Search by Name

Search by Name

Darrel D. Ashlock

Darrel D. Ashlock obituary, Saint Joseph, MO

FUNERAL HOME

Heaton-Bowman-Smith & Sidenfaden Chapel - Saint Joseph

3609 Frederick

Saint Joseph, Missouri

UPCOMING SERVICE

Celebration Of Life

Nov. 15, 2025

1:00 p.m.

Community of Christ ALC Church

Send Flowers

Darrel Ashlock Obituary

Darrel D. Ashlock, 77 of St. Joseph, MO, passed away November 2, 2025. Darrel was born October 4, 1948 to Sherman and Elizabeth Ashlock.

He graduated from Central High School in 1966 then served his country honorably in the US Navy during the Vietnam War in the Mobile Riverine Force. He graduated from Missouri Western in 1975 and received a Master of Science from Central Missouri State University.

Darrel attended the Law Enforcement Academy, was a member of the drug strike force. He ran the crime victims unit for the Prosecuting Attorney's office in St. Joseph, MO, under Mike Insco and Dwight Scroggins.

He worked for the parole board in Jefferson City, MO, and retired as Director of Harbor of Hope- a home for troubled children of trauma, at the Lake of the Ozarks.

He was member and Elder of Community of Christ Church and was a volunteer guide for the Community of Christ Temple in Independence, MO. Darrel worked for President Bill Clinton setting up Governor's fund for low-income youth jobs program. He was an avid photographer and loved fishing, traveling, and spending time with family.

Survivors include his wife Marsha; two children, Tara Colman (John), Jeremey Franke; four grandchildren, Andrew Brant (Samantha), Kendall Franke, Kinsley Franke, and Kaitlyn Franke; two great-grandchildren, Adalee Brant and Cambryn Brant; sister Bonnie Ashlock Canchola (Greg); brother-in-law Mike Flowers (Angie); nieces, nephews, and friends.

Preceding him in death were his parents and a brother Eddie Sharp.

Celebration of Life services will be Saturday, November 15, 2025, 1:00 pm at Community of Christ ALC Church, 5301 Faraon Street, St. Joseph, MO.

The family requests no flowers. Please make a donation to a charity in Darrel's name.

Arrangements under the direction of Heaton-Bowman-Smith & Sidenfaden Chapel.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Obituary published on Legacy.com by KQ2 on Nov. 4, 2025.

Memorial Events
for Darrel Ashlock

Nov

15

Celebration of Life

1:00 p.m.

Community of Christ ALC Church

5301 Faraon Street, St. Joseph, MO 64506

Funeral services provided by:

Heaton-Bowman-Smith & Sidenfaden Chapel - Saint Joseph

3609 Frederick, Saint Joseph, MO 64506

Memories and Condolences
for Darrel Ashlock

Not sure what to say?





6 Entries

JoAnn Whittington

Yesterday

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

Karen Whitting

Yesterday

May the love of friends and family carry you through your grief.
I was so sorry to hear of Darrel’s passing. We have known each other for a long time and have many happy memories to share! Please let me know if I can do anything to make this any easier for you!
I will be saying prayers for you and your family!
With Gods love to you and your family!

Michael Harris

November 5, 2025

Darrel served honorably with our Mobile Riverine Force in Vietnam. It is so sad to hear of his sudden passing. Please accept our condolences and do keep the "Good Times" on the forefront as we are sure there were many. We placed Darrel in our TAPs section on our mrfa.org website under "Fallen Brothers". Rest in peace until the Resurrection Friend and Brother!

Dick Godsey

November 5, 2025

So old friend, called home first. For 30 years you provided the other half of the laughter. Born 10 days apart we celebrated our birthdays together for decades. Once an old woman hobbled over and said "Your laughter intertwines in the air, it is the sound of joy." Of all the places we laughed, somehow the mid Missouri River valley in autumn lingers. Old friend, brother, get us a table with a view on an October patio. Go ahead and order a good bottle of Norton. I´m a slow old man these days but I am headed your way.

Gale Caples

November 4, 2025

So very sorry for your loss . Thoughts + prayers for the family

Larry & Carol Eslinger

November 4, 2025

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

Showing 1 - 6 of 6 results

Make a Donation
in Darrel Ashlock's name

How to support Darrel's loved ones
Attending a Funeral: What to Know

You have funeral questions, we have answers.

Read more
Should I Send Sympathy Flowers?

What kind of arrangement is appropriate, where should you send it, and when should you send an alternative?

Read more
What Should I Write in a Sympathy Card?

We'll help you find the right words to comfort your family member or loved one during this difficult time.

Read more
Poems of Mourning and Comfort

The best poems for funerals, memorial services., and cards.

Read more
Resources to help you cope with loss
How to Cope With Grief

Information and advice to help you cope with the death of someone important to you.

Read more
Estate Settlement Guide

If you’re in charge of handling the affairs for a recently deceased loved one, this guide offers a helpful checklist.

Read more
How to Write an Obituary

Need help writing an obituary? Here's a step-by-step guide...

Read more
Obituaries, grief & privacy: Legacy’s news editor on NPR podcast

Legacy's Linnea Crowther discusses how families talk about causes of death in the obituaries they write.

Read more
Ways to honor Darrel Ashlock's life and legacy
Obituary Examples

You may find these well-written obituary examples helpful as you write about your own family.

Read more
How to Write an Obituary

Need help writing an obituary? Here's a step-by-step guide...

Read more
Obituary Templates – Customizable Examples and Samples

These free blank templates make writing an obituary faster and easier.

Read more
How Do I Write a Eulogy?

Some basic help and starters when you have to write a tribute to someone you love.

Read more