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Bernard Ridder Obituary

Bernard Joseph Ridder, Jr, 85, passed away peacefully on October 5, 2022, after a long illness. Barney, as he was universally known, was born in New York City to Bernard Joseph Ridder and Georgia Buck Ridder. He grew up in Laurel Hollow, on the North Shore of Long Island, where he attended The Green Vale School for eight years. Four years at Saint Marks School in Massachusetts followed where Barney distinguished himself on the soccer team. He graduated in 1959 with Honors from Yale University. After some travel and military service, he started work as a management trainee at The American News in Aberdeen, South Dakota. This newspaper belonged to his family's publishing firm, Ridder Publishing, where Barney spent his entire business career. Following two years at The Dispatch & Pioneer Press in Saint Paul, Minnesota, he moved to Long Beach, California, where he became Business Manager of the Independent and Press-Telegram. He then ran the group of weekly newspapers published by the I-PT in Orange County.

Barney loved the outdoors from a young age and spent a large portion of his life exploring nature. In 1971 he joined the Tuna Club of Avalon, where he remained a respected and popular member for the rest of his life. Barney had a series of tuna fishing boats that occupied much of his time and interest; he even designed a few of these boats. He enjoyed fly fishing for trout in Montana and Tierra de Fuego, Argentina, among other places. He enjoyed tarpon fishing in the Florida Keys. He would spend weekends during the season shooting ducks at his club near the Salton Sea. Sautéed duck breasts were among his many culinary accomplishments. He also gave back by being an early member of the California Coastal Commission and a supporter of Ducks Unlimited.

Barney is survived by his wife, Elaine Ridder; their two children, Bryan J. Ridder and Wendy Ridder Bergh (married to Howard S. Bergh Jr.); and two grandchildren, Violet Bergh and Scarlett Bergh, as well as his brother, Laurance Michael Ridder (married to Linda Vance).

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Published by Press-Telegram on Oct. 15, 2022.

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Charlie Legeman

October 10, 2025

I can't believe that three years have gone by. I always remember Barney when a SCTC tournament or travel event comes up and the fun we had.

Charlie Legeman

October 9, 2024

I was just thinking of Barney the other day. I was thinking of the fun we had on outings with the Southern California Tuna Club. The last time I saw Barney was at Joe Jost where we ran into each other over a polish sausage sandwich. We had a fun time catching up.
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Charlie Legeman

October 9, 2023

I first met Barney when I was 12 years old and he was 22, when he visited our neighbors Hank and Pony Ridder. Later as I became a young adult, I worked at the IPT and met up with Barney again. We shared mutual fishing interests and participated in several Southern California Tuna Club events. I always enjoyed Barney's company. He was a good friend.
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Charlie Legeman

April 2, 2023

I am sorry to learn of Barney's death. We enjoyed great times on fishing trips with the Southern California Tuna Club. Barney was a great human and a great sportsman. He will be missed.

Christina and Dan Moritz

October 26, 2022

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow. We have been Barney's neighbors in Seacliff, Huntington Beach, for the last 28 years. Everytime I had a problem with one of my plants Barney would give me advise or even treat them back to live. Now you can take of God's garden, Barney! Rest in peace! Love, Christina

Collette Anderson

October 16, 2022

I very much enjoyed working with/for Barney at West Orange. He was the most interesting and best Boss ever! Please accept my condolences. Collette Anderson

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