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Ralph Ruffolo Obituary

Ralph J. Ruffolo, Sr.

1927 - 2018

Ralph J. Ruffolo, Sr., 90, of Kenosha, passed away from a life well lived Tuesday, Sept. 4, 2018. Ralph is survived by his wife, Shirley (Kollmann), of 71 years and 100 family members.

He was born on Nov. 11, 1927, the fifth of seven siblings of Louis and Bertha (Bedore) Ruffolo in Kenosha. He attended Kenosha schools and left high school to join the Air Force during World War II. In high school he met the love of his life, Shirley Kollmann. They married in Feb. 1947, and began a family that grew to eight children.

Their eight children gave them 25 grandchildren and those grandchildren gave them 40 great-grandchildren. There are now 65 direct descendants and with spouses this creates a family of 102 including the two children expected next Feb. More than anything Ralph enjoyed the large loving family he and Shirley created together. Ralph and Shirley believed the way to build a strong loving family was to be present in their lives.

When Ralph returned from World War II he worked alongside his brother, Louis, at Triangle Appliance until 1995. He finished his career at Star Furniture years later. Ralph's expertise in sales earned him the privilege to travel to many foreign ports with Shirley. For 54 years, Ralph was very active in the Kiwanis Club of Western Kenosha, a past president, Man of the Year and a founder of CohoRama. He served as a Chairman of the Kenosha Area Chamber of Commerce, the Kenosha Expo and was active with the Retail Council for many years. He also served as Chairman of the Kenosha Crime Stoppers, Kenosha Achievement Center Golf Outing, Kenosha Band Boosters and a board member of Kenosha Area Tourism. He was a volunteer with Meals on Wheels and St. Elizabeth Church. He was an avid fisherman and loved to golf. As a tribute to his father, who taught him at a very young age how to plant and care for a garden, he continued to maintain his lawn, flowers, and garden with pride until the end.

Ralph is survived by his wife, Shirley, his children, Betty (Larry) Misner of Fort Wayne, Ind., Barb (Mike) Grotheim of Rotunda, Fla., Ralph Jr. (Mary) of Kenosha, Jim (Lisa) of Manitowoc, Wis., Judy (Bob) Busche of Kenosha, Sherri (Duane) Stipek of Kenosha, Peggy (Andy) Burke of Kenosha and Gina (Keith) Hotchkiss of Kenosha. He was preceded in death by his parents and siblings: Louis Ruffolo, Marjorie Roth, Virginia Hunter, Merle Stielow, Frank Ruffolo and Joanne West.

A greeting time with the family will be held on Friday, Sept. 7, at Proko Funeral Home from 5 p.m. until 7 p.m. and will continue on Saturday, Sept. 8, at St. Elizabeth Catholic Church from 9 a.m. until the time of the mass at 11 a.m. A private burial will be held at a later date. In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions can be made in Ralph's name to The Shalom Center of Interfaith or The United Way of Kenosha for the Building Our Future program and St. Elizabeth Church



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Published by Kenosha News on Sep. 6, 2018.

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September 10, 2018

Nice to have met you at our Kiwanis meetings. It was a great pleasure. Thank You for that. Juan J. Torres

Jim Pierce

September 10, 2018

Shirley and family, I was very sorry to read that Ralph had passed away. Even though I moved from Kenosha 30+ years ago, I remember the enthusiasm and leadership that Ralph brought to Kiwanis and Cohorama over the years. He was an outstanding Kiwanian and will be missed by his many friends. Rest in Peace Ralph.

Sandi Kwicinski

September 8, 2018

Prayers and condolences.

Reginald Davenport

September 6, 2018

Thank you for your Service (Aim High!)

Sally Hunter

September 6, 2018

Dear Uncle Ralphy, you are reunited with your siblings in heaven and in the hands of God now. May you feel peace and love through eternity.

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