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Angela Behrens
February 14, 2025
Mary was the smartest woman I have ever know, and she was a wonderful friend. I still miss her all the time.
Angela Behrens
April 16, 2024
I met Mary playing tennis at the Manhattan Club. She and Ivo, my late husband, Ray, and I enjoyed many dinners and card games together. In addition to playing tennis together, Mary and I socialized, and sometimes traveled together. Mary was the smartest woman I have ever known. The last time Mary called me, she shared that she was having a health challenge. That was a total shock to me because she always took such good care of herself; exercising, eating properly, etc., etc. I tried repeatedly to communicate with her after learning that she wasn't well (Cards, emails, phone calls, etc., etc.), and did not understand the reason I wasn't hearing back from her. It was only when recently when I asked a mutual friend, who lives in Manhattan Beach (I moved to San Diego 20 years ago), if she would go to Mary'Torrance house, and check on her. My friend suggested we look at the obituaries, and much to my shock and dismay, I learned that Mary had passed away. I would appreciate it immensely if someone would reach out to me, and let me know what happened (760-931-8842). Angela BEHRENS
Rob Carty
October 13, 2023
Those of us who benefited from Mary's interests and time were indeed fortunate. I had the pleasure of working with her as a volunteer for ICMA's graduate education work, involving inspiring students to consider a career in local government and management. She cut back at one point to devote more time to the ALA, and I admit I was jealous to be losing such a great contributor, but knew her efforts were needed elsewhere. I can only imagine how many lives she impacted with her direct engagement, but also the ripple effect of the nature of her professional and personal work. Even if unattributed, her legacy is resounding.
Ronald kiedrowski
August 9, 2023
Sorry to read about her passing. As I age there are fewer of us. I celebrate her life and will keep her in my prayers.
Ron
AJ Wilson
July 24, 2023
Mary was an impressive professional and was a valued Senior Advisor for almost 11 years. She was focused on creating quality professional service vital to all of us. And she was able to define avenues to innovation and help others in their careers of public service . It was my privilege to serve with her as a Senior Advisor
AJ Wilson
Lead Senior Advisor
State of California
Jennifer Morrice
July 20, 2023
I got to sit next to her at my very first ALA Regional Board meeting. I could feel her joie de vivre before I even had the chance to speak with her. She was intelligent, kind and inspirational. May her memory be for a blessing.
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