A. Paul Shallers

A. Paul Shallers obituary, Agawam, MA

A. Paul Shallers

A. Shallers Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Sep. 2, 2025.
Alvin Paul Shallers, known to all as Paul, passed away on August 9, 2025 in Agawam, Massachusetts at the age of 85. He was born in July 1940 in New Albany, Indiana, the son of Alvin and Dorothy Shallers (Klusmeier). A longtime resident of Haddonfield, New Jersey, Paul is survived by his son, Nick Shallers, Nick's wife, Kelli Shallers (McKibban), his grandsons, Russell and Henry, and many nieces and nephews. He was predeceased by his wife, Nancy Shallers (Hancock), his daughter, Cress Shallers; and his sister, Nancy Falkenstein (Shallers) of Clarksville Indiana.

Paul dedicated his life to education. Over the course of his career, he taught English to students ranging from fifth grade up to college undergrads. His teaching appointments included Temple University, Haddonfield Friends School, and Moorestown Friends School.

He served as Headmaster of Haddonfield Friends School for 23 years, where he was admired for his vision, and commitment to nurturing both academic excellence and personal growth in his students. Colleagues, families, and alumni remembered him as a thoughtful leader whose guidance left a lasting mark on the school community.

Outside of his professional life, Paul found joy in many pursuits. He was a passionate gardener, cultivating beautiful spaces that reflected his patience and love of nature. He was also a lifelong lover of music and an accomplished singer, lending his voice to various choral groups throughout the years. Whether in rehearsal or performance, singing brought him fulfillment and connection, and he treasured the friendships and sense of community that music created.

Paul will be remembered not only for his intellect and depth of knowledge but also for his kindness and attentiveness to others. He had an uncommon ability to listen, encourage, and support those around him, leaving all who knew him with a sense of being valued and understood.

Paul leaves behind a legacy of learning, compassion, and integrity that endures through his family, his former students, and the many lives he touched throughout his long life.

Services will be private.

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Bob Giampietro

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I had Paul for 2 English classes at Temple in 1970-1. One, Children's Literature for Adults, was particularly good. He became an advisor and mentor to me. I will always remember him as a kind, smart & gentle man.
I wrote to him a few times after Temple, and we had a couple of very good epistolary chats. R I P, Paul. Bob Giampietro, Temple, 1972

Susan Marshall

September 2, 2025

Susan Marshall

September 2, 2025

I will miss Paul forever! He was our dear friend ! What a wonderful human Paul was. Whether he was teaching , singing, organizing events for both kids and adults, camping or
traveling he did so with panache! He could hold court with life changing tales! Paul was a humanitarian . He showed compassion for everyone. His home was a work of art with complete attention to every detail. A true renaissance man. Paul was a dear friend to my husband Ted and myself and a beloved uncle to our children. There are no words to describe what he meant to us. He was loved and loved well!

Madeline Seltzer

September 2, 2025

So sorry to lose Paul who was a wonderful friend who could always add cheer and humor to my day. I so enjoyed being his office mate at Temple University where we both taught. After, he became a dear friend, and we had many adventures hiking, especially at Indian Lake where we and other friends camped. He had a brilliant intellect and sometimes startled me with his insight and wit.
My condolences to all of us, especially to Nick and his family.

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