Menu
Search by Name
Search by Name
BERNICE ROBINSON FETTINGER Obituary
To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.
Memories and Condolences
for BERNICE ROBINSON FETTINGER
Sponsored by Her Loving Children.
JoAnn Robinson
February 2, 2025
Hi Mom! Happy 92nd Birthday! Well that stupid little ground hog is gonna be wrong again seeing his shadow and predicting 6 more weeks of winter-it was 77 today going up to 81 with the Tucson sun shining bright! I guess I should be happy since Justine and her family in Michigan have had tons of freezing weather and snow! We finally put away all our holiday decor, outdoors and in, this weekend-not because we were lazy or busy but really really sick all January with this respiratory virus going around! It´s so nice being able to talk with you still; I miss our conversations-you were always so positive and complementary! I love you and miss you so much...we´ll talk again soon, love Jo
JoAnn Robinson
February 2, 2024
Happy Birthday Mom! I haven´t checked yet to see what prediction that ground hog has made, but here in Tucson it´s chilly & raining and we´ll take it since in a few month it´ll be 100! I miss you often especially when I have a craving for one of your delicious home cooked meals, that I try to create but never tastes the same... like today I think I´ll pick up a coconut cream pie and be wishing I could share it with you and Jerry since that´s a unique taste...enjoy your day and kiss the family for me, luv Jo
JoAnn Ribinson
November 21, 2022
Hi Mom, 12 years since you left us-it´s almost Thanksgiving and I have some fun "Turkey Day" memories of you... remember when we went camping and we made whipped cream for our pumpkin pie the old fashioned way w/an egg beater and whipping cream? My first traditional Thanksgiving dinners were at the Robinson house-my mom always made lasagna for the holidays! And I remember when you and Wil visited us in Tucson but I still got up bright and early on Black Friday to buy our first flat screen tv! This year Jen and I are cooking the Turkey w/Jamie & Jackson joining us. We sure do miss all of you but we try to keep old family traditions going...give big hugs to the Robinson & Ventimiglia families for us! Luv, Jo
JoAnn Robinson
February 2, 2022
Happy Birthday Mom! And of course the groundhog says 6 more weeks of winter (and then some!) The whole country has been having crazy cold weather; we´re even expecting a hard freeze tonight here in Tucson...Well I couldn´t find Dubuque canned ham so I had to make a Hormel one, low oven like you did, and Jacob (our picky eater) couldn´t stop eating it! So I´m sure Jerry will remind you I´m turning 70 in a few weeks but what Jen, Jacob and I are really excited about is attending DJ´s wedding next month-I haven´t seen my nephews since they were teenagers and now they´re all married w/kids! We can´t wait so be sure to tell Sue I´ll hug & kiss every one of them! Miss you every day, Luv Jo
JoAnn Robinson
February 3, 2021
Hey Mom, hope you had a great birthday celebration yesterday with Dad, Sue, Jerry and Carlos Robert, my mom & dad, Wil... I spent a gorgeous morning in Tucson at Degrassi’s Gallery in the Sun, eating your favorite Denny’s breakfast: the Lumberjack Slam! Wow that’s mucho food (I’ll be eating it all week!) I then spent some quiet time in the chapel rereading some ageless and comforting stories from Chicken Soup for the Grandma’s Soul-I felt you were there with me! I miss you Mom and will never forget your love, support, and of course those timeless recipes of salmon pea wiggle, shepherd’s pie, Dubuque ham ( still doesn’t taste like your’s) Give my hubby a big hug and kiss and I’ll be waiting to hear you both serenade me on the 16th for my birthday...love, Jo
JoAnn Robinson
November 21, 2020
Gee whiz Mom, can’t believe you’ve been gone from us for 10 years! But you have Jerry & Susan amongst others from our family celebrating eternally with you...however you know my girls like to make every day special so we are listening to Kenny Rogers, while enjoying our Dubuque ham (yes I found one in Tucson) dinner-it was yummy but still not as good as when you made it! I’m sending you a photo of my new car, a Mustang Convertible! Shhhh, don’t tell Jerry; I’m going to surprise him on November 28 for our 50th anniversary! I love you Mom to the moon and back...Jo
February 2, 2020
Happy Birthday Mom, it's your old daughter-in-law having breakfast out in honor of you=a 3 meat omelette! You and my husband always loved those! Well you know you always share this day with the groundhog and today just happens to be Super Bowl Sunday=49'ers vs the Chiefs, blah blah who cares...I'd rather celebrate you today! Thank you for the perfect yummy scrambled eggs you always fixed for me, and for your Salmon Pea Wiggle recipe which all my girls love and even Cory too! Thank you for sharing Grandpa Will with all his silly jokes and your love for Johnny Cash and Kenny Rogers cause we sing their songs and think of you! But mostly I will alway be eternally grateful to you and Dad for having that first born son of your's to grace my life for over 50 years and teach me the true meaning of love... so many memories of my Robinson family to give me joy and keep me going...enjoy your day with the Lord and all the family in Heaven-I know it will be perfect! Love Jo
Jennifer Robinson
November 21, 2019
Thinking of you today. Lots of love to you.
Justine Delich
November 18, 2019
Hey Grams Just thought Id pop in and say Man I miss you Grandma I hope youre taking care of Dad up there because we sure do miss you guys down here. I know youve been watching over all of us and you see my lil family weve made but I sure do wish you could meet Connor, he is the joy in my world!! Hes growing way too quick and is always full of energy...which keeps us VERY busy, especially mama Jo, but she wouldnt have it any other way! Cory is home now for the holidays so were soaking in every moment we can! Sure wish you and dad were gonna be able to jpin us for the holidays...its going to be very different this year, not sure how well get through it but I promise Ill keep us all together and I know you will looking after us...love you Grams miss you a million
JoAnn Robinson
November 18, 2019
Hi Mom, you'll never guess where I am today...Chicago visiting Anne & family. I took the train, only a two hr ride, you always said I was adventurous! Without Jerry by my side every day I long to be with people we made memories with. The past few years in Mich., we would always sit and reminisce about all our family and friends, especially in the winter! Oh don't worry, the girls & grandsons keep me busy in a fun and endearing way-Jacob with his scouts and setting up holiday decorations (as soon as one holiday passes he's ready for another ) and Connor won't let you feed the chickens without him but will sit and listen to book after book...so sorry I haven't written this year-it has been an adjustment for all of us without our big guy. Wouldn't you know our anniversary falls on Thanksgiving this year but the girls are already planning the day. I remember when we got married, you had found this pretty mint green dress that was a little tight so you went to Weight Watchers and hated every minute-but you looked beautiful in that dress at the wedding! I miss you Mom all the time and you know what? When I get home I'm going to make Dubuque ham for dinner (yes the store down the block has it) but it won't taste as good as when you made it! Have a wonderful Thanksgiving with your son and all of our family ! Luv Jo
JoAnn Robinson
February 2, 2019
Happy Birthday Mom! Was that you who told the groundhog he'd better predict an early Spring?! Or did my husband, who I know has been laughing ever since he joined you up there in heaven, have a chat w/God to finally cut us some slack here in Michigan and raise the temperature! We've been in a frozen tundra down here for weeks-oh there he goes again chuckling but you'd better not join in...we didn't want to chance driving today to Denny's downtown since the roads are still icy but I did order a slice of coconut cream pie at our local coffee shop in your honor! Enjoy catching up w/Jerry-I'm sure he'll fill you in on how much he loved his life here in Michigan and tell him we are all okay and I'll be writing him soon...luv Jo
Mason walking around after his haircut
Rebecka Rodebaugh
December 2, 2018
Hi Gram,
I miss you so much!!! I wish I could hear your sweet voice I wish you were here to meet your great grandson Mason. He is beyond amazing! He just got his first haircut yesterday December 1,2018. He did really good! We only got it trimmed because he has massive curls I wonder where he got that from lol! He is walking everywhere now it's so crazy how fast he is growing up!! We finished Christmas shopping for him last night not unless we find something else lol! Man I miss you so much!! I would do anything to have a chance to hear your voice. Do you need me to go grocery shopping for you boy I would do that in a heartbeat for you if I could Mom and I watch Judge Mathis every once in a while and every time we do I think of you! I know I will see you again❤ I love you Gram!!!❤
P.S I'll upload a pic of Mason with his new haircut! It's not styled lol and of him walking around after his haircut. and I added a picture of our sun rise yesterday morning
November 28, 2018
Getting a little cold so I lit a candle for ya mom.
Love Ya!!
Ken
JoAnn Robinson
August 9, 2018
Hi Mom, the girls and I are just chilling on a warm summer Mich. day. Connor is asleep on his mommy's chest where he loves to nap and Jacob is taking a break from the pool where he finally decided to try going under water and loves it so much he'd stay in for hours (even though it never warms up in our shady forest of a backyard!) Jerry is outside forever working on Jens latest car which we just got a few months ago but seems to have a new problem right after the old one gets fixed...So what do you think of our new grandson Connor? He has brought joy to all our lives,even Jacob! Jacob can't wait to teach him about dinosaurs and NASCAR! You wouldn't recognize Jacob-he is so tall and lean and very grown up,going into the 3rd grade, still excelling @ Cub Scouts and excited to play soccer for the first time...We all are looking forward to a trip to Tucson next June for Jamie & Jackson's wedding! Hopefully our Calif. and Phoenix families will be able to join us there! I baked a carrot cake from scratch today-Jerry says I'm getting my Aunt Bea on, you know from the Andy Griffith show-I thought of you since you always loved my cooking! Wish you were here to share! Love Jo
Hook, Line & Sinker 2018
Jen Robinson
August 8, 2018
Fishing Buddies 2018
Jen Robinson
August 8, 2018
Cousin Love... Jacob & Connor
Jen Robinson
August 8, 2018
Ready to race...
Jen Robinson
August 8, 2018
First NASCAR Race 2018 Michigan Speedway
Jen Robinson
August 8, 2018
Summer 2018, Holland MI
Jen Robinson
August 8, 2018
JoAnn Robinson
February 2, 2018
Happy birthday Mom! Always remember your birthday since it is also another important day-Groundhog Day-and today we found out that he saw his shadow which means 6 more weeks of winter. That sounds about right for Mich. since it's snowing today and very cold! But the west has been in the 80's all winter...Justine and Cory and soon to be baby boy are doing fine. She's all baby belly and looks as beautiful as ever. We can hardly wait for our 2nd grandson to arrive in April. You'll be happy to hear Jerry and I have become avid crossword puzzle doers and just started on a massive jigsaw puzzle! Wish you were here to help us...For dessert tonight we are going to our local coffee shop the Copper Grill to have some coconut cream pie in honor of your birthday! Love Jo
Jennifer
February 2, 2018
Happy Birthday Grandma. Thinking of you today.
JoAnn Robinson Robinson
November 10, 2017
Hi Mom, it's your old daughter-in-law making sure you know the good news that Justine and Cory are expecting their first child next April! Justine is so cute-she tracts the baby's size each week and takes pictures. She is almost 17 wks and loves her little "bump." Of course all us experienced moms have told her by the end of her pregnancy she will be tired of a big tummy but right now she can hardly wait! Cory will be home when they go in for her 20 wk checkup (on her birthday) and she'll get an ultrasound then and will find out the sex! She is very healthy and is feeling good. I have been w/her when she heard the baby's heartbeat and it is STRONG! So you will be a great-grandma again...we haven't seen our great-nephew Mason yet but he is absolutely adorable in pictures! Please put in a good word w/the man upstairs to keep Justine and baby healthy. Love You, Jo
JoAnn Robinson
February 2, 2017
Happy Birthday Mom! Jerry and I went out to breakfast here in our cozy small town and Jerry ordered the meat lovers omelot (just like you would have) It is very cold today and snowing on and off. I don't remember if you liked the winters in Vermont but I do know you hated when the summers got hot in Calif. We got ourselves a 4-wheel drive big pick-up truck so we feel pretty safe on the roads and Jerry pretty much drives me everywhere, calls it "Driving Miss Daisy..." Tomorrow night we are having salmon pea wiggle at Justines with Jen and Jacob...who would have known that simple dish would be loved by all including Justine's hubby Cory and even our picky eater Jamie (we are still working on Jacob.) We love our yellow house and I'm keeping busy making it warm and comfy, kinda like a cabin/cottage...I hope the family will come visit when the weather gets nicer-Ken and Robyn loved the fishing and casinos when they were here with the kids for the wedding! Gotta go now cuz the basement is freezing and I have my own "Sanctuary" room down here I'm designing that has a portable heater! Besides when I'm in there hanging pictures and other saved cherished items, I feel close to all my loved ones who I know are watching over me...love you forever, Jo
Jen Robinson
February 2, 2017
Happy Birthday Grandma. Thinking of you all day... makes me smile. Love you Jen
Ken
January 21, 2017
Mom
We had to say goodbye to Robyn's dad yesterday as he passed on the 17th. I looked for you for guidance in how to get my family through this. I text Jerry as well. He replied a simple "Hang in there" it sounded like something you would have said and made me smile.
I want to thank you for the person I am today. I'm definitely not in regret for the life I lived but I am grateful to be still alive. Mom you let me grow on my own with only tripping me up when going in the wrong direction. Awesome job.
Miss you all the time. Love you always!!
JoAnn Robinson
August 13, 2016
Hi Mom, it has been over a month since I had my hip replacement surgery. My physical therapist thinks any pain in my hip should be gone if I am doing my exercises at home and Jerry found online to expect 6 months for a full recovery! So after sitting I start out walking slow usually w/my mom's cane...Our house is getting a bit more traffic than before. But we made our airline reservations and are staying at the same Comfort Inn as Kenny's family-we are both making it a week's vacation! Do you know how many times I want to call and ask you a question? Like the other day I made pancakes w/baking mix and they turned out like doughy Frisbees! Next time I'll use the flour recipe. Lov you and miss you-give dad and Wil a kiss from me, Jo
JoAnn Robinson
July 4, 2016
Happy July 4th Mom! Tell all your angel relatives & friends to be careful with those fireworks! Oh yeah you all don't have to worry because you're far, far away from you-know-who way down there! I get my hip-replacement surgery in a few days. For the past 6 months it's been hurting worse & worse so I can barely get around...So mention to our Lord up there that this is your daughter-in-law who's been praying nonstop...Luv Jo
JoAnn Robinson
May 8, 2016
Happy Mom's Day to a Mother-in Law who was always a mom to me! Now that my mom is up in heaven with you all, I think of both of you all the time...well our house went up for sale a few days ago and we've already had some people look at it-we are having an open house next weekend. I thought it would be inviting to make some grapefruit juice and some grapefruit bars from our tree that gives us 500 grapefruit twice a year, some as big as cantaloupe! (I'll also make some other cookies and sun tea for those who can't eat this tasty fruit.)In February we took a road trip to Calif. and Jen, Jacob, Ken, Karly, and Casey went to Universal Studios-the boys had so much fun together! Now that I have a little more free time I try to keep in touch with both families more. Becka and Dave came to see us-she has lost so much weight and cut her hair; she looks so cute! So I'll let you go for now because I'm sure there's one big celebration up in heaven for all the moms because without you all...there wouldn't be us! I love you to the moon and back, Jo
February 2, 2016
Happy birthday to you Mom! We are all having dinner at Denny's tonight and you know what? It's one of our favorite places to go have a bite, too! We have been keeping busy around here packing and cleaning and repairing. We have to sell both houses before we can move. But we are going to take a break at the end of Feb. when Jacob is off from school (good ole Rodeo Days) to drive to the valley and see some family and friends. Jacob wants to go to Universal Studios and La Brea Tar Pits-he's still so into dinosaurs! We'll go to the cemeteries like we always do and deliver flowers while saying hello to our loved ones. It will be hard to see my mom's name next to my dad's but I know she's where she is really home...But today we'll reminisce about you! Love Jo
Justine
February 2, 2016
Happy birthday to you Happy birthday to you Happy birthday dear Grandma Happy birthday to you❤❤ Every year without a doubt you always called each of us on our birthday and sang to us. I remember even sometimes purposefully letting you go to voicemail so that I could listen to you singing to me over and over! So today I'm singing for you Gram! I love you and miss you everyday!
Justine
Justine
January 17, 2016
Hey Gram was talking to Jennifer the other day and she inspired my to write to you...it seemed silly at first since I talk to you everyday one on one But as you know Grandma Ventimiglia passed away recently and it has brought out all of my emotions and I realize that I have not let go of any of you completely I still hear you singing Happy Birthday to me when I really listen and hear you cracking jokes at Grandpa Will☺ Now that all my grandparents are in the Lords Kingdom I just know you all are having time of your life and one day we will all have a Robinson Ventimiglia reunion together❤❤ Until then I know you will continue to be my watch over angel as I build our future with Cory and our family Thanks for always looking out for me Gram Love you over the moon
Justine
J Robinson
January 2, 2016
Hi Mom, I guess you know my mom's beautiful body finally gave out and who thought it'd be a stupid cancer tumor but she left us Dec 19 to be with my dad and all her family and you...don't worry she didn't suffer. A week before we were still going out to breakfast, gotta clean that plate of strawberry cream cheese plates-extra whip cream- with her hair done and make-up on...But finally that mean old tumor said it was his time. She died peacefully in her sleep-her hospice family all coming to say goodbye that last week. Jerry, Jen, Jamie and Jacob were all so helpful as she spent her last months in Hospice in our house. She was Jacob's best friends! Now all my "wise women of age" are up in heaven and can see my every move...but don't worry I have a wonderful support system three fabulous daughters, all my sister-in-laws whom I think of as sisters, and so many cousins and friends all scattered around the country. I know together we will comfort each other then laugh and cry over all the special memories we will share. Happy Holidays Mom! Please show GG-that's what Jacob called my mom his great grandma-he called you grandpa Will's grandma-all around those clouds! Lov Jo
KC
May 29, 2015
Nice words Jo! RIP Will
Love and Miss you Mom!
May 27, 2015
A message for everyone in the Robinson family who loved Wil, especially you Mom... I know Jerry, the girls and I will never forget this funny, charming, caring man you brought into our family. Justine & Jamie knew him as their Grandpa Wil while Jennifer appreciated how his humor balanced out some tough years in all our lives. I remember how comforting he was when Carlos Robert died and again at "Big" Carlos' funeral. He was there for me when my dad passed away... He knew I loved the Dodgers so one day back in '93 he gave me a Dodger Stadium 30 Year Anniversary jacket he had received. My memories of Wil are all sweet, uplifting, tender...one morning the girls & I were eating breakfast w/them when Wil just had to remark how he'd never had Italian sausage for breakfast-well Mom shot him a look that made all of us down those sausages like we ate them every morning! I remember one time Jen, Jacob & I took him to his favorite store, Walmart. While we were getting a cart for Jacob, Wil disappeared from the parking lot! Well he just had hurried into the store where he proceeded to pick up 3 shirts & a new belt! Yes ole Grandpa Wil was a looker, hair perfect, clean shaved, shoes polished. I think he was always ready to go out somewhere!That could be their favorite coffee shop, Denny's, or maybe Costco where he loved to try new products that he would pass on to us (like joint juice-yuck). Wil always tried to eat healthy- he's the only person I know who drank Slimfast as his beverage w/his meals! Well Mom, now he'll be driving you crazy again w/his corny jokes-I know you've missed them & him! Love to all, Jo
May 26, 2015
Hi Momma, Were you as surprised as I was to have Will with you? Bet you have missed his jokes, I know he will keep you full of laughter. I still miss you so much, still want to pick up the phone to call you. I love you!
They truly are angels in ours eyes
May 25, 2015
Richard & Patty Fettinger
May 25, 2015
Bernice has been greatly missed by our family, too! She was truly a wonderful, caring, and special person She had always treated our children like her own Grandchildren and wanted them to call her grandma. We were not aware of this site, until recently, or we would have posted something years ago. Wilbur had asked about her almost everyday (possibly due to his Alzheimer's or just blocking it out). He would ask if she was still with us or if she went easy. He truly loved her and all her kids (he would asked about them often too). He passed in his sleep at 12:01am 5/25. We know that they are with God and hope they are all in a better place.
Much Love to All,
From the extended family
KC
March 2, 2015
Missing you!
May 11, 2014
Happy Mothers Day! Love you bunches!
Ken
April 19, 2014
Dianna, Rebecka and Dave just showed up and we wanted to light a Candle for you mom. Happy early Easter. From all of us
Ken
February 2, 2014
Happy birthday Mom! A lot going on today-that silly groundhog says 6 more weeks of winter ( not here in Tucson where its been 80!) and the Broncos didn't play very well in the 1st half of the Super Bowl but I'm not their fan since they traded Tebow...and yesterday started Chinese New Year so we chowed down on dim sum...but the best part of this weekend is celebrating you! We miss you and love you and want to remind you that you'll always be the greatest mom (and grandma and great-grandma) ever! luv, Jo
November 14, 2013
Love and Miss you so Much!!
Ken
JoAnn Robinson
May 28, 2013
Hi Mom, school's finally out for the summer so I actually have some free time! My first week off isn't fun so far since I'm trying to potty-train that great grandson of yours! He is sooo stubborn, just like someone we both remember! I hope I'm not stuck in this kitchen forever...We're not planning a busy summer since Jerry needs to get heart-healthy, I need to lose some weight and Jamie needs to find yet another job-yep times are still tough here-we all need to be patient in our endeavors. Jen & I did have some fun at a Johnny Cash tribute band concert-I felt like you were right there with us, hooting & hollering! Wish you were here every day. I miss you and always will. luv,Jo
JoAnn Robinson
April 18, 2013
Hi Mom-were you surprised to see Uncle Ron today up there with you? We were sad and a little surprised that the ugly cancer monster got its way so soon...but last summer when we stayed with Uncle Ron you could tell he had a heavy heart, having lost Gramps and Aunt Marion a few months before...I'm so glad we had those few days with him...all day at work I thought about him and then realized OMG I have on this sweatshirt I bought at the Vermont Country Store with the saying "What happens here, stays here. But nothing ever really happens." Well the Robinson and Baker families had to say goodbye to a great man with a generous heart of gold and sense of humor that always made us smile...tell him I'll be cheering for his Boston Celtics in the NBA playoffs like we did last summer in Vermont...tell him I'll be planting my garden this weekend and no, Jerry did not make that raised garden for me! Tell him we already miss him, and will everyday like we do you... love, Jo
Dianna Mata
March 25, 2013
Hi Momma just thinking about you alot and wanted to say I love you. Trying to make some major decisions in our lives. We are thinking about moving back to Ca. Dave and Rebecka are really into it but I want to get a place of my own so they can be alone. I don't think it is fair to them to have me on hand all the time.We will see what happens. Please give me some guidance if you can. I have never been alone so it would be hard but good for all of us I think. I am sure I would be fine. My health isn't the greatest but I will take care of that when I get there too. I miss Ken Sue and Chris and everyone else so it is time to be back with them. We are going to go this coming weekend for your great grandson Caseys first birthday. Carley is a wonderful mom/ I am so proud of her. Momma you would love little Casey he is just so sweet and adorable. I want to be in his life and theirs.
Well sorry for pouring my guts out but needed to talk to my momma. I love you and miss you more than you could know.
Your daughter
Dianna
JoAnn Robinson
February 2, 2013
Happy Birthday Mom (and happy goundhogs day!)That furry fat creature said we'll have an early spring, which in Tucson means we'll be in the 90's by April=YUK!People here hate any cold weather and love the heat...why not, they stay indoors in their air-conditioned houses, then drive their air-conditioned cars to their air-conditioned jobs! Except me since I'm outside with the kids at my school a few hours each day...Jen is teaching 6th grade at a low income school-some of her stories would break your heart but you know Jen, she's trying to make a difference...all us girls have colds right now but Jerry and Jacob are doing well. Jacob is being a pooper about potty training, pardon the pun, even though he talks like a 7-year old! He loves trains and cars, is definitely all boy...oh Sue sent me Gram's maple fudge recipe-I'll have to try it so I can perfect it by the holidays just like her's...we're having salmon-pea-wiggle tonight in your honor-wish you could join us...you are always in my thoughts and my heart. Love you forever, Jo
She cried but still looked so beautiful.
Dianna Mata
January 3, 2013
Who has the tude here Mom:)
Dianna Mata
January 3, 2013
Rebecka and Dave on their special day.
Di
January 3, 2013
Hi Momma. Happy New Year. I miss you so much and wish you were here to share with me.
Rebecka married Dave on October 6. It actually turned out to be a beautiful wedding. I wasn't sure I could pull it off but with help from so many wonderful people we did it. You would of been so proud of her.
Tell everyone hi and I have put some pictures on here.
I love you.
JoAnn Robinson
January 1, 2013
WOW! another year has passed! I thank God for good health and pray 2013 will be prosperous for everyone, including my family. All the girls have started new jobs but we spend more time together as a family than ever. I wish you were still here to talk to and ask for your expertise...we came home from Vermont with plenty of maple syrup but no one there could find gram's recipe for that dreamy maple walnut fudge...maybe you could ask her and send it to me in a dream! Christmas was fun but of course tender memories of past years came to mind...We went up north to Flagstaff for Jen's graduation for her master's in teaching (with honors)and got snowed in an extra day! Denny's was within walking distance to our hotel and Jen decided she really like their menu, just like her geandma... Uncle Kenny texted the girls how he remembers waking up the family @ 3AM Christmas morn! I took Jacob for the long-awaited-dreadful haircut and Kenny was right there with us, pitchin a fit! We have so many ornaments on the tree, 42 years worth,and I can remember where each of them came from, some you created during your artsy-crafty years! And yes, we still get a real-live tree, only this year I actually let Jerry go pick it and he did a fairly good job! We did our Griswold Christmas Vacation version of outside lights with an appearance from Santa! That won us the Best Creativity award in our neighborhood contest. Some people liked our display so much, they unplugged our blow-up snowman & penguin and stole them, stakes and all! Yes Mom, bad things still happen to good people down here...But we won't let that get us down. I'm making my family's favorite, macaroni & sauce & meatballs for New Year's day. We'll set a place for you! Love, Jo
JoAnn Robinson
November 22, 2012
Mom, although I know I have so much to be thankful for on this Thanksgiving day, there is sadness in my heart...I miss my beautiful Teresa's smile...I miss your voice filled with excitement asking if we're barbequing or deep-frying the turkey, even though you're in Cali & we're in Tucson! You and Teresa were my biggest cheerleaders, my confidants, my rainbow after a storm...so I'll take a deep breath and feel the sun's warmth in Jacob's smiles, find confidence in my girls' compliments no matter how sarcastic and humorous they sometimes are. Next week is Jerry & my 42 anniversary. You never doubted we'd be marching on to that day we'd celebrate our golden...Today is a day for giving thanks and appreciating what we have. All of us will also be remembering how special our lives were when you blessed us, Mom, "Kenny's Gramma," Great-Gramma. Love You Mom, Jo
November 21, 2012
Mom still missing you so very much. So much has happened since you have been gone. Losing Grandpa and Auntie Marian but knowing you are with them, Jack's granddaughter Caitlyn's arrival,Casey's arrival, he is such a wonderful little guy and Kenny is a wonderful Grandpa,Wes Jr, Alana and Jayden are growing like weeds. Jason got married, and they are now expecting their second little one. Rebecka's wedding was beautiful I could feel your presence. And how wonderful it was to have time with my family. Jo and the girls had so much fun and just to see everyone was awesome. I know you have been there through each of these events in my life but it feels good to share with you. I love you Mom and miss my best friend.
Ken
November 19, 2012
Im sorry Mom. Wish I knew before I left you.
Love u one!
June 27, 2012
Help Mom! I'm having Vermont withdrawls...it sure was a wonderful time spent in that beautiful state you always called home. It felt right to say good-bye to Gram & Gramps, even Aunt Marion, but you will always be alive in me, in my heart, in my thoughts, in everything I do. I could feel your presence in Vermont, in the cool refreshing air and the lush green beauty. I tried so hard to get my hands on Gram's maple fudge recipe but no one seems to have it...maybe you could put in a good word for me? Today I'll be thinking of you again -have to take Jacob to get a haircut-people are calling him a girl! Reminds me of when you took Kenny to the barber and he cried so hard he threw up! Yep Uncle Kenny, never short on funny memories. I love you, Mom....Jo
Dianna Mata
February 29, 2012
Hi Mom,
Just sitting here thinking about much I miss you. I really wish you were here to share in planning for Rebecka and Daves wedding. Can you believe it Becka is finally tying the knot. I don't think anyone believes it but I do. I see the love they share. You would be so proud of her. I will post a picture here after the wedding. Her dress is beautiful.
I love you and miss you so very much. Please tell everyone hi and I love them all.
Di
February 25, 2012
Hi Mom, well your crazy daughter-in-law just turned 60! Can you believe that! I'm still pretty outrageous but have slowed down quite a bit. I know you don't believe that but Jer and I are counting the days till we can retire and buy a little place in the mountains up north in Washington and get back to fishing and reading and just plain relaxing...think we have about 5 more years doing what we do here, then we're disappearing! We always wanted to live up there-I'm sure we told you and Dad that way back when Jennifer was a little girl...My birthday was great-had lots of people make me feel loved and special, a little like you did every day of my life...just needed to talk to you, I already feel your love and assurance...thank you, Mom. luv, Jo
February 2, 2012
Happy Birthday Mom! It's Ground Hog Day and your birthday and he said we'd have more winter but not here in Tucson! In honor of you we're eating salmon pea wiggle and chocolate pie! We miss you every day...but now you have both Gram & Gramps to talk to...tell Gramps we're still planning that trip to Vermont this summer, so different than Arizona,so we can hug and kiss and cry a little, then return home feeling special and loved...we'll be singing Happy Birthday to you after dinner (not as good as you always did in your phone messages for us)but listen and maybe it will make you smile. luv,Jo
family
JoAnn Robinson
November 26, 2011
Hey Mom-I am having one heck of a time trying to send you a message-computers and me just don't mix! I know you always told me how much you love my writing but even though it seems impossible, I'm going to have to make this short...Just wanted you to know Jerry and I and the girls and little Jacob think about you all the time and we're always sharing funny stories about all the special moments we shared. As the holidays approach, we'll be missing you even more...and if you're missing us just look down to Calle Bolivar where there'll be thousands of lights sending warmth and love your way...I love you Mom
Ken Robinson
November 20, 2011
Tomorrow is a year. I miss ya all the time. When things get bad and I need advice I reach for my phone then realize you moved on. When happy things happen same thing. Well your youngest baby will be a grandpa in April. Watch over us. We love and miss ya!
Sue Matias
November 19, 2011
Hi Mom, Almost 1 year and yet the hurt is still so strong. I think of you and miss you each and everyday. So much to share with you. Mom, I love you so much and miss you so bad. Please tell Daddy, Carlos, Carlos Robert, Grandma, and everyone that I love them and one day will see them and you again. Love you Momma.
JoAnn Robinson
December 26, 2010
Hi Mom, it was so special having you with us for Christmas dinner. Did I do the ham right? I know I know, it wasn't Dubuque but I couldn't find one in Tucson. Can't wait to be with you again this coming Spring at Lake Cachuema. We'll be sporting our new fishing poles cuz Jer says it's time to teach Jacob about the good ole days...I miss you already. Thank you for always listening to me whine, for helping me fix my cooking dilemas, for telling me I should be a writer. Last month when Jerry & I celebrated our 40th wedding anniversary, I was also celebrating 40 years of you loving me as a daughter. Don't get too busy up there in heaven-you know me-I'll be talking to you soon.
Carol Koledo
December 3, 2010
Thinking of you all in California. Wish I could be there to give each of you a big hug. Love to all, Auntie Carol
Jennifer Robinson
November 30, 2010
Salmon Pea Wiggle, Elephants and a Velvet Kenny Rogers Painting... those were the treasures I found at "Grandma Kenny's" Blue House... Circus Peanuts, Caramel Popcorn Balls, and Farrell's Ice Cream... were the treats she spoiled me with... "Jennifer Kay!!!" were the only two words she needed to say when I was in trouble... I was her Dancing Doll and she was my Teddy Bear... Loving hugs, Happy Birthday Songs and the Best Giggle Ever... These are the memories I keep, the stories I will tell and the reason for the smile on my face when I remember Grandma.
robert aikey
November 25, 2010
i remember her as a mother to all of us as we were groing up. i was always welcome in her home. great memories with the whole robinson family. mrs robinson , you will be missed.
I was just about to send this out to Gram before she passed! She never got to see it=*(
Rebecka & Dave
November 25, 2010
Gram & Carlos Robert
Rebecka Mata
November 25, 2010
Rebecka Mata
November 25, 2010
I will always remember my last memory of Gram, that was when my boyfriend Dave and I went out to surprise her, Man I will never forget the look on her face! She was soo happy, that she cried! I am so happy that we surprised her! I will miss her sweet soft voice and of course I will miss her always nagging at me:)..hehe!
Gram, I miss you so very much and think of you everyday! Just think your not in anymore pain! I wonder what everybody up in heaven said to you as you arrived? Now you get to see your boober's again...Please DO NOT worry about us, we all will be okay especially knowing that you are watching over us and protecting us!
I love you Gram!
And I will see you when it is my turn to go into god's hands!
Love you & Miss you soooooooooooooo much!!
Sue Matias
November 24, 2010
Missing you so much Mom. I will never have a best friend like you again. Guess I will just save all my deepest darkest secrets till I see you again. We love you and we will miss you so very much Mom! Or as Jack would say Mother Robinson.
We Love You Gram
The Robinson Kids
November 24, 2010
Kaylee Robinson
November 24, 2010
Gram was an amazing lady , and she was so nice and pretty. She will be missed , but she will always be in my heart. I remember when I was younger she bought me a lot of toys , like polly pockets and barbies. I will miss going to her house , and the first thing I go to her is her huge pretzels. You will be missed , I love you very much gram<3(:
Dianna
November 24, 2010
I love you mom and miss you so much already. Please say hi to everyone for me. Thank you for being my sweet mother.
Linda Caputo
November 24, 2010
This is Linda Caputo..so sorry for your loss loved your mom...and had very good times with your family..even you kenny ha!!! Lida!!! loves you...we had good friends and good memories to take with us.. all my love to y'all Linda
Tina Sheffield
November 24, 2010
I will always remember your mom playing Kenny Rodgers all the way to Palmdale when we went to visit family. She was a sweet lady and will be missed.
Showing 1 - 77 of 77 results
Make a Donation
in BERNICE ROBINSON FETTINGER's name
Memorial Events
for BERNICE ROBINSON FETTINGER
How to support BERNICE's loved ones
Honor a beloved veteran with a special tribute of ‘Taps’ at the National WWI Memorial in Washington, D.C.
The nightly ceremony in Washington, D.C. will be dedicated in honor of your loved one on the day of your choosing.
Read more
Should I Send Sympathy Flowers?
What kind of arrangement is appropriate, where should you send it, and when should you send an alternative?
Read more
What Should I Write in a Sympathy Card?
We'll help you find the right words to comfort your family member or loved one during this difficult time.
Read moreResources to help you cope with loss
Estate Settlement Guide
If you’re in charge of handling the affairs for a recently deceased loved one, this guide offers a helpful checklist.
Read more
Obituaries, grief & privacy: Legacy’s news editor on NPR podcast
Legacy's Linnea Crowther discusses how families talk about causes of death in the obituaries they write.
Read more
The Five Stages of Grief
They're not a map to follow, but simply a description of what people commonly feel.
Read moreWays to honor BERNICE ROBINSON FETTINGER's life and legacy
Obituary Examples
You may find these well-written obituary examples helpful as you write about your own family.
Read more
Obituary Templates – Customizable Examples and Samples
These free blank templates make writing an obituary faster and easier.
Read more
How Do I Write a Eulogy?
Some basic help and starters when you have to write a tribute to someone you love.
Read more
