Jay R. Lehman
July 15, 1956 - June 18, 2022
KENOSHA - Jay R. Lehman, age 65, of Kenosha, passed away on Saturday, June 18, 2022.
Jay was born in Fort Leonard Wood, MO, on July 15, 1956, one of four sons of Kenneth and Priscilla (nee: Helmbrecht) Lehman.
Jay attended St. Mary's Grade School, Lance Jr. High School, and was a 1974 graduate of Tremper High School where he was a member of the Varsity Swim Team and Varsity Golf Team. He attended UW- Whitewater and UW-Parkside, graduating with a degree in Education and did teach for a while.
He was a lifelong member of St. Mary's Catholic Church and really loved his St. Mary's family. He even resided within one block of the church, so he was within walking distance.
Jay loved camping, fishing and just being outdoors in nature in God's beautiful world. He was a member of the St. Mary's choir for 35 years. For 17 of those years, he helped in organizing the vacation get-away that he and his "choir family" would take each summer to Door County. Jay oversaw setting up the camp, cooking, and catching and cleaning up the fish. The back of his truck would be full of all his camping gear. Jay had a secret deep fry cooking recipe, and he made enough fish for all. After these dinners the choir would have an evening campfire/sing along. Other groups visiting the camp would enjoy listening to the choir sing songs all night long. Jay loved people and really enjoyed putting smiles on their faces.
He served his church as a weekly eucharistic adorer, loved to volunteer with the INNS program to help feed and shelter those less fortunate. He served as a religious education instructor in his early years. When the St. Mary's rectory was vacated, Jay resided in one of the small rooms where he monitored the building and helped with maintenance and chores. He will be remembered for his pure devotion to the Catholic faith.
Jay spent many summers as the head lifeguard/supervisor at Anderson Park Pool in Kenosha and used his great swimming ability to the fullest.
Jay's other occupations over his life included jobs where he could help other people who were less fortunate. He worked for many years at the Kenosha Youth Development Services (KYDS) as a social worker/group home leader/guidance counselor.
Jay also worked at Maxwells camera shop in Downtown Kenosha where he was able to hone his expertise in photography. He loved going to Yellowstone Park and especially Bryce Canyon where he took professional quality photos. Jay said he loved going to Yellowstone Park and being closer to God and his wonderful creations.
He also loved going up North to the Eagle River/Three Lakes area. He would stay with his older brother John in Three Lakes and with the Tom Palmer Family on Butternut Lake.
Jay will be sadly missed by his father, Kenneth J. Lehman of Pleasant Prairie; by his brother, John Vincent Lehman of Three Lakes, and James P. (Kathleen) Lehman DDS, of Libertyville; his nieces and nephews which include Patrick (Mindy) Lehman MD, Rebecca (Paul) Thibaudeau DDS, Kristen (Michael) Telwak and Lauren (Matt) Mesko, and 12 great-nieces and nephews.
He is further survived by uncle and aunt: Roger and Judy Lehman, of Greendale; cousins: Brett and Dawn Lehman, of Waterford, and Todd and Kristin Lehman, of Franklin.
In addition Jay will be greatly missed by many close friends including: Tom and Kristy Palmer and family, Ken and Pam Anderson, John and Cindy Freese, Brian Johnson, Jim Sorenson, Laurie and Bill Brown, Brenda and Peter Zekovic, Timmy and Nancy Trottier and family, Mike and Colleen Knapp, Kathy Perkins Collicki, and Karen Schilling Collicki; Jay also loved the family pets: Sammy, Cesar, Tiger, Reggie, Kato and Rocky.
Jay was preceded in death by his mother, Priscilla A. Lehman; and brother, Jeffrey David Lehman.
Jay was greatly loved by many, many people, too numerous to list them all.
A Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated on Wednesday, June 29, 2022, at 11:00 AM at St. Mary Catholic Church (corner of 73rd St. and 39th Ave.) A visitation will be held on Wednesday at the church from 10:00 A.M. until the time of the Mass. In lieu of flowers, memorial remembrances to St. Mary Catholic Church, 7307-40th Ave., Kenosha, WI 53142 would be appreciated by the Lehman family.
Draeger-Langendorf Funeral Home & Crematory
William J. Althaus-Associate
4600 County Line Road
Corner of KR &22nd Avenue)
262- 552-9000
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Thomas Van Caster
July 1, 2022
Jay was one of the good guys. May God bless you, family and Jay's friends in this time of sorrow.
jim heiring
June 28, 2022
Jimbo, just saw the obituary for Jay, so sorry, please except mine and Linda's condolences.
Gary Larson
June 27, 2022
Spent many good times with John, Jay out at the Lehman house and up in the Northwoods. I worked with Jay for a summer at the pool and there was never a bad day. My heart goes out to the Lehman family.
Steve Hawkins
June 24, 2022
Jay was my old swimming buddy since about 7 years old and a great freestyler. He always had that same great smile and never had a bad word for anyone. My deepest condolences to the Lehman family. RIP Jay . . . .
Patricia Peters
June 23, 2022
Having known Jay since he was a young boy, and seeing him grow up into such a fine man, my heart breaks along with his family's to learn of his passing. When he came to Florida every year it was a pleasure to have the opportunity to talk and laugh with him. I am so happy that I was in Kenosha this past October and got to see him along with his dad and brother, John. My prayers will include him and love and sympathy go out to his family.
Pat
.Mike Hopkins ....Bandera, Tx
June 23, 2022
Have know Jay since 6th grade. Super nice ,,, We spoke several times in later years across form Fire Dept. Where he helped people.. ....Condolences..miss Jeff also
Ann Rosmann and Class of 1974
June 23, 2022
Sending condolences to family. May the lifetime memories ease pain and sorrow you feel today.
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