.
I just want you to know that I always admired the relationship you and J'Mike shared. It was always evident how much you loved each other and that you were very proud of your son. I appreciate all the hours you and I talked about our kids. I learned a lot from you on how to be a good mom and to raise a loving son because of the relationship you had with J'Mike. Thank you for sharing! Please know that your lives have touched my family and we are better because of it!
Jack and Irmgard McClurg
May 24, 2005
Celina, Bob, and Michelle--We have just heard about John's death in the midst of dealing with our own son's death just the day before. Our daughter, Nicola, was in John's class at Oak Park. We know the pain you have and pray for your healing. This is something we cannot comprehend and pray no parent must endure. But we must go on for their children. Much love and blessings from Jack and Irmgard McClurg, David's parents.
Brian and Kimberly (Hill) Andrus
May 10, 2005
Bob and Celina and family,
May God be with you in your time of need. Both Brian and I were very upset to hear about John Michael. When ever we would talk to Mike he would always talk about John Michael and the latest bike ride they all had taken. You will be in our prayers and thoughts always.
With love and sympathy,
Dorothy McKnight
May 9, 2005
Bob and Celina,
I am so very sorry for your loss. It is so sad that a tragedy such as this has befallen two very beautiful people. You are in my thoughts and prayers.
Dorothy
Jessica Hoffecker
May 7, 2005
Through the pain that J'Mike's passing has instilled in all of us, it is comforting to see the closeness it has brought to both his family and friends. Although I only met J'Mike a few times, it was easy to see the love he had for his entire family. You all are in my thoughts and prayers. Take care.
Christy Drake
May 6, 2005
Michelle: My heart and prayers go out to you and your family. I am so sorry I am just not finding out about this and that I wasn't there for you. I am now. Please feel free to call me or email me if you need anything. As you know I have lost a brother and a sister so I know what you are going thru if you need to talk or just need someone there to hug you.....
We love you,
Pon, Christy and Tera
J'Mike & MeShell - I will forever miss my Big Brother.
May 6, 2005
Happy to be riding his Motorcycle!
May 6, 2005
Clean Shaven and Handsome as Ever! Look at that Smile!
May 6, 2005
John the Mailman for 16 years
May 6, 2005
Phillip and Jennifer Roades
May 5, 2005
We are so sorry for your loss. We met J'Mike in high school and were fortunate to be able to keep in touch with him over the years through our sons and school activities, but regretably we did not stay in touch closely. He was always a sincere and genuine man. He will be dearly missed by everyone that knew him. Our thoughts and prayers go out to his entire family, especially the two most important young men in his life.
Celina Affolter
May 4, 2005
It is with with my heart broken in two that I write a note in the Guest Book. There are no words a Mother and Father can say to explain the pain in our hearts. He was the best son any parent could ever have! He was kind, caring and his smile shined up the whole room when he walked in! He told me he loved me every time he talked to me, we had lunch at least once a week when he was delivering his mail. He spoke to strangers even when he was little and made their day, every day of his life. He said beautiful words when he left for the service at 19 yrs. old. He was special in every way, shape and form. He was a dedicated worker with 16 yrs of service at the Post Office, the people in his route loved him. I can't imagine may life without him and I have a rough road ahead. What I find comford in is all the love and friendship from all of you that have written in and all the family support I have had and will continue to have. I want to thank you all for your prayers, calls, cards, flowers, food and kind words each day since this happened to us. May God bless each and every one of you.
Allison Salmon
May 4, 2005
Michelle and Family, I wish I could give you all a big hug right now! Know that we are thinking of you! Love, Allison (Sakata), Scott & Sydney Salmon
Dawn Miller
May 4, 2005
I am so sorry to hear of your loss. I know J'Mike will be greatly missed. He was such a kind and gentle man. May his light shine brightly on you all. You are in my thoughts and prayers. God bless you.
Scott Janeczko
May 4, 2005
I was fortunate to know John for almost 30 years. From the days of playing kickball on the playground at West Englewood, to standing on the sidelines of Wildcat games watching Michael play football. To a good friend and great father, you will be missed.
Alan and Dee McClure
May 3, 2005
Bob and Celina,
I just heard about this tragedy today. We are so sorry for your loss. We cannot even begin to feel that pain. Haven't seen your son in years, but hearing his name brought back a flood of fond memories. Our hearts and prayers go out to you. The pain will pass someday, but the love never will.
Teresa Hon
May 3, 2005
Words can't express the sympathy we all feel for your loss. The memory of John Michael that first comes to mind is of a young man still in high school who so readily gave his mom and dad a hug when he entered the room. The depth of the love and caring he felt for his family was so obvious. It was evident at that time what a fine man he would become. His time with us was far too short.
Though the loss will never be easy, there will be comfort in the multitude of happy moments the family shared.
Our love & prayers
Tom, Teresa & the boys
Staci Stathopoulos-Elliott
May 3, 2005
I haven't seen J'Mike since a Chief's game a few years ago. He was always such a kind person, liked by everyone. When I last saw him, he seemed like such a proud father! I know your family will miss him dearly. You are all in my prayers during this difficult time.
Paulette Durso
May 2, 2005
Dear Celina and Family,
No words can begin to express our sympathies for what you have experienced. No parents ever expect a child to predecease them. I cannot even imagine such. Ever since I heard about J'Michael you have not left my thoughts. In Mass yesterday, I know God heard my prayers for you. Just know that Jim and I will continue to have all of you in our prayers. Just remember - he's that ray of sunshine on your shoulder watching down on you!
Jim and Paulette Durso
Dana Flacke (Cariddi)
May 2, 2005
Michelle,and family. I cannot tell you how sorry I am for your loss. It has been a few years since I have seen John, but I still remember his big friendly smile he always had. He will be missed greatly by all whose lives he has touched. May God bless you and keep you.
Jacqueline Hopkins
May 2, 2005
A smile that would light up a room … a contagious laugh, just two of his greatest characteristics. At one of the saddest times in my life, I feel blessed that I was a part of his life. I met J'Mike when I was 15 and we dated for many years. In the time that we were together I gained not only a friend but a wonderful family. Although we went our separate ways in life, I’ve never let go of the memories, and they will continue to be in my heart forever. Thank you John for blessing our lives, you will be missed by so many.
Beverly Cox
May 2, 2005
Dear Celina and Bob,
I just now heard about your loss and want to extend my deepest heartfelt sympathy to you and your entire family. May your friends, family, memories and faith bring you strength and comfort in the days ahead. You will be in my thoughts and prayers.
Beverly Cox
Terry DeGrande
May 2, 2005
Bob, Celina and family...Our prayers and thoughts are with you at this time. We think of you often ... May God Bless you and your family....
The Wilson Family
Deana Whittman
May 2, 2005
Oh how my heart goes out to you all for your loss. His memory will never pass because your love for him will always be strong to keep the memories alive. It is not an easy thing in life to lose a loved one. You must just have faith in our Lord Jesus Christ that he knows what is best. I myself lately have had to come to terms with God's plan and let my faith take care of all the unanswered questions. May His peace be with you and his light shine upon your entire family.
P.S. Michelle, my arms are always around you and my heart with you forever.
Jennifer Roughton
May 2, 2005
Magic Michelle, I'm so sorry for your loss. My thoughts and sympathies are with you. If there is anything I can do, please let me know.
Angie Carpenter (Bedgood)
May 2, 2005
My heart is so heavy for your family right now. For many years John was like the big brother that I never had. Unfortunately, I had lost touch with him over the years. I was telling my daughter this morning that had I not known John and his family, I probably never would have met her dad. May God bless your family during this time of sorrow.
Missy Hooks (Shane's Sister)
May 1, 2005
I only knew John for a very short time about 10 years ago and he was a very kind and funny person. I know he loved his boys and will be watching them daily now. My prayers are with his family and friends that loved him so much.
Tammi Liebsch
May 1, 2005
We are so sorry to hear of your loss. Our prayers and love go out to you. We know how you feel with the unexpected loss.
The Liebsch Family
Kay Honeycutt
May 1, 2005
My thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time. May God keep you in his care until you meet your loved one again.
Carolyn Merino
April 30, 2005
May you rest in peace John Michael and say hello to my mom. I'm sure she was there to greet you and put her arms around you once again. You and your family have always been special to us. From that cute little guy riding the pony on Holly Street to the handsome young man you grew up to be, you will always be remembered fondly. My love and sincere condolences to you Celina, Bob, Michelle, Mary Pat, Marisa, Dennis and all the kids. I love you all and will keep you in my prayers.
MARK BICKFORD
April 30, 2005
I was saddended to hear of John's passing. My heart goes out to his boy's, parent's and other family members. Though I only knew John for a short time, I got to appreciate him. He had a great love for his boys, and shared with me on numerous occasions how much they meant to him. I know I shall see him again. Your family will be in our prayers.
Pastor Mark Bickford
Rayville Christian Union Church
Angela Trembly
April 30, 2005
I will always hold close the memories of a wonderful father, and man. Our sons will grow up to be fine, strong men. (Just as we planned.) The love that brought them into this world will sustain them for the rest of their lives. Please smile down on them from heaven as we sadly continue on without you. Remember that the tears we cry are for the wonderful man that has touched our hearts, our minds, and our lives.
Love, Angee, Michael, and David
Michelle Affolter
April 30, 2005
My brother was a funny, kind, generous loving man that EVERYBODY loved - especially his two young boys. I can't imagine life without him. His absence will leave a hole in everyone's life he touched. Remember his greatness, remember him with love in your heart and a smile on your face. Thank you J'Mike for loving your little sister with all of your heart. I will forever miss you...forever.
Curt Helm
April 30, 2005
I was so saddened to hear the news about John, I've known John for many years I met him through my cousins the Wright boys, then I seen him delivering mail alot! He was a great guy my condolences go out to his family. God Bless you John, you will be missed!
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