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Antonio Chisholm Obituary
NEW YORK, N.Y. - Mr. Antonio DeCarlos Chisholm, of New York, N.Y., transitioned into eternal life on Saturday, Oct. 15, 2011.
The funeral will be at 12 p.m. Thursday, Oct. 20, 2011, at Parker Funeral Home, with the Rev. Jacques Day officiating.
A gifted artist, he worked over the last 25 years in the hospitality and entertainment industry. He recently worked with Roberta Flack as a project manager, traveling around the world.
A native of Rock Hill, S.C., he was preceded in death by his father, Nathaniel Chisholm Jr.; his paternal grandfather, Nathaniel Chisholm Sr.; and his maternal grandparents, Grady and Juanita Howell.
Surviving are his mother, Betty McClenningham; stepfather, Charles McClenningham; maternal grandmother, Mary Chisholm; brothers, Gerard Chisholm of Dallas, Texas, and Jeromy Chisholm of Rock Hill; sister, Aaronita Chisholm-Ware (Reggie); nephews, Adrian Thompson and Antonio Ware of Rock Hill; niece, Kaylen Chisholm of Charlotte, N.C.; uncles, Johnny Lee Chisholm (Julia) of Rock Hill, Allen Chisholm (Sara) of Rock Hill, Ronald Chisholm (Debra) of Rock Hill; Norman Chisholm of Rock Hill, Larry Chisholm (Annette) of Suitland, Md., and Ralei Foot Chisholm (Angie) of Charlotte, N.C.; aunts, Cecelia McPherson (Ret. Major William) of New Baltimore, Mich., Gloria Jones (Thomas) of Rock Hill, Priscilla Chisholm of Rock Hill, and Brenda Chisholm of Rock Hill; great-aunts, Margaret P. McNeal of Rock Hill, Thedosia Watts of Rock Hill, and Dorothy Simpson of Charlotte, N.C.; great-uncle, Herbert Chisholm of Rock Hill; and a host of cousins and many dear friends.
Visitation will be at the home of his mother, 342 Walnut Street, Rock Hill.
Parker Funeral Home in Rock Hill, is serving the Chisholm family.
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Aaronita Chisholm-Ware
August 6, 2017
Aaronita Chisholm-Ware
August 6, 2017
Aaronita Chisholm-Ware
August 6, 2017
Aaronita Chisholm-Ware
August 6, 2017
Aaronita Chisholm-Ware
August 6, 2017
Richard Hubbard
November 13, 2014
I honestly can't believe what I am reading. Tonio and I were hanging buddies back in the 80's at the Mayflower Hotel. I have tried to keep in touch over the years but this was a busy man and hard to keep current contact info with but I was fortunate to catch him a few times in NY and I am sooo glad I did. Tonio I think of you and the good times often, I am still shocked and saddend that I am saying goodbye to my friend. RIP until we see each other again... Richie Rich
Jason Jaghori
May 16, 2013
I have just heard about Antonio's death, and was completely shocked. I used to talk to him all the time at work when he'd call up for a movie or two. My condolences to the family.
Frank Salvatore
January 7, 2012
To the family of my dear long time friend:
Antonio was a bright light on this earth. We were close friends back in DC during the 80's. Had kept in touch infrequentlly over the decades as only true friends can do as our lives changed. I was devasteted to hear of his passing when I tried to let him know I was going to be in NY for a get together. Heaven is better now for his kind spirit and it is a great loss for all of us left behind. Frank Salvatore Charlotte ,NC
Helen, Roy and Golda Ayiteyfio
November 14, 2011
My dear Chisholm family, I am so sadened to hear Antonio had passed on. I never got the chance to meet him personally, but his brother Gerard and I are like brother and sister. I still don't know how this happened, but somewhere along the line I have a picture of him sitting with Roberta Flack. And what further happened is that I have several family pictures as my screen savers on my computer--and one of the pictures on my saver is that picture. I really know this was God's doing. So, every day he will be in my thoughts. I feel the pain of losing a loved one. He will be in my thoughts forever. Helen Ayiteyfio and family.
Bonnie Wright
October 27, 2011
Betty and family you raised a genuis, but can understand that because you are one. My heart goes out to all of you,remmember one day at a time. love you bonnie
Monique Sasson Wakelin
October 24, 2011
I had the privilege of meeting Antonio in 2005 when he was Concierge at The Lowell in NYC. We became fast friends, kept in touch over the ensuing years and saw eachother each time I visited NY. Antonio, I relished sharing our mutual love of opera and all things cultural. Your sharp wit and humour were a frequent source of sheer delight. What a terrible shock to learn of your passing during my recent visit to NYC. You live on through your family and friends - we love you, we miss you, and we'll celebrate you each day. My heartfelt condolences to your family.
Robert Esser
October 24, 2011
Dear Chisholm Family,
I am very sad to hear of Antonio's passing. We worked together in NYC and he was always great to be around.
We will be missed by countless people.
Sincerely,
Robert Esser
Linda Young
October 23, 2011
To cousin Betty, Aunt Mary and the entire Chisholm family. Our deespest sympathy for the loss of Antonio. May God continue to comfort you in the days to come. The family of the late Doris Chisholm Young: Linda Denise, Dwight,Madelina and Lyndsey
Genevieve Mandola
October 21, 2011
I write this with shock and sadness at the passing of Antonio. I worked with him for many years in New York hotels, where his light and goodness shined brightly in a sometimes superficial environment.
Antonio overflowed with good cheer and enthusiasm. This quality made him excel in the hospitality industry but with him it was clearly genuine. I always looked forward to seeing him and often remarked to others about his specialness.
I'm very sad because I hoped to spend more good times with him. I am praying for his safe and gentle passage, for his family and all his friends and colleagues in this difficult time of loss.
October 21, 2011
I was shocked to hear of Antonio's passing. Though I did not know Antonio very well, I have many fond memories of the times he would come to our office to use the computer, phone and fax for booking travel and working on visa applications for Roberta's tour dates when he was our Road Manager. I was hoping to reconnect with him over dinner in the coming months, to see how he was doing and what he was up to. I am very sad that this cannot happen.
I will remember Antonio for his cheery, witty and sarcastic sense of humor, and for his blunt honesty in the stories and conversations that he shared. I will also remember, quite randomly, that he introduced me to one of my favorite comic book characters, whom Antonio read as a kid -- "Beware The Creeper." Sometimes the random details are the ones we remember most.
I'm glad that I got to know Antonio at the workplace, and I send my deepest sympathy to his friends, family and loved ones.
Brendan Davies
Roberta Flack's Office
aaronita ware
October 20, 2011
to my precious brother antonio, i am sitting here missing the times we laughed and how you would makes jokes and have me rolling laughing every day. now i realize god sent you back home temporarily for all of us to have that precious time together and to laugh and be silly like old times. that was truly a blessing from god. to anyone that's in despair and feels like giving up, never give up because god always comes through and will never leave us nor forsake us. i was remembering the time when me and my brothers went to spend the summer with my aunt, cecelia, my mothers sister. she would let us go outside and play alone and she knew i was safe as long as i was with my brothers even though at the time we were only 5, 6 and 7yrs old. she knew how smart they were and they would take care of me. we were by the swimming pool and my brother antonio told me not to go any closer to the pool but i went anyway and a little girl about my age pushed me in the pool and i couldn't swim. no life guards or adults were around and i was in panic. my brother antonio jumped into the pool without hesitation or second thought and got me out of the pool. how a 7 year old did that is still to my amazement. god really created an angel when he created you big brother. i hope you never stop watching over me. i love you dearly and miss you tremendously. you continued to amaze me all the way til the very end, that's one of the many many ways that i am a witness that there is a god!!! thank you so much for everything you ever did for me. i will continue by doing what you would want me to do, just like you told your niece kaylen who is also very intelligent like you, you just told her, to be great and blessed, always be a blessing to others and especially ones less fortunate than her. it was things like that for example, that you and our parents taught us. continue to let your light shine on in heaven. i truly love you more than words can express!
Debbie Sanders
October 20, 2011
Gerard and family...I was so saddened to hear of Antonio's passing. We spoke months ago and he was his usual jovial self and it was great reconnecting with him. I'm thankful to have met such a well rounded, cultured, and distinguished gentleman. He will truly be missed by all who had the pleasure of knowing him. His kind spirit will always be remembered. May God bless his family and friends during this difficult time.
Richard Phillips
October 20, 2011
To the family especially Betty Jo, understand that only God can heal any hurt you are going through. Cast your cares on him, because he loves you. Our deepest sympathy. Richad Phillips
Quinton james
October 20, 2011
Carlos it has been a long time since we have seen one another but the time that we did you was always a kind hearted person, a funny person who always made us laugh,great singer and a good family member who was there for us when we was younger.Im glad that the only times i can remember where nothing but good. We love you and will see you again when the good LORD decides it is our turn.
Isis Roquebert
October 20, 2011
My condolences to the family
isis Roquebert
October 20, 2011
My condolences to the family.
Deneen Digsby
October 20, 2011
Deneen Digsby and family. Although I have not seen Carlos in years, the memories that I have were joyous. He was fun to be around. He will be misses. I give my deepest sympathy.
Dr. C. P. Roddey and Family
October 20, 2011
Our thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.
Kathy Lynn Wood
October 20, 2011
Antonio: true friend, dear brother, courageous heart
Antonio lived by example, a fine young man who always lived better each day. Wise and strong he lived his dream. He taught me to live my dream. A true friend who always made time to listen,meet,laugh,celebrate or deal with life's beauty and challenges. His gift of friendship is a blessing and I thank him.
His passing is sudden. At this time I am reminded of his strength. My sincere prayers go to him, his family and loved ones, especially to his dear mother Betty.
I am fully confident that if anyone can navigate the heavens, Antonio Chisholm can and is. His way is forever bright.
aaronita chisholm-ware
October 20, 2011
from your one and only sister, words could never ever express what you are to me. i will miss your jokes, your smile and your charisma. i got a lot of my strength from you big brother. it was certainly an honor to have a genius among the family such as you. when you left, you took part of me with you. you will remain in my heart forever and ever. i love you deeply.
Jacques Days
October 19, 2011
Ms. Mary, Sis. Gloria, and all the Chisholm family,
As I take this opportunity to express condolences in behalf of the Adams Chapel family, let me also assure you that you are in our prays. May the God of all comfort, Who is near to the brokenhearted, comfort you now and lift you in the days to come. May He remind you of His abiding presence, His loving people, and His promised peace. In Christ, you are never alone. In Him, hope is firm and springs eternal.
Grace and peace, Jacques Days
DEVONNE(WENDY) MILES
October 19, 2011
I AM PRAYING FOR THE FAMILY AND FRIENDS OF MR CHISHOLM AT THIS VERY DIFFICULT TIME.HE WILL BE TRUELY MISSED.HIS WORK HERE ON EARTH WAS COMPLETE AND NOW IT'S TIME FOR HIM TO REST IN HEAVENLY PEACE.GOD BLESS !
October 19, 2011
In memory of our Cousin-
Carlos,
Like they say, it's always hard to say goodbye... Goodbye to your smile and laughter; Goodbye to the great memories we shared.
So Carlos, we say Hello to your peace; Hello to no worries. Hello to your new wings so you can Soar high, free of pain.
So Carlos, no goodbyes; just Hello.
Love You Much,
Danielle and Dante' Chisolm
DeCarlos Boyd
Linda Schwartz
October 19, 2011
To the Family of Dear Antonio,
I had the pleasure and blessing of knowing Antonio both personally as
well as professionally for many years.
He was a dear friend, ally and brother. He also had a great sense of humor and we shared many laughs in both good times and challenged times.
I am sorry that he has left us on this plane but I know that he will be lifted straight up into yet another 'opulent bubble' of God's love and grace forthwith...
Thank you, Antonio, for being my friend.
Eli Honorato
October 19, 2011
God bless you!
Andre/Natalie Ervin
October 19, 2011
To my family.Our prayers are with all of you during this time of sorrow.May God comfort and guide you and also give you peace in knowing that Antonio is in resting easy.We love you and once again may God bless you all.
Oreste Zorzo
October 19, 2011
One of the best people I have ever met, Thank you for helping me in difficult times or simply being you: ANTONIO! Love and miss you always my friend. Rest in Peace!
Howard Lindeman
October 19, 2011
He was and will always be a close buddy and working with him while we were on the road with Roberta Flack was a pleasure.
I will miss him very much...B-(
Howard Lindeman
Harald Mootz
October 19, 2011
Antonio was a great individual and am truly saddened by his passing. My thoughts go to his family at this difficult time. We worked together for many years and he was an outstanding Concierge!
Joel Lowden
October 19, 2011
Antonio was a great friend and I will miss him. My thoughts are with you, his family and friends.
Sheila Twyman
October 18, 2011
Betty Jo I am so sorry to hear of the death of your son.Our thoughs and prayers go out to you and your family.He is now resting in the arms of Jesus
Sylvia & Otis McCrorey
October 18, 2011
To Larry and wife Annette and to the entire Chisholm family, I want to express my deepest sympathy in the loss of your brother (in-law). I pray that God will give you the strengtht to endure during these test of times. My prayers are with the family. May God continue to bless each of you and lift you up and give you peace.
rowena fay
October 18, 2011
I am so sorry to learn of Antonio's death. His light is eternal but he is missed.
Edward (joe) Page
October 18, 2011
To my family I was so sorry to hear of the passing of Carlos.my thoughts and prayers go out to you and may the memories of Carlos help you doing this sad time.we often wonder why but god knowns best. so rest asure that he's @ peace now. love always your cousin.
Betty Gartrell
October 18, 2011
Betty Jo, my prayers and thoughts are with you at this very difficult time. I pray God will give you and your children comfort and peace.
Evelyn Coleman Hammond & Family
October 18, 2011
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
Gloria "Gwynnett" Hoyles-Brown
October 18, 2011
To the Family of Antonio Chisholm,
May the love & peace of God's goodness comfort and guide you during this difficult time. Hold fast to your fond memories of Antonio as you lean and depend on God's grace & mercy to carry you through it all.
Ms. Danice Vance
October 18, 2011
So very sorry for your loss.Rely on God and the memories of Antonio to help you make it.
Alica Love
October 17, 2011
Mrs. Betty
You know that Antonio was my heart. I hadn't known him long but he became very special to my heart very fast. He and I had some wonderful talks and I will miss him dearly. There was never a dull moment when I was there with him. He was truly one of a kind. He is gone from my sight but never my heart. I miss you and love you dearly Carlos. To the family, there is no sorrow on earth that heaven can't heal. God bless you all
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