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for Randy Pickering
Chris Anderson
June 24, 2014
I met Randy back in the early 90's at the Summit program at Pittsburg State University in Pittsburg, KS. I really felt I met a kindred spirit in him and we spent much of our free time drawing and developing new comic book characters. I still have all of the drawings he gave me over those two weeks and over the course of our correspondence following. I'm truly saddened to learn of his passing. Thank you for your friendship all those years ago, Randy, and thank you for your service to your country. God bless you and your family for your sacrifices.
Leila Campbell
August 21, 2013
To the family of Randy Pickering:
As you may know, the Fort Snelling Memorial Chapel Foundation has honored your loved one at its Memorial Day Sunday worship service (each year in May) … since the time of your fallen hero's ultimate sacrifice. We will continue to pay tribute to our nation's veterans … lest we ever forget!
Now we would like to honor you … as the next-of-kin … who have also paid a great price on the altar of liberty. On Sunday 29 September at 11:00 a.m. we will host a Gold Star Family Sunday.
I would like to extend to your family an invitation to honor us with your presence at worship … as we pay tribute to your sacrifice. Our pastor, U.S. Army Chaplain (Colonel-Retired) Kenneth L. Beale, Jr., will preach a message entitled, “By Dying, We Live.” The special music will be the husband/wife vocal/piano — Wickman Duo. Following the worship experience, your family is invited to attend a social time in our Fellowship Hall … with some light refreshments.
As this historic chapel has limited seating, we would be happy to reserve seating for you and yours. To do so, kindly call (651/286-7296) and leave a voice message indicating your veterans' name and the number of persons attending. For more information about the Foundation or driving directions to the historic chapel at Fort Snelling, visit our website at: www.fortsnellingmcf.org
If you are not able to attend, we pray that you would find comfort in knowing that our prayers are with you and all of the fallen heroes.
Respectfully,
Leila Campbell
Office Manager
Fort Snelling Memorial Chapel Foundation
email:[email protected]
Leila Campbell
May 4, 2013
To the family of Spc. Randy W. Pickering:
The Fort Snelling Memorial Chapel Foundation will be honoring your loved one at the non-denominational Christian Memorial Day Remembrance worship service at 11:00 a.m. on Sunday, 26 May 2013. We will remember the casualties of the Global War on Terrorism from Minnesota … and the bordering states of Iowa, North Dakota, South Dakota and Wisconsin. Outside of the historic Fort Snelling Veterans Memorial Chapel will be a “Memorial Garden” filled with some 300 white crosses bearing the names of the war dead … including your loved one.
The Memorial Garden will be encircled with larger white crosses representing all of the wars of our nation's history and give honor to all who have served in the United States Armed Forces and made the ultimate sacrifice for the freedoms we enjoy today. Wreaths will be placed at the foot of each 8-foot cross bearing the number of U.S. Service Members killed in each of America's conflicts.
I would like to extend to your family an invitation to honor us with your presence at worship as we pay tribute to the sacrifice made by your service member and family. Our pastor, Kenneth L. Beale, Jr., will preach a message entitled, “Freedom:Free, but Costly.” At the conclusion of the worship hour, all of the congregation will be invited to silently pay their respects at the garden and there place poppies at each of the crosses. A Memorial Rifle Squad of the Fort Snelling National Cemetery will fire vollies as the US flag is lowered to half-staff and Taps is played. Following your visit to the Memorial Garden, your family is invited to attend an informal reception (weather permitting) outside of the Chapel. The Memorial Garden will remain until 5:00 p.m. on Monday, 27 May (Memorial Day).
As this Christian worship service has traditionally been well attended, we would be happy to reserve seating for you and yours. To do so, kindly call (651/286-7296) and leave a voice message indicating your veterans' name and the number of persons attending. For more information about the Foundation or driving directions to the historic chapel at Fort Snelling, visit our website at: www.fortsnellingmcf.org Special rates for nearby hotels will be available. For more information call (651/286-7296) or email the office ([email protected]) and leave your name and contact information.
Also, beginning at dusk (8:30 p.m.) on Saturday 25 May through dawn (6:30 a.m.) on Sunday, 26 May, a “Prayer Vigil for Peace” will be held in the sanctuary of the Chapel. You are invited to stop by, light a candle and place it at the foot of your loved one's cross in the Memorial Garden … and then enter the Chapel for prayer.
If you are not able to attend, we pray that you would find comfort in knowing that our prayers are with you and all of the fallen heroes.
Respectfully,
Leila Campbell
Office Manager
Fort Snelling Memorial Chapel Foundation
email:[email protected]
web site:www.fortsnellingmcf.org
Charlie Gili
April 13, 2013
Hello,
We would like to express our deepest condolences and also let the Pickering Family know that we recently sent Care Packages to American troops in the war zones. Each box carried a dedication sheet that includes the name, service information and a photo of your loved one. We recognize that this is a humble tribute, but we wanted you to know that it is heartfelt and made possible by thousands of like-minded individuals in the youth hockey community and beyond. We will not forget. May God Bless you and keep you strong.
Sincerely,
Charlie Gili & Family
On Behalf of the US Hockey Players Support Our Troops Campaign
April 20, 2012
To the family of Spc. Randy W. Pickering:
The Fort Snelling Memorial Chapel Foundation will be honoring your loved one at the non-denominational Christian Memorial Day Remembrance worship service at 11:00 a.m. on Sunday 27 May 2012. We will remember the casualties of the Global War on Terrorism from Minnesota … and the bordering states of Iowa, North Dakota, South Dakota and Wisconsin. Outside of the historic Fort Snelling Veterans Memorial Chapel will be a “Memorial Garden” filled with some 300 white crosses bearing the names of the war dead … including your loved one.
The Memorial Garden will be encircled with larger white crosses representing all of the wars of our nation's history and give honor to all who have served the United States and made the ultimate sacrifice for the freedoms we enjoy today. Wreaths will be placed at the foot of each cross bearing the number of U.S. Service Members killed in each of America's conflicts.
I would like to extend to your family an invitation to honor us with your presence at worship as we pay tribute to the sacrifice made by your service member and family. Our pastor, U.S. Army Chaplain Col. Kenneth L. Beale, Jr., will preach a message entitled, “Lest We Forget Freedom's Cost.” At the conclusion of the worship hour, all of the congregation will be invited to silently pay their respects at the garden and place poppies at each of the crosses. A Memorial Rifle Squad of the Fort Snelling National Cemetery will fire vollies as the US flag is lowered to half-staff and Taps is played. Following your visit to the Memorial Garden, your family is invited to attend an informal reception (weather permitting) outside of the Chapel.
As this Christian worship service has traditionally been well attended, we would be happy to reserve seating for you and yours. To do so, kindly call (651/456-4410) and leave a voice message indicating your veterans' name and the number of persons attending. For more information about the Foundation or driving directions to the historic chapel at Fort Snelling, visit our website at: www.fortsnellingmcf.org Special rates for nearby hotels will be available. For more information call (651/456-4410) or email ([email protected]) the office, and leave your name and contact information.
Also, beginning at dusk (8:30 p.m.) on Saturday 26 May through dawn (6:30 a.m.) on Sunday 27 May, a “Prayer Vigil for Peace” will be held in the sanctuary of the Chapel. You are invited to stop by, light a candle and place it at the foot of your loved one's cross in the Memorial Garden … and then enter the Chapel for prayer.
If you are not able to attend, we pray that you would find comfort in knowing that our prayers are with you and all of the fallen heroes.
Respectfully,
Leila Campbell
Office Manager
Fort Snelling Memorial Chapel Foundation
email:[email protected]
web site:www.fortsnellingmcf.org
Peggy Childers
December 9, 2011
To the family and friends of Spc. Randy W. Pickering:
Please accept my remembrance of Randy on the anniversary of his passing and know that he will never be forgotten.
Sheila Pickering
December 5, 2011
Any one wanting to see examples of Randy's artwork can go to http://randymonki.diviantart.com.
I spent his birthday on this site reading all the comments made by him and others.It was comforting to know that the world has access to Randy's art and it will live on forever on the internet. Missing you son, Love Mom
John Rohrer
December 4, 2011
I was right next to Randy when he died. This event has traumatized me for years.. still does.. If anyone has any questions feel free to ask. It was a terrible tragedy... I mean I was literally 3 feet from him.
May 11, 2011
To the family of Spc Randy W Pickering:
The Fort Snelling Memorial Chapel Foundation will be honoring your loved one at the non-denominational Memorial Day Sunday worship service at 11:00 a.m. on 29 May 2011. We will remember the casualties of the Global War on Terrorism from Minnesota … and the neighboring states of Iowa, North Dakota, South Dakota and Wisconsin. Outside of the historic Fort Snelling Veterans Memorial Chapel will be a “Memorial Garden” filled with some 200 white crosses bearing the names of the war dead … including your loved one. The Memorial Garden’s perimeter will be manned by members of the Patriot Guard and a honor guard from AMVETS Post #1 of Mendota will be posted at the entrance.
The Memorial Garden will be encircled with larger white crosses representing all of the wars in United States history and give honor to all who have served their country and made the ultimate sacrifice for the freedoms we enjoy today. Wreaths will be placed at the foot of each cross bearing the number of U.S. Service Members killed in each of our nation’s wars.
I would like to extend to your family an invitation to honor us with your presence at worship as we pay tribute to the sacrifice made by your service member and family. Our pastor, U.S. Army Chaplain Col. Kenneth L. Beale, Jr., will preach a message entitled, “A Believer’s Look at War.” At the conclusion of the worship hour, all of the congregation will be invited to silently pay their respects at the garden and place poppies at each of the crosses. A Memorial Rifle Squad of Fort Snelling National Cemetery will fire vollies as the US flag is lowered to half-staff and Taps is played. Following your visit to the memorial garden, your family is invited to attend an informal reception (weather permitting) outside of the Chapel.
As this Christian worship service has traditionally been well attended, we would be happy to reserve seating for you and yours. To do so, kindly call (651/456-4410) and leave a voice message indicating your veterans’ name and the number of persons attending. For more information about the Foundation or driving directions to the historic chapel at Fort Snelling, visit our website at: www.fortsnellingmcf.org Special rates for nearby hotels will be available. For more information call (651/456-4410) or email ([email protected]) the office and leave your name and contact information.
Also, beginning at dusk (8:30 p.m.) on Sat 28 May through dawn (6:30 a.m.) on Sun 29 May, a “Prayer Vigil for Peace” will be held in the sanctuary of the Chapel. You are invited to stop by, light a candle and place it at the foot of your loved one’s cross in the Memorial Garden … and then enter the Chapel for prayer.
If you are not able to attend, we pray that you would find comfort in knowing that our prayers are with you and all of the fallen heroes.
Respectfully,
Leila Campbell
Office Manager
Fort Snelling Memorial Chapel Foundation
email:[email protected]
web site:www.fortsnellingmcf.org
Peggy Childers
December 9, 2010
To the family and friends of Spc. Randy W. Pickering:
Remembering Randy on the anniversary of his passing. May our fallen heroes never be forgotten!
Peggy Childers
"Don't Let The Memory Of Them Drift Away"
www.IraqWarHeroes.org
Sheila Pickering
December 1, 2010
Well, another year has gone by without you,but my memories keep you alive in my heart. Happy Birthday Son! I miss you now and always. Love Mom
Melissa Padilla
September 15, 2010
Randy was my friend. The year was 1993 and we were only 15 and 16 years old. Pleasant Hill, Missouri or "P-Hill" as it was called, didn't present us with any fairytale dreams. School life was rough and we found comfort in each other. We didn't always talk alot, we could just draw and it seemed to be a language we both understood.I was artistic and he was an artist. An amazing artist. I still have the signed and dated picture he gave me back then. I have kept it all these years and consider it a great honor to have a piece of his artwork. He is not just a hero for his service and sacrifice for our country, he is my hero. My hero for being a friend when the rest of the world didn't care about me. He was a true friend, kind, trustworthy, loyal. Life was changing fast. He was there and then he was gone. Today, I searched again, as I had before, to find my old friend.
Randy, I found you. I'm sorry I'm late. I was going to talk to you, share my comic book ideas, tell you how nice it was having a friend like you in my dark days. That you were appreciated. You're the reason I love superheros and guess what, I'm still a nerd. We were just two kids...two friends, in a crazy world. I missed you. I'll miss you.
With all my heart, your old friend, Massa
August 29, 2010
To the family:
May the comfort from family and friends continue to strengthen you, and may you find comfort in the words found in the Holy Scriptures: "And he will wipe out every tear from their eyes, and death will be no more, neither will mourning nor outcry nor pain be anymore. The former things have passed away."
Lizz
August 20, 2010
I went to school with Randy. I have thought often about your family since I heard the news of his death. Please know he is not forgotten.
April 28, 2010
To the family of Spc. Randy W. Pickering:
The Fort Snelling Memorial Chapel Foundation will be honoring your loved one at the non-denominational Memorial Day Sunday worship service at 11:00 a.m. on 30 May 2010. We will remember the casualties of the Global War on Terrorism from Minnesota … and the neighboring states of Iowa, North Dakota, South Dakota and Wisconsin. Outside of the historic Fort Snelling Veterans Memorial Chapel will be a “Memorial Garden” filled with white crosses bearing the names of the war dead … including your loved one.
The Memorial Garden will be encircled with larger white crosses to represent all of the wars in United States history and give honor to all who have served their country and made the ultimate sacrifice for the freedoms we enjoy today.
I would like to extend to your family an invitation to honor us with your presence at worship as we pay tribute to the sacrifice made by your service member and family. Our pastor, U.S. Army Chaplain Col. Kenneth L. Beale, Jr., will preach a message entitled “A Day of Remembrance.” At the conclusion of the worship hour, all of the congregation will be invited to silently pay their respects at the garden and place poppies at each of the crosses. An honor guard squad will be on hand to fire vollies as the US flag is lowered to half-staff and Taps is played. Following your visit to the memorial garden, your family is invited to attend an informal reception; weather permitting will be outside of the Chapel.
As this Christian worship service has traditionally been well attended, we would be happy to reserve seating for you and yours. To do so, kindly call (612/970-7866) and leave a voice message indicating your veterans’ name and the number of persons attending. For more information about the Foundation or driving directions to the historic chapel at Fort Snelling, visit our website at: www.fortsnellingmcf.org Special rates for nearby hotels will be available. For more information call (612/970-7866) or email ([email protected]) the office and leave your name and contact information.
Also, beginning at dusk (8:30 p.m.) on Sat 29 May through dawn (6:30 a.m.) on Sun 30 May, a “Prayer Vigil for Peace” will be held in the sanctuary of the Chapel. You are invited to stop by, light a candle and place it at the foot of your loved one’s cross in the Memorial Garden … and then enter the Chapel for prayer.
If you are not able to attend, we pray that you would find comfort in knowing that our prayers are with you and all of the fallen heroes.
Respectfully,
Leila Campbell
Office Manager
Fort Snelling Memorial Chapel Foundation
email:[email protected]
web site:www.fortsnellingmcf.org
Sheila Pickering
April 3, 2010
On July 4th at Fort Leonard Wood,MO,there will be a celebration for all our fallen soldiers.Randy's name is being sewed on a square,along with many others,on a memory quilt which will be on display honoring all the men and women who have lost their lives in iraq.
I invite you all to come and share this day with me and my family. the closest town to Fort Leonard Wood is called St. Robert,about 3 miles from the base. I urge you all to make your reservations now! Sheila - Randy's Mom
Kenna
January 6, 2010
Dear Family;
Project Compassion is a 501(c)3 nonprofit organization. Artist, founder and President; Kaziah Hancock will be coming to Minnesota in a few months, approximately March 2010. She has been asked by one of your local media agencies to attend an event to honor our Country and the State of Minnesota’s fallen soldiers/heroes. We would be truly honored for the opportunity to paint a portrait of your hero to present it to you and your family. If you have already received a portrait of your hero from us, please keep in mind that we have been approved by our sponsors to paint a second portrait of each soldier as long as it is requested in behalf of the heroes Mother, Father and/or spouse. We only paint these 100% free to the families because of our sponsors. Please visit www.heropaintings.com or contact me directly at [email protected]. We would be truly honored to have a chance to learn more about each of these fine soldiers, our modern day heroes!
Very sincerely,
Kenna
Project Compassion
Donna Gillette
December 13, 2009
On this day and with each day that we enjoy our freedom, I would like to give thanks and let you know that I do not take our troops for granted. May you experience God when you feel your loss.
Gramma Mendoza
December 5, 2009
Happy Birthday Randy, a few days late
with my wishes but you are always in my
heart and prayers....
Casey and I speak of you often and of the funny things you, Chris and Casey
did in your younger years.
Am glad you and Grampa are together.
You know we miss you both very much.
Love, Gramma Mendoza
Sheila Pickering
December 1, 2009
It's your birthday today Randy.I've been thinking about you today.
I guess I'll always wonder what life would have been like if you were here.
You have a new nephew Ace Randy Pickering born 7/6/2009.He is a cutie!
Your niece Anya reminds me of you ,when you were little.
Your brother is doing so much better now that he is in Missouri.I am lucky to be able to see him every day.
We speak of you often.We miss you,son.
Love Mom
Vicki Roitman
November 28, 2009
Randy, you are missed and forever in our hearts!
Love, Aunt Vicki
Mark Perrenoud
November 24, 2009
I just found this, but I want to offer my apologies to the family of Randy Pickering. I use to be his squad leader and I can tell you that Randy was a great man and a great soldier.
He was one of the smartest soldiers I ever had the pleasure of working with. I was able to trust him to write up training calendars and process school applications without having to worry if they would get done. His ability to learn the Army's Training Programs, and then adapt when shortly after learning everything the Army changed it, was a great asset to myself and our unit.
And I am proud to say that I was his friend outside of work, Randy introduced me to the craziest video game I have ever played, it's called "Beautiful Katamari." And his comical drawings of everyone in our unit never ceased to uplift spirits.
I am truly sorry for your lose.
I know it's been a while since this happened, almost 2 years. But if the family actually reads this please look me up.
July 19, 2009
Just want to say, I am very sorry for your loss. I know time has gone by, but SPC PICKERING will ALWAYS be a hero. God bless you all. Pat L Detroit Lakes, MN
Leila Campbell
April 22, 2009
To the family of Spc. Randy W. Pickering:
The Fort Snelling Memorial Chapel Foundation will be honoring your loved one at the non-denominational Memorial Day Sunday worship service at 11:00 a.m. on 24 May 2009. We will remember the casualties of the Global War on Terrorism from Minnesota … and the neighboring states of Iowa, North Dakota, South Dakota and Wisconsin. Outside of the historic Fort Snelling Veterans Memorial Chapel will be a “Memorial Garden” filled with white crosses bearing the names of the war dead … including your loved one.
I would like to extend to your family an invitation to honor us with your presence at worship as we pay tribute to the sacrifice made by your service member and family. Our pastor, U.S. Army Chaplain Col. Kenneth L. Beale, Jr., will preach a message entitled “Answering the Highest Call.” At the conclusion of the worship hour, all of the congregation will be invited to silently pay their respects at the garden and place poppies at each of the crosses. An honor guard squad will be on hand to fire vollies as the US flag is lowered to half-staff and Taps is played. Following your visit to the memorial garden, your family is invited to attend an informal reception in the Chapel’s Fellowship Hall.
As this Christian worship service has traditionally been well attended, we would be happy to reserve seating for you and yours. To do so, kindly call (612/970-7866) and leave a voice message indicating your veterans’ name and the number of persons attending. For more information about the Foundation or driving directions to the historic chapel at Fort Snelling, visit our website at: www.fortsnellingmcf.org Special rates for nearby hotels will be available. For more information call (612/970-7866) or email ([email protected]) the office and leave your name and contact information.
Also, beginning at dusk (8:30 p.m.) on Sat 23 May through dawn (6:30 a.m.) on Sun 24 May, a “Prayer Vigil for Peace” will be held in the sanctuary of the Chapel. You are invited to stop by, light a candle and place it at the foot of your loved one’s cross in the Memorial Garden … and then enter the Chapel for prayer.
If you are not able to attend, we pray that you would find comfort in knowing that our prayers are with you and all of the fallen heroes.
Respectfully,
Leila Campbell
Office Manager
Fort Snelling Memorial Chapel Foundation
email:[email protected]
web site:www.fortsnellingmcf.org
T Starman
January 17, 2009
I offer my deepest condolences for your loss
Peggy Childers
December 9, 2008
To the family of Spc. Randy W. Pickering:
Randy gave the ultimate sacrifice and will be held in the hearts of Americans forever. I cannot and will not let our fallen heroes be forgotten. My deepest sympathy to you. "Some gave all."
Peggy Childers
"Don't Let The Memory Of Them Drift Away"
www.IraqWarHeroes.org
In Memory of Randy ~ (Debra Estep)
December 9, 2008
Holding you all in my thoughts and prayers.
The Wind on The Downs
“I like to think of you as brown and tall,
As strong and living as you used to be,
In khaki tunic, Sam Brown belt and all,
And standing there and laughing down at me.
Because they tell me, dear, that you are dead,
Because I can no longer see your face,
You have not died, it is not true, instead
You seek adventure in some other place.
That you are round about me, I believe;
I hear you laughing as you used to do,
Yet loving all the things I think of you;
And knowing you are happy, should I grieve?
You follow and are watchful where I go.”
(Written by Marian Allen during World War l )
Two lines that I wish you to keep near your heart…….
“You seek adventure in some other place.
That you are round about me, I believe”
I did not know Randy, but I am remembering
his service and sacrifice. He is my hero. !
~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~
The Other Side
i'm over on the other side
where life and death softly divide.
left my skin and bones behind
now i'm over on the other side.
can you feel me there with you?
my breath is gone but i'm not through.
loved you then and i still do
from over on the other side.
i can fly. really fly.
below the earth ... all through the sky.
tell em all i did not die.
i'm just over on the other side.
it's good here on the other side.
the sweetest songs...the bluest skies.
thank you for the tears you cried
but it's good here on the other side.
i can fly. really fly. below the earth...all through the sky.
tell em all i did not die.
i'm just over on the other side
the world is smaller than a needle's eye.
where life and death softly divide.
when you leave your skin and bones behind
i'll be waiting on the other side.
i can fly. really fly. below the earth ... all through the sky.
go tell em all i did not die.
i'm just over on the other side.
Song lyrics by Don Conoscenti
C Desert Muse/SESAC
www.donconoscenti.com
(Used with permission)
“I hope it brings great comfort to any and all.
Peace on you. DonCon” 4-2008
The Other Side –
(To hear the song)
http://tinyurl.com/3o8gol
Sincerely,
Deb Estep ~ Ohio
Proud Air Force Mom SSgt Vince – Lackland AFB
Proud Air Force MIL SrA Dana – Randolph AFB
Remembering The Fallen – Blog
http://tinyurl.com/3z8p55
Angel and soldier drawing I have shared here.
http://tinyurl.com/6gey8b
Safely Home
Michael Iezzi
December 9, 2008
Randy,
Thinking and praying for you on the 1st anniversary of your passing into eternal glory. May God hold you in the palm of His hand. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
"Greater love hath no man than this, that a man lay down his life for his friends", John 15:13.
Kenna Larra
December 5, 2008
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Sincerely,
Kenna
Aunt Vicki Roitman
December 4, 2008
Dear Randy,
If only you could know the amount of love and caring we all have for you as a part of our family and as a treasured soldier in the US Army.
We miss you, but also know that you are in our thoughts and hearts.
john mendoza
December 4, 2008
RANDY,i knem as a little boy,who became a handsome young man.it a honor to say, you were my nephew.
GOD TOOK u 4 a reason.you serve ur country,so we all could live free.you are my hero"
may your memories,bring you comfort,to your family&granma.your
up with my brother,who i think of everyday.i miss him alot.now your
with granpa,& great granpa you & SAM are
in my thoughs&prayers.
love& miss u both,very much,
a vet,uncle john.
Casey Coulson
December 1, 2008
I miss you terribly cousin. I think of you and Grampa everyday, and will continue to until we meet again.
Beverly(Gramma) Mendoza
December 1, 2008
Happy Birthday Randy, today you would have been 32 yrs. old.
Your family here on earth misses you
very much, there were so many things each of us wanted to say to you but will never get the chance.
I know you and Grampa are having
a good time there in heaven and are
keeping watch over all of us.
You were loved by your family and everyone who came in contact with you. Give Grampa a hug for me.
Sheila Pickering
December 1, 2008
Thank you all for your comments. It's is a comfort to know I am not alone in my sorrow. Today, Randy's birthday, has been especially hard for me. Having his brother Chris living nearby makes it bearable. God bless all who wrote. Sheila ,Randy's mom
Rebecca Pickering
September 14, 2008
I want to thank you all, for everything. It's still hard to believe he's gone.
Thank you very much for your thought and support.
My family and I appreciate it greatly.
Sister of Spec. Randy Wayne Pickering
Rebecca
annastacia mcdonald
September 13, 2008
I knew randy personally. My husband and I worked many late nights in the office in germany together. He was one of a kind. Everytime I saw him walking anywhere I would give him a ride or when he was working late I brought him food. I was at the military service here in germany for him and we finally just recieved the last part of his belongings from down range now everything can be put to rest including him. I will miss him and he made an impact on my life as well as many others.
July 6, 2008
Thank you for the sacrifice made by Spc Pickering and the sacrifice made by everyone who loves and misses him! May God bless all of you!!
July 6, 2008
You are remembered and respected. Thank you Spc Pickering!
Leila Campbell
April 28, 2008
To the family of Spc. Randy W. Pickering:
The Fort Snelling Memorial Chapel Foundation will be honoring your loved one at the non-denominational Memorial Day Sunday worship service at 11:00 a.m. on 25 May, 2008. We will remember the casualties of the Global War on Terrorism from Minnesota … and the neighboring states of Iowa, North Dakota, South Dakota and Wisconsin. Outside of the historic Fort Snelling Veterans Memorial Chapel will be a “Memorial Garden” filled with white crosses bearing the names of the war dead … including your loved one.
I would like to extend to your family an invitation to honor us with your presence at worship as we pay tribute to the sacrifice made by your service member and family. Our pastor, U.S. Army Chaplain, LTC Kenneth L. Beale, Jr. will preach a message entitled “The Price of Freedom” At the conclusion of the worship hour, all of the congregation will be invited to silently pay their respects at the garden and place poppies at each of the crosses. An honor guard squad will be on hand to fire vollies as the US flag is lowered to half-staff and Taps is played.
As this Christian worship service has traditionally been well attended, we would be happy to reserve seating for you and yours. To do so, kindly call (612/970-7866) and leave a voice message indicating your veterans’ name and the number of persons attending. For more information about the Foundation or driving directions to the historic chapel at Fort Snelling, visit our website at: www.fortsnellingmcf.org
Also, beginning at dusk (8:30 p.m.) on Sat. 24 May through dawn (6:30 a.m.) on Sun. 25 May, a “PrayerVigil for Peace” will be held. You are invited to stop by and light a candle and place it at the foot of your loved one’s cross in the Memorial Garden, then enter the Chapel for prayer.
If you are not able to attend, we pray that you would find comfort in knowing that our prayers are with you and all of the fallen heroes.
Respectfully,
Leila Campbell
Administrative Assistant
Fort Snelling Memorial Chapel Foundation
email:[email protected]
web site:www.fortsnellingmcf.org
Betty Nielsen
April 15, 2008
To the family of Randy,
My deepest regret for your loss. I know words can not take the pain that you feel and no one can really understand your loss unless they walk your shoes. Your son will not be forgotten nor will the pain that you carry with you. Your son was a man of honor and courage he wanted to make a different in this world and he did. What he did for his country few would do because how many people would stand up and protect this country. He stood up for all those that couldn't stand up for themselves. It takes someone special to do that so we as a country owe him our freedom. Thank you for bringing into this world a hero for without man like him we would not be enjoying freedom. If you ever want to talk my email is [email protected]
Chaplain Dan Gates
January 2, 2008
With the deepest regret, I have just learned of the death of Specialist Pickering. As a Vietnam Veteran and the State Chaplain of the Georgia Society, Sons Of The American Revolution, I speak for our President, Charlie A. Newcomer, III and the more than 1,400 SAR members around the State of Georgia in humbly expressing the condolences of a grateful Society. Wrapped in the integrity of service to our nation and the inestimable values of duty, honor and country, your American hero stood on a wall of freedom for us all. This precious life, lived and lost in love of America, epitomized every attribute of patriotism the Sons Of The American Revolution hold dear. And, as Americans, we could never repay the debt we owe ..!! Nor the debt we owe you… the family of one of America's best ...!!!
Tom Gugliuzza
December 29, 2007
My heartfelt sympathy to the Pickering family in the loss of Randy. I did not know Randy, but my heart is broken and I am saddened for your loss of such a fine young person and hero. May God bring you peace in your heart as you reflect on all the wonderful memories you hold so close. Please know that you are in my heart and prayers. My heart was touched by the many wonderful/beautiful things written about you. Randy you are my hero and you will NEVER be forgotten.
I send each of you a hug from the most inner part of my heart.
Love and Peace
Tom
"To live in the hearts
of those you leave behind
is never to die"
~Robert Orr~
Candie Glisson
December 27, 2007
I am so sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you and Randy now, and always. I lost my son, also a Minnesota boy, May 19, 2007. I know how hard this is, and my heart just bleeds for you.
(Mother of SGT Jason A Schumann, KIA 19 May 2007 Ad Diwaniyah, Iraq)
Candie
Aunt Teri
December 21, 2007
I just wanted to thank all of you for you thoughts and prayers for our family. Losing Randy was a shock for us all. I will let his mother know of all your kind comments.
God Bless every one of you.
Randy's Aunt
Jeri Herrera
December 20, 2007
Though I did not know Randy personally, he will always be a hero to me. Nothing I can say will take away the pain that you feel right now. Please accept my sincerest condolences and know that my thoughts and prayers are with you at this time.
Sincerely,
Jeri Herrera
Proud sister of SFC Rocky H. Herrera
KIA 8/28/07 Jaji, Afghanistan
December 19, 2007
To the Family and Friends of this Soldier:
I will stand in grief with this soldier's family to honor him. For every fallen HERO there is a bright star that shines in the evening sky to remind us of the cherished gift we were given – even if for too short a time.
My heart breaks again as I sign yet another guest book of another courageous young soldier who gave their life so selflessly. I wish I never found myself in a position to have to sign another guestbook for the rest of my life, but I promised Brent that neither he nor any like him would be forgotten and so I will continue until the day there is no longer the need.
We lost our son SFC Brent A. Adams on 12/1/05 and it seems like yesterday. I wish so badly there were things I could say to you right now to make the pain you are feeling go away, but I know first hand there simply are no words that will bring you the comfort and peace your heart aches for. Just know that you are not alone. My heart, thoughts, and prayers are with you all as you go through this tragedy moment by moment and as you mourn this loss.
We don't know each other, will probably never meet, but will forever be united in the loss of our Heroes. We have, unfortunately joined a group none of us wanted to join, an ever-growing group of families in this situation. May God grant you peace and strength to get through this and be able once again to smile at a memory rather than have only the tears that flow so easily now. To be so proud of your loved one and so saddened at the same time is a mix of emotions very difficult to deal with as our hearts both burst with pride and pain together.
I am sorry that I never knew your soldier personally. While they can never be replaced, neither will they ever be forgotten. You must trust that sometime, someday the loving memories you have will help to sustain you and help you go on. This courageous soldier will forever be your Angel watching over you all for the rest of your lives. It's what brings me some measure of peace and comfort and I hope it will you as well.
To his family and friends in pain, I offer this comfort: When you find yourself in that dark sorrowful place, think not only of how you will miss him, but instead recall the years, days, hours and minutes gifted to you by his presence. The one thing that cannot be taken from you is your wonderful memories that now will mean more than ever.
If you ever want to talk, I'm only an e:mail away and would love for you to tell me more about your Hero.
God Bless this soldier and family who gave all and God Bless legacy.com for setting up this site where families can so quickly share their condolences and prayers with others like themselves.
Proud Parents of SFC Brent A. Adams, KIA, 12/1/05, Ramadi, Iraq
Pam and Bill Adams, Lancaster, PA
Sandra Bailey
December 18, 2007
We are sorry for your loss
The family of
Sgt. Matthew Hatfield
serving in
Afganistan
7th Grade Louisburg Middle School
December 18, 2007
We care and share your sorrow and pride.
Linda Mattfeld
December 17, 2007
To Randy's entire Family, my thoughts and prayers are with you each day. To Bruce, Jeannie, Angela,'Becca, Harold, Edna & family, I hold you all in my heart with Randy. May God be with you all. Thank you, Randy. You will never be forgotten.
Love,
December 17, 2007
Day is Done
Gone the Sun
From the Hills
From the Lakes
From the Sky
All is Well
Safely Rest
God is Neigh
Rest in Piece Brother
December 16, 2007
May God bless Randy and his entire family. Thank you Randy for defending our freedom and our country! You are a HERO!!! To the family---keep your memories very close to your heart!!!
Henryk Zaleski (USN-Ret)
December 15, 2007
Rest in peace.
Gale Poindexter
December 14, 2007
I am writing to offer my deepest sympathies to you and your family over the loss of your HERO Spc Randy W Pickering. I lost my son in Iraq on May 6/2007, so I can well understand your pain of losing a loved one so dear.
I pray you will be guided by a higher power to give you peace, comfort and strength in this time.
Psalm 34:18
The Lord is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit
GOD Bless you and your family. Your soldier was a true American Hero and we are all very proud of his service. He will not be forgotten!
(Proud mother of Sgt Joel W. Lewis, 5/20, 3-2 SBCT /Ft Lewis-KIA 5/ 6/07, Baqubah, Iraq)
Jim Tobiason
December 14, 2007
Thank you for your service to our great nation.You will NEVER be forgotten.My prayers to the family and friends of another fallen HERO.
Jim Tobiason,Brother of SFC John Tobiason K.I.A 11-28-07
Phil McManis
December 14, 2007
I am so very sorry for your loss...My wife and I have no children but her best friends boy is in Afganistan/Iraq for his third tour from Vincenza,Italy...we continue to pray for him also,as well as for your son.. My wife had Randy in school in art at Pleasant Hill Middle School and had fond memories of him...God Bless
Chaplain Dan Gates Georgia Society SAR,
December 14, 2007
With the deepest regret, I have just learned of the death of Specialist Pickering. As a Vietnam Veteran and the State Chaplain of the Georgia Society, Sons Of The American Revolution, I speak for our President, Charlie A. Newcomer, III and the more than 1,400 SAR members around the State of Georgia in humbly expressing the condolences of a grateful Society. Wrapped in the integrity of service to our nation and the inestimable values of duty, honor and country, your American hero stood on a wall of freedom for us all. This precious life, lived and lost in love of America, epitomized every attribute of patriotism the Sons Of The American Revolution hold dear. And, as Americans, we could never repay the debt we owe ..!! Nor the debt we owe you… the family of one of America's best ...!!!
Valorie
December 13, 2007
My prayers and thoughts are with you.
I know how you feel losing a "HERO",Becoming a "Gold Star" Mother myself on 25 March.. The sacrafice our sons and daughters are making on a daily basis should tell us all..These young HEROS knew full well what they were doing and did it proudly When you hug your loved ones tonight.... Remember... We also hugged ours and they were protecting you..We.. as Americans need to make the "Ultimate Sacrafice" by supporting all our military(HEROS)...the Proud Mom of SGT. Jason W. Swiger
5th Squadron, 73rd Cavalry Regiment, 3rd Brigade Combat Team, 82nd Airborne,Fort Bragg, N.C. KIA 3/25/007
Valorie (South Portland, ME)
Janna Primeau
December 13, 2007
I'm so sorry for your tremendous loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you all.
Rest In Peace
Michael iezzi
December 13, 2007
Father we entrust our brother Randy to your mercy. You loved him greatly in this life: now that he is freed from all its cares, give him happiness and peace forever. Welcome him now into paradise where there will be no more sorrow, no more weeping or pain, but only peace and joy with Jesus your Son, and the Holy Spirit forever and ever.
May God hold Randy in the palm of His hand. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. My deepest sympathy.
Valerie Wyer
December 13, 2007
My heart goes out to you at this time and in the days ahead.
Sandy Bonesteel
December 13, 2007
As the mother of a son who is deployed, I want to send my condolences. Please know that there are many, many people who grieve with you.
SHIRLEY DONEY
December 12, 2007
REST IN PEACE SPC. PICKERING TO YOUR FAMILY AND FRIENDS MAY THE MEMORIES OF THIS WONDERFUL SOLDIERS LIFE FILL YOUR HEARTS WITH BEAUTIFUL MEMORIES
GOD BLESS YOU
Susan Hoffman
December 12, 2007
I am so sorry for the loss of your son, my daughter and son in law served with your son in Vilseck, Germany, my son in law was also sent to Iraq with your son. They are heros, you all are in my thoughts and prayers, please if there is anything I can do let me know, we are all in this together....God Bless U All.....
Garnet Jenkins
December 12, 2007
Please accept my Deepest and Most Heartfelt Sympathy regarding the loss of Spc. Randy W. Pickering, with So Much Gratitude for this Fine Young Soldier's Courage, Dedication and Service to our Country and for Freedom.
May Randy rest safely now, in God's Care and know that he is a True American hero, that shall Never Be Forgotten.
May the Peace of the Lord be with the Pickering family.
There will Never Be Enough Ways, to Humbly Thank these Young Heroes, for their Sacrifices, my brother among them. Killed in action in Vietnam in 1967.
"And God shall wipe away every tear from their eyes,
there shall be no more death, nor sorrow, nor crying,
there shall be no more pain.
For the former things have have passed away."
~ Revelations 21:4 ~
May you find peace in knowing the love and memories you have, will remain in your heart forever and that this Country Will Remember Randy's Sacrifice.
My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Rest In Peace Spc. Randy W. Pickering
December 12, 2007
There is nothing that I can say or do to take away the pain or bring you peace in your time of sorrow, but I will offer you and your family my heart felt condolences. I also offer you my prayers that in time the pain will easy and the memories of your HERO will carry you through each day and night. I want to thank your HERO, for his/her selfless act of becoming a member of the armed forces, his/her willingness to defend the United States of America, all that we hold sacred and for the sacrifice that will forever be etched in the memories of all those who knew him/her. Though tears can never bring him/her back, we hope that our tears express our gratitude for the sacrifice that he/she made and our sorrow at his/her passing. I believe for every fallen HERO there is a star shining brightly up above to remind us of the precious gift we were given.
Your mission on earth is complete and you are now a member of GOD’s Heavenly armed forces. Stand down brave warrior and take your rightful place in Heaven with all the HEROES who have passed before.
I made a special promise to LE RON A. WILSON, a dear family friend who joined the Army with three other friends, one of whom is my son (Le Ron was killed in action on 07/06/07 at the age of 18) on the day he was laid to rest as I touched his coffin, that I would never forget him nor would I forget those that gave their lives for our country before him, with him and after him and so when I came across www.legacy.com, I thought what a great way to keep my promise to Le Ron, so I will continue to leave tributes in each guest book until the day there is no longer the need to leave these tributes to a FALLEN HERO.
REST IN PEACE, HERO, YOU WILL NEVER BE FORGOTTEN!!
I would also like to tell you about a website, http://groups.msn.com/SSPSoldierPortraits/homepage,
where some wonderful people will make wood portraits of your fallen Hero for free for the immediate family. I became aware of this site when I wanted to do something special for Le Ron’s mother.
PROUD MOTHER OF A U.S. SOLDIER
Currently stationed in Germany
Althea Barrett (Queens, NY)
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