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John Chatowski Obituary

John (Jack) Anthony Chatowski, Jr., of Santa Monica, California peacefully passed away on November 16, 2022, with his loving wife, Katherine (Kay) Liddon Chatowski, by his side. He was 84.

Jack is survived by his wife, Kay; his son, John Chatowski; his daughter-in-law, Renee Chatowski; his granddaughters Caitlin and Megan Chatowski; his sister, Patricia Chatowski Dunn, of Glastonbury, Connecticut; his niece and nephews Alison Dunn, Claus Andersen, and Torben Colberg; and his many cousins and their families on the east and west coasts. Jack is predeceased by his parents, John Anthony Chatowski, Sr. and Celia Sepiol Chatowski.

Jack was born on March 5, 1938, in Middletown, Connecticut, and grew up with his younger sister, Patricia, in East Hartford, Connecticut. As a boy he loved spending time visiting his grandparents, aunts and uncles, cousins, and friends in Connecticut and Rhode Island. Jack loved fly fishing, playing sports, and listening to jazz and other "modern" music.

Jack attended the University of Connecticut, and later earned his bachelor's degree from St. Michael's College near Burlington, Vermont. He then attended graduate school at the University of Chicago where he met Kay Liddon, an art student from Graceville, Florida. Jack and Kay later married in Santa Monica in 1965 after Jack was discharged from the United States Army.

From 1965 until his retirement, Jack worked in government security in the aerospace industry, including for McDonnell Douglas Aircraft Company, TRW, and Lockheed Martin. He also held leadership positions in numerous professional and governmental organizations, including the American Society of Industrial Security (ASIS), and the NSI Working Group of the National Security Council's National Industrial Security Program Task Force.

Jack was a devoted husband, father, grandfather, and uncle. He enjoyed hiking, camping, classical music, wine, and gourmet in-home dinners with family and friends. He also loved to travel to the Central California Coast, Mendocino, the wine country, New Mexico, and Europe, including two trips to Italy, Denmark, and Central Europe with Kay and his granddaughter, Caitlin. Jack was also active in leadership positions at Mount Olive Lutheran Church, and worked to promote environmental causes, including the work of the Nature Conservancy, and charities, including the Down Syndrome Connection of the Bay Area.

A memorial service to honor and remember Jack is scheduled for 11:00 a.m., on January 14, 2023, at Mount Olive Lutheran Church, located at 1343 Ocean Park Boulevard, Santa Monica, California, 90405. In lieu of flowers the family requests that memorial donations be given in Jack's name to the Jack Chatowski Memorial Organ Restoration Fund at Mount Olive Lutheran Church.

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Published by Los Angeles Times on Jan. 7, 2023.

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Sandy Corrigan

January 10, 2023

Kay, John, Renee, Caitlin, Megan & Family:
I am so sorry to hear of Jack's passing. I was fortunate to meet Kay & Jack at Renee & John's wedding and again at my house in Napa, CA. I thoroughly enjoyed celebrating the holidays and getting to know my Niece, Renee's, Mother-and-Father-In-Law. I wish I had more time to spend getting to know Jack better but I've learned a lot about him in reading this beautiful Obituary. He was a man that loved his family, the outdoors, music and gourmet meals. He was educated, served his country and had many prestigious jobs and loved to travel. This is a difficult time in life for all of you. Allow your family and friends to offer you love and support as you grieve. And, also from experience, as your friend below said it perfectly, Kay, in time, the sun will definitely shine again.
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Sandy "DeeDee" Corrigan

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Ranier Lang

January 7, 2023

Kay, I am so sorry to hear of Jack's death. I won't be able to attend the service as I no longer live in LA County, but I will be thinking of you at the time of the service. Even though this may seem to be one of the darkest times in your life I know from personal experience that the sun will shine again for you as it did for me when I also lost a loved one. Give yourself time to mourn and the healing will come. Ranier (a friend from International House at the Univ. of Chicago)

Rita and Don Vigneau

January 7, 2023

Dear Kay
Our hearts are saddened; our sympathy extended to you and all the family. We knew Jack as classmates at East Hartford High, and enjoyed many school and other activities with our mutual friends.
In 1954 Jack acquired a bright red antique 1938 sedan; his mom reupholstered the seats for him in red plaid. it was christened "the Bomb." Jack was so proud he could share his wheels with us! In our Class Yearbook he was christened "Class Chatterbox," and "never without an answer." Our 2006 Class Reunion was the last time we saw you and Jack; we had met only once before in 1991 to dine with you both in LA.
We pray for Jack and all the family, and know you have many more wonderful memories than ours to console you in your loss.
Rita (Donovan) and Don Vigneau, Class of 1956

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