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Nicole Smalley
December 10, 2024
Pat used to share with me how, for her birthday, her Mother put out a small christmas tree with little boxes for her friends to open when they came to her birthday party. She loved that memory.
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Nicole M Smalley
November 16, 2024
I was very sorry to hear of Pat's passing. My name is Nicole and I was a homehealth LNA at Rivermead. I left Rivermead in 2021, but visited Pat as often as I could. I followed her from her apt (where we used to have lots of laughs, I'd do crafts and make decorations for her door, and she would "supervise")
Then when she was in assisted living I'd visit and sometimes I joined her for exercise class. When she moved upstairs she still couldn't shake me. Sometimes she didn't know me, but we still had a ton of fun. I have a funny video of her singing John Jacob Jingle irishment..I gave her 3 little birds dressed in green for St. Patrick's day...the year before that a tee shirt that said "Wee Little Hooligan". Numerous little tokens when I worked at Rivermead and after. I was planning on visiting her before thanksgiving..I had another bird for her. I could never give her as precious of a gift as she gave me, her friendship and her advice. I lost my mother and I adopted Pat as my Mom. She told me to always choose laughter. Choose happiness over sadness. I loved her and I am so heartbroken that she is gone, but she will never, ever be forgotten.
Truly a precious soul..and SO FUNNY!
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