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Robin "Rocky" Depping

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Robin Depping Obituary

Robin C. Depping, 48, passed away Saturday, April 16, 2005, at St. Luke's Hospital on the Plaza. A celebration of Robin's life will take place Wednesday, April 20 at 2 p.m. at D.W. Newcomer's Sons Stine & McClure Chapel, 3235 Gillham Plaza, KCMO. A gathering of friends and family will take place on Tuesday, April 19 from 6-9 p.m. at the chapel. Graveside service Thursday, April 21 at 1 p.m. at Olympus Cemetery, Grove, OK. Robin graduated from UMKC in 1994 with a Bachelor of Art degree, and was an accomplished freelance artist. She was a longtime member of NA and was of service to many people. She was preceded in death by her father Otto and two brothers, Thomas and David. She is survived by her mother Edna and Reuben Dixon; her fiancee Todd Wright and stepsons Jared and Jaron; brother Patrick and Marsha Depping; and many aunts, uncles, nieces, and nephews. (Arr. D.W. Newcomer's Sons Stine & McClure Chapel, 3235 Gillham Plaza, Kansas City, MO, 816-9317777)

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Published by Kansas City Star on Apr. 18, 2005.

Memories and Condolences
for Robin Depping

14 Entries

Alisa Page

April 20, 2005

I met Robin in early 1990 when we became roommates at the house on Karnes Blvd. I was 21 and she was 34. I was quite intimidated by her at first…but she soon took me under her wing and became like a big sister to me. I didn’t have a car, and without reservation, she let me tag along with her everywhere. I remember meeting Lora for the first time when we all met for tacos at a Mexican restaurant on Broadway.

In 1994, Robin and I shared a home at 43rd & Belleview. I can’t drive by that house without smiling, recalling the good times—and challenges—we had when we lived there. We were both attending UMKC then…we had so much fun together—listening to classical music and painting the house; helping each other study--we had a white-board calendar posted in our dining room to keep track of our school responsibilities, and we would quiz each other before our Spanish and French tests (we both hated having to be so organized and having to memorize things!) We also spent a lot of time repairing the window screens destroyed by her adorable, ornery cat, Mijo, who was always trying to escape. I still smile when I remember her hilarious stories about her witchy Art History professor…remember how Robin could tell a story, and would go head to head with someone when she had an opinion?

I was privileged to meet Robin’s family—Tom, David & Belinda and their children, Pat & Marsha, Otto and Edna. I always looked forward to Edna’s visits—I marveled at their talent when Edna came to KC to help Robin reupholster a sofa…Edna, you taught Robin how to be a unique, amazing woman, and I learned so much from her.

Robin was truly the most creative, talented person I’ve ever known. A gourmet cook, a seamstress, interior decorator, an entrepreneurial spirit, and above all,an innovative and exceptionally talented artist in any medium. But what I loved about her most was her character--her loyalty to family and friends, the ease with which she expressed her unconditional love and acceptance of others, and her conviction to live her life according to her values. Her example taught me how to be self-reliant and true to my heart.

Unfortunately, our lives took different directions a few years ago, and Robin and I lost touch. I have thought of her often over the past six years, and I will continue to do so for the rest of my life. She is part of my soul. Thanks, Big Sis, for putting up with me and teaching me so much!

I regret that I never got to know Todd and her new family. My heart and prayers are with you, Edna & Reuben, Pat & Marsha, Lora, all her friends, and anyone whose life she touched the way she touched mine. Her spirit will live on forever in our hearts.

Dinie B.

April 20, 2005

**I have revised this to not include profanity, as it cannot be posted with inappropriate language. So, if you can't picture Robin saying something, put in the inappropriate word and the picture will be complete**

Robin was the second woman I met on my recovery journey, as she was my grandsponsor. The first time I met her, I remember my sponsor pointing her out as we walked across the room. I was thinking, "Wow! Look at all that crazy hair, she's beautiful!" She got up and met us with a hug before we could get to her.

That was Robin, always coming to meet life instead of waiting for it to come to her. I always admired her tenacity to go for what she wanted. She spoke of "following her bliss" to me and I have held on to that ideal my entire recovery. She once told me, "You can't sit on your [behind] and have happiness drop in your [darn] lap girl! Just go for it! What have you got to lose? What everyone else thinks? [To heck with] that! Live! Be happy! Just don't use and everything else will fall into place."

I watched her do just that and consider it a huge blessing to have seen her find and enjoy the love of her life. Watching Todd step up to the plate for her over the last few years has been nothing short of abosolute wonder. He loves her, as she does him, then, now and forever.

I don't know if even half of us may attain that beauty in our lifetime. I know if I see what I want in life, I'm not going to sit on my [behind]. I'm going to meet it halfway across the room and embrace it. I love you Robin. Thank you for EVERYTHING you've given me and will continue to give me until I see you again. You are bliss.

Tom Guyot

April 19, 2005

Robin was a true friend and i will greatly miss her. I have never known anyone with as much energy and strength as Robin.

Cindy Cohen

April 19, 2005

Robin was my wonderful "buddy" and roommate during the eighties. She and the bassett hound "Rocky" kept me laughing all the time. Robin was so giving of herself - she would give to you first and worry about herself last. You don't find many friendships like that.

God looked down and saw her tired eyes, and asked her to come home. He knew she would not get better on earth again, so he made a place in his garden just for her.

May the Lord bless and give peace to her wonderful family, especially during this time of sorrow. Robin, you'll be missed.

Anonymous

April 19, 2005

The fellowship has lost a valuable member and friend. Your legacy will live on through the years as the women you helped grow and help others. Your roots were strong and your tree will live forever.

Lora "Lou" McFarland

April 19, 2005

Robin ...My Sweet Sweet Sister, my Best Friend and Hero for 43 years. Robin and I met at her 6th Birthday Party on Outlook in 1962, I was playing on the playground down the hill from our prospective houses by myself, she saw me down there by myself and asked me my name and told me it was her 6th Birthday and if I wanted to have some Birthday Cake, she smiled real big and all those fine golden curls that shined in the sunlight, she looked like a little Angel. Little did I know at that time that you actually were my Guardian Angel. Robin was filled with Gifts from Unselfishly giving of herself to her undying love of her Art. She loved her family and her friends unconditionally. She would do anything for anyone and she never gave up on anything....NEVER!!

She filled my life with so many wonderful and beautiful memories, that I will cherish for the rest of my life. Thank You Edna for your Daughter she was the Love of my life....I Love You "Boog" I already miss you dearly, but save me a place because someday I will be with you again...

All My Love "Lou"

Beth Buechele

April 19, 2005

I have many memories of Robin, but when I sat down this morning with the pictures I have of her....it is her smile, her beauty, her humor, her strong spirit and her way of making everyone feel better just by being there that I remember the most. Almost ten years ago she told me to "Believe"....I promise I'll never stop believing Robin. I love you and believe you're on your way home to a better place.

Ruth Woods

April 18, 2005

I wish to express my condolences to the family. I know this is is a difficult time for you. I know that we will keep Robins spirit alive in here is KC. She has touched so many of us. I will never forget her. I will cherish my memories we had together painting my castle wall in my tiny basement. She really helped to awaken that creative spirit that was deep inside me, and I am truely grateful for that. And I will continue to keep working on that creative energy and keep it alive in me in Robin's honor. I love you Robin and will miss you.

Beth James

April 18, 2005

I hope to see you again someday. Thanks for being such a strong woman in recovery. I admired you greatly.

Thomas Ballard

April 18, 2005

Robin was a big inspiriation to me in many ways. I recall when a group of us were remodeling a commercial space, Robin put her artistic talent to use, and her talent really blew me away. She was just so humble about her abilities, and she had that "you can do it too, if you try" attitude. God bless you, Robin!

Heidi Darrow

April 18, 2005

The first time I heard Robin was very early in my recovery at a Unity Days that the Area had sponsored.

As with many times then,as well as since, I was moved to tears by what she shared. But what I remember the most, is not what she shared, but that she took the time to seek me out afterward to make sure I was OK and to let me know that I was right where I needed to be. She gave a bit of herself to everyone she touched. I will always cherish my portion.

Marissa Muci

April 18, 2005

My most sincere condolences to Todd and to Robin's family.

I met Robin over 6 years ago when I walked into my second NA meeting. There were 3 of us in that meeting on a 10 o'clock Saturday morning. I went there because I woke up feeling like I needed to use but just couldn't anymore. She told me that just for today I never had to use again. She gave me her number and told me to keep coming back.

She was a founder of that group (The Miracle Group) -- the group I've always called home.

Today, I joyfully live the legacy she laid before me in this new way of life. I remain of service to that group and make myself available to the newcomer.

Without women like her, women like me wouldn't know it was possible.

Thanks for sharing Robin,

Marissa

Sally George

April 18, 2005

I am so grateful that Robin has been part of my life for the last couple of years. She was an amazing woman and her strength and courage has been an inspiration to many that will follow on the journey of recovery. Thank you for being part of my recovery, Robin.

Haydee Machalek

April 18, 2005

Robin was my best friend in 7th and 8th grade at Old Mission Jr. High. I'd moved to KC from out of state after school had already started and after a rocky beginning, we became best friends. Though by high school we'd drifted apart, my strongest memories of her were overnights at each others houses. She used to talk in her sleep and we'd laugh for hours the next day when I'd describe how I'd bated her into conversation and the hilarious things she'd say. Even back then I marvelled at her artistic talents . . . she could draw cartoon characters and even teachers we had like nothing I'd seen. She had a real sophisticated fashion sense, which I tried to emulate. I'll never forget the summer we drove with her parents to Iowa and Wisconsin to visit relatives. Jean Seberg of "Paint Your Wagon" was a relative and to this day when I hear her name or see the movie I remember Otto's stories of her. I last talked to Robin at our 20th reunion in 1994. She told me about the tough times she'd had. Before I left town I visited her at her home and I was really happy to have reconnected with her after so long. I'll never forget her.

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