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Dottie Haggerty Obituary

On Thursday, February 23, 2012, Dottie Mae Haggerty, beloved mother, wife, and grandmother, passed peacefully into Heaven to be with Our Lord. She had endured a brave battle with complications from rheumatoid arthritis and interstitial lung disease.
Dottie was born Dorothy Mae Fallgren on August 13,1924, in Los Angeles, to her mother, the former Susan Gaines, and her father, Clarence Theodore Fallgren. She was the twin sister of Clarence Theodore "Ted" Fallgren Jr. Her stepfather of 30 years, William Dever Johnson Jr., also held a special place in her heart.
At the age of 10, Dottie won the title of "Little Miss Los Angeles." She attended elementary school in Los Angeles and high school in San Diego. In her early years, Dottie worked as a bank teller. At the same time, she was also a popular fashion model and singer. Her stage name was "Dee Lorraine" and her favorite musical genre was jazz.
Dottie met her husband-to-be, FBI Agent Patrick J. Haggerty Jr., in 1951. Their first date was at both the Marine Room in La Jolla and the El Cortez Sky Room in San Diego. They married the following year at Mary, Star of the Sea Catholic Church in La Jolla. When Mr. Haggerty was assigned to San Francisco, the couple relocated and began their family, eventually having two sons and a daughter. They lived in the San Francisco and Monterey Bay areas until the 1980s, when they returned to live permanently in La Jolla. Dottie and Pat Haggerty quietly supported a variety of philanthropic causes.
Throughout the decades, the center of Dottie's life has been her family. She is survived by her husband and partner of 60 years, Patrick J. Haggerty Jr.; her elder son, Dr. Patrick J. "Rick" Haggerty III and his wife, Rosie Ribeiro Haggerty; her younger son, Dr. Colin M. Haggerty and his wife, Cathleen Roche Haggerty; and her daughter, Dr. Holly Haggerty Sokolowski and her husband, Dr. Bernd Sokolowski. She also is survived by her beloved grandchildren, Patrick Haggerty IV, Kelly Haggerty, Sophia Sokolowski, Colin Haggerty Jr., Kyle Haggerty, Cameron Haggerty, and Mary Haggerty.
To those who knew Dottie, she will be remembered for her joyful spirit and generous, loving nature. She had a song on her lips for every occasion, and her inner beauty even outshone her immeasurable outer beauty.
The Haggerty Family would like to acknowledge the wonderful care shown to Dottie by the nurses and doctors of San Diego Hospice, as well as to Tanya Haupt for her loving assistance during Dottie's final days.
A Mass of the Resurrection celebrating Dottie's life on earth and the continuing journey of her soul in Heaven will take place on Monday, March 5, 2012, at 1:00 p.m. at Mary, Star of the Sea Catholic Church in La Jolla, California.
In lieu of flowers, the family requests that donations be made in memory of Dottie to Mary, Star of the Sea Catholic Church, 7669 Girard Ave., La Jolla, CA 92037, 858-454-2631, www.marystarlajolla.org or San Diego Hospice Foundation, 4311 Third Ave., San Diego, CA 92103, 619-278-6100, www.sdhospice.org.

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Published by La Jolla Light from Mar. 1 to Apr. 1, 2012.

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Judi McCaffrey

March 13, 2012

Please accept our deepest sympathies on the passing of Dottie. Her obituary is beautifully written and is a true celebration of what was a wonderful life. May you find peace in this time. God Bless. The McCaffrey Family

Susan Oliver

March 9, 2012

Dear Pat and family,
Our thoughts and prayers are with you all at this time. We know that all of the beautiful memories you have of Dottie will bring you comfort now and for the years to come. She was such a wonderful lady and we are so glad that she touched our lives.
Martha Mack and Fred & Susan Oliver

Ann and Chris Glazener

March 9, 2012

We will always remember Dottie's beauty and fun-loving character! Our thoughts are with you.

carlie kyle

March 3, 2012

I hope you are all remembering all the good times :-) Raising a son like Dr. Haggerty (Colin) she MUST have been an amazing woman! OUr thoughts are with your family.
Love, Carlie, Scott, Jet, Liv and Peekay Kyle. xoxoxo

Susi Aldridge

March 3, 2012

I am so sorry to hear about your loss. Even though I didn't know Dottie personally, I felt like I knew her through the stories that Pat and Colin shared with me. I met them over 30 years ago and have very fond memories which I am reminded of every time I use the beautiful salad bowl the Haggerty family sent me for a wedding gift in 1979 (I am sure that Dottie picked it out). Please know how special you all are to me.
Susi and Steve Aldridge

March 2, 2012

Our deepest sympathy to your family. Dottie was a wonderful, gregarious & kind lady. Just knowing her was fun. She is probably now singing up a storm in Heaven. Irene Chandler & Jim Shultz

Mary Hammett

February 29, 2012

The death of a mother is the first sorrow wept without her. ~Author Unknown. It was an honor knowing your mother and working for her. She and I shared the joy of music and singing. May the sweet memories of your mother help to fill the hole that loosing her has left behind.

Kevin McNamara

February 28, 2012

I'm very sorry to hear about your loss. My mom passed in 2010 and as part of the eulogy I mentioned my parents annual St. Bartholomews St. Patricks dance fight over my dad dancing with Dottie Haggerty. The San Mateo days are long past but I will never forget your fathers kindness to me when we lost my dad. I'll say a prayer for her knowing she's very happy now, raised a great family, and had a great marriage.

Sharon & Craig Wagner

February 28, 2012

This world has lost an amazing woman, but heaven has gained a shining star! Dottie was one of the most generous, fun-loving and beautiful women that we've ever had the pleasure of knowing. She will be greatly missed by everyone. Our heartfelt sympathy to her family on the loss of their wonderful mother. We know you'll dazzle them in heaven, Dottie, as you did on earth!
With love,
Sharon & Craig

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