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Patrick Spaulding Obituary

Patrick Scott Spaulding of Camas, Wash., passed away peacefully on July 27, 2009, in Albuquerque, New Mexico. He was born January 9, 1973, in St. Charles, Ill., and moved to Olathe, Kan., when he was 6 years old. He attended Washington Elementary School, Santa Fe Trail Junior High School and graduated from Olathe North High School. The family invites family and friends to celebrate his life on Saturday, August 1, at 11 a.m. at Unity Church of Overland Park, 103rd and Antioch Road, Overland Park, Kan. Patrick's survivors include his parents, Scott and Yvonne Spaulding of Olathe, Kan.; brother Jay Spaulding and Julie of Overland Park, Kan.; sister Marcy Teasley and David of Shawnee, Kan.; sister Megan Barrow and Scott of Chicago, Ill.; grandmother Kathleen Attaway of Kansas City, Mo.; nephews Brennan and Bradley Teasley; nieces Mackenzie, Courtney and Emerson Spaulding, Kayla and Mandy Teasley; and Jadyn Rae Barrow; many loving aunts, uncles and cousins, and loyal friends Eric Oslund and his wife Bobbi and son Austin. Patrick was a tenderhearted, sensitive, kind, loving person his whole life. He never wanted to see anyone in pain. He loved family, friends, adventure, sports, music, and the great outdoors. His fun- loving and humorous spirit, along with his huge capacity for compassion and love will live on in those who had the privilege of knowing him. In lieu of flowers, contributions can be made to Kansas City Rescue Mission.

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Published by Kansas City Star from Jul. 31 to Aug. 1, 2009.

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August 10, 2009

Jay and Spaulding family, we are so sorry to hear about Pat. Please know you are in our thoughts and prayers.
-Kathy Harbour, David Harbour, Trisha Harbour Brown

Carolyn

August 7, 2009

Yvonne and family, I want you to know that you continue to be in my prayers and thoughts. Again, if there is anything I can do, don't hesitate to call.

Eric Powls

August 6, 2009

Spaulding Family,

Many nights I fell asleep near to an open window where the dribbling of basketballs echoed from three driveways down. Pat will certainly not be forgotten. All of you are in our thoughts.

Brian Walker

August 5, 2009

I'll always remember the quiet and determined guy who wanted everyone around him to succeed. He had the most unique jumpshot that seemed to find its way to the basket more times than not. Pat, thanks for being my friend, team mate and constant supporter.

Jill Moffatt Althouse

August 4, 2009

I am very sorry to hear about Patrick. Even though I didn't know Patrick very well, I knew right away who he was after hearing the news. I am sure he will be greatly missed. I am very sorry for your loss.

I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers.

John and Tricia Scott

August 1, 2009

We are so sorry for the loss of your son, brother, and uncle. Please know that you are all in our thoughts and prayers.

Chris Bartee

August 1, 2009

This is a very deep loss for me and others who grew up with Pat. I feel lucky to have been Pat's friend and know his truly sincere character. With his calm and compassionate nature, everyone always felt so at ease in his presence. Thank you for touching my life Pat.

Kirk Pellow

August 1, 2009

This is just terrible news. What a sad, sad day. Patrick was one of the warmest, kindest people you could ever meet. I was lucky to have known him.
Rest in Peace, Patrick.

Sal Bywaters

August 1, 2009

Pat was a winner in all he did he was a friend when you needed onw a guy you could trust also the vice of reasojning when i needed one. You are now playing your favorite sport basketball with GOD , to the family this is a home coming for him he will be missed but his legacy still goes on forever.

Kristine Williams-Gorman

July 31, 2009

I was so saddened to hear of Patrick's passing. We all have so many great memories growing up in Two Trails...I see him in many of those. Playing basketball all day and all night long, swimming in the pool, building forts and making trails, playing in the snow...

Please know that you all are in our thoughts and prayers.

Tim Dorr

July 31, 2009

Scott, I was saddened to read about your son's passing. May the memories and the love of God sustain you through the upcoming days.

Nancy Silverstein

July 31, 2009

My thoughts and prayers are with your family at this most difficult time.

Stacy Winters

July 31, 2009

Jay, Marcy & Family,

I was so sorry to read about your loss. My deepest sympathy & thoughts are with you during this difficult time.

Stacy (Lahey) Winters

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