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Ruth Dedo Obituary

Ruth E. (Herk) Dedo

Westmoreland NH - Ruth E. (Herk) Dedo of Maplewood Nursing Home in Westmoreland, NH, passed away on April 26, 2023, after a long period of failing health, she was 96.

Ruth was born in Troy, NH on May 23rd 1926 daughter of Julius Herk of Finland and Sophie (Hackler) Herk of Marlborough, NH.

Ruth grew up in Troy and graduated from Troy High School in 1944 where she was class President. She worked for Markem Machine Corporation in the Engraving Department on Emerald Street in Keene, NH for 5 years before marrying Mario "Marty" Dedo of Keene in 1950. They had two children, Suzan in 1951 and Steven in 1955. Ruth helped Marty run the Park Theatre in Jaffrey, NH, which Marty operated for a number of years.

Moving to Peterborough, NH in 1958, Ruth was a member of the Peterborough Woman's Club for many years and enjoyed being part of a candlepin bowling team with a number of close friends. Ruth was also a member of the Union Congregational Church in Peterborough. Moving to Keene after Marty retired in 1982, Ruth became a member of The United Church of Christ on Central Square.

Having grown up in a Finnish household, Ruth was immensely proud of her Finnish heritage, speaking the language and carrying on various unique customs. It was her "Finn Blood" for which she regularly attributed her inner strength, general good health and longevity to. Ruth was a devoted wife and loving mother. She made it her priority in life to ensure that her children grew up with the love, values, memories and experiences that would ultimately shape their lives going forward.

Ruth's husband Marty passed away in 2016 and her daughter Suzan Elizabeth (Dedo) Kukish passed away in 2006. She is survived by her son Steven Dedo and his husband David Lawson of Chester England; two grandchildren, Ross Kukish and his wife Kristine of Peterborough and Andrew Kukish and his wife Becca of Laurens, South Carolina; three great-grandchildren Suzan, Izabel and Liam Kukish; and several cousins, a niece and nephews. Ruth's sister Edith (Herk) Glenday passed away in 1995.

Ruth's family would like to give a heartfelt thank you to all the staff at Maplewood Nursing Home in Westmoreland. We are grateful for their kindness, loving care and friendship so freely given to Ruth over many years. They truly became an extended family. Ruth's husband Marty as well as her mother Sophie were also past residents.

A private graveside service will be held for family at the Mountain View Cemetery in Troy. There will be no calling hours.

For those who wish, donations may be made in Ruth Dedo's memory to Maplewood Nursing Home, 201 River Road, Westmoreland, NH 03467.

Foley Funeral Home of Keene is assisting the family with arrangements. To offer online condolences to the family or to share special memories, please visit www.foleyfuneralhome.com.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by Monadnock Ledger-Transcript on May 9, 2023.

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Joanne Rennie Angell

May 14, 2023

Steve, So sorry to hear about your mother. Thinking of you.

Gregg and Patty Alexander

May 11, 2023

Steve, Ross and Andrew,
We are sorry for the loss of your Mother/Grandmother. She was a lovely, kind lady. May she rest peacefully. Thinking of you and sending our love. XO
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