Aimee Trujillo

1937 - 2020

Aimee Trujillo obituary, 1937-2020, Anthony, New Mexico

Aimee Trujillo

1937 - 2020

Aimee Trujillo Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers from Oct. 23 to Oct. 25, 2020.
Aimee Beth Trujillo
January 24, 1937 - October 16, 2020
Aimee Beth Louderback was born in San Francisco, CA into a devout Irish Catholic family. She had two brothers and two sisters, all of whom are deceased except her oldest sister Jean who is 94 and still lives in San Francisco. Aimee attended Catholic schools her entire life and in every case she was the top student. Upon graduating from Presentation High School she enrolled in Lone Mountain College (a sister school to the University of San Francisco). There she met her future husband, Tony Trujillo, who was attending USF. Ever the unselfish one, she gave up her own career to support Tony and raise a family. Married in 1956 they were just short of their 65th anniversary.
While raising five children, who were her first priority, from time to time she ventured into the business and educational worlds. She taught elementary school in San Fernando, California, was secretary to the publisher of the Palo Alto Times, top accountant for California Casualty Insurance and operated an electronic company in Marin County.
As happens with many talented women, raising a family is so important and while the need to use all of her talents was ever present, she always put her family and their dreams before herself. She is survived by her husband, sister, five children, and her 2 granddaughters, Elizabeth and Jeanette. Aimee was incredibly proud that all of her children graduated from college. Therese, her oldest, is a recipient of three Emmy Awards. Her son Tony is a teacher in the Oakland Public School District and is married to Frances Joe. Louise is a physical therapist in San Francisco. John is an actor in New York City. Bob lives in Reno and recently completed two business degrees. Aimee's granddaughter, Elizabeth, is beginning her career in San Francisco. Her other granddaughter, Jeanette, is an Arts Administrator in San Francisco.
Happy marriages of 64 years are rare but Aimee was the model wife and mother. She went to El Paso with her husband so that he could become the superintendent of the Ysleta School District in 1992. Upon her husband's retirement she and Tony decided to remain in the area. They developed a thoroughbred breeding and racing farm in La Union, New Mexico. Her Catholic faith enriched her life. She served as a eucharistic minister at her parish.
In all her 83 years she was loved not only by her husband and family but by all who knew her. Her family has chosen to postpone services until it is safe to gather for a celebration of her life.

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October 17, 2024

Lucy Cook (Castañeda) posted to the memorial.

July 27, 2021

Margie and Fred Sanchez posted to the memorial.

December 21, 2020

Armida Baquera posted to the memorial.

Lucy Cook (Castañeda)

October 17, 2024

Aimee was the soul of hospitality. Life at the school district was so pressure filled that on those rare times when we got away to share fellowship, break bread, and Simply forget about the cares of the day. She opened the doors of the Trujillo home and welcomed us with open arms. She believed And abundance and made sure there was always plenty of good food to eat be it at barbecue or Mexican.

We laughed with her. We talked with her and most importantly, we Confided in her. Our common ground was that we all loved Mr. Trujillo and our goal was to see the school district succeeded for the well-being of The children, we also loved so much. I know God holds you in his loving arms, Aimee.

Margie and Fred Sanchez

July 27, 2021

Fred and I felt very special to be Aimee's friends. I also feel blessed that I got to talk to her the week of her passing. We loved her and continue to love Tony. May God keep him in good health.

Armida Baquera

December 21, 2020

Mrs Trujillo was a very special lady. I was blessed to get to know her as I worked under Mr Trujillo. She was kind and always saw the good in people. Rest In Peace and prayers for the family. Our father has called another angel to his side.

Lucy Cook (was Castaneda)

December 21, 2020

Aimee you certainly did become the First Lady of YISD once we got to know you. At first most of us were just in awe and somewhat fearful of the new Superintendent’s wife. How could we have known in those early days how much you would come to mean to us? Your friendship and goodwill meant everything to us as we worked together to make the district and our boss successful. It’s always been impossible for me to conceive of a union more perfect than yours with Mr. Trujillo. And it was your choice to put him first in all things that made it so. At this sad moment, having just learned that you left us in October and Christmas is but 5 days away, I can think of only one way in which you may have failed him — you left him way before he was ready. But I’m sure you’re interceding for him on a heavenly plane even now. Love you Aimee. Sorry I didn’t get to say goodbye. Lucy

Sandy

October 31, 2020

Aunt Aimee was a kind and gracious soul. She brought kindness and joy to all who were fortunate enough to know her and spend time with her. Forever in our hearts.

Denise Nichols

October 27, 2020

We were very saddened to hear of Aimee’s passing. She was a lovely sweet lady and will be greatly missed.
Our deepest condolences to Tony and family
Larry and Denise Nichols

Lydia Almeida

October 25, 2020

Mr.Trujillo and family with heartfelt sympathy I am very saddened for your loss. Aimee was a very special First Lady to the Ysleta Independent School District. She was truly loved. Please accept my sincere condolences Mr. Trujillo.

Affectionately,
Lydia Almeida

Irma

October 25, 2020

So sorry for your loss, Mr. Trujillo & family. The last time I saw Mrs. Trujillo was at my brother Emilio's rosary. My deepest condolences to all.You are in my prayers.
Irma Quiroz Ferri & Family

Robert Trujillo

October 25, 2020

Aimee was the greatest mother that a kid could ever ask for. I love and miss my mom dearly.

Vernon Butler

October 24, 2020

Aimee was a special lady and getting to know her through Tony was a privilege. Her love and support of those of us who worked in the YISD was special because she was a special lady.

Ann Bolte

October 23, 2020

Bless her family in this time of loss.

Mario and Lupe Lewis

October 23, 2020

Aimee was a very special lady. She was genuine. You always knew that what she said was sincere. She was our friend. She had grace and easily got along with most people. That made her very unique. She will always be fondly remembered. May the Peace of the Lord comfort Tony and her children.

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