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Heaton-Bowman-Smith & Sidenfaden Chapel - Saint Joseph

3609 Frederick

Saint Joseph, Missouri

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Celebration Of Life

Aug. 31, 2025

11:00 a.m. - 3:00 p.m.

Self Expression

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Sondra Boucher Obituary

Sondra Sue Boucher (Barnett), 85, of St. Joseph, Missouri, passed away peacefully at home on August 16, 2025. She was born on November 15, 1939, in St. Joseph to Lloyd and Leva Barnett and graduated from Central High School in 1957. On June 19, 1957, she married the love of her life, Donald Lee Boucher, and together they built a life centered on family. Sondra had a gift for music and shared her beautiful voice by performing at the Frog Hop Ballroom and other local venues. She was also a talented bowler. At heart, Sondra was a homemaker who found joy in caring for children, tending to animals, and creating a warm and loving home. She especially cherished time spent with her grandchildren, often playing games and making lasting memories with them. She will be deeply missed by her family and friends. She was preceded in death by her parents, Lloyd and Leva Barnett; her husband, Donald Boucher; and her sister Mary Maxwell. Sondra is survived by her children: Deborah Messa (Rick), Mardell Barber, and Douglas Boucher (Sarah): grandchildren Sierra Haddix (Shawn), Tyrus Messa, Brandon Barber (Emily), Colten Barber, Oliver Messa (Jesse), Anna Beal (Sean), Gabrielle Boucher, and Jennifer Boucher; and four great-grandchildren. A Celebration of Life will be held on Sunday, August 31, from 11:00 a.m. to 3:00 p.m. at Self Expression, 1011 South Belt Highway, St. Joseph, MO. Arrangements by Heaton-Bowman-Smith & Sidenfaden Chapel.

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Published by KQ2 on Aug. 19, 2025.

Memorial Events
for Sondra Boucher

Aug

31

Celebration of Life

11:00 a.m. - 3:00 p.m.

Self Expression

1011 South Belt Highway, St. Joseph, MO 64507

Funeral services provided by:

Heaton-Bowman-Smith & Sidenfaden Chapel - Saint Joseph

3609 Frederick, Saint Joseph, MO 64506

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Marilyn Nordstrom

Earlier today

Debbie, Mardell, Doug and families,
You are in our thoughts and prayers during this most difficult time. Your Mom was a very special lady and a dear friend. We go back a lot of years, from spending time together on bleachers for ball games, water aerobics, cards, lunches and just long chats. She will be truly missed by all that knew her. You all have special memories that will always keep her close to your heart. ❤
Our Deepest Sympathy,
Marilyn, Lisa, James and Tim

Lana Compton

Yesterday

I have lived next door to Sondra for several years. She was a wonderful lady. ❤

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