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Sean Crain Obituary

CRAIN, Sean Michael Sean Michael Crain left us on December 30, 2007 at the age of twenty-eight, in an accidental departure from this world. He was buried at Woodlawn Cemetery in Santa Monica on January 10, 2008. Sean was born in Santa Monica on March 15, 1979. From his earliest days, he was exceptionally intelligent and emotionally sensitive. His glowing smile was an outward sign of the beauty he found in the world and in life's small pleasures. In Sean's all too short life, he found joys and brought joy to those who knew and loved him: to his father, Michael and his wife Denise, to his mother, Dianne, to his sister Katie, to his aunts Karen and Salli, to his grandmother Virginia and to so many others whose lives he touched. He was special and no one will ever forget him. Sean had many achievements. He was a diligent and top award winning student. One of his teachers recently recalled Sean as "a fine and sensitive young man" who possessed a "sharp and focused intellect." He was an excellent athlete, a tough and untiring competitor on the baseball field, the tennis and basketball courts, and the cross-country course. A fearless skier, Sean was never deterred by the steepness of any slope. Sean not only loved to play - and win - at sports, but he assiduously followed the sports pages and particularly the exploits of his favorite teams - the Angels, the Dodgers and the UCLA Bruins. He had a fine sense of humor and an enjoyment of the absurd. He was an excellent pianist. He was a movie buff and dearly loved 80's music. Sean's life was over much too soon and he left this world with so much promise unfulfilled. Those who knew and loved Sean cherish the time they were with him, and they know that now in heaven he has the peace and tranquillity he sought for so long.

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Published by Los Angeles Times on Mar. 2, 2008.

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Michael Homolka

January 12, 2023

I think of you often, Sean. I´m so sorry to have lost touch with you during high school. We had so many great times at the beach, on the tennis court, doing community service at Brentwood together, up to asininities with Andrew Y and Alex M. Thank you for enriching my life.

Michael Crain

December 30, 2022

Thinking of you, Sean. It´s been 15 years tonight. How I wish you were still with us.

Love, Daddy

Michael Crain

December 30, 2020

Dear Sean -
As always, you are in my heart.
Love, Daddy

Michael Crain

March 15, 2020

Dear Sean -

You are always in my heart.

Love, Daddy

Michael Crain

December 30, 2019

Dear Sean -
You are missed and loved always.
Love,
Daddy

Michael Crain

March 15, 2019

Dear Sean -

On today, your 40th birthday, please know that you are always loved and missed. God bless you and keep you.

Love,
Daddy

Michael Crain

December 30, 2018

You are always with us, Sean.

Michael Homolka

August 7, 2018

Dear Sean,

I have only recently learned of your passing. As you remember, I went to Brentwood School with you. We played tennis at the Riviera Tennis Club, and I still have the image in my head of your habit of keeping the ball half-hidden in your hand so you could be the one to start the rally. I remember trips to the beach to boogie board, going to the Third Street Promenade with you and Andrew Yamamoto, and volunteering to feed the homeless with you and your mother one Thanksgiving when you persuaded me to stay just five more minutes. I remember walking down your street once in Santa Monica and your pointing out Robert Zemeckiss house. I was never a very good or thoughtful friend to you, though I tried sincerely in all my young ignorance. Only now do I see the profound value and unimaginably high quality of human being you were. I have thought of your unique sensibility often. You had a rich and, I sensed, complex and perhaps unresolved inner life. Of all my friends growing up, you remain the kindest, most generous soul, as well as the greatest enigma. The world needs more of those with such spirits, but of course it gives us less. I am grateful nevertheless to be blessed with your memory. The purest parts of the world live on through your presence.

Michael Homolka

Michael Crain

March 15, 2018

Dear Sean -
On this 39th anniversary of your birth, you are missed and loved forever. Daddy

Michael Crain

December 30, 2017

Dear Sean -

Now it has been ten years. May God bless and keep you always and wipe away every tear. Missing you always.
Love, Daddy

Michael Crain

March 15, 2017

Dear Sean - I was at Woodlawn today remembering when I first saw you as you entered this world 38 years ago. You will always be alive in my heart. Love, Daddy

Michael Crain

December 30, 2015

Dear Sean -
Once again this sad anniversary is here. As with every day, I miss you and love you.
Daddy

June 16, 2015

Dear Sean,
I am saddened to learn of your departure from this world. I was a classmate in elementary school; how perfect your penmanship always was! You sat right behind me, always quiet and always good. You, a tender and gentle soul, are remembered and cherished. I think about you sometimes out of the blue, for what reason I do not know, but I always picture you smiling. May God grant your family peace and comfort.

Michael Crain

March 15, 2015

Dearest Sean -

It is now your 36th birthday. How you are missed. You will always be my beautiful boy. Love and peace. Daddy

Michael Crain

December 30, 2014

Dearest Sean – now it has been seven years since you left us. Again I pray that you have found the peace you could not find here. I see you in so many places where we used to go. Your daddy misses you so.

Michael Crain

March 15, 2014

Dearest Sean -

Today on your 35th birthday I left flowers for you at Woodlawn. You will truly be alive in my heart forever. May God bless and keep you. Love, Daddy

Michael Crain

December 30, 2013

Dear Sean - It has been six years since you left us. I miss you and think about you every day. I pray that you have found the peace you could not find here. Love, Daddy

March 15, 2013

Dear Sean - Today is your 34th birthday. The same age I was when you were born. How I miss you. I think of you always, my beautiful boy.

Love, Daddy

Michael Crain

March 27, 2012

Sean my beautiful boy - I truly believe that God will wipe away every tear and that he has wiped away yours. You are always with me. Love, Daddy

Michael Crain

December 30, 2011

My wonderful boy. I miss you so much. Rest in eternal peace.

Michael Crain

March 15, 2011

My beautiful boy -

Happy 32d. Spring is almost here and I think of our baseball seasons. I wish you were here, Sean and, if I could bring you back to have the life here which you deserved, I would. We will be together again someday. You are my wonderful boy.

Love, Daddy

December 30, 2010

Dearest Sean -
Now it has been three years since you left us. Everyone here misses you so much. I left flowers at Woodlawn today. I pray that you are at peace. You are with me always in my heart and my mind. My love to my wonderful boy. Daddy

March 15, 2010

March 15, 2010
On your 31st birthday I am thinking of you, Sean. My beautiful boy. I went to Woodlawn and left yellow flowers. They symbolize the brightness you brought to my life. On the way I passed by the Little League field and visualized you there batting and catching a pop fly at third base. It all went by too fast. All my love to you always.
Daddy

Michael Crain

December 30, 2009

Dear Sean - Now it has been two yesrs since you left us. How I miss you. I know that you are in a better place and that God truly does wash away all tears. Tonight there was a full moon. Every time there is one it symbolizes me the light of heaven and your being there when I arrive. My love to you Sean. Daddy

karen crain

December 30, 2009

Dear Sean,

Today it has been two calendar years
since your death. Time takes on a
different dimension when it relates
to matters of the heart. In so many
significant ways, you are still so
very much alive. You might have been
shy in the world, but when you felt
safe, you had an intensity of spirit
that left a lasting impact. So often,
I think of all of our conversations
and the depth of the feelings that you
conveyed. Your last words of appreciation will remain with me for the
rest of my life. I hope that you have spent the last couple of years
experiencing the peace that eluded you
in the latter part of your life.

My love always,
Aunt Karen

Michael Crain

December 30, 2008

Dear Sean -
Today is the first anniversary of that saddest of days when I learned that you had died. I think of you every day and miss you perhaps more than anyone knows. I recall that day when I know you were telling me, "I'm OK, Daddy." I believe that you are OK, and that in the passage of time we will be together again. I love you, my dearest son. Daddy

Michael Crain

November 7, 2008

Dearest Sean -
Today we placed your headstone at last. Beloved son and brother. How much we miss you. I know that the butterfly was a sign from you that you are with God and have peace everlasting. My love to you, Sean. Daddy

Michael Crain

June 15, 2008

Dear Sean - Today is the first Father's Day you have not been with me since 1978, the year before you were born. How quickly the last year has gone. It seems like only moments ago you and Katie and I were having lunch together in Venice. She and I spent the afternoon together. We talked about you and how much we miss you. May you rest in peace. I will love you forever. Daddy

Michael Crain

March 15, 2008

On this, your 29th birthday, I am thinking of you, young fella. I pray that, as I said in your eulogy, you are happy and safe. I miss you, Sean, and there will never be a day when I do not think about you. Love, Daddy

Salli Takenaka

March 3, 2008

Sean was inquisitive, playful, beautiful to look at, with a great warm smile. He was sensitive, appreciative, and academically and physically high- achieving. In Sean's photo album, I see many, many occasions ...mutual birthdays, holiday gatherings, special occasions, where joy and fun and happiness was shared by all. I will cherish all these memories. I miss Sean!! God bless him!!! Love, Aunt Salli

Denise Crain

March 3, 2008

Sean, if I've heard your dad tell it once, I've heard him tell it 100 times - the sweet story of how when you were little and playing baseball with the other kids, you picked dandelions and watched butterflies instead of watching for the ball. It will always be one of his favorite memories of you. I believe you are on another adventure now, one we will all eventually experience, but here, you will always be alive in the hearts of all who loved you, never forgotten, and always missed. We will always be sending you thoughts of love and best wishes! Love, Denise

Virginia Crain

March 3, 2008

Dearest Sean: May God hold you in His loving arms and may you rest in peace
forevermore. Please know how very much your family loved you and always will.
It's not goodbye, it's till we meet again. Te amo, my Sean. Love, Gram

Karen Crain

March 3, 2008

What I will remember most about Sean are his dancing eyes and winning smile. When he charged into the house on 17th St., you felt his enthusiasm and enjoyment of the absurd. Now that he's gone, I will remember him as The Little Prince who touched my life, imagining him telling me, just as Antoine De Saint-Exupery's prince had encouraged,
"You'll have stars like nobody else. And when you look up at the sky at night, since I'll be living on one of them, since I'll be laughing on one of them, for you it'll be as if all the stars are laughing. You'll have stars that can laugh! ... You'll feel like laughing with me. And you'll open your window sometimes just for the fun of it ... And your friends will be amazed to see you laughing while you're looking up at the sky. Then
you'll tell them, 'Yes, it's the stars; they always make me laugh!' And they'll think you're crazy. It'll be a nasty trick I played on you..." Love, Aunt Karen

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