Alexander ("Sandy") Hamilton

Alexander ("Sandy") Hamilton obituary, Redondo Beach, CA

Alexander ("Sandy") Hamilton

Alexander Hamilton Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Jun. 18, 2022.
Alex Hamilton was a life-long educator, chess-player, bagpiper and tea / coffee lover. He leaves a legacy that inspires and encourages all who knew him. He died instantly, peacefully on June 9, 2022 in his sunny Redondo Beach home.

He was born on December 6, 1944 in Brooklyn, New York to Scottish-immigrant father Andrew Hamilton, and Irish-immigrant mother Mary Kellett. He was dubbed "Sandy" and was especially close to his sister Kathleen who was nearer to him in age than oldest-sister Marie. As a young man he was a champion handball player, and developed an early love for chess. He also wanted to learn the bagpipes, but his father strongly advised against it. "Take up something practical, son. Like the piano! You don't have to march in a parade, nor carry a piano." But as a youthful act of rebellion, Sandy took up the bagpipes. Decades later, he was Pipe Major for the County Tyrone Pipe Band: New York City's oldest. For a few years, on St. Patrick's Day he proudly led his pipers and drummers in the televised Parade down 5th Avenue.

In college he worked as a clerk typing stock-certificates at a large bank, then supervised the logistics & distribution of Thomas's English Muffins where he learned to drive an 18-wheeler and developed a great love for carbs. He even did a stint as a New York City taxi driver for a summer, which made him a skillful, confident driver ever after.

Alex earned his Masters' Degree at St. John's University. He started as a teacher of high school students, and became licensed as a NYC High School Principal after earning a PhD-equivalent professional diploma from Pace University that entitled him to be called "Dr. Hamilton". Few knew that, as Alex never introduced himself by his title.

He was a creative, joyful and bold with an insatiably curious mind and an astonishingly wide array of interests. What made him unique was that his curiosity was often immediately followed by action: "Let's google that!" As a result, Alex always had something interesting going on, which made him an engaging and energizing person. He had a zest for living and learning that inspired others. He was the first person in his family to go to college, and helping others achieve their goals through education was one of his passions. In his later years he was involved in guiding students on both the East Coast and West Coast.

He also loved his local chess club in Alondra Park. He counted it a great game - even when he lost - if he had learned something. And he had such fun with it: few days passed without playing some form of the game. On lichess.org, Sandy ended up ranking in the 88th percentile.

Alex was an active member of Journey of Faith Church in Manhattan Beach. He came to a full measure of faith in his mid-40s. Still, he was quite shy about it in some circles. He believed that faith and goodness are best shown with deeds instead of words, and he lived accordingly. Alex was generous with his time, his energy, his finances, and his willingness to invest in others.

He met even life's biggest challenges with a calm heart. "Do not be anxious. All will be well" was a frequent, empathetic refrain. Then again, he also sometimes said, "A problem postponed is a problem half-solved." And Alex was skillful at avoiding anything he did not want to deal with.

He often quoted Abraham Lincoln's observation that ""Most folks are about as happy as they make up their minds to be." And so, Alex did choose to be happy. Every day. He was also excellent at forgiving himself.

Alex was always surprising. His curiosity was like a 7-year old's. But what was unique about Alex is that he acted on his curiosity -- always following the thread to some new discovery, always finding new music, art, books, and videos on a dazzling variety of topics.

Thus, he was always interesting. Sometimes long-winded or meandering - which is unexpected, as he was the winning debate coach for 2 championship teams -- Alex was also quite witty. Levity and laughter followed him. Yet he could also be firm, and fierce in his stand against injustice. He rarely got angry, but when provoked he could out-think and out-maneuver most comers.

Alex's legacy is one of hope, joy, inspiration and ACTION. He is survived by wife Edith Miszti Hamilton, parents-in-law, Edith's 3 siblings and their families, with 7 nieces and nephews on the West Coast. He is also survived by 3 children, Andy, Dan and Mary who each play the bagpipes, and their 3 spouses and 6 children.

Alex Hamilton's funeral service will be held on June 25, 2022 at 10 AM, at Journey of Faith Church at 1243 Artesia Blvd, Manhattan Beach, CA. It will be followed by a reception at 11:30 AM, and encryption at Green Hills Cemetery in Rancho Palos Verdes at 3 PM. Arrangements are being directed through Green Hills Mortuary.

Those who wish to remember Alex in a special way may make a fully-tax-deductible gift (in lieu of flowers, please) to the "Alexander T. Hamilton Memorial Scholarship Fund" at https://bold.org/funds/alexander-t-hamilton-memorial-scholarship-fund/

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June 28, 2022

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June 27, 2022

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June 25, 2022

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Matthew Robertson

June 28, 2022

All of us at Alondra Park Chess Club will miss Sandy tremendously. I've attached my only encounter with Sandy, which ended in a draw. A very good game played by Sandy!

John Dobrea

June 27, 2022

I am saddened that we lost such an great, kind, and wise man. Alex was always a pleasure to be around and converse with. He taught me a few things that I never knew before about chess, bagpipes and especially life. Alex was always smiling and always interested in whoever he was talking to. Every conversation was always geared towards the person he was talking to and not about himself. That is a lesson hard to learn in life, but he knew how to teach it by example. I am overjoyed that he is with our eternal Father in peace and happiness, but I will miss him here on earth.

Ria and Reema Dawar

June 25, 2022

We are eternally grateful to Sandy. We first met Sandy at Alondra Chess Club, but that was only the beginning of a beautiful friendship. Sandy was the most articulate person we knew-his words were brilliant. Even so, he would always be looking to learn from others as much as he could, whether it be new chess openings or how we were doing in school. Sandy has shaped us to be the young women we are today and will forever hold a place in our hearts.

Gouri

June 24, 2022

Alex Hamilton to most, Sandy to me will live on - through his words, through his deeds and the innumerable ways he has touched lives. In my almost half century of existence, can count on my fingertips people who have impacted me as much as Sandy. Sandy was much more than family to me. I am eternally grateful to Sandy and also to Chess as it was through Chess that I first came to know Sandy. Being relatively new to the country and California, Sandy reached out to us with a pure desire to help by offering educational counseling to my daughters with no expectations . Sandy was always there for us - I could reach out to him for guidance on the smallest of things and his advice helped us navigate the biggest challenges. He had deep knowledge, amazing clarity of thought and above all, a heart of gold which only wished the best for us. Ad Astra, Sandy. You will be missed very much as our world is not the same without you.

Victoria Shook

June 24, 2022

I knew Alex for over 18 years and he was a delightful patient who was always happy, curious, and engaging. We had wonderful, intellectual discussion of books, history and museum exhibits. I appreciated how encouraging he was. He always he took a personal interest in me and asked about my family. He was very special.

Al Peña

June 24, 2022

Al Peña

June 24, 2022

Al Peña

June 24, 2022

In victory or defeat Sandy was always incredibly gracious and just an all-around nice guy. His calm demeanor will be missed .

Edith Hamilton

June 22, 2022

Edith Hamilton

June 22, 2022

Edith Hamilton

June 22, 2022

Edith Hamilton

June 22, 2022

So grateful for the outpouring of love and support from our friends and family.

Timea Pop

June 21, 2022

We are sad to hear of Alex´s passing. May he rest in paradise. Our thoughts and prayers are with you Timea, and the entire family. We love you and may God bless you and keep you safe during this time and always.
Timea Pop and children

Dan & Marsha Wright

June 21, 2022

What a privilege to have worshiped and study both with and under Alex during our tenure at Journey Faith. He has left a significant hole in the lives of many, while leaving a legacy of service to his Savior and untold others. We appreciated his wisdom and kindness and will be missed by many. Praying for you Edith and family.

Douglas Vance Castagna

June 21, 2022

Alex was my first AP, back in 1993. I remember his quirky nature and his sense of humor. He seemed to have a saying, or factoid for just about every situation. Alex was a truly unique individual and will be missed

Patricia Gentile

June 20, 2022

Patricia Gentile

June 20, 2022

Patricia Gentile

June 20, 2022

Wishing my deepest condolences. Mr. Hamilton/ Alex was my first assistant principal. He became a cherished friend, provided me with the confidence I was lacking as a new teacher and left an indelible mark on my life. I am so saddened to know of his passing and so blessed to have 28 years of fond memories, including him playing the bagpipes at Stella's wedding, his nominating me for Educator Excellence, and meeting Charlotte Rae with him at Pippin. He was the best! I will never forget him. Edith, I will keep you and his family in my prayers.

June Bostick

June 20, 2022

What a beautiful tribute!

Paul and Julia Biro

June 20, 2022

Alex will never be forgotten! We went to visit Timea and Alex and the hospitality they showed was beyond our expectations! Both Timea and Alex made us feel like at home! At the time when they showed us the room Alex said " in this house we have no air conditioning" just to see our reaction, we are from Florida and in Florida you can´t be without it. Alex will be missed! The heaven has gained a true angel because Alex was not just another ordinary man you meet, he had an extremely good heart, a man who would do everything to help and you felt the selfless act of kindness you don´t see today. We are so blessed that we knew him and cherish his memories! Timea will remain in our thoughts and prayers! Sympathy to the whole family.

Vickie Rickords

June 20, 2022

Dear Edith... I am so sorry to hear of Alex's passing. You 2 were certainly the perfect match. I remember meeting him somewhere along the way at work event(s) we attended...and there were many of them ... having some dinner, drinks and lots of laughter. I remember him with a quick wit and lots of wonderful stories. He certainly led an interesting full life. There's nothing I can say or do to make it any easier or lessen the pain. Just know I will be thinking of and praying for you . Take Care, Vickie

Barbara Wenig

June 19, 2022

Our thoughts and prayers are with Edith and Alex´s loved ones.

I fondly remember Alex´s kindness and hospitality when I lived in New York, offering a ride back home when Edith and I were working late, or hosting me for tree trimming gatherings during the holidays. And always regaling us with some interesting thought or tidbit.

May you rest in peace,
Barb and Dave Wenig

Debra Hollister and Frank Bobbitt

June 19, 2022

Although we only met Alex one time when we had lunch in Scottsdale, I know through Edith what an amazing, kind, intelligent man he was. Our deepest condolences for such a profound loss.

Bill Lucia

June 19, 2022

My sympathy to the entire family and to one of the brightest lights in the world, Edith. Edith Alex's like shines bright through you and forever. I feel that he and i would have had alot to talk about. May you rest in peace Alex.

Your Nieces and Nephews in Florida, NY and England

June 19, 2022

We shall miss our Uncle Gingi. We love you. Linda Cromwell, Bud Cromwell, Jean Cromwell and Tom Cromwell, your FL, NY and England Nieces and Nephews.

Linda Cromwell

June 18, 2022

No idea why you and mom and i were so happy about a vacuum cleaner. Perhaps you thought you thought you could make a bagpipe kit out of it!

Linda Cromwell

June 18, 2022

I called him "Uncle Gingi" all thru his life. He was a great storyteller. I will miss you Uncle Gingi

Judi and Steve Vigh

June 18, 2022

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Judi and Steve Vigh

June 18, 2022

Alex, brother-in-law, uncle to my daughter´s and our friend. You will be missed but never forgotten. We will hold your seat at the Thanksgiving table. Thank you for always be someone to count on for advice and share a story with.
Judith and Steve Vigh

Edith Hamilton

June 18, 2022

You made me strong, confident and bold.

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