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Thomas "Tom" O'Connor

1960 - 2024

Thomas "Tom" O'Connor obituary, 1960-2024, Kansas City, MO

BORN

1960

DIED

2024

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Muehlebach Funeral Care - Kansas City

6800 Troost Avenue

Kansas City, Missouri

Thomas O'Connor Obituary

Thomas "Tom" O'Connor

April 22, 1960 - November 26, 2024

Kansas City, Missouri - Thomas J. O'Connor. April 22, 1960 – November 26, 2024. Age 64. Tom was preceded in death by parents William E. and Jean M. O'Connor and brother-in-law John A. Chisholm. Survived by wife Jennifer Panke O'Connor and son Cade O'Connor. Siblings Bill O'Connor, Maureen (John) Raynor, Kerry (Joe) Bast, Mike (Marti) O'Connor, Kim O'Connor, Amy Chisholm, Kyle (Mike) Nelson, Jennie (Matt) Warren, Katie O'Connor. Parent-in-laws John H. and Rita L. Panke and Sister and brother-in-law Jill and Jeremy Sausto. Twenty five nieces and nephews, twenty seven great nieces and nephews.

Tom grew up in Omaha and attended Creighton Prep then UNL. He found his home in Kansas City in 1995. Tom was a restaurateur, wine enthusiast and the ultimate host. He was an absolute sports fanatic. Tom loved his family, friends and pets fiercely.

A Visitation/Rosary will begin at 11:00am followed by Mass of Christian Burial at 11:30am on Saturday, December 14, 2024 at St. Peter's Catholic Church, 815 E Meyer Blvd, Kansas City, MO, 64131. Celebration of Life, immediately following at Oakwood Country Club, 9800 Grandview Road, Kansas City, MO, 64137.

Memorials suggested to:

Creighton Prep: https://www.creightonprep.org

Curing Retinal Blindness Foundation Inc: https://www.crb1.org/

KC Pet Project: https://kcpetproject.org

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by Kansas City Star from Dec. 6 to Dec. 8, 2024.

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Alison 'Ali' O'Connor

December 12, 2024

I can't express how heavy my heart is for all of you...
Tom always seemed like a bright light... Kind hearted and always a smile on his face. Every childhood memory I have of him, he was smiling and laughing. In honor of Tom and the love he had for his pets, I have donated to the medical fund at the KC Pet Project. Much love to you all and his beautiful bride Jennifer.

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Memorial Events
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Dec

14

Rosary

11:00 a.m. - 11:30 a.m.

St. Peter's Catholic Church

815 E. Meyer Blvd., Kansas City, MO 64131

Dec

14

Service

11:30 a.m. - 12:30 p.m.

St. Peter's Catholic Church

815 E. Meyer Blvd., Kansas City, MO 64131

Dec

14

Celebration of Life

12:45 p.m.

Oakwood Country Club

9800 Grandview Rd, KCMO, MO 64137

Funeral services provided by:

Muehlebach Funeral Care - Kansas City

6800 Troost Avenue, Kansas City, MO 64131

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