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Mary Bernadette Soon

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Mary Bernadette Soon, known to the world as "Bernie," was born 12 March 1959 to Richard and Philomena in Vancouver, BC. Bernie grew up in Vancouver and attended UBC before moving to Southern California. LA became Bernie's home, and it was here she achieved her Masters of Arts Counselling Psychology at Pepperdine University specializing in EMDR and Somatic Experiencing, touching the lives of many both professionally as a therapist and personally. Following a short illness, Bernie passed away peacefully at her home amongst family, friends and hospice care on January 29, 2023. She is survived by brother Clayton (Lois) and sisters Becky, Donna (Jack), and Veronica. She is also survived by niece's, grandniece's and grandnephew Krystin (Mike), Candice (Misha), Lindsey, Anya, Naomi, Bianca, Luca and Liv. Bernie was a wise and gentle soul with a dry sense of humor and a gift for fun. She created deep, enduring friendships and enriched and enhanced myriad lives in her all-too-short journey. She was a special spirit who will be missed by many. In lieu of flowers, please consider making a donation on Bernie's behalf to the Emdr Foundation at https://emdrfoundation.org/donate/

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Published by Los Angeles Times on May 28, 2023.

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matthew weisberg

December 3, 2023

Bernie was better at her job than almost anybody I ever met. Amazing soul and incredibly kind and talented. What a gift--- Absolute artist.

Vicki

May 31, 2023

It pains me to hear of your suffering and death. Way too young my friend. I will treasure our youth spent playing tennis and hanging out. Your intelligence and joy in all around you attracted others to share your space. Loved you.

Paul Ford

May 31, 2023

Sad to learn of Bernie“s passing.
Bernie was a friend, mentor and inspiration on my path towards licensure as a MFT. I will always be grateful to her. Bernie will be missed by all that knew her.
Paul Ford

Clayton Soon

May 29, 2023

Dear Bernie, you will be missed. With all our love, Lois & Clayton

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