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Dana Tackett
March 26, 2020
When Jake and I were both teaching at BCTC, I would go into his office - first reading the funny cartoons posted all over his door! - and then we would have some wonderful conversations. At that time both of our kids were unhappy in the education system and we both felt there had to be a better way to learn. We talked a lot about different educational philosophies and together considered lots of options.
Jake to me was an independent thinker. He wasn't a contrarian but he never flinched from questioning the status quo. He served as a safe place to voice my concerns about education and I think we both felt stronger in making unconventional choices for our kids. Jake was a wonderful listener and thoughtful in his opinions. I will miss him forever. As I sit here I'm surprised just how much he is in my thoughts and how grateful I am to have known him. Dana Tackett
Michael Porter
March 25, 2020
Jake was the most weirdly normal person I encountered in grad schóol. He helped me get through the chaos with late night talks, evenings at High on Rose, and periodic motorcycle rides. I still use Jake terms like " tons of beer" and "earning groovy points", and noone knows what the hell I am talking about. Jake was a wonderful, warm, generous old soul. My heart goes out to his lovely family.
Gregory Doyle
March 25, 2020
Michelle Ireland
March 25, 2020
*From my FB post when I heard the news...
Wow! I am just floored at the news of Jake Gibbs' passing. What a smart wonderful and inspiring soul he was.
I went back to school at 28 years old (1997), with a 2 y/o daughter. It took 5+ years to get my A.A., then B.A. and I am UK class of 2003 in part because of Jake Gibbs.
I do not remember a lot about my LCC teachers, but Jake and his classes, I remember lots. He taught my Logic and US History classes 108 and 109. There was a day while in his class that the snow/weather was so bad hardly anyone showed up. He didn't want to proceed with the planned lecture because so many would miss out. The 5 or 6 of us that made it class, he asked if we could skip the lecture. We were free to go or we could circle our desks up and talk about politics, history or anything we wanted to talk about. As a 100 level class, that meant everyone was 18 y/o and I, a non-traditional student, was 28. He pulled everyone into the discussion and I still remember it as one of the most enlightened and enlightening conversations I have ever participated in. The way Jake explained the Vietnam era of history and politics plus current politics is what made me want to get into politics after graduation. Of course, that didn't pan out but that was my choice.
I've heard before that you go to college not only to learn the different subject matter but most importantly, what you learn is how to think, research, apply critical thinking skills and logic and learn to make your own informed decisions...all of this, I have Jake to thank for teaching me. My heart goes out to his wife and girls, what a guy!
Mark Kleckner
March 25, 2020
It was a pleasure to have known you and the community projects you have promoted will live on.
Georgia Bryant
March 25, 2020
Met Jake when my son Greg introduced him to Donald and I end of 70's. After that always in and out of our home.
David, Greg and Jake are together again.
Patrick McNeese
March 25, 2020
Anita,
Jake and I have had about the same approach to dressing up', in other words not so much'. So, I don't know if you will recall, but when he had to go interview for his teaching position you called me to ask if I had a suit Jake could borrow. We were about the same size. I had been playing piano at the Hyatt and had to wear a suit to the gig so I had gone to Goodwill and purchased a sturdy, blue two-piece which I am sure had belonged to a gangster in a past life. No bullet holes though. Anyway, you came by and picked it up, (I strongly recommended that you have it cleaned before the interview), and Jake got the job which he performed so well in for so long. It has been with some small amount pride (and laughter) that I have reflected how my 2nd hand, twenty-dollar suit had been instrumental in helping a great teacher get his lifelong gig. Peace to you and yours.
Carolyn Dennis
March 25, 2020
I will never ever forget standing with Jake, Anita's father and Theresa Hildebrand when the surgeon came out after Delia's brain tumor surgery. (1993, I believe. Anita had gone home after a very long day at the hospital to nurse baby Delaney.) The surgeon asked us to hold hands in a circle for a prayer, which he led. Although I don't think any of us was particularly religious, Jake was the first to grab our hands and bow his head as we stood in that circle with tears of gratitude flowing freely. Such a devoted dad who loved his girls so strongly and unabashedly! I always appreciated his politics & the many stories about what a great teacher he was, but his love of Delia and Delaney is what always touched my heart about him most.
Shannon Greer
March 25, 2020
I tried to write something cause I was inspired by his life. I hope it actually does any justice to the life of Jake.
There's this story of a man
He walked slow and humbly through the streets
Lived beyond being just a man
Loving this world and loving his blue jeans
His beard captured the wind
Crossing countries on a cycle
His family held his heart
And he taught them every book can be a bible
This man taught children how to be children
Taught adults to be adultier
Wanted us all to take things less seriously
Except in regards to what makes us happier.
He could twirl and leap with the youngest ones
Running wild through the dirt and grass
He could stand and argue with the distinguished ones
Any chance to fight for us he couldn't pass
He was an oak tree in a field of hay
And by trees he is remembered
Symbols to his life and to his strength
To his long lasting impact and protection he offered.
There's this story of a man
That lives beyond the years we knew him
In every soul we see walking
In every breeze that sways a trees limb.
There's this story of a man
Carried forward by time and others
Not merely as stories and anecdotes
But in every time we stand up for another
Rob Bolson
March 25, 2020
A good man who made a positive impact on so many others. His legacy shall live on. Thank you for your kindness, wisdom and compassion, Jake.
Justin Gabbard
March 25, 2020
Jake was my professor at LCC back in the late 90's early 2000's. The class was Logic. He sure made it interesting and got the most out of the class with his style of teaching. It was not an easy class, but an enjoyable class. His life outside of being a professor was selfless and kind. He was a great guy and charitable in many different areas. Jake was a genuine individual who will be truly missed.
Thomas Hunt
March 10, 2020
Jake and I met in grade school, played Little League together, hung together at Catholic High and sweated out the 1971 draft lottery, albeit in disparate college towns, together. He was a special friend. Talented "Hawaiian" guitar player, independent thinker, sneaky good student, and the source of many thrill-filled rides to Grafton Lake on the back of his first "bike", a Honda 90cc! Tons of good memories.
Visited him in KY in '81, saw him again in '08 in Troy. He came home to comfort another childhood friend suffering cancer. Anita, Delaney, Delia, your Jake will be sorely missed. My deepest condolences.
Debbie Dalton
March 8, 2020
I am so sorry to hear about Jake's death. I worked as an Academic Advisor at BCTC until my recent retirement. He was one of the professors, who students would often request as an instructor, because they had liked a previous class he had taught or because a friend had recommended his class. Whenever our paths would cross on Campus, Jake would always greet me with a smile and cheerful hello. I also know that he was very dedicated to his work as a council member. My thoughts are with his family during this sad time.
Janie Teter
March 7, 2020
Jake was my History teacher at LCC 20 years ago. We were the same age. I was returning to school in my 40's. I was terrified and he was wonderful to me. He encouraged me and made me feel hopeful. I saw him a few times over the years at Alfalfa's and he always remembered me. I never had another college professor show me such kindness. He will be missed.
Sylvia Kessler
March 6, 2020
Jake was a model for how we all should aspire to live our lives. I am grateful that I knew him. ❤
Glenn Medley
March 6, 2020
Nini,
I was shocked and saddened to hear of Jake's passing. My heart goes out to you, Delia, and Delaney
in this difficult time. My thoughts and prayers are with you all.
Glenn Medley
March 6, 2020
This news is overwhelming. Jake was a warm, unselfish, creative person -- I cannot imagine Lexington without him. My love to Anita and their daughters. How sad..
Pam Miller
Carolyn Mills Sears
March 5, 2020
Anita,
I was shocked and saddened to hear about Jake. I talked to him often at Woodward Heights Neighborhood Association meetings and always found him to be careful listener to my concerns. The council will miss him sorely. My condolences to you and your daughters.
Carolyn Sears
(formerly Health Department co-worker.)
Timothy Kuryla
March 5, 2020
To Jake's family, my condolences. He was a wonderful councilman and a great friend. I shall miss him.
Woodward Heights
Gayla Donnelly
March 5, 2020
I know many hearts are heavy today with the news of Jake's passing. He was a wonderful man. My sympathies to Anita, Delia and Delaney. Jake will be missed.
Linda Connolly
March 5, 2020
Stalwart neighborhood advocate and leader, local hero. We will miss you so much .
March 5, 2020
This man could paint history like no one I have ever known. He made learning so easy and interesting. I hated taking history classes until I met this man. Good memories. Thank you, Jake.
Jake with the Bell Court "walking school bus" in front of the Woodland Avenue fire station around 2000.
Amanda Reid
March 5, 2020
Maureen Cropper
March 5, 2020
My deepest sympathies; Jake will be missed! I had the honor to work with Jake when he was teaching at BCTC. He contributed so much to the world around him; he truly lived life to the fullest and was dedicated to helping others.
March 5, 2020
May your hearts soon be filled with wonderful memories of joyful times together as you celebrate a life well lived.
Laura Parrish
March 5, 2020
I was blessed to have had Jake for Euro History at LCC in the early 90's. As difficult as he was, I truly enjoyed everything about him; his knowledge, wisdom (to paraphrase him televisions were totally unnecessary!) . I looked forward to every class!
I ran into him at the High Street Y a few years back and I told him how much I appreciated his class and opening my eyes to so much! He talked about his family, his new local radio show/station he was really excited about. He stayed very much involved in local interests and his councilman duties!
An invaluable member of the community! He will truly be missed! Much love and prayers to his family!
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