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Thomas Van Zante Obituary
September 4, 1971 - October 28, 2020
Lenexa, Kansas - Thomas D. Van Zante, 49, of Lenexa, KS, passed away Wednesday, October 28, 2020 at his home. Tom's life will be celebrated in a private service due to the current Covid situation. However the service will be live streamed at 12 p.m. Monday, November 2. You may also watch it anytime from the Amos Family Funeral Home website.
Tom was born September 4,1971 to Chuck and Becky Van Zante at Grissom Air Force Base, Indiana. He attended Shawnee Mission North High School where he was involved in baseball, basketball, band and drumline. He continued his education at the University of Kansas where he earned a bachelor's degree in psychology with a minor in business. He was a member of the Delta Chi fraternity.
Tom enjoyed all kinds of music. He had fun introducing some of his out of town buddies to the
Kansas City Blues. Tom loved his hometown sports teams. He enjoyed watching the games on TV and in person. He could be caught wearing his favorite teams' t-shirt during their season. He got to attend some of the Royal's 2014 and 2015 championship games, and enjoyed watching the Chief's win the Super Bowl Championship this year.
Tom was a fantastic uncle to his nieces and nephews. He always tried to be present in their lives by making time to attend their birthdays, sporting events, and extra curricular activities. He was an amazing brother and son who put his family first in every life decision. He will be remembered for his sharp wit, great sense of humor, kind demeanor and a smile that could light up a room.
Tom is survived by his parents, Chuck and Becky Van Zante; two brothers, Ted (Laura) Van Zante; Andy (Amy) Van Zante; six nieces and nephews, Samantha, Blake, Vince, Ellie, Vivian, and Emmy. Tom is preceded in death by his maternal grandparents, Joe and Gerry Wilson, paternal grandparents, Carl and Margaret Van Zante; and by his longtime pet, Maddie. The family suggests memorial contributions be made to the University of Kansas Cancer Center, 2650 Shawnee Mission Parkway, Westwood, KS 66205; or Great Plains Society for the Prevention of Cruelty to Animals, 5428 Antioch Dr., Merriam, KS 66202. online condolences may be expressed at www.amosfamily.com
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Connie Woodard
November 14, 2020
Beaky, Chuck and family: Soo sorry to hear of Tomas death. Can’t imagine. I always enjoyed all the time spent with Thomas. Recall all the times he and Brad were together. My heart hurts for you. Hugs to u and all your family. Connie Jeanneret Woodard
Ike E Stranathan
November 5, 2020
When I was a young kid in middle and highschool, I always admired and looked up to Tom. He had the cool mustang convertible, the awesome Oakley sunglasses, and the first Sony CD player of any of my friends. He was also a really good musician, and he introduced me to the band Rush. I always like shooting the breeze with Tom. Like all the VanZante boys, he had a great sense of humor. He was a great neighbor too. His smile and great personality will be surely missed.
Phil & Barbara Harrington
October 30, 2020
We are sorry to hear about Tom. Our thoughts and prayers be with you and your family. God Bless.
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Dan Schmitz
October 30, 2020
I was friends with Tom in high school and as a young adult. Tom was very funny and I have fond memories of our outings together. My condolences to Chuck, Becky, Ted, and Andy.
DeeDee Gilbert
October 30, 2020
VanZante family- I am so sorry to hear about Tom. He was such a genuine person and so thoughtful. We had so much fun all those years ago. Sending you love and hugs during this time. DeeDee Johnson Gilbert
Gavin Dines
October 30, 2020
Tom was a great guy with an even better personality. He could light up a room without trying. He has always been one of the nicest people I have ever met. I only knew him through the golf course but I am positive he was the same kind hearted person everywhere else too. Tough to see such a great man pass like this. Thoughts and prayers to the family and everyone else that knew him
-your golf pal
Gavin
Brian Thurman
October 29, 2020
Thoughts and prayers to the entire Van Zante family during this difficult time.
Brian Thurman and family
Brian Thurman
October 29, 2020
Always enjoyed Tom and his friends hanging out with Ted and his friends. He will be truely missed. Thoughts with you all during this difficult time.
Brian Thurman and family
The Rushton family
October 29, 2020
We enjoyed Tom so much. He was a wonderful person and we so enjoyed his fun personality. He always had a smile on his face and always made you smile. He will be missed so much by everyone who knew him. Love and prayers to his family.
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