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Wesley Todd Bender

1970 - 2018

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Wesley Bender Obituary

August 2, 1970 - March 5, 2018 Wesley Bender, 47, was born August 2, 1970 and passed away on Monday, March 5, 2018. Wesley was born in Van Nuys, CA, and spent most of his life in Burbank, CA, where he grew up. He attended public schools in Burbank, graduating from John Burroughs High School. In high school he developed his football skills which continued on at Glendale Community College and the University of Southern California. After college he went on to play in the NFL. He spent time with the Kansas City Chiefs, Los Angeles and Oakland Raiders; finishing with the New Orleans Saints. After football Wesley modified off road trucks. Later he was a sales representative in the concrete business for ten years. Most recently he worked alongside his brother in their dental instrument distributing business. Wesley is survived by his parents Dwain and Vicki Bender, his brother Brad (Valerie) Bender and his niece Charlee Rae Bender, several uncles, aunts, cousins, grandmother Mary Hill of Burbank and numerous friends. A Memorial Service will be held at the Old North Church, Forest Lawn Hollywood Hills on April 28, 2018 at 12:00 noon. A reception will follow. In lieu of flowers please send donations to your favorite charity.

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Published by Los Angeles Times from Mar. 9 to Mar. 11, 2018.

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Heather

June 1, 2022

Always thinking of you!

Bernard

January 27, 2022

I was thinking about old teammates then came across this. Can't echo enough what a great person Wes was to be around. Always friendly, positive, and willing help anyone for the sake of it being the right thing to do. Sorry for his family's loss and I felt obligated to share that he made a positive impact.

Charlee Rae Bender

August 22, 2019

Miss you forever and always.

April 19, 2019

My sincere condolences to the family. May you find comfort in reading Romans 15:13.

February 28, 2019

I am deeply sorry for you loss.

J M

November 21, 2018

I'm sorry for the loss to your family. Such a young man with so much more to offer to life. I pray that God comforts your broken hearts during this time.

August 28, 2018

May God be with your family and give you peace.

August 20, 2018

May the God of all comfort be with the family and give you peace.

Cy Zamani

April 30, 2018

Wes my teammate at Pierce College but we both ran in the backfield. We were both Burroughs Alumni from different eras and grew even closer when we were both back in Burbank. He was a cool kid and it was a blessing to have been a part of each other's lives. Going to miss you big fella and will always remember our time together on and off the field. I pray for peace for his family and pray he is standing at the right hand of the Lord looking down on us with that big smile. RIP #45!!!

christian

March 22, 2018

Please accept my deepest condolences for your loss. Rest assured life is precious to our Creator. He promises to act in our behalf.
1 Corinthians 15:26

March 10, 2018

So sorry to hear about the loss of your loved one. Please know that you are in the thoughts and prayers of many individuals who truly care about you. May the God who supplies endurance and comfort grant you peace. (Psalms 94:19)

March 9, 2018

I am so sorry to hear of your lost. I want to extend my most sincere condolences to the family. You are in my thoughts and prayers. Take comfort in knowing that God keeps those who die in his memory because they are precious in his eyes. Psalm 116:15

Melania Gonzalez

March 8, 2018

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

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Memorial service

12:00 p.m.

Old North Church

Forest Lawn, Hollywood Hills, CA

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