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August 16, 2010
Sue and the Barnes Family
May the Lord comfort you and keep your hearts full .We will all miss him
Kraig McConnell
Jim Baumgartner
August 10, 2010
Dear Barnes family: Many years ago I went to h.s. with Sam and considered him a valuable friend. Am deeply saddened. My prayers are with you.
Cleo Hilliard
August 2, 2010
Dear Sam & The Barnes Family,
May God Bless, Comfort, and Keep your hearts at this time of sorrow~
Praying in Sincerity for you,
Jack & Sandee Ralston
July 30, 2010
Dear Sue, we are shocked and saddened to hear of Sam's passing. It just doesn't seem possible. We have great memories of that wonderful guy. Know that you and the boys are in our thoughts and prayers. Our love to you.
Matthew Mahone
July 28, 2010
Dear Mrs. Barnes and family,
It's no question that Mr. Barnes was one of the kindest and most generous individuals that I have know in my life. Although I didn't work with him directly or know him as deeply as you and your family does, I must say that in the 6 great years I worked with 5/3 Bank he never forgot a name and a face. I remember his great smile, heartly laugh and strong handshake. He was truly a larger than life individual and will be missed by all who have known him.
July 27, 2010
Dear Sue, family and Fifth Third employees. I am saddend by the sudden passing of Sam. I am and will be forever grateful to Sam for asking me to serve as a board member for the bank. Through his leadership, Sam enabled me and my family to reach many of our goals, and you all will be in my thoughts and prayers. Phil Wilkins Lexington, KY.
Connie Germuska
July 26, 2010
Dear Sue and family, My heart aches for you in this time of great sadness. I remember Sam so fondly - a great dad, a wonderful neighbor many years ago. I read of all his achievements and feel such sadness at this great loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Riki Whitlock
July 26, 2010
May God bless you in this time of deep sorrow. My heart goes out to you and your family. Mr. Barnes was a wonderful person and will be greatly missed. It was an honor to know him and work with him. God Bless you and your family.
Roni Karbach
July 24, 2010
Mr. Barnes was a wonderful leader for the Lexington community and the Fifth Third community. I am so proud to say that I had an opportunity to learn and grow with Fifth Third under his leadership. My heart goes out to Mrs. Barnes and family. Rest in Peace Sam.
July 24, 2010
I AM TRULY SADDENED BY THE LOSS OF SAM. I HAD THE PLEASURE OF WORKING WITH HIM ON MANY UNITED WAY PROJECTS.HIS GENEROSITY AND WISDOM WILL BE MISSED.HE WAS A KIND AND GRACIOUS PERSON. HIS PASSING IS A GREAT LOSS TO THE ENTIRE BLUEGRASS. PLEASE ACCEPT MY HEARTFELT SYMPATHY TO SUE AND THE FAMILY. TERESA M. DEATON
Teresa
July 23, 2010
God Bless the Barnes Family.
Jim Staley
July 23, 2010
Sam was a kind and understanding man, a true gentleman who set a fine example for us all. The Barnes family has my deepest condolences. God bless you all.
Mary Smith
July 23, 2010
While working with Sam, he and Sue became dear friends and were there for me and my family during a terrible family loss. Sam's kindness, compassion and goodness will truly be his reward. Our deepness thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Margaret Goatley
July 22, 2010
We recently met Sam and Sue Barnes as they hosted a wonderful Westminster College alumni event in their home in June. They were extremely gracious to the "Road Crew" students, the alumni, and friends of the college. Our hearts go out to his family. The Westminster family has lost a warm and genuine friend and an alumnus who truly embodies the college's aim to educate "leaders of character".
Dan and Angela Poposki
July 22, 2010
One of the most amazing and kind people I have ever had the privilege of knowing. Sam's legacy and wonderful spirit will live on in our hearts, our community and within Fifth Third Bank. Sam was an amazing leader, motivator and inspiration to all that came to know him.
You are and will be dearly and sorely missed, Mr. Barnes.
Our thoughts and prayers are with Sue and the Barnes family.
Jacqueline Hogan
July 22, 2010
If there is one word that describes Sam, it is "gentleman." His genuine kindness and caring for others is well known. His leadership and friendship will be missed. My deepest sympathies to Sue, the Barnes family, and my former co-workers at Fifth Third.
Bill Farmer and United Way of the Bluegrass staff
July 22, 2010
Sue and family,
We are so sorry for your loss. Please know you are in our thoughts. Sam was a great friend and inspiration to United Way and this community. His wisdom, generous nature and leadership will be his legacy. We share in your grief and send our love.
Jesse & Stephanie Morris
July 22, 2010
We are sending our deepest sympathy to the Barnes Family. Sam Barnes was a very wonderful person. Our hearts and prayers go out to you and the children. He was a leader for many causes as he consistently demonstrated a level of support to this community. Words cannot fully express our grief at this time. We have known Mr. Barnes since 2002. We will always remember him for the way he personally blessed our lives.
Mary Broach
July 22, 2010
Sue and family,
I and my colleagues at the American Cancer Society are immeasurably saddened by the loss of Sam. He was instrumental in buildng our Hope Lodge in Lexington, just one of his many projects. We are forever grateful that he passed through our lives and made them better. He not only left a legacy of making Lexington a better community but has made it a model for others.
You and your family are in our hearts and prayers.
Winston Faircloth
July 22, 2010
From the moment they moved to Lexington, Sam and Sue Barnes dedicated themselves in a variety of important community causes. I was blessed to work along side Sam as chair of the United Way campaign in the mid 1990's. His energy and devotion to our community was a true inspiration to me and many others. One of the best ways we can honor his legacy is to get deeply involved in our community as he did so often. Thank you Sam for your devotion to our community.
Carol Jones-Bates
July 22, 2010
July 21, 2010
My thoughts and prayers goes out to the Barnes family and to 5/3 Bank employees. Just know that others in the community are here to help you and are experiencing the same loss as you.
Jennifer Dershem
July 22, 2010
My prayers are with Sue and the rest of the Barnes family. Sam was a very special man and will be dearly missed.
Greg Mullins
July 22, 2010
I am so grateful to have had the opportunity to know this wonderful man. Sam, you have no idea what your influence has meant in my life. You believed in me often times when I did not believe in myself and for that I thank you. I am a better man for having known you. My thoughts and prayers are with Sue and his family.
Madonna & Craig Turner
July 22, 2010
Dear Sue and family,
We are devasted to hear of your loss and will keep your family in our prayers. Sam Barnes left an amazing legacy and will be sorely missed in our community and in others where he lived and worked. Sam treated everyone with kindness and respect. His trademark smile could light up the room and when he spoke, everyone listened because his words were carefully chosen, genuine and thoughtful. He cared deeply for his family, friends, coworkers and even for people he did not know. It was an honor to serve with him in our community and to be his friend. This week, the angels in heaven have received a precious gift.
April Howard
July 21, 2010
Sam, Your Fifth Third Family is going to miss you. This is not good-bye, it is until we meet again. We have your family covered in prayers and we will keep your legacy moving forward.
sam shrivastava
July 21, 2010
Very saddened to hear the news. He was a true gentleman. Sympathies and prayers for the family.
Billie Dollins
July 21, 2010
My heart goes out to my friends and former colleagues at Fifth Third. Sam was a compassionate leader and mentor to us all. My thoughts and prayers are with Sue and his family.
His legacy and spirit will forever be remembered and cherished in our community.
George Hearn
July 21, 2010
I am sorry to hear of Mr. Barnes untimely death. It was Lexington's good fortune to have him involved with us during my years as president of the United Way. I am sure he will be missed by many.
Carol Kendra (Zazo)
July 21, 2010
I was deeply saddened to learn of Sam's death. Although it has been nearly eleven years since I worked for Sam, his influences regarding serving the community still impact my life and work to this day. My deepest sympathies to Sam's family and the Lexington community.
Richard & Michele Katz
July 21, 2010
To Sam and Diane as well as the entire Barnes Family and friends. Michele and I wish to convey our most sincere and heartfelt condolences to you for your loss.
You are in our thoughts and prayers.
Michele and Richard Katz
Barrie Spang and Bill Spang
July 21, 2010
Sue, Sam, Brian, and family- We are devasted by the news of Sam's sudden death. Please know you are in our every thoughts and prayers. Sam was the most kind, honest, and caring man. May you all be comforted by your wonderful memories together.
Love to you all!
Chad and Jenalee Lashbrook
July 21, 2010
This community has lost a great man who will be deeply missed. Our thoughts and prayers are with Sue and the family.
Susan Andriot
July 21, 2010
Sue, what a horrible tragedy. My heart goes out to you and your sons. You will be in my thoughts and prayers.

A picture from a wonderful weekend in Lexington
Bill and Barrie Spang
July 21, 2010
Sue, Sam, and Brian- We are devasted by the news of Sam's death. Please know that you are in our every thought and prayer at this most difficult time. Sam was the most kind, honest, and caring man. May you be comforted by your wonderful memories of him.
Love to all of you.
Bob Hatfield
July 21, 2010
After 15 years of friendship I will surely miss our conversations about just about everything. Sam was a true gentleman and will be missed by all. MY prayers and thoughts are with the family and friends during this time of great loss.
Connie Evans
July 21, 2010
My prayers and thoughts are with Sue and her family; I admired Mr. Sam and all that he did for the Lexington community and for his beloved 5/3. He will be remembered as a gentleman, a benefactor, a gracious person, and a wonderful leader. He will be sorely missed.
Jack Brown
July 21, 2010
Absolute class act and nothing less when it came to Sam Barnes......His kindess and generosity to making Lexington a better place for everyone will continue to effect generations to come. God Speed Mr. Barnes. Prayers go out to all of his family and 5/3 colleagues.
Mathew Hulberg
July 21, 2010
My thoughts and prayers go out to the Barnes family. This is truely a sad day for Central Kentucky.
Sandy Canon
July 21, 2010
I've known Sam Barnes for many years. I really got to know him when he stepped up with Bill Lear and led the business roundtable on Erasing Racism, a joint endeavor with the National Conference for Community and Justice and the Kentucky League of Cities.
My recent relationship had to do with the building of the Fifth Third Pavilion that now houses the Lexington Farmers Market on Saturdays. As a LFM vendor, this gift to the city has done more to build community than anything else.
We will miss you so much, Sam....
Tasha
July 21, 2010
My prayers go out to the Barnes family.
Connie Moore
July 21, 2010
Sam Barnes was a genuinely good and kind man. I worked in the bank building a few years ago and during the flood in Cynthiana he personally checked on my family while he was there helping with rescue and relief efforts. It was an unsolicited act of kindness and a good example of the Mr. Barnes' thoughfulness and caring. He was always very friendly and approachable with a warm, quiet smile. He was truly an asset to his community.
Amy McClain
July 21, 2010
Sam will be missed. My prayers for comfort go out to his family.
Amy Carrington
July 21, 2010
What a blessing Sam was for all who knew him. May God be with you and help you cling to the happy memories.
Jeff Koonce
July 21, 2010
Our thoughts and prayers go out to the family. The community has lost a committed and respected leader who will be greatly missed.
Ed Owens
July 21, 2010
Sam was a wonderful man, a great leader of people, and a personal mentor of mine. I will truly miss the geniune laugh and smile of a man who, in everything he did, realized he was but a humble servant of God. I pray for peace and comfort for the family.
Shawntee Brown
July 21, 2010
As a Fifth Third employee I am deeply sorry for your loss. My heart goes out to you your family.
Karen LaBach
July 21, 2010
May God bless his family in this tough time. The loss of Sam will be felt throughout the Bluegrass and we are all losing such a fine community supporter. What a Champ he was--in all areas of his life!
Chuck and Millie Lees
July 20, 2010
May God bless you with comfort and precious memories. Your loss has brought us all great sadness.
Doug Grieme
July 20, 2010
My thoughts and prayers go out to his family, he was a great boss and a even better man. The city of Lexington will truly miss him.
Michelle Almquist
July 20, 2010
May god bless your family and keep them during this hard time.
Jon Caldwell
July 20, 2010
Sam was a genuine person who cared deeply about his family, community and employees. He leaves a tremendous legacy, and will be missed. My family's prayers go out to Sue and the Barnes family.
Ted & Lynn Tsiboukas
July 20, 2010
Sam will be truly missed. He was a great Mentor and Leader in the Central Kentucky community. Our thoughts and prayers are with Sue and the Barnes family. God Bless.
Peeples
July 20, 2010
Sue,
Our hearts and prayers go out to you and the children. Sam will be greatly missed. He was a champion for many causes as he consistently demonstrated a level of committment to our community. Words cannot fully express our grief at this time. We will always remember him.
Your Friends,
PG and Wilma
Terri
July 20, 2010
What a pillar of the central Kentucky community we've lost. Sam Barnes had a quiet strength, a humble generosity and left a very big footprint. I am so sorry for the Barnes family.
Jayson Fields
July 20, 2010
Mrs Barnes,
We met under the worst of circumstances today, and I am so sorry for your loss. Even though we did not know you prior, you and your family have been on our minds all day. It is great to know that you have so many concerned about you. Our prayers go out to you. God bless.
Jerry Potter
July 20, 2010
I was fortunate to have worked with Sam at Barclays in Cleveland and am deeply saddened to learn of his passing. Nikki and I extend our heartfelt sympathy to Sue and the Family.
July 20, 2010
I was fortunate to have worked with Sam at Barclays in Cleveland, and am deeply saddened with the new of his passing. Nikki and I send our heartfelt sympathy to his wife and the Family. Jerry Potter, Anchorage, KY
Sandra Stanley
July 20, 2010
My condolences to Sue and to the Barnes Family. He was a good man.
johnny merritt
July 20, 2010
what a loss.. what a good man, wonderful sense of humor from the dunking tank in his 3 piece suit to helping me with all my banking i will miss you god bless you sam
Lisa Rexroat-Steele
July 20, 2010
Today I have lost a mentor and a dear friend. Sam touched the lives of many people and will be dearly missed. My thoughts and prayers go out to the Barnes family.
Mathilda Young
July 20, 2010
Although I didn't know Mr. Barnes, personally, I work in the 5/3 building and have seen him for 15 years in the hallways. He always smiled and spoke to anyone he saw and was very genuine. I will keep his family in my prayers.
Jack Osman
July 20, 2010
My sympathy to the Barnes Family.
July 20, 2010
A good and kind man. I was glad to be your friend.
Jeff Thompson
John Pelizzari
July 20, 2010
I worked with Sam for approximately 10 years as a fellow Fifth Third bank president. He was truly a great person and one of the very good guys. I wish nothing but the best for his family. I know he was a terrific husband, father and grand father.
Lisa Deffendall
July 20, 2010
Lexington has lost a true friend with the passing of Sam Barnes. His support for the community and our school district was unwavering. He cared about kids and understood that by investing in them we would all share in a brighter future. Prayers go out to his family and the Fifth-Third community.
Alan Ray
July 20, 2010
We have lost a true gentleman. My prayers and condolences to his family and friends.
Beverly Hagan
July 20, 2010
My heart is broken. Sam and Sue were very dear to my heart. Terry and I are saddened to hear of Sam's passing, and send our thoughts and prayers to Sue and her family.
Rev. D. Anthony Everett
July 20, 2010
I am saddened to read the news of Mr. Barnes drowning. I have interacted with him on different occasions at community events. He was a generous yet humble man. I appreciated his spirit.
My prayers are with his widow, family, and employees during this time of sorrow.
Lynn Messer
July 20, 2010
I am deeply distressed at the loss of this wonderful man. He was always so good to us at The Lafayette Club. He will be missed.
Bobbye Ayres
July 20, 2010
My sympathy to the Barnes family. What a terrible loss for our community.
Keith Dershem
July 20, 2010
Sam was a great boss, mentor and friend. I will miss him dearly.
Bob Heiple
July 20, 2010
HE WAS A HONORABLE AND MORAL MAN.
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