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Phyllis Whitaker Obituary

Phyllis Winifred Stewart Whitaker, daughter of Roy Glenn Stewart and Bianca Becker Stewart, was born on March 26, 1921 in Winside, Nebraska. She died on August 17, 2010 in Lake City Medical Center, Lake City, Florida, after a brief illness.
A precocious child, she was reading before she started school and her love of literature never waned. A graduate of Robert E. Lee High School in Jacksonville, Florida She also excelled in sports, teaching archery in gym class at the request of her gym teacher, winning several archery competitions, and was a member of the Girls' Athletic Association winning a letter and a silver cup as captain of the volley ball team.
Her education continued at Lake City Junior College, , graduating in 1971, with an AA degree magna cum laude. Florida Blue Key honored her as the outstanding female student of her graduating class and she was included in "Who's Who in Junior Colleges" and was elected to Phi Beta Kappa. At the request of the College, she donated one of her paintings to the College Art Hall of Fame.
She completed her college studies at Valdosta State College, graduating in 1977 cum laude with a BS in English and a teaching certification. She was a member of the Georgia Student Educational Association, and the American Association of University Women. She taught reading for two years at JRE Lee School in Jasper. She tutored for many years, helping adults working on their GED, brain-damaged children, elementary and high school students.
On March 27, 1943, at Riverside Park Methodist Church, she married a handsome Second Lieutenant, Frederick Struppa Whitaker, Jr. For the next few years she followed him around the country, as he served the Army Air Corps, reading her way through the public libraries of Manhattan, Kansas, San Antonio and Houston, Texas, Memphis, Tennessee and Richmond, California.
From her teen years, she was tireless in serving others playing the piano for the Vacation Bible School at the Riverside Park Methodist Church, where she was also a member of the Westminster Fellowship. She joined the First Presbyterian Church of Lake City, Florida in 1949 when the family moved to Lulu, and was an active member until her death. She assisted in Vacation Bible School, taught Sunday School classes of every age group, helped in the church nurseries, was adult advisor for the Senior High Fellowship and chairperson of several circles. She also served as vice-president, president and district chairperson of the Women of the Church. She served three terms as Elder and on several committees of the Presbytery and was active in the General Assembly of the Presbyterian Church. It was at the General Assembly of the presbyterian Church in 1990 that a brief three-minute speech she delivered on the floor changed the entire course of the Assembly.
While she was deeply devoted to her church, she was passionate for Boy Scouting. A legendary pioneer in Scouting, she began as an assistant den mother in 1965, later advancing to den mother. She was the first woman to serve as Cub Scout Round Table Commissioner for the Suwannee River District. She served as Cub Scout District Commissioner, Cub Scout District Chairman, Unit Commissioner, District Commissioner and as a merit badge counselor. She was appointed North Florida Council Cub Scout 50th Anniversary Chairman and submitted a photo slide presentation of a Cub Scout that was chosen to be included in the opening ceremony of the national meeting of Cub Scouts in New Orleans in 1980. She was the first recipient of the District Award of Merit from the Suwannee River District, and the first woman to receive the Silver Beaver Award from the North Florida Council. She served for over twenty years on the North Florida Council Advisory Board and on the Executive Board. She attended and received both the very first Cub Scout and later the Boy Scout Wood Badge training. These are the highest level of training available to adult leaders in Scouting. Most recently, on April 24, 2010, in an impressive ceremony at World Golf Village, she was honored as one of the top four finalists out of a field of 400 nominees for the Scouting America Merit Award for the 100th Year Celebration of Scouting in America. Her ties with local Scout Troop 85 exceed twenty years in various roles, including service as Committee Chairman.
A long-time resident of Columbia County, she always claimed that her beloved Suwannee River flowed through her veins. Her interests and activities in the community were many and varied: member of the Coast Guard Auxiliary and Executive Director of the Columbia County United Way from 1979 to 1989, doubling their contribution during her tenure. In 1989 she was chosen Woman of the Year for Columbia County. She served as Secretary-Treasurer and President of the White Springs Woman's Club and President of the Stephen Foster Music Club, as well as Secretary of the White Springs Recreation Association that raised the funds to establish the softball park in White Springs. For a number of years she was a docent at the Stephen Foster Memorial Museum in White Springs.
She is preceded in death by her devoted husband of sixty-four years, Frederick Struppa Whitaker, Jr., her daughter Laura Ellen Whitaker (Clifton) Bennett and her only brother, Wallace Theodore (Louise) Stewart. She is survived by her daughters, Patricia Louise (David) Durham of Portland, Texas; and Mary Anne Whitaker of Houston, Texas; and by three sons: Frederick Stephen (Andrea) of Wenatchee, Washington; George Edwin (Stacy) of White Springs; and David John of Toronto, Canada; 8 grandchildren, Edward Grant (Bretta) Ogburn of Blairsville, Georgia; Barbara Carol Durham of Austin, Texas; Shannon Michelle Whitaker of Kodiak, Alaska; Jason Michael (Shelly) Whitaker of Spring, Texas; Bryan Zachery Whitaker of Houston, Texas; Rebecca Star Page of Westminster, Colorado; Russell Tyler Whitaker of Lake City, Florida; and Nichole Angelique (Adam) Lavespere of Pineville, Louisiana; 2 step grandchildren, Ed Brooks of Puyallup, Washington and Shaina (Tony) Rodrigues of Kent, Washington; 7 Great-grandchildren: Christa Joy (Josh) Edmonds; Tyler Grant Ogburn; Reece William Ogburn; Tommy Griffin Potter; Caroline Bailey Potter; Jordan Alese Whitaker and Katie Elaine Whitaker.
Memorial Services will be conducted at a later date. Guerry Funeral Home, Lake City is in charge of the arrangements.

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Published by Lake City Reporter on Aug. 22, 2010.

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Boy Scouts of America Troop 85

September 6, 2010

Ms Phyllis will definately be missed by all of her children that she did not birth, but made such an impact on. There are thousands of girls and boys that have grown into successful men and women because of her willingness to give and love for children.

September 1, 2010

Dear Patsy, What a hole in your heart! But what a blessing to have had her for so much of your life. May God fill you with His peace. Love and prayers, Capi

September 1, 2010

Dear Patsy,
It is with great sadness that I learned of your mother's passing. I know the days ahead will be difficult as you will deeply miss your mother. I am so glad you could be with her. Just keep remembering all of the good times you had together and she will live on in you. I will be praying for you as you go through the days ahead. May the Lord bless you and keep you.

Shirley, Winona, MS

August 28, 2010

Greetings and love to the family..your Mom certainly didn't waste any of her time and energy..we enjoyed working together with youth at 1st Presbyterian.

Grace and Peace to you all, Freida and Bob Persons..Waynesville, NC

Alice Ellington

August 27, 2010

My prayer goes to the family of Phyllis on the passing of their Mother. I knew the Whitakers when they lived near Lulu and Lake Butler, Fl God be with you.

Glen and Edna Barrs

August 25, 2010

So sorry of the passing of Mrs. Whitaker,
she will be greatly missed by all who knew her. Our prayers go out to the family.

Andy Temple

August 24, 2010

We will miss Miss Phyllis in church on Sundays. She always loved and commented on the music of the Praise and Worship Team. Our thoughts and prayers are with the family.

Bud & Mayree Cranor

August 24, 2010

Our only real contact with Phyllis Whitaker was through Patsy, her daughter. Knowing Patsy, it is obvious that Mrs. Whitaker was a great Mom.
Our sincere condolences to the family.

Sue Case

August 24, 2010

To the Whitaker family, my thoughts and prayers are with you. May your memories quickly turn tears to smiles.


Sue Hillhouse Case

Carl & JoAnn Miller

August 24, 2010

We met Phyllis Whitaker briefly when she visited her daughter, Patsy, who was then living in Pittsburgh, PA. She was dynamic and yet humble and very dear. We will never forget her, and we are glad she is healed and in the presence of her Lord.

Bryan Taylor

August 24, 2010

Mrs. Whitaker will be a gravely missed member of both the local community and Troop 85. No one person has been, or will ever be, as dedicated and caring as she was in all facets of her life. Our thoughts and prayers go out to her family.

Bryan Taylor
Eagle Scout, Troop 85

Leslie Blanton

August 24, 2010

I've known Mrs. Whitaker most of my life. She was so involved with everything at the Presbyterian church, a true Christian. She was a dear friend to my mom Kay and now they will get to laugh together again in heaven. I am grateful to have another angel looking out for my family and myself.
Love,
Leslie Beckman Blanton

Greg Beckman

August 23, 2010

I grew up in the Presbryterian church knowing Mrs. Whitaker and her husband. She was involved in EVERYTHING and served her church, the Boy Scouts, and this community tirelessly. She became a very good friend of my mother. The world was absolutely a better place with her in it. She was a wonderful person.

Sue Cross

August 22, 2010

To the Whitaker Family. I also send my condolences to you. Phyllis was a wonderful person. Always full of life and love. David...she is with"Chief" now. (Ed Montgomery). Remember when you would come by the office & we would call him"Chief?" He loved it! I miss all of you. Mary Anne...hope things are going well for you. I love you all. God bless you and keep you in his loving arms. Sue Price Cross

Charlie Gwin

August 22, 2010

I offer my condolences to the family of this fantastic lady. I knew Phyllis while I was custodian of the Presbyterian church. No finer, straightforward, down to earth lady ever existed. She is safe in the arms of our Lord and Saviour and again with her beloved Fred. Everyone who knew this fine lady grieves with you. May God support you in your time of loss.

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