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Allan Jacques Graf

1946 - 2019

Allan Graf Obituary

August 25, 1946 - May 30, 2019 Allan Jacques Graf (72), of Los Angeles, passed away on May 30th, 2019, a few days after suffering a stroke. He is survived by his wife, Margaret; his daughter, Laura and her husband Teddy Macker and their daughters Eleanor and Tomasa; his son, Matthew and his husband Miles Hogan; his sister Michelle and her husband Edward Unser; his brother Robert and his wife Carine; and many cousins, nieces, nephews, grandnieces, and grandnephews. He was predeceased by his parents Hank and Germaine. Allan was born in Los Angeles, raised in New York, and returned to Los Angeles with his family in 1985. He held bachelor's and master's degrees in Foreign Relations from Johns Hopkins University and earned his J.D. from Columbia University. Allan practiced law at several firms, finishing his career at Carlsmith Ball LLP. Allan Graf contained multitudes: an accomplished lawyer, an uproarious bellylaugher, a bon vivant par excellence; a nonpareil bibliophile, an astronomer, a formidable student of history; a known philatelist, an opera-buff and classical music lover, an active Catholic. In his later years, Allan was also a servant of the homeless (through his beloved St. Francis Center) and devoted mentor (through anti-recidivism and restorative justice organizations) of incarcerated young men whom he visited regularly. He was beloved by family, friends, and colleagues. He will be dearly missed. A funeral Mass will be held on Tuesday, June 4th at 4 p.m. at St. Brendan's Church, 310 S. Van Ness Ave., Los Angeles. In lieu of flowers, please consider a donation on Allan's behalf to the St. Francis Center of Los Angeles: (www.stfranciscenterla.org).

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Published by Los Angeles Times on Jun. 2, 2019.

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John Kreis

June 7, 2019

Truly a gentleman in the highest sense; his immense intellectual skills,talents and weight of judgment were surpassed only by his devotion to his fellow man and the pursuit of the good. His wonderful sense of humor often targeted himself, never anyone else. I fondly remember his efforts at strenuous exercise on a stationary bike. Even he found it hilarious. His passing is a huge loss. I extend my deepest condolences to Marge and all members of his family.

KAREN KINGSLEY

June 5, 2019

Michelle, Ed & all of your family,
My deepest sympathy to all on the loss of your brother. Beautiful words in his obit. He sounded like an amazing, kind, generous,loving and fun guy.Obviously he touched many lives & left a huge impact & will be missed by many. Hugs to you cuz. May he RIP

Carmen Borg

June 4, 2019

Our condolences to all the family. May he rest in peace! From the family in Malta xxx

Marcel Viens

June 4, 2019

I so enjoyed Alan's comments and humor at Ignatian Conversations. Bright, knowledgeable, insightful, but most of all a Man For and With Others. May your reward be as plentiful in heaven as you shared yourself with others here on earth. My thoughts and prayers for all Alan's family. May your hearts be filled with peace and treasured memories of a beautiful soul.

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David Ngo

June 3, 2019

We are deeply sorry about the loss of Mr. Graf. Our hearts go out to the Graf and ADLA family

Elsa and Karl Murphy

June 2, 2019

Our sincere condolences to the Graf family.

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