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October 24, 2014
Dear Abby and Joey,
It has been five years since Daddy passed away and you two have been the continuous lights of my life. You have been through so much in your young lives and you make everyday worth living.
Abby, Daddy is so proud of you for everything you have done to help me everyday and for everything you have accomplished in school, your running and your painting. I can't tell you how happy it makes me to see you following in Daddy's footsteps in school and running. I love you so much honey! Words can never express the joy you bring me everyday.
Joey, Daddy will always love his little guy! He will always be with you when you play ball! You have made me believe everyday that we can make it through anything that life brings us.
You both brought Daddy and I so much joy to our lives and you continue to do so with everything you accomplish.
Thank you both for your love, kindness, sense of humor, silliness and hope!
I love you both more than anything in the world....and so does Daddy!
Mommy
Sandra S.
June 5, 2013
In memory of a funny, kind friend from high school. God bless you.
November 27, 2012
Dear Amy,
I continue to keep you and the kids in my thoughts and prayers. You have been a blessing to many people through your strength, and grace. My continued prayer is that your faith guides you in your continued journey and that you hold fast to the knowledge that love "bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things." The love that you and Allan had is only surpassed by how much God loves you.
Sincerely,
Annette Massengill
sam
August 1, 2012
A, Thinking of you often. THANKS for so many things. So many things that I wish to share (personal and professional).
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Carol Lee (Wertz)
July 30, 2012
I am Allan's cousin from Mansfield Ohio. I am so sorry I didn't get to know you more. So sorry for your loss.
April (Noel) Smith
September 8, 2011
I hope your family has been able to heal a little in the last two years that Allan has been gone. It was such a shock for me when I learned of what happened. Allan and I went to school together from Elementary school through High School. We were never close, but you can't know someone for that long without feeling a connection. He was a great kid and I'm sure grew to be a great guy. I'm sorry for your loss and hope time has helped to heal your family.
September 8, 2010
Dear Amy,
My thoughts are with you. You and the kids will be okay! Alan's still there for all of you to help you through it.
Love you all!
Sandy Thompson
Mary Rose Fischer
September 8, 2010
Amy, I can't believe it's been a year. I know at times it seems much, much longer! This day sucks!
Just want you to know,that I'm thinking of you & the kids!
Love ya, Mary Rose
Ron A.
April 16, 2010
Amy,
After you left my store, I was very slow because of the storm that hit that day. I took some time to look up your family and found this tribute to your husband. It is very clear to me how special a relationship you had and I was very impressed with all the tremendous comments left by family and friends. Here seven months later, I can see this testament to somebody I did not know. It is an inspiration to live a better life and I can only hope that upon my demise, a loving tribute like this would be posted.
The brief time you spent in the store I could easily pick up what a wonderful mother and person you are. Your Abby is a doll baby and I hope she liked the Sheepie!!
Jolene Wertz
January 31, 2010
Amy,
It is hard for me to find the right words, mostly because I know, no one feels the loss as strongly as you and the kids. I loved my brother, he shaped a huge part of who I am today. I spent years following in his footsteps, trying to live up to the legacy that he left in our family. There was no ones opinion I cared about more than my brothers. From the moment he met you, I knew what I too wanted out of life. I wanted to find the love that you two shared. I compared all men in my life to how he treated you and to what you two had. Every heartbreak I went through, I always thought of the two of you, and I knew that someone out there was like him. He showed me how to live life and although I'm young and tend to make my own decisions even when I shouldn't, I do try and think about what he would say and think. You are my sister, thanks to Allan and you will be in my life no matter what happens and I thank god for that. I may not always be around, but I will be there whenever you need me. I love you guys with all my heart.
Aunt JoJo
January 31, 2010
To Abby and Joey,
It has taken me awhile to find the words, and yet I don't think they will ever be good enough to truly express the love I had for your father. He was the man I spent my entire life looking up too. He was my big brother, and I wanted to be just like him (although I thought I was too cool to admit it to anyone) it still was extremely obvious to those that knew us. I had to write an essay in college on who I admired most in this world, I wrote that essay about your Dad. When I was four my favorite song was Guns N' Roses- Welcome to the Jungle.. a song I loved because your dad loved it. Not your typical sesame street, four year old tune but no one could tell me otherwise. Watching him with you, Abby, I saw my childhood just by how he already had you drawn into his world of music, never leaving the house with out it, even if it meant running back upstairs to grab the perfect CD.
He loved you both so much, he wanted you both to have the chance to experience every possible opportunity and I know he will still be there cheering/supporting you both on, in whatever you decide to do. Your daddy was an exceptional man, who achieved so much at such a young age, he was the kinda guy that lived his life to the fullest, worked hard and partied harder. He was smart and a little crazy about things but most of the time, you couldn't help but laugh. I never met anyone that didn't like your dad, he left an impression on everyone he met, even if it was only for a short time. I see many of those personality traits in both of you already. Just remember he loves you both and is so proud of you, you are the loves of his life.
Jackie Mudrey
January 24, 2010
Amy,
I can't even express how sorry I am. Allan was truely a wonderful man and I know you are the love of his life. I still remember the first time I met you both. I knew that second that I wanted Greg and I to have the kind of bond you and Allan had and will always have. I also knew that Allan would make the wonderful father that he was (making Alexa her soda-water). I also felt as if I had known you both for a lifetime.
Allan was a great father, husband,son, brother, brother in law and friend. No one can take away the pain that you are feeling. Just know that we are here for you any time you need to talk, vent, or just cry. I wish that I could do more for you and the kids to help get through this extremely difficult time. Allan will live on forever in Abby and Joey. They both have so much of his personality and traits. I love you all so much!
Jackie
Jackie Mudrey
January 24, 2010
Abby and Joey,
I am so sorry about your Daddy. I want you to know that your father was a wonderful man. He was always kind and considerate of others and never left anywhere without making a new friend. He was so proud of both of you and is still watching over you and cheering you on from heaven. Your father will be with you every minute of every day. I can see that both of you have so many of your daddy's fantastic qualities.
I love you both!
Aunt Jackie
Greg Mudrey
January 18, 2010
Abby and Joey,
My precious niece and nephew. I have to tell you what a wonderful man your dad was. He was by far one of the kindest, and nicest men I have ever known. He was so happy and excited to have you both in his life. I know that your daddy loves you very much and that he is constantly watching over you from heaven. I want you to know that I am here for you always and I will help make sure that your daddy's memories live on forever.
I Love You,
Uncle Greg
Amy,
There are really no words that I can say to express how I feel. Allan was such a great man, and for me he was not just my brother-in-law or friend, but he was my brother. I need you to know that I will always be here for you and the kids. Allan's memories will live on forever. He will always be in my heart and in my soul.
I Love You,
Greg
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Uncle Scott and Aunt Melissa Mudrey
January 13, 2010
Abby and Joey, We want the two of you to know that your father was the kindest most loving dad. He loved the two of you more than anything. He could not stop talking about how much he loved both of you, and great it was to watch you grow up. You two were definitely the sparkle in his eyes. We know it is hard to understand why your dad is no longer here, but his memory will never be forgotten and you both will always be reminded of what a great and loving father he was. We are always here for you.
Love,
Uncle Scott and Aunt Melissa Mudrey
Scott and Melissa Mudrey
January 13, 2010
Amy,I can't tell you how sad I am for your loss. Melissa and I want you to know that you were the most important thing in Allan's life. When you two would come down to visit whether it be for a race, birthday, weekend away, he always raved about you and how much that he loved you. You were his best friend. Allan was not only my brother-in-law, but we always knew that we were brothers. We are always here for you and if you need anything please let us know.
Love,
Scott and Melissa Mudrey
Lisa Mehler
January 12, 2010
Dearest Amy,
Allan will live on in those of us who knew and loved him.
And, you will never be alone...
HAPPY BIRTHDAY, ALLAN!!!!!
November 5, 2009
Amy, Thank you for the kind words about Steve. We share some similarities--although with a 10 year difference. My daughter is 15 and my son is 3 years younger--12, and Steve had just turned 43. Steve and I met in high school and lived in Greentree when we were first married--I worked in Beaver County then. It appears that you have had an outpouring of love and kindness--as have I. Take Care,
Nina Coyle Greenberg
Kathleen Hirt
October 26, 2009
Dear Amy,
We never met your husband but you have handled our will and we felt very sad to hear of your loss. Our deepest sympathy.
Kathleen and Fred Hirt
Brian Truchan
October 19, 2009
Amy, May the love of friends and family carry you through your grief. My prayers are with you and your family.
Scott Harford
October 14, 2009
Amy, I am truly sorry for your loss. Allan was my best friend in law school and went out of his way for me every day. He will always be a special person to me and someone I will continue to hold in the highest regard. I will never forget our time together, and will always be thankful of the difference Allan made in my life.
Betty Roberts
October 5, 2009
With deep respect and love for you and
the entire family,I pray we continue to
live and love immersed in Allans faith
and values.
Nancy Toth
October 3, 2009
Amy, I am so, so sorry for your loss. My heart goes out to you. I feel your pain. You were so caring to me for my loss when we met. You will find some comfort in your memories of the time you did have with Allan.
Ken Shuttleworth
September 23, 2009
To Amy and children
It's our hope that in ten years or so when your able to read and understand this, that you will have realized what an impact your dad had in his short time on this earth. He was a kind, smart and gracious man who only wanted what was the best for everyone he encountered. He will be sorely missed.
To Amy: your strength has impressed everyone who was affected by this tragedy. You are truly an inspiration to others and particularly me. You and your family will not leave our prayers
Chrissy Persi
September 22, 2009
I was also shocked and saddened to hear the news of your loss. I knew Allan to be a nice guy and well-liked. To his family, there are no words but try and please remember that he is close to you always. I can only imagine how this must be for Amy is wife--God Bless you and your children! Don't stop talkng to Allan; In your prayers may he continue to have a relationship with the children as I'm sure he will continue to pray for his family from above. All my best.
delores Shellhouse
September 21, 2009
i was so sorry to hear of your loss! i never met a couple who made me feel a part of the family from the first time i met them !you were certainly a great pair ! i hope you find solice in your wonderful family ! God bless you & your family at this sad time Dee Shellhouse
Luis Cosenza
September 21, 2009
To Amy and Allan's family,
Words can not express the shock I felt when I received an email telling me of Allan's sudden passing. I got to know him during our Spring Break trip to Cancun. Allan was a kind hearted man, who went out of his way to start a friendship with me.
May God bless you and may his love comfort you during these hard times. Know that even though he is gone, he is in Heaven looking down on all of you and having a party as only he can.
God Bless,
Luis Cosenza aka Old School
Sam Zets
September 20, 2009
To Amy, family & friends, Thoughts and prayers are with you. Allan was admired and respected in very many ways by many different people. To me his friendship was always appreciated and will be so terribly missed. He was as fine of a person as I have ever met. His sincerity and genuineness always stood out.
September 20, 2009
My brother, my friend you will be truly missed. Words will never ever express how much I miss you. We will keep all the wonderful memories in our hearts until we meet again. Amy we're always near, just reach out anytime you need us. I love you, Abby, and Joey and I will pray for you. I know your Daddy is smiling down on us because he would except no other way. We must all keep the strong spirit and happiness in our hearts that your daddy so kindly shared with each and every person that had the pleasure of knowing him. Love ya always.
Don
Gary Spalla
September 18, 2009
Amy and Family-
Allan was so much more than a husband, father, brother, in-law, friend, or attorney. He was simply Beck. He was probably the most genuine, honest,and caring people that I've encountered in my life. Words cannot describe how saddened I am by his passing.
As the days and weeks pass, and as you attempt to return to life's routine, may you continue to feel comforted by the love and support of family and friends.
We're all here for all of you whenever you need support.
September 16, 2009
Dear Amy,
Words can not express how saddened we are to hear about Allan. He was such a great man. Anybody could see by just being in the room with you two how much in love you were. He was the perfect husband and also the perfect father to Abbey and Joey. While we did not know him as long as most of his friends it was long enough to know that he was a very special person. We both were very lucky to have known such a great man.
Dear Abbey and Joey,
Even though you can't see your daddy he will always be with you. He loves you two so very much and his love will always surround you.
Our love and support goes out to all of you.
With Love,
Maureen and Mike Kovalcik
Sally & Allan Haas
September 16, 2009
Dear Amy and Family:
The words and heartfelt sentiments expressed in your guest book bear witness to the fact that your husband was an incredible man with the ability to touch the lives of so many in a special way. Truly he was someone who made a difference. May God bless you and give you strength in the days ahead .
Marty / Carol Olshanski
September 16, 2009
There are no words to describe the great loss of such a great man, a great father, a great husband, and a great friend. If the world were like Alan, there would be no wars. We all will miss him dearly. His spirit will live in all of us.
September 16, 2009
Amy, we just learned of your loss. You have our heartfelt sympathy. You and your children will be in our prayers. Bill and Peg Horvath
peggy flynn
September 16, 2009
Amy,
I've never met a braver woman than you.
Seeing you stand up and approach the pulpit to speak at the end of Allan's funeral was unbelievable. You lovingly honored Allan with your wonderful tribute and showed how very proud you were to be his wife. I pray God will continue to bless you with grace and strength.
Abby and Joey,
Your daddy loves you very much and is watching over you and Mommy from his home in Heaven. He is your special angel.
Deb Kotik
September 15, 2009
Dear Amy,Abbey,Joey and entire family,
We are all just thinking about you and praying for you to get through this unbelieveable time.
Take comfort in knowing Allan was a wonderful man, and you have two beautiful children as proof.
He will be watching over you all with God. And we are all here for you as well.
We love you all. Deb,Joey,Josh,Kahla,
Kim,Joey, and Melissa
September 15, 2009
Amy,
You know there are no words to express how I feel right now. Allan will always have a big place in my heart. He was such a genuine person. He was a important part of our family. You know how much we love all of you. I couldn't have a better Little Sis and I thank you for bringing Allan into our family. Although the time was to short the memories will be forever. I was honored to be in your wedding and to be a part of the Amy and Allan unity. I will always love you.
Your big Sis,
Beth
Abby,
You are such a special little girl. I am praying for your daddy and I know he sees us because he caught your balloons. Keep on sending them.
I love you bunches,
Aunt Beth
Dear Joey,
Our precious little Joey. I promise you, we will make sure your daddy's memories live on forever. We have lots of stories to tell you. Daddy will always be with you. I PROMISE!
Love you,
Aunt Beth
Marnie Toth Nicklow
September 15, 2009
You must be a brave woman- you will get yourself and your children through this painful time. I hope you have lots of family support to help you. I will think of your family and pray for you.
September 14, 2009
David Spalla
September 14, 2009
Far too often in our lives people tend to come and go without making any kind of impact or positive impression. Beck was not this person. He was not a man of large stature nor did he have a booming voice. But to anyone who knew Beck felt his presence. At no point did you ever feel uncomfortable, you simply felt like a friend and or part of his family. I wish there were more people like him. He will be greatly missed.
Amy and family, you have my deepest sympathies.
Jenny Celenzi
September 14, 2009
Dear Amy,
So very sorry to hear this news. Please know that you and your family our in my thoughts and prayers.
My sympathy,
Jenny Celenzi
Donna Spalla
September 14, 2009
Dear Amy,
Know that I will include Allan, Abby, Joey and you in my daily prayers.
Raeann Traficante
September 14, 2009
Dear Amy and Family,
I am so sad for your loss of Allan. Amy,you and Allan are a part of some of my greatest memories of law school. You and your children our in my thoughts and prayers.
With Deepest Sympathy--Raeann (Burgo) Traficante
September 14, 2009
Dear Amy and family - I am Jennifer Celenzi's mom and I remember you from reyer's...I also went to school with your mom Nancy. I was very very sad to hear about this, knowing what a nice person you are and your mom I am sure he was also one of the best. My heart goes out to you and your children. Never were truer words spoken than - EVERYDAY is a gift! I shall pray for you and your family. Sincerely, Janie Celenzi
Kathy Jameyson
September 14, 2009
Dear Amy and Family
I was very saddened to hear of your loss. I wish you and yours peace in the days to come. Remember all the good times to help carry you through.
Carrie Jones Hagquist
September 14, 2009
Dear Amy and Family,
I was so sad to hear of the loss of your dear husband. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. I wish you peace and comfort in this very difficult time.
September 14, 2009
Dear Amy: I was very saddened to read of the passing of Allan. Please accept my sincere condolences. - Jeff Pollock, Esq., Sq. Hill
John Walls
September 14, 2009
To family, friends and everyone that had the pleasure of Allan in their lives,
It is hard to express the thoughts and feelings of such a great loss. Allan was a wonderful person and a gift from the heavens. I had the pleasure of his friendship in the young years of my life. Thru Junior High we were constant companions on the bus & on the track. Continuing thru Senior High, we shared many memorable experiences from homeroom to running the steeplechase in Shippensburg. Recently we were able to reconnect thru Facebook and very briefly renewed our friendship. He was great person, friendly, funny, and very passionate. It was my pleasure to be a small part of his life, my heart goes out to everyone he touched!
Kerrie Kauer
September 14, 2009
Dear Amy, Abby, & Joe,
I met Beck at SVC through my dear friend Pauly and he was one of the best guys with an amazing sense of humor and compassion for friends. I have only great memories of him and have heard from many friends that his love for Amy and his family was deep and true. I'll always remember his smile and kindness. My thoughts are with you all.
Melissa Anderson-Hegwood
September 13, 2009
Amy and Family,
Just heard through the KCHS grapevine about your loss. My heart goes out to you. Hold your little ones tight and know you are in the prayers of many.
Colette Pagano
September 13, 2009
Abby and Joe,
We went to college at Saint Vincent with your dad. He always had a smile on his face and would make us laugh. We enjoyed spending time with him at our 10 year reunion just a few years ago. He was well-loved by so many people and will be sorely missed. Know that both of you, along with your mom, have him as a special angel watching over you every day. We keep each of you in our thoughts and prayers.
-Gino and Colette Pagano
Thomas Harbert
September 13, 2009
Amy and children:
I had the pleasure of watching Allan as a young xc ruuner and recruited him to Saint Vincent College where he competed on the men's xc team. Coach Bravin, a HS coach, told me to keep my eye on him as a prospect and that he would be a great addition to the "Bearcat" team. We spent considerable time together on the trails and xc meets over his four years and even before that at SVC's "Heavenly Run."--many memories to mention. He always was polite, he was a good athlete, he was a good student, and he worked hard. It is always hard to convey a coaches feelings on the loss of an athlete and fine individual. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers--it was a privilege to be part of Allan's life.
Coach Tom Harbert
Allan's collegiate cross country coach
September 13, 2009
Dear Amy, We are so sorry for your loss. We were so blessed when Allan came to live with us. He became part of our family. We have so many special memories of that summer that will forever be cherished.You and your family will always be in our hearts.We love you.
Paul and Esther
Jamie Flaherty
September 13, 2009
To Abby and Joe - I met your wonderful parents in law school. I had the opportunity to be there when they met and watch them grow as a loving couple. Your parents were inseperable in school. Your dad always was so well prepared for class and worked very hard. He was a focused and driven person. I did not have the opportunity to see you with your dad....but so many people have told that he loved you both so much and always smiled when you were around. You made him very happy and always remember that. He is watching down on you and is so proud of your strength. I know you two are going to be great, just like your dad.
September 13, 2009
Amy and Family,
My thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family.
With my deepest sympathy,
Jodie Eger
Marina More' Mangerie
September 13, 2009
Allan (Beck) was a great friend whom I first met at SVC. Intelligent and quick-witted, with a fashion tendency towards the rock concert t-shirt, Beck was an enigmatic personality. Known to add fun and laughter to all occasions, he also set his sights on future success in life. After graduation, Allan and I both went to Duquesne to continue our professional education, and I distinctly remember that first week when he introduced me to his future wife, Amy. I knew for sure that she was the perfect match for him! Their beautiful family is a true testimony to their love and devotion to each other.
Amy, all of my love, thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family. Abby and Joey, your dad brought so much joy to everyone’s lives, and his spirit will live forever in each of you. He will be missed but never forgotten.
Melissa Nonack (Maloy)
September 13, 2009
Amy and family,
From the first moment I met Allan at SVC I knew he would become a great friend. I had the opportunity to share so many great times with him and have some of the best memories from SVC and on with him. Then he met you Amy and his world just lit up. You two had the love that is written about in books and you produced two amazing children. Even though he's gone his memory is going to go on in you and the kids and with everyone that was lucky enough to have known him. He will always be with you guys looking down and smiling and protecting you along the way. Abby and Joe, know your dad was an amazing man and he loved your mommy more then anything in the world He touched so many and will be deeply missed. The world lost a great man but heaven gained a great angel.
Marissa Sinisi
September 13, 2009
To Amy, Abby, and Joey,
I was so deeply saddened to hear the news of Allan's passing. Allan was such a huge part of my life when we were both first in college. There are so many good memories that I will always hold close to my heart...times rich with music, full of laughter, and filled with friends (Doug, Kenny, and Jen) during summers back home and trips to Saint Vincent. Allan was a fine man with a great heart, and I feel lucky that I got to reconnect with him last year to hear about how happy he was and about his wonderful family.
My deepest sympathy is extended to you during this most difficult time, and my thoughts and prayers are with you.
Michelle Staab
September 13, 2009
It took me a while to decide what to write considering you two, Abby and Joe, will have the opportunity to read this as you get older. Some people saw your mommy and daddy as very serious lawyers (especially your daddy). As Re and I know this not the case. We were blessed with the opportunity to become close to your family. We soon learned your daddy had a very fun and humorous side, especially when it came to you two. He loved you both very much and always had what was best for you both at heart.
Mt. Washington Children Center is now missing half of the coolest (that’s right your parents were cool) set of parents there. I hope that you will always keep your school family close. I hope that you always ask about your daddy and remember what he was like. Maybe you can get your mom to show you her impersonation of how your daddy did Vanilla Ice. I mean someone has to carry on his legacy right?
Sarah Vijlee
September 12, 2009
Abby and Joe,
I went to school with you dad. Even though we didn't have many classes together, I could tell what a good person he was by how he treated the people around him. Always smiling and so friendly.
Abby,
I saw you and your dad about a couple of years ago when you were shopping. I hadn't seen him since we graduated but we re-introducted ourselves and spoke for a few minutes. I could tell what a great dad he was and how proud he was to be there with you.
Your dad will be missed. He will always be with you.
Bob & Joyce Hughes
September 12, 2009
Amy,
We are one of your neighbors on Greenlawn. We want to extend our sympathies to you and your family. We were sorry to hear of your loss.
The Lord Bless you and your children.
Devon Field
September 12, 2009
Amy and Family,
I only knew Allen as an acquaintance from SVC. Your family is in my thoughts and prayers during these difficult times.
May the road rise to meet you
May the wind be always at your back
May the sun shine warm upon your face
And the rains fall soft upon your fields
And until we meet again
May God hold you in the palm of his hands (Irish blessing)
September 12, 2009
Amy and family,
Peter and I are so sorry for your loss. Please know that we are here to help in any way possible. Our thoughts and prayers are for you and your family.
God's Peace,
Peter and Melba
Eric Hoffman
September 12, 2009
I was lucky enought to attend both college (SVC) and law school (Duquesne) with Beck! I will NEVER forget the first day of class at Duquesne. We walked into class together and as I sat down he said , as only he could, "don't even think of sitting next to her Hoff." The girl he was referring to was Amy. Within a week they were going out and I knew Beck had found the love of his life! I was so grateful for both of you that first year of law school and I cant put into words how much I appreciated both of your support in what turned out to be a difficult year for me. Amy, I want you to know that I am here for you and I am praying for you and Abby and Joe.
September 12, 2009
Amy and family,
Peter and I are keeping you in our prayers. We are so sorry for your loss. We want you to know we are here to help in any way you need. Please let us know.
Love to you all,
Peter and Melba
Lori Closson
September 12, 2009
Abby and Joe,
I was lucky enough to know your daddy because we went to college together. he was such a great person! always fun to be around and easy to talk to.
What I remember most about him, was how truly happy he was to marry your mom! I was blessed to have been asked to share in their joy that day, and it was a wonderful day filled with love and happiness, friends and family! I remember thinking how special your mom and dad were together and how they would be blessed with love and a wonderful family to share as long as they could be together.
Your dad was so special! I know he lives in you both and in everything you do, he is watching over you.
Love,
Lori (Grum) Closson
Kelly Sheehy DeGroot
September 12, 2009
Abby, and Joey,
Your dad was one of the nicest people I knew at SVC, the last time I saw him was at our 10 year reunion in 2007 and it was like we had just seen each other. He was a great friend and will be greatly missed.
Mary Messina
September 12, 2009
Amy,
I am so sorry for your loss and was honored that you asked me to sing at the funeral. If it was at all possible, I would be there. I have performed at many weddings through the years and remember some more than others. Your wedding always stood out to me.
You are a very special person and I know that this is stunningly difficult and unfair, but you are strong and faith-filled. Look to God for peace and lean on friends and family for support. I am praying for you and your family.
God Bless,
Mary Messina
Dawn Miller
September 12, 2009
Amy, Abby and Joey- Our deepest sympathies are with you at this time. Please know that you are in our thoughts and prayers. We hope that our friendships can help you heal.
In loving thought,
Ayla and the Miller family
September 12, 2009
Amy, Abby and Joe,
To know Allan is to love him there is no way around it. Although he was only here for such a short time, he left behind the best he had to give..his love for you and your children. There was never a visit to Pittsburgh or a phone call to my Uncle Rod and Bob that we did not speak of Allan, you and the kids. I don't have to tell you how much you mean to all of us. I will forever cherish our memories of Allan from our family breakfasts and dinners, 4th of July, porch parties and the infamous Dover Race. He will live on through all the memories.
Your friends from Jamestown NY,
Dan, Mindy, Alex, Andrew and Aiden Devereaux
Dave Hoechstetter
September 12, 2009
Brian, J.B. & families:
I was saddened to hear of your loss. Please know that you are in my thoughts & prayers at this difficult time.
Kathleen Schmidt-Hensley
September 12, 2009
Amy, I am so sorry to hear about your husband. You are in my thoughts and prayers.
September 12, 2009
Our deepest sympathy and prayers to you and your family. We are so very sorry for your loss.
Tony and Rita Montanaro
September 12, 2009
It is a rare occurence that you meet someone that leaves a lasting impression, a comfort level that feels as if you have known them a lifetime. Allan was one of those special people. Although we have known him just a brief period of time, his passing has touched us deeply. We have lost someone who we knew left a lasting impression wherever he went and on whomever he met. It was a great privilege to know him. He will be greatly missed. Our hearts go out to all who have lost this joyful, caring soul.
September 12, 2009
Brian, J.B. and families, Im so sorry to hear of the loss of your brother. my thoughts and prayers are with you all during this very difficult time..God bless you all.
Tami Westover
Tim Stokes
September 12, 2009
Hey Amy (and Wertz/Mudrey families),
I was shocked and deeply saddened to hear the news on Tuesday and wish you nothing but the best in what is an extremely difficult time. Whether it was during our time at Saint Vincent College, a spring break trip, porch parties, fantasy football drafts or any other random occassion when I had the chance to catch up with him, Beck did nothing but add value and amusement to my life and he will be greatly missed. Beck was a genuinely good guy though I can say that even though he was still a pretty good guy in college, I don't think there are too many people that changed for the positive between college and his adult life more than he did. Obviously you and the kids had everything to do with that and you should be very proud. I wish you and your family the best in the days ahead and have nothing but faith that you will get through them difficult as they may be. My thoughts are with you, Abby and Joe and your families.
jennifer johnson
September 12, 2009
Amy, Abby and Joey,
Words cannot express what I am feeling right now. My thoughts and prayers are with all of you at this difficult time. Know that Allan touched so many lives during his short time here. He was a wonderful person who always made me laugh. I will never forget his great "Vanilla Ice" impression. He was one of a kind and I believe that God just needed to smile so he called for Allan to come to him.
Love,
Jennifer Johnson
September 12, 2009
Amy,
We still cannot believe we have lost one our greatest friends and fellow Nascar Fans. Allan was always the life of out trips to Dover. The unique arrangement about all of our group, was the meshing of ages from 80 years to early 20's. Allan was always cheerful and respectful. He will be sadly missed.
With all our love from the Over the Hill Gang, Dover De.,
Sonny, Cindy Shellhouse and Family
Guy and Mike Lyons, Tim Milhalko, Dale and Dick Murdock, Gene Johnson, Doug Johnson, John and Boyd Whitehead,Joe Henry, Skip Vincent, Jim Burns,Mark Damon, Paul and Tom Harris.
Kevin Fetsko
September 11, 2009
Amy,
My thoughts,prayers and sympathy go out to you and your family.
Aaron McBride
September 11, 2009
Amy,
I was deeply saddened to hear the news. I cannot tell you how sorry I am for your loss. It has been many years since I have been in the burgh, but I remember many great times at Rod and Bob's with you, Allan and the "porch party gang." I am sure that he will be deeply missed, and more importantly remembered as a great man, a great person and a great father and husband. God Bless you Amy and look favorably on you and your family in these difficult times....
There's no other love like the love for a brother. There's no other love like the love from a brother.
September 11, 2009
Kathleen Zeek
September 11, 2009
Dearest Amy, Abby, Joey, Jean, Sheldon, Jo, Patty, Brian, Cathy, and all of Allan's wonderful family;
God hath not promised
Skies always blue
Flower-strewn pathways
All our lives through
God hath not promised
Sun without rain
Joy without sorrow
Peace without pain
But God hath promised
Strength for the day
Rest for the labor
Light for the way
Grace for the trials
Help from above
Unfailing sympathy
Undying Love
You all have my deepest sympathy for the tragic loss of Allan, may God's love comfort each of you. Your family will be in my thoughts and prayers.
Love,
Kathleen
Geri Viti
September 11, 2009
Amy
What a pleasure it was to work with Allan at BWH, share many laughs when he told his stories about Abby and he had many. Alan was a great guy and gone far too soon. I wil miss him dearly. Know that you, Abby and Joey will be in my thoughts and prayers.
Darlena Mancuso
September 11, 2009
Amy
Words cannot express the sorrow we are feeling for you and your family. You are in our thoughts and prayers everyday.
Darlena, Nick, Mercedes & Dominique
Erin, Ainsley and Harper
September 11, 2009
The right words escape me at this moment...Allan leaves an incredibly positive legacy through Abby and Joey and through the lives he and Amy touched in their years together. He was a great friend, father and husband. Allan will be remembered fondly and missed greatly by all who had the pleasure of knowing him. Our thoughts are with Amy, Abby and Joey during this difficult time.
Kathy Cuda
September 11, 2009
Amy:
Sometimes the hurt is too big for words. But know this, that Allan is where he has been since the first day you met him - in your heart.
Our deepest sympathy to you and your family.
Sincerely,
Kathy & Ernie Cuda
Rebecca and Maddy Lafferty
September 11, 2009
Dear Amy, I am so sorry for your loss. My heart goes out to you and your children. Allan was so smart, caring, loyal, and such a wonderful family man. He will be greatly missed. Please know that you and your family are in our prayers. We love you.
Tammy Stenson and Gina Shell
September 11, 2009
My sister and I knew Allan from the SVC cross country team. He had a great personality and was a dedicated runner. Our condolences to Allan's wife and children. Your family is in our prayers.
Paul
September 11, 2009
Beck, or as my Grandmother called him, Pep, was like a brother to me and like another son to my parents. I was lucky to meet him freshman year and he has been a great friend to me ever since. When you mention Allan to anyone who met him, a smile immediately comes to their face, as he did nothing but bring people joy. Being close with Beck has made me a better person, as he taught me things about life that I will carry with me forever.
Jim Scorzafave & Sioux Komoroski
September 11, 2009
Amy,
We extend our most sincere condelences on your loss. We remember your's and Allan's smiling faces and great laughter at many a Mt. Washington gathering. We remember the joy when hearing about your new marriage, new careers, new home, and especially the newest Abby and Joey.
Abby and Joey, although Daddy is gone from you in this physical world, he has already passed on to you such love and security that he will live on in you both forever and will always be a positive force in your lives.
Amy, we join you and all those who love you and your familiy in celebrating a life well lived. We will cherish the memories forever.
Autumn Purdy
September 11, 2009
I was so saddened to hear about Allan's passing. I knew Allan from school at St. Vincent College. He was such a rare and wonderful guy. May God hold you in the palm of His hands and comfort you in your time of grief. Please accept my prayers and deepest sympathies on your great loss.
Carrie Trisch
September 11, 2009
Allan will be missed here at BWH. I have known Allan since he started working here. I have great memories of Allan attending our department Christmas parties. He sang karoake for us last year. It was always a joy when Allan and you brought the kids in to visit us at BWH. Please know that my thoughts and prayers are with you and your children during this difficult time. You will have many treasured memories that will last a lifetime.
September 11, 2009
Don't be sad because he's gone...be happy because he lived. We love you Wertz
The Witners
September 11, 2009
Amy, we are so sadden for your family's loss. Words can not even begin to express our sympathy. May God be with you in this difficult time. We know you will be strong for your children. Lexi & Rod Herron, Finleyville, PA
Mary Rose Fischer
September 11, 2009
Amy and family, We want you to know we are thinking and praying for all of you at this very sad time. Alan will be greatly missed by all. Amy, although it may not seem like it right now, just know that your children, God & Alan will give you the stregnth you need to get through this - One day at a time! Take care. Love ya,
Matthew Mancuso
September 11, 2009
Quick wit, opinionated music, and ran like the wind...rest in peace Beck. To his wife, children, and family, please accept my deepest sympathies.
September 11, 2009
Amy,
There are no words to express the profound feelings of disbelief we have over Alan's tragic passing.
We extend our hearts to you and your children in this time of unimaginable sorrow. As parents of children who attend the same daycare, and only really knowing Alan casually as "Abby and Joey's" daddy, please be comforted by this truth, that his love of and devotion to you and your children was unmistakeable and evident in his actions.
We regret having lost the opportunity to get to know him better and we will miss seeing him at the Children's center.
We pray that God blesses you, Abby, and Joseph.
The Kearney's
Ryan,Vicki,Lex,and Violet
Michelle Fontana
September 11, 2009
Dear Amy and Family,
Words cannot express how sad I am for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you, Abby, and Joseph.
With my condolences and deepest sympathy, Michelle (Fontana)
Carissa Spenst
September 11, 2009
Allan was my cousin and every summer we would leave Ohio and go visit Pennsylvania. I looked forward to going to play with Allan when we were little and as we got older just hanging out being goofy. He was a wonderful person, always had a smile and a joke. I will miss him very much but I am glad to say we had 33 years of silliness.
Annie Casey
September 11, 2009
Amy, I can't begin to fathom such a loss of such a great guy. I don't have a memory of your family over at Bob and Rod's for picnics and holidays that doesn't bring a smile to my face. I pray that you find peace. I will keep you and your children in my thoughts and prayers always
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