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for John Weitkamp
Michael Perry
September 11, 2006
Your presence still lingers everywhere Jack. Your laughter and chatter could fill up a room, a court, or a field. There are so many times that a moment just doesn't feel complete without you in it. Its been six months and by no means does your loss get any easier. You are still missed by so many people.
The soccer season just isn't the same without you on the sideline at each and every game. There are so many times when I could have sworn I heard you cheer or scream from the sidelines, only to glance over and find myself thinking about what I would give to see you there.
You touched so many people and you will always be missed.
Mark Morse
April 20, 2006
I was really shocked when I heard the news. You were a great friend and colleague. You will truly be missed.
Hollie Stowers
March 22, 2006
To Jack's Family my Deepest Sympathy. I had the honor of working with Jack at Sys-Tech years ago. Then thru the years since he has remained a friend to all of us (Marty, Barbara, Braxton, Gabe & Skyler). It was a pleasure knowing you Jack and you will be missed. You always had something to say to me to get me going. Thank you for always sharing a laugh and laughing with us.
Mic & Donna Haynes
March 21, 2006
Dear Maria & Children,
We're so very sorry for your devasting loss. We were on vacation when we heard about Jack. God has given Jack the enormous job of entertaining in heaven and we're sure it's already taking place. We want Maria and the children to know they are in our thoughts and prayers. Jack will be dearly missed by all. God Bless.
Mic & Donna Haynes
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Kim Wernel
March 20, 2006
Where do we begin to try to tell you how sorry we are for the whole Weitkamp family. There is so much to say about what a great guy Jack was. The memories are so numerous for our whole family. My John remembers "the funny guy" who tickled and chased him constantly and who he was not allowed to get back at because Jack was the adult. John would recently get back at him by calling him "Grandpa Jack" and then quickly running away. Jake's memories are plentiful but the one that he keeps remembering right now is how when they were little and Jake was still playing soccer, Jack would hold on to his shirt so he couldn't catch up to us as we were leaving the soccer field. I don't think we even noticed he was missing until we were in the car. Jimmy too, has so many good times. One favorite is the infamous ski trip, where they got snowed in Vail for some extra days with just Jack. He would let them eat ice cream for breakfast! Mike and I are no exception with our memories for him. We would spend most of the time gloating on our kids and trying to swop scoop. Brian, Nicole, Max and Alex you were your dad's everything. He wanted every opportunity for you and he would make sure that you would get it if you wanted it. Brian, he would call you the gentle giant with such a big heart. I see your dad in you with the way you tickle John and with your own children. You are so good with kids. Nicole, he was so proud of your strength and independence. The way you would set a goal and know how to get it done. You brought a twinkle to his eyes. You had him wrapped around your pinkie. Max, he loved your spirit and competiveness. The way you can make friends anywhere is a chip of the ol' block. Alex, he loved your gentle spirit, how laid back you are and your quiet sarcasim. We see your dad in all of you. Keep telling your stories so little Trowa will get to know "Grandpa Jack". To all of Jack's siblings, especially the ones we know (Martha, my friend, Steve, Jean and Sue) he spoke so highly of his family. Just how close you all are and how you enjoy being around each other is a beautiful example of what family means. We love you all!
Mike, Kim, Jim, Jake and John Wernel
Denise Mason
March 20, 2006
Maria, Brian, Nicole, Max, Alex:
We want to express our deepest sympathy to your entire family. Jack was a great person that was a friend to many. His sense of humor and joking manner will always be remembered. He was and is certainly one of God's treasures.
-Denise, Kevin, Joel, and Kyle Mason
Nan Combs
March 18, 2006
Mary,
Words can not express the pain I am feeling for you right now. I know how much Jack meant to you and although I can never replace the humor, I will always be there to fill the empty moments I know you will be having.
Treasure the surprise party that you threw for him, because that was the only time you could get something over on him & that was monumental. I still laugh when I picture his face when he walked into the room!
He protected you like a guardian angel and he will still be doing that but know he is wearing the wings.
Love to you Mary and Jack will always remain my “Jack Darling”.
God Bless everyone that Jack ever gave a hard time to!!
Love,
Nan Combs
Barbara Specht Willoughby
March 18, 2006
Dear Jack-
To my very first boyfriend way back in elementary school. Our lives went separate directions but I knew you would someday be a great Dad and friend to everyone you touched. There is no doubt that God has a special place for you in Heaven.
Having recently lost my mom, I know how heartwrenching it is to lose those that you are so close to - they take a piece of your heart. My thoughts and prayers go out to the entire Weitkamp family from the Specht family. God bless you.
Anita Lemmon
March 18, 2006
Maria, Brian, Nicole, Max, Alex and Mary,
We at Holy Cross School had dubbed Jack the "Bad" Weitkamp, only from reading this guest book do you know that was far from the real picture of Jack. It was that ornery demeanor, that smile, and the look in his eyes that we enjoyed seeing walk in the front door. Jack could not leave a room without everyone in it laughing as he walked out. Someone like that is rare, kids always remember your dad as a rare jewel to be cherished forever. Our hearts ache with yours.
The Lemmon Family
Lyndsey Farris
March 17, 2006
Oh Jack…where do I begin? Your loss is so unexpected and devastating to so many. The love you shared with my mom and the affection you showed toward each other is something that my brothers and I will never forget. We have learned from you, how two people that love each other should act.
Ryan and I never hesitated to ask you for anything – we could always count on you. God knows how many times I would have gotten lost on the highway if it wasn’t for you giving me EVERY POSSIBLE alternative route I could take.
Sorry I broke so many things around the house that you had to come over and fix, but you always loved the challenge. Thanks for teaching me about PMI and how to avoid it with the new house, you always know how to work a deal.
I will love you and miss you forever!
Lyndsey
Erin Spencer
March 17, 2006
Alex,
Im really sorry about your dad, you and your family are in my thoughts and prayers
Lisa Waldon
March 17, 2006
Jack,
It was a pleasure and honor to have you as an Business Partner of APC. Working with you was a privilege and you have taught me so much in a short period of time. I will miss our weekly talks and you are truly missed. God Bless.
Emily Rainey
March 17, 2006
Alex,
I am so sorry about your dad, if you ever need anything or anyone to talk to you can call me or find me and i'll listen. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. God will help you through the hard stuff so just turn your problems over to him, Though your gooing through a hard time you will still be blessed with many happy ones. Just stay strong buddy, stay strong.
Rick Fournier
March 17, 2006
Jack,
You taught me how professionalism doesn’t need to exclude humor and how teasing can be filled with kindness. Your sense of humor was frighteningly much like my own and I’m grateful for hours of laughter with you – whether at my expense or yours. You carried with you a wonderful balance of energy and levity, and that boyish demeanor was enjoyed by everyone around you. We all loved you, Jack, and we’ll miss you dearly. I’m proud to have been your friend. My life won’t be quite the same without you in it.
Save me a seat up there, Jack. And when I see you again, I believe it’ll be my turn to buy a round of golf.
God bless you and those who mourn for you.
Your Friend,
Rick
Joanie Moritz
March 16, 2006
Deepest, heartfelt sympathy to all of Jack's family. What a remarkable man he was. I used to joke with Martha and Sue about having Jack as a brother but always knew just how lucky his siblings were to have him as a brother.
Our whole family thought so highly of you, Jack. You were a terrific friend to Dan and you were always supportive and complimentary with Brandon and Janelle. As for me, was there ever a time you were serious with me? I enjoyed giving you just as hard a time right back. I will always be grateful to you for ALL the times you helped us out and all the fun times we had in Vail. Thank you for the memories we will always cherish.
Brian, Nicole, Max and Alex, I know you're sad now but I want you all to remember how truly blessed your lives are for the gift of your father. He felt blessed to have been given the gifts of each of you too.
Jack and the entire Weitkamp family will remain in our thoughts and prayers.
Joyce Gray
March 16, 2006
I didn’t personally know Jack. However, being a friend and co-worker of Mary Farris, I do know the wonderful love, he and Mary shared. Jack showed his love for Mary in so many little ways. Coming during the day and taking Mary’s car out to fill the tank, so she wouldn’t have to stop on the way home. His calling to make sure she’d arrived safely wherever she went. Even the calling during the day, and convincing her to take off for lunch with him. His love and concern for Mary made the rest of us girls green with envy.
I also know how much Mary loved and adored Jack. She threw him a 50th birthday party, hoping he’d know how much he was loved by all those around him. Not only will Jack’s family and friends miss him, but I know it leaves a huge void in Mary’s life. With their future plans, I was looking forward to meeting Jack. And reading all these tributes, show what a great man everyone lost.
Michael and Michelle Miranda & Family
March 16, 2006
Jack, a couple of week's back you showed up to play basketball on Thursday. We hadn't seen you play in awhile and even remarked 'Who told Jack we were still playing?'. We ended up matched against each other and I knew I was in for a long night. After you scored yet another basket, you asked me 'what kind of defense is that' and I replied 'I want you to have a good game so you'll be back'. Well, I know you'll always be there with us. Your spirit, enthusiasm and competitiveness will always be felt. You will be sorely missed.
To the Weitkamp family, our heartfelt sympathies go out to you. You are in our thoughts and prayers. May God bless you and carry you through this most difficult time.
Miranda Family
Bill White
March 16, 2006
Our hearts go out to the entire Weitkamp family. We are honored to have known Jack and to have called him a friend. He made friends everywhere he went (as long as you weren’t a referee). Jack will be surely missed by all of his friends.
Jack: I’ll miss the ski trips, playing basketball and golfing with you, but what I’ll miss most are the light-hearted jabs we took at each other every time we met. I look forward to that sideways ornery glance and that guilty chuckle when we meet again in heaven. You’ve been an inspiration to a lot of people who saw a 50 year old man doing things like you were 20-something.
Maria, Max and the entire family: There are no words to expressing our sorrow for your loss. Just know that you are in our thoughts and prayers.
Bill, Gayle, Eric & Kellie White
Dave Morley
March 16, 2006
What can I say about Jack?
I enjoyed Jack the most when we would give each other Trouble.
Jack has been one of my best friends as well as a great APC business partner. I have known Jack for 5 years and can tell you Jack was the MAN!!! Jack was a mentor to me. No one has the ability to offer the service level Jack did and I enjoyed learning from him. He had the best reputation in the industry. I will miss the many dinners with him and Mary, who I know Jack loved very much.
I miss Jacks daily calls. You will never be forgotten..
Bob Olson
March 16, 2006
I would always smile whenever I saw Jack at a soccer game because I just knew that there would something hilarious that would come out of his mouth. He was a joy to be around, his great sense of humor and his passion were unmatched. You will be sorely missed Jack. To all of the kids, you can always know in your heart that your dad adored each of you and he will always be there watching over you. Our prayers and our thoughts go out to you at this very difficult time.
Kevin and Elise O'Connor & Family
March 15, 2006
Jack, you beat me to my left, you beat me to my right. You beat me driving to the hoop, you beat me with the pull-up jumper. I wondered how some guy 5 years my senior could beat me (and everybody else on the court) with the quickest first step I’ve ever seen. (I'm not even going to address how some 5'9" guy could get so many rebounds?) Enough of this! I committed to lose weight, condition myself, and regain some long lost speed. Four marathons later, hundreds of miles, and 20 lbs lighter, you still beat with that first step.
Jack, you were an acquired taste, but acquire we did. We enjoyed your wit, your generosity, and competitive drive. While you’ll be missed I know we can count on Max and Alex to buckle ol’ Mr. O’Connor’s knees on the court (and leave me two steps behind). Keep an eye on your old basketball cronies and guide-in the occasional wayward shot.
The O'Connor's
Robert Conner
March 15, 2006
My sincerest condolences to the Weitkamp family on their loss.
I had the very fortunate opportunity to work with Jack on numerous occasions. I can say that Jack's thoughtfulness and genuine concern for his client was second to none, because that is just the way Jack was. He was always there for you, even when it meant 5 am on a cold Saturday morning to help unplug your UPS for a datacenter move. Jack was one heck of a good guy and he will be very missed.
Arlyn Converse
March 15, 2006
I knew Jack through a group of us who liked going to KU basketball games. I always had a great time with Jack and enjoyed his dry sense of humor. He was a lot of fun to be around and will be missed. My sincere sympathy to the Weitkamp family and everyone who loved him. May God comfort you and be with you all.
Matthew Grieve
March 15, 2006
Jack did so much excellent work for us at the Time Warner Headends.
He was always very professional,responsive,and dedicated to his customers.
Jack will be missed dearly by all of us at Time Warner who had the pleasure of knowing and working with him.
May God bless him and his family.
Our prayers are with you.
Mark and Maureen Engen
March 15, 2006
Jack was a person with great love for others as seen by his actions and in his fiery spirit. We learned invaluable lessons of strength in character from him. He will never be forgotten. Our prayers and thoughts continue for each and everyone of Jack's immediate family and extended family.
A special message to Max and Alex: It is such a blessing to know both of you through being your teacher. Each of you are wonderfully unique. I pray that your dad's spirit will live on in both of you. Peace be with you. You are loved.
Antoinette Gastl & family
March 15, 2006
Maria, brian,nicole,max,alex, Our deepest sympathy goes out to all of you. One of my fondest memory of jack, whenever leanne greffet and I went to the danielle, jennie and nicoles volleyball or basketball game he would always walk up to us and make sure we knew the score of the game or who was winning, and he would tease us that we could not sit together at the games because we always talked instead of paying attention to the games. Jack was so kind and caring about everyone that crossed his path. He will truly be missed. Maria, Brian, nicole,max,alex you are in our prayers and thoughts. God bless you all.
mike and nina thomas(Mr. Thomas)
March 15, 2006
Dearest Maria, children, Mr. Syl Weitkamp, siblings and extended family. Mike and I have been heavy hearted since hearing about Jack's untimely death. We have been sharing fond memories. I've known Jack since kindergarten and we were always good friends. Mike had the privlege of teaching some of the children at Aquinas. Jack and I shared childhood memories at an Aquinas football game last year. I'm glad to have parted with a kiss and hug. May the God of all comfort be with you all at this most tender time. We have and will continue to lift you up in prayer. Hey Jack, do you think they play kickball in heaven? With precious memories, Nina.
Dan,Joanie,Brandon, & Janelle Moritz
March 15, 2006
Jack was truly one of a kind. He would do anything for you and make you laugh while doing it. His generosity and big heart were only surpassed by his ornery disposition. Our family will miss a good, good friend.
Brian, Nicole, Max, and Alex—know that we are there for anything you need. The hurt we all feel is because of the love we all have for your dad.
Kelly Gerling
March 15, 2006
My heart goes out to you Maria and all the kids and Jack's immediate family members. It is such a tragedy to lose him when he is was so young and vibrant.
From days at Miege to playing basketball with him in the 1980s and 90s, I will always benefit from my memories of his competitive, humorous, fun presence. He taught much by example, especially treating other people well and with great respect. And he possessed that special, unique gleam in his eyes--a zest for living and being a great friend, father, husband and community member.
I will always miss him and cherish my memories of him.
Josh and Melissa Wallace
March 15, 2006
We have been blessed to be neighbors of Jack's for the last 6 months. Our 3 young children loved Jack very much. They would light up if he happened to be outside. He and Sawyer had a special connection. In fact, one of Sawyer's first words was "Jack" everytime we went outside or passed Jack's house. He and Mary made us feel so welcome. He was always quick to offer his time or help whenever he could. He talked so often of his children - I know they were a source of great pride for him. Our family will miss him greatly and we will continue to lift Mary and his children up in our prayers. May Jesus surround them in his everlasting peace.
katy melvin, liz eveler-cook, and family
March 15, 2006
To Nicole and Marie and family of Jack,we are so sorry for your loss. we will continue to pray for all of you and the passing of a wonderful man and father. may you feel the presence of our lord and rely on his strength through these grieving times.
Tonia Helm
March 15, 2006
Alex,
All my prayers go out to you and your family as you grieve for your dad. Always remember - you are who you are in part because of him, and you are truly amazing. He will live on through your kindness and your generosity and your love for everyone you meet. He will continue to be so proud of you. Rely on your faith when you feel your pain is unbearable and God will take care of you.
Pierre Weitkamp
March 15, 2006
I send my prayers and sympathy to my brother Sylvester and the Weitkamp clan. I have asked the Marianists across the United States to include Jack and family in their prayers.
Love,
Uncle Pierre
Parker Gates
March 15, 2006
From my friends and I condolences, Mr. Weitkamp, I want you to understand how much we miss you already... from our time together just hanging out, to just playing basketball with you... your kind heart will always be with us and will never be forgotten. Please remember the hearts that you have touched and the lives that will not forget you. Our prayers and thoughts will always be with you.
Scott Filla
March 14, 2006
I knew Jack for five years in that I serviced equipment that he sold. I have many fond memories of the time we shared and a few lessons about how to treat people that I learned from him. It was easy to see that his greatest joy and inspiration came from his children. He was a good guy and had a great sense of humor. I will truly miss him. I offer my most sincere sympathy to his family and friends.
Bob Ross
March 14, 2006
My sympathy goes to the family members and friends that loved Jack. I worked with Jack indirectly for the past 15 years and know the the kind of person that he was. I am sure that his love for skiing, basketball, KU, CYO, and his family will be a reminder to live life to the fullest. We will miss you!!
gail and don niermeyer
March 14, 2006
Although we never met Jack we are fortunate enough to know Nicole and hear wonderful stories about her Dad.We know he will be sorely missed and pray for all those who knew and loved him. I know our son will miss him too as he had known him through knowing Nicole.
Don and Gail Niermeyer
Dan and Allison Carney
March 14, 2006
Alex and the entire Weitkamp family, You have been in our every thought and prayer. We pray that you find comfort in the love of family, friends and in our precious Lord. God Bless. Allison and Dan Carney, Steve, Brendan and Jordan
Jay and Kathy Wessling
March 14, 2006
Weitkamp Family,
Some of our best memories of Jack are when Max and TJ played on the BV Stars Gold team. Jack had an incredible sense of humor.
Our deepest sympathy is with you during this time. You are in our thoughts and prayers.
Steve Brewer
March 14, 2006
My thoughts and prayers are with the family and close friends. I only saw Jack at basketball, but he will forever be missed.
Cindy and Vince Dasta
March 14, 2006
We send our prayers and condolences
John & Cathy Downey
March 14, 2006
Our sympathies to all the members of Jack's family, the Downey's are blessed to have the opportunity to share our lifes with you wonderful people (yes Steve that includes you).
Jack, during our basketball games it seemed you always mentally pushed me as hard as you could.At first I didnt always take kindly to this tactic. As time went on I realized it was a blessing, you were coaching me in the game of life. Jack, you helped make my life and my world a better place. For this I will be eternally grateful, thank you. I will miss you as if you were an older brother.
To the children, your Father spoke of you as champions. He knew his life was great because of who you are.
God bless all of you and always remember the good.
With our sympathies,
The Downey's
Chad and Mindi Middleton
March 14, 2006
As a deeply devoted man to both family and friends, Jack will truly be missed. Many fond memories of both seeing and hearing Jack on the sidelines of a soccer game will remain. Our thoughts and prayers are with the entire Weitkamp family.
lynn and mike pien
March 14, 2006
I am Jennifer (Greg) Sise's sister...and we want your family to know that you are in our thoughts and prayers at this very tough time of Greg's Uncle Jack's death. And may the Maker of Heaven and Earth hold you in the palm of His hands as you walk through this difficult time. May you find strength in being together and remembering with tears of sadness and of joy, what an amazing man Jack was. Bless each of you. Our prayers will continue. Fondly, The Pien Family
Todd Riggs
March 14, 2006
Many memories of Jack at the soccer games and practices. My thoughts and prayers are with the Weitkamp family.
Ron and Sandy (Meyer) Rollheiser
March 14, 2006
Our sincerest sympathy to Maria and the children, Mr. Syl Weitkamp and all of Jack's siblings and families - Jack's untimely passing is a huge loss for everyone. May he rest in peace in Heaven with Jesus and our Heavenly Father, and may Our Lord bless each of you
Eric Scheele
March 14, 2006
I think I can speak for all of us in the Sunday basketball group when I say we will miss Jacks’ comradery, enthusiasm and humor. I am sure Jack will be with us in spirit each and every Sunday for our weekly basketball and there will not be Sunday pass by that we fail to mention how we miss our dear friend Jack.
Although I didn't know Jack as well as many in our Sunday group, over the past 2 years I did come to realize his great kindness, compassion and vigor for life. And I do know that he was very highly respected throughout his peers in community and profession.
Jack is a great man, father and friend.
At this time of great loss, we offer our deepest condolences, thoughts and prayers go out to your family - immediate and extended. God bless each and every one of you.
Coomer family
March 14, 2006
I'm sure that St. Peter will flash you a red card or give you a "T" before he opens the gates.
Jack, we will miss you terribly.
Tim Power
March 14, 2006
My family is heartbroken over the loss of such a wonderful person. Jack was one of my most cherished friends. I miss his quick wit, competitive nature and good heart. I don't miss the push in the back while I was going to the basket. (Sorry Jack)
To his children, please know that Jack talked of you so proudly. Never forget that he loved you beyond words.
I miss him so much I can hardly breath. Jack, will be missed but not forgotten.
Tim D.J. Emily Little Jack and Grace
Matt Brewer
March 14, 2006
Jack was one of a kind. A truly great man who touched many people. He clearly loved kids, heck, he was one himself. We, who played basketball with him on Sunday mornings for many years saw him bring levity and competitiveness to the group. We will miss you, Jack, but not forget you.
Kevin & Rhonda Kelley
March 14, 2006
Our thoughts & prayers are and will remain with the Weitkamp family.
May Jack's memory and soul be eternal.
Paul Strohm
March 14, 2006
I didn't know Jack well, but he seemed to always be around the school or church helping out with something. I'm certain Jack will be missed by many. May peace and understanding find Jack's family and friends, especially the children, who I'm praying for in this time of need.
Mary Farris
March 14, 2006
Lsst Thursday we walked into the Atriums to visit Jack's dad and as we were entering an elderly lady was heading to the door to meet her ride; Jack dropped everlything and escorted the lady to the car. She was tickled, as were the residents who were watching. There were numeous times that we would be out to eat & Jack would be touched by a mother with young children - he would often ask their waitress for their check & the mother would never know who the kind soul was that performed such a generous act of kindness.
Jack loves his children to the depths of his soul and their happiness was the most important thing to him.
Brian, he was so proud that you took on so much responsiblibity at such a young age & he would tell me that you were such a dependable worker and will be an assett to any company you work for. Nicole, you are his heart; when his phone rang and it would be you, his face would just light up and he always said you made such wise decisions for such a young woman.
Max, a chip off the old block. Your dedication to sports and the endless hours of "working out" made your dad so very, very proud. He saw so much of himself in you.
And Alex, with your kind soul, Your dad said that even as a young child you were always so polite and could never hurt anyone's feelings. He showed me a paper from Holy Cross that you helped write recently & talked about how much potential you have.
Maria, although we never met, I know that you are the best mother that any father could ever ask for in raising their children.
There has never been a person that has impacted my life as much as you have Jack and I will never again meet someone that was so unique. You will be in my thoughts every day of my life.
All my love alway and forever,
Mary
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