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Gary Gradinger
March 15, 2004
David ... I deeply regret being unable to attend the memorial service for your father March 10th. He certainly had a profound impact on my life and being president of the neighboring Phi Gam house in the mid-sixties I'm sure I had more than the "usual" chancellor-student relationship! The "bottles on the lawn" anecdote brought tears of laughter as I remember assuring your father (years after graduating) that no one would have suspected anyone BUT the neighbors. Indeed that was the least we could do to mitigate all the grief we caused your parents.
Speaking of grief ... more than the blaring stereos; the late night, post Wheel seranades; the Kappa relays; and other commotions, ad infinitum ... I believe the episode that most irritated your mother was a spring water balloon contest. It was a very mild Friday evening and you and a friend were distinctly enjoying a "height" and "water access" advantage. Nonetheless we neighbors did score a couple of good hits and your mother was furious. Obviously she was NOT planning a wardrope change before your evening out with the family!
All the best to you and your family. I will always cherish being a neighbor for those four years. They were pretty exciting times in Lawrence then and we were blessed to have had a chancellor with the genius of your father. His masterful leadership ability, fabulous wit and wonderful human demeanor have inspired me ever since. It is wonderful to hear those traits have clearly passed to succeeding generations!
At an alumni function a long, long time ago we talked about enjoying a couple of good cigars and reminiscing. I shall see that that moment comes to pass this evening!
With warmest regards, Gary Gradinger
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