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MARY WHEELER Obituary

Mary E. Wheeler, 71, a resident of Parkville, Mo., passed away Friday, December 28, 2012, at NorthCare Hospice with her loving family at her side. Mary was born April 29, 1941, to Evelyn (Kauffman) and Wilbur Wilcox in Trenton, Mo. Mary will forever be remembered as a loving wife, mother, grandmother and a pillar of strength within the community of her church and school. Mary was a Methodist by faith and lived her life to the fullest, especially inspiring her love of faith to her school children and friends. She was a nurse and clerical worker; along with many additional duties for the Park Hill School District for over 27 years. She also taught Sunday school at Platte Woods United Methodist Church. Mary enjoyed spending time with her husband, Ron and family. She will be greatly missed by all that knew her. Mary was preceded in death by her parents and a sister, Peggy Wilcox. She is survived by her husband, Ron Wheeler of the home; daughter, Linda Bryan of MO; son, Ronnie Wheeler of Parkville, MO; two grandsons, Alex Bryan and Tyler Wheeler; brother, William Wilcox, St. Joseph, MO; numerous nieces and nephews; and many loving friends. The family will receive friends 6 to 8 p.m. Wednesday, Jan. 2, at the Platte Woods United Methodist Church, 7310 NW Prairie View Rd., Platte Woods, Mo. A Celebration of Life will be held 10 a.m. Thursday, Jan. 3, at the church with Sr. Pastor Steve Breon officiating. Cremation. In lieu of flowers memorial contributions may be made to the Platte Woods United Methodist Church Children's Ministries. Memories of Mary and condolences to the family may be sent to www.meyersfuneralchapel.com Meyers Funeral Chapel Northland, Family Owned and Operated. meyersfuneralchapel.com (816) 741-0251

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Published by Kansas City Star on Dec. 30, 2012.

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January 22, 2013

We just loved her she always so helpful with anything I needed help with when my 3 girls were in high school. She will be so missed at Park Hill, such a nice and beautiful lady. Love the Lickliders, John, Sharla, Sadie and Lauren. The girls just loved her

Denise McPherson

January 7, 2013

Mary is one of most loving woman I have ever met. All of our children attended Park HIll and Mary was that special person that they all grew to know and love. I will remember her as one of the original TOGAS at the school. We know you will watch over all of us!

Kathy Morelli

January 4, 2013

I knew Mary through her work at ParkHill. I will never forget her positive attitude, kindness, and concern for others. My thoughts and prayers go out to her family.

Tami Johnson Byrd

January 3, 2013

This wonderful lady worked for Park Hill when I attended (86 grad) and continued to work there when my daughter started this year. She was an amazing woman and a wonderful familiar face in the school office. She will be truly missed by many!!! Prayers to family and friends.

Sherri Scott

January 3, 2013

Mary was a very special lady, an angel to all that she came in contact with. She always found a way to fit just one more time to volunteer at church and school to help our children. I had the pleasure to sit with her many nights during youth group as we served the teens. On behalf of my family and the PTA's that she so willingly gave her time to we send our thoughts and prayers for healing and rememberance to the Wheeler family.

Kasey Kennedy-Wiley

January 3, 2013

I am so sorry to hear this. My thoughts and prayers go out to Mrs. Wheeler's family. She was my school nurse all my years at Park Hill and she was one of my favorite people to see every day. She was currently my daughters school nurse. I will cherish the memories I have of her. What a wonderful person! My prayers are with the family.

The Cadue Family

January 3, 2013

Our thoughts and prayers are with your family at the loss of this very special person. No one was a stranger to her. Our family was blessed to have known her.

Falcon Family

January 3, 2013

Our thoughts and prayers are with your family.

Megan Dwyer

January 2, 2013

She was a great friend and lady to my mom, sister Caitlin and I. I was thankful to have known her for a long time

Kent and Gail Wheeler

January 2, 2013

Our thoughts and prayers are with you.

Linda Olson

January 2, 2013

Mary Weeler was a great person and someone to be admired. I and my daughter Kelli will miss her forever. Now heaven is a little bit brighter with her smile. Rest in peace.

January 2, 2013

Our hearts are so very heavy at Mary's passing. She was truly a beautiful person. She will be missed.
Kay and Di

MJ Briody

January 2, 2013

Mary was extremely thoughtful and caring of others and it was great fun to share many chaotic room parties at Graden together. Our thoughts and prayers go out to all of her loved ones.

Matt Jackson

January 2, 2013

I worked with Mary at the Church and the High School. I have to think hard to remember a better person. I am sorry for your loss.

Judith and Tim Perry

January 1, 2013

Ron and Ronny,
Our hearts go out to you and your family on the passing of Mary. We have been thinking of her and you daily. Mary always took a personal interest in all of our children. Our kids grew up with her in their Elementary School, Prairie Point and then had Mary to guide them at Park Hill High School. Claire said that Mary was amazing. Even as recently as the October Boy Scout Troop 314 Chili Supper, Mary was inquiring about our children. She even offered wedding planning assistance for our daughter, Sarah. Mary would always inquire how Charles was doing since graduating from Park Hill High School. Mary was such a giving person. Mary touched the lives of all our family as she did for so many in the surrounding community. She was a shining star. Our thoughts and prayers go out for you all.

Beverly, Tom, & James Leach

January 1, 2013

Mary was our son's kindergarten Sunday school teacher and was the attendance administrative assistant all four years he attended PHHS. We also had the privilege and honor of working with Mary one year in her Sunday school class. She was the most patient and loving person, Mary will be Greatly missed.

Cinda Brady

January 1, 2013

I had the pleasure of aiding "Ms. Mary" in Sunday School at PWUM and working with her at Lakeview PTA events. My boys and I will truly miss her. She was one of a kind.

January 1, 2013

I first met Mary when she was the nurse at Graden and my children were there and then a few years later I came to work for Park Hill School District and I ran into Mary and she remembered me and asked about Patrick and Cynthia by name!!!! She always has been a special person to so many in the Park Hill School District. She has inspired many to be a better person in this world. Your Wife, your Mother, your Grandmother has left imprints on so many people and those people will always remember Mary Wheeler and be better for their time with her. For a small lady she has made a huge imprint in our lives. Valerie Davis

December 31, 2012

Mary Wheeler touched the lives of hundreds of children at Platte Woods Methodist Church as a Sunday School teacher and Vacation Bible School teacher. We all loved her, and she will be greatly missed.

Connie & Jerry Vaughn

Chery Wormington

December 31, 2012

Mary was a genuinely kind, beautiful person, she will be truly missed

Douglas Bryan

December 31, 2012

Linda,

My deepest sympathies to you and your family on the passing of your mother. I was always fond of Mary and was always struck by how sweet she was to me whenever we accidentally met over the years. I was especially touched to see her at my sisters funeral. I gave her a big hug. She was a big person in a small size.

I am attaching a poem that has come to mind. The author is unknown to me.

Life is but a stopping place,
A pause in what's to be,
A resting place along the road,
to sweet eternity.
We all have different journeys,
Different paths along the way,
We all were meant to learn some things,
but never meant to stay...
Our destination is a place,
Far greater than we know.
For some the journey's quicker,
For some the journey's slow.
And when the journey finally ends,
We'll claim a great reward,
And find an everlasting peace,
Together with the lord.

December 31, 2012

Mary was such a nice person. She will be truly missed.
Jennifer Mathis

Joyce Hill Brazelton

December 31, 2012

Our thoughts and prayers are with you all. We cared very much for Mary, she knew all 4 of my children and seemed to know my name by the sound of my voice. She was so wonderful!

December 31, 2012

She was always a bright and shining star.-Michelle (MO)

Jeff Denton

December 31, 2012

Ron and family, I am truly sorry for your loss of your wife, mother and grandmother. She was a wonderful person with a sweet spirit and giving soul and an incrediblly big heart. I want to thank you for sharing her with each of us that she has touched in so many ways! Mary you have made such an impact on so many, til we meet again...

Trish Cintron

December 31, 2012

Mary was the kindest, most gentle person. She loved every child like her own. She will be greatly missed.

December 31, 2012

Our family and the Park Hill and Platte Woods Methodist communities have lost a wonderful spirit and example of God's tremendous grace and love. Mary always was concerned for our children at whatever stage of life they were going through. We all have an immense love and respect for Mary and her life of caring and giving to others. Our thoughts and prayers are with Mary's family, we have lost a great light in our lives, but heaven has gained a wonderful presence.
Stan, Kathy, Clinton, Brian and William Sims and families

Alex Bryan

December 31, 2012

I love my grandmother very much. She was a saint and I will always remember that.

Judie Richey

December 30, 2012

I enjoyed working with Mary at Prairie Point, as well as visiting with her at the high school when my boys were there. Mary was a wonderful lady, and I know she is now at peace. My deepest sympathies to your family.

Julie, Meghan, Adam, & Brian Braby

December 30, 2012

Mary taught Kindergarten Sunday School to all three of my children. She was there for them in Elementary school at Prairie Point, & so helpful to all of us during tough times when she was at Park Hill. She touched so many lives in so many ways. Always gracious, kind, and genuine. She will be sorely missed. All those fortunate to know her are better for it. Your family is in our thoughts & Prayers.

Jackie Behnke

December 30, 2012

Our thoughts & prayers go out to Mary's family for she has been such an inspiration to so many of us. She shared Christ's love so generously with all she met with her beautiful smile & gentle caring touch. We have been blessed by your presence, Mary.

Danette Melott

December 30, 2012

Mary was such a bright light for all who knew her. She embodied all things good about the Park Hill School District. She will be missed by adults and student alike. I will personally miss hearing her voice every day. God Bless!

Dee Mana

December 30, 2012

Mary and I worked together at Prairie Point. I will always remember her as a gracious and loving lady, dedicated to caring for others. May Our Lord wrap His loving arms around her and keep her safe Ifor all eternity. We love you, Mary!

December 30, 2012

Mary was a lovely person and will be missed. Our thoughts are with Ron and family. Barry and Shelly Palmer and kids

Lynne Bates

December 30, 2012

Ron, Linda and Ronnie...Bob and I are so saddened by Mary's passing. Our prayers are with you and the family. Love you... Lynne and Bob

December 30, 2012

Ron our prayers are with you and yours at this time. We love you Debra, Rakan, Safa, Tracy, George and Wilma Penfield.

Pam, Paul, Brianna, and Tyler Beitling

December 30, 2012

I had the special pleasure of working with Mary when I when I got my first teaching job at Graden 25 years ago, then again 15 years ago when we opened Prairie Point. Not surprisingly, Mary was our spirit award winner while there. As our school nurse, she had a special way of taking care of her teachers just as lovingly as she took care of each and every little child. At Park Hill High School, she protectively took care of our two kids, Brianna and Tyler, as if they were her own. Mary knew everyone, cared about everyone, and took such joy in brightening the life of anyone she came into contact with. I never saw or talked with Mary that she wasn't smiling her beautiful smile. (and yes, you could tell she was smiling, even over the phone or through an email.) Mary did God's work each and every day; the extent of her influence will never be fully understood. Our lives were better for having known her; Heaven is a brighter place today because of her presence. Love you, Mary!

Paul Vaillancourt

December 30, 2012

I'm a teacher assistant at Park Hill, and it's going to be very strange to not see Mary Wheeler in the Attendance Office! She was always very kind to everyone! I still remember her offering words of support to me last year after my mother passed away. Her energy and dedication to Park Hill will never be forgotten!

Jim Singer

December 30, 2012

Thank you, Mary, for the strong example that you established for all of us. Yours was a life lived with absolute grace. You have impacted many lives and the world will be a better place for that. Our deep loss is Heaven's rich gain!

December 30, 2012

Mary was one of the most loving and caring persons I have ever known. She always took time to visit with me and my children when we'd see her around town. She remembered our names even though it had been many years since they attended Graden. God's love truly shone through the life of Mary Wheeler.
Lonnie Schaefer

Matt, Dee, Austin, Spencer and Braeden Denney

December 30, 2012

Ms. Mary, as we called her, was my children's all time favorite Sunday school teacher. They always looked forward to going to her class. Christ's love shown right through her to everyone she came in contact with. She will be deeply missed.

Bev Hann

December 30, 2012

Ron, Rick and I were so saddened to hear of Mary's passing. What a legend she is with all the children she taught in Sunday School at PWMC. She taught our daughter, Angie, how to pray when she was 4. I will always be grateful to her for investing in Angie's spiritually development. Hugs to you and the kids.

Jeanie Kauffman

December 30, 2012

Mary will be missed by all in the Park Hill community! I loved knowing her and seeing her bright, shining face for twenty years.

Laura Rodriguez

December 30, 2012

The world has lost a wonderful person.Mary was one of the nicest people I've ever met and I feel blessed to have known her.Parkhill will not be the same without her.My thoughts and prayers are with her family at this difficult time.

Nichole Fuqua

December 30, 2012

Our thoughts and prayers are with the Wheeler family. Mary was such a wonderful person and will be missed.

December 30, 2012

Our family will miss seeing and talking with Mary. What a wonderful person she was, always with a warm welcoming smile. We will miss her.

From Jon, Amy, Mary and Emyla

Jennifer Smith

December 30, 2012

Miss Mary, as my children knew her, always had a smile and a welcome for anyone. She truly cared about bringing people to God. She will be fondly remembered and forever missed.

Brenda Culver

December 30, 2012

Mary will be missed by agreat many people. She was always very helpful when ever I came in to pick Aaron

Monica House

December 30, 2012

Our hearts are heavy at this time. Mary always had a smile when we entered ParkHill. She was the best thing at Park Hill. Always willing to help and lend a smile. She will be greatly missed!!! Our prayers are with the family at this difficult time.

Frank & Karen DeLeon

December 30, 2012

In loving memory of a wonderful person. We will love you and miss you always.

Barbara/Fred Vanecek

December 30, 2012

Our hearts are heavy and tears are shed for Mary's family. A tremendous loss for all. My son was in PWMC Sunday school with Mary before he started in Park Hill Schools. Mary was there for support for him when he was in Park Hill High School. He is now out of college and is as saddened as we are to hear of Mary's death. You are in our prayers for comfort.

December 30, 2012

RON I AM SORRY TO HERE OF YOUR WIFE PASSING

December 30, 2012

RON I AM SORRY TO HERE FO YOUR WIFE PASSING JIM COCKRILL

Brenda Çulver

December 30, 2012

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