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Michael A
September 3, 2022
Ethan. You're still with us all. I always will remember you. I miss skateboarding with you.
March 25, 2017
Miss you every day, dear son.
Mom
December 26, 2014
Happy 25th Birthday, Ethan. I miss you so very much.
John Parmer
December 20, 2013
Missing you Son.
July 5, 2013
I miss you, Son. Always and every day.
January 15, 2013
<3
July 1, 2011
i think of you ethan everyday of my life, esp when i am driving home and pass the route i used to take to pick you up everyday. i still cant believe it and my heart still hurts. im so thankful to have been apart of your life and you mine. i love you so much ethan parmer, and will forever.
-libby
Randi King
June 9, 2011
Ethan, I think about you all the time. You were such a good friend to me. I miss you so much. I am truely blessed to have had you in my life when I did.
In the Colorado mountains on his Outward Bound trip.
November 5, 2010
gage brazie
October 7, 2010
bro,you meant so much to us.you were so many days of our lives,even if we were just at the apartment or walking moose and duchess any time or conversation with you was held at a different level.you helped me see so much more than i was willing too before i met you.i just want to say thank you ethan i love you,and your still in my dreams.
cera frederick
September 20, 2010
i miss him so much and i wish he was here i love you guys
Lisa Williams
September 11, 2010
Carlie, I heard the love you had for Ethan in the way you spoke passionately about him. Your love for him was obvious in all you said about him and did with him and for him. I pray that you will have a glorious reunion one day in heaven and you can spend an eternity hanging out with your son. My prayers are with you in your time of grief and sorrow and loneliness. May the Lord bless you and keep you, may His face shine upon you, may He be gracious towards you and show you His peace.
Brenda Stacey
September 7, 2010
Like a cancle in the wind. Ethans's memory will go on in spirit. God hold you in his loving arms.
Jean
September 7, 2010
Ethan brought joy to all who loved him. His smile was infectious, seemed he always had one from the time he was a baby until the last day I saw him. He was loved very much and will be missed greatly. I love you both so very much, you are in my thoughts always.
chris smith
September 7, 2010
Ethan touched a lot of people's lives. I enjoyed knowing and riding with him and John and Carlie for some years now!
Macy Yoscovits-Chrostowski
September 7, 2010
Carlie and John,
I still cannot believe that this is happening, and that Ethan is gone. My heart breaks for you and I am truly blessed to have known such a great guy like Ethan. I only wish that we could have kept in better contact over the years. Be strong and live each day to the fullest, as he would want us all to do. XOXOXO
Ginny Livingston
September 7, 2010
As the parent of a friend of Ethan's, I can't begin to imagine your pain. This is a parent's worst nightmare. My heart and prayers go out to you.
Candy Sambrook
September 3, 2010
Dear John,
I heard through Jim Devitt about Ethan. My thoughts and prayers are with you and the family at your time of grief.
Gail Sexton
September 3, 2010
Dr. Parmer,
My dearest sympathies and thoughts go out to you and your family.
Lauren Sorrells
September 2, 2010
You were and still are an inspiration, Ethan. We'll never forget you.
Toni McCrory
September 2, 2010
I am so sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Lynn & Jim Furin
September 1, 2010
"We are but a moment's sunlight fading in the grass."
Ethan shined very bright for that moment "outside", but will shine forever in our hearts.
Debbie Blaikner
August 31, 2010
Terrible loss a child is my deepest sympathy to you Carlie and family.
Debbie Blaikner
American Red Cross
St.Francis Hospital
Janet Jamieson
August 31, 2010
My heart breaks for your family. My only daughter passed away on March 10th of this year putting me in a club I never wanted to be in, no parent does. It is hard to accept the loss of a child, the loss of their goals and dreams for the future. I was comforted by the kindness of others who loved my child and were touched by her. I am thankful for the 25 years we had with her. Have faith, keep your strength, cry when you need to, talk of him often and keep him alive in your mind and heart.
Peter, Kim, Paul & Chad Hoffman
August 31, 2010
Ethan, our memories of you are full of your life and joy. You always brought a smile to our faces and laughter to our hearts. We will truly miss you, but will always carry memories of you with us. Our thoughts go out to Carlie, John, Erin and everyone who was touched by you.
Lainey Williams
August 31, 2010
As a friend of Ethan's since middle school, I would like to say that Ethan was such an incredible person with so much compassion for life. He will truly be missed. Your family will be in my thoughts and prayers. I am so sorry for your loss.
John Muntz
August 31, 2010
Carlie and John, We were all so sorry to hear about Ethan. I will always remember him as the nice and intelligent young man that he was. My prayers go out to you.
August 31, 2010
I'm sorry for your Lost...God's Speed
Carlene W. Lewis
August 31, 2010
Dr. Parmer, please know I am praying for yours and your families strength and courage during this difficult time and will continue to do so in times to come.
Wanda Jarrell-Harding
August 31, 2010
My prayer for you all is that the Lord will hold you in His hands and carry you through this terrible time. Todd, my only son, went to be with the Lord about 2 yrs ago and the knowledge that I will see him again, the thanks to the Lord for sharing him with me, and all the great memories have brought me this far. I pray the same for all you who loved Ethan.
Minna Stenius
August 31, 2010
I hope you and John can take some comfort from the fact that Ethan lived a life knowing that he was immensely loved. You made sure he knew how precious he was, and he did. Your poem was taped to his desk. He knew. His life was way too short, but it was a happy life, life filled with love, friendship, caring, good things. Wish you strength at this unbearably difficult time. Love,
Christina Van Allen
August 31, 2010
From New Mountain Hill to the big leagues, man. Whether playing kick ball with T-rev and Chad or pulling my car out of the mud at a party, you'll be missed tremendously. You're in everyone's thoughts and prayers and so is your family.
Linda Davis Minger
August 31, 2010
Life is uncertain and it affects me to see the demise of young people.
I do not know your family and I did not know Ethan but I wish your entire family PEACE.
A stranger who cares...
Joe Yoscovits
August 30, 2010
Carlie im so sry i never seen u guys more it upsets me alot and im so sry I miss Ethan but i will never forget bout him i promise you that. He's always with us no matter what!
Lissa Eubanks
August 30, 2010
I just want to let the whole Parmer family know how much I love you. Ethan was truly lucky to have all of you in his life, and he knew it. As well as we all know how lucky we are to have known such an inspiring and loving person. He has impacted the way I view and try to live life since the day I met him and he will be in my heart forever. Please know I will always be here for you guys if you need anything or would like to talk, I know you've been there for me
Lauren Plemons
August 30, 2010
It saddens me to know that someone so wonderful was taken at such a young age. He was such a wonderful person. His family will be in my prayers.
Ashley Pilcher
August 30, 2010
I have been missing the little boy who use to stop by my house every week to play/talk/hang out/pick on me ever since you moved away and now it breaks my heart to know you won't be stopping by at all any more. Ethan was one of my first friends as a little girl when I moved. He was quick to invite me in as a friend, he always made me smile, and always cared. I thank God for his friendship and I will be praying for you Mrs. Carlie and Mr. John.
August 30, 2010
As the parent of two of Ethan's friends and a former substitute that knew him since middle school, my heart aches for you. May God hold you in His mercy and grace until you are joined with Ethan again.
Julie Elver
Freeman and Jane Worley
August 30, 2010
We are so sorry for your loss. Our prayers are with you and your family.
Terri Stanford Baker
August 30, 2010
Carlie - I am so completely saddened...and so terribly and truly sorry for your loss. Please know that I am thinking of you and your family, and that me and mine are praying for yours.
Gerri Brooks
August 30, 2010
Dr. Parmer, my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
jennifer davis
August 30, 2010
Erin and family:
My prayers are with you. Know my phone is always open day and night for you. If you need to talk, pray, or need to laugh, call you better half.
Jennifer
August 30, 2010
"I am sorry for your loss."
Matt Bell
Xanadu Storey
August 30, 2010
To Ethan's family,
Ethan was someone very dear to me, and it broke my heart to know that I lost the privilege to have more of him in my life. He truly was a wonderful friend who never ceased to make me smile and make me feel good about myself. For those that he knew, they felt very loved and special to have him in their lives. He was someone who lived life to the fullest, and looked at life in a way that most are too afraid to perceive. Ethan truly was someone one of a kind, and he will be dearly missed by everyone he came to know.
My heart and prayers go out to his family, for I know you all are the ones who feel this weight heavier than anyone else. I am so sorry for your loss.
Teresa Davis
August 30, 2010
Erin, I know how close you where to Ethan. I heart is broken for you. Please know that God loves you an Ethan and that our Heavenly Father has Ethan in his Embrace, forever. My prayer for the needed comfort for you and your family are always on my heart and lips.
Patricia Johnson
August 30, 2010
Dr. Parmer, my prayers are with you and your family. If you need anything, I am a phone call away
August 30, 2010
John, I am so sorry for yours and your family's loss. I cannot imagine the pain you are all feeling, but hope if I can help in any way, you will let me know. You are all in my thoughts. Elizabeth Donegan
Kathy Currie Zych
August 30, 2010
Carlie, I am heartbroken for you over the loss of your son, Ethan. May all the memories you have of him and your time together give you comfort during this difficult time. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.~~Kathy Currie Zych (Allen Park, MI)
mindy scheible
August 30, 2010
My heart is breaking for you all..i am so sorry about your son..i will be keeping you all in my prayers.
Audrey Dunahoo
August 30, 2010
To Ethan's parents and relatives,
I love your son very much. He made his friends realize that it's a big world we live in, and encouraged them to explore it. He will always be remembered as the free spirit and caring person he was. We will all miss him.
Audra King
August 30, 2010
I was so sorry to hear about Ethan. He was a very close friend to me, and helped me through some very hard times. He will never be forgotten. My heart goes out to you.
August 30, 2010
Carlie and John,
We are so sorry for your loss.I was sad to hear the devastating news of your son Ethan. We pray that you find strength and comfort during this time with God and family.
Charles & Gail Alexander
Columbus, Georgia
Amber Bailey
August 30, 2010
Dearest Carlie, My heart goes out to you, I pray that God surrounds you with His love and comfort and that He gives you His peace, the peace the passes all understanding.
August 30, 2010
John, I am so very sorry for this loss. My thoughts are with you and your family.
Mary Anne Goodwin, Retired
West Central Georgia Regional Hospital
Tina Middleton
August 30, 2010
Dr. Parmer,
I was very sad to hear the devastating news of your son Ethan. I have prayed for strength and comfort for you and your family during this time. May God Bless you and yours.
Kristina Brooks
August 30, 2010
May God wrap His loving arms around you now and always.
Robin Flanigan
August 30, 2010
Those we love don't go away, they walk beside us every day. Unseen, unheard, but always near; so loved, so missed, so very dear.
May God bless you with serenity, strength and courage.
August 30, 2010
Carlie and John, We are very sorry for your loss. Ethan will truly be missed and his memory treasured.
Milissa and Jerry Ross
Janice and Charlie Proctor
August 30, 2010
Carlie,
Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
D. Washington
August 30, 2010
I was deeply saddened to hear of your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Peggy Kanowski
August 30, 2010
Carlie, I am so sorry for your loss. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers-
Lisa Redd
August 30, 2010
Carlie and John, we are so sorry for your loss. Ethan will always be remembered.
Love, Bill, Lisa, Rylee and Ryan
Barbara Gaither
August 30, 2010
Dear Parmer family,
My heart breaks at the depth of the grief you must be experiencing. I pray God's grace, peace, strength and comfort over all of you in the days that follow.
Barbara M. Gaither
Suzanne Ford Lancashire
August 30, 2010
May the love of friends and family carry you through your grief.
Mary Beth Cammon
August 30, 2010
Carlie and John,
My prayers are with you. May he ride with angels and bring peace and harmony to all creatures, big and small.
Deirdre Brown
August 30, 2010
I am sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this difficulty time.
Rita LaRosa-Carioti
August 30, 2010
Carlie, knowing that so many prayers are going out to you and your family, you will find comfort. Thinking of you and Ethan in every moment.
Jim Devitt
August 30, 2010
John, I am so very sorry for your loss. Please let me know how I can help. I realize that there is nothing that I can say to ease your suffering but I want you and Carlie to know that I am here.
August 30, 2010
Dear Erin and Family,
I will keep you in prayer through this time of need.
Theresa Williams
August 30, 2010
John and Carlie,
I am sorry to hear of the loss of your son. I will keep you both in my prayers and God will be with you in this time of sadness.
Charlie McGurk
August 30, 2010
Ethan, you will always be in our thoughts and prayers. We will miss you dearly. I'll especially miss you and Ryan coming over and having the leftovers for dinner. Your in God's hands now!
Judy Ables
August 30, 2010
Dear Erin and Family,
My prayers and thoughts are with you during this time of sorrow. May God bless you and keep you always.
Sandy Forgach (Gentles)
August 30, 2010
Carlie, I am so sorry to hear of your loss. My heart goes out to you and your family. You are in my prayers.
Susan Wolford
August 30, 2010
My thoughts and prayers are with you all!
Judy Ables
August 30, 2010
Dear Erin and Family,
My thoughts and prayers are with you during your time of loss. I pray that God will be with you and help you through this trial. God bless you and keep you always.
Cindy Pope
August 30, 2010
Carlie, I am so sorry to hear of your and your families loss. You are in my heart and prayers. Cindy Pope
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