Andrew S. DiSilvestro Sr.

1960 - 2019

Andrew S. DiSilvestro Sr. obituary, 1960-2019, Durham, CT

Andrew S. DiSilvestro Sr.

1960 - 2019

BORN

1960

DIED

2019

Andrew DiSilvestro Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers from Jul. 5 to Jul. 6, 2019.
Andrew Salvatore DiSilvestro, Sr., was born on May 16, 1960. He passed away peacefully on June 30, 2019 at home surrounded by his wife and four children. Andy was a devoted husband and father. He leaves behind the love of his life, Sharon (Pietrzyk) DiSilvestro and their four children: A son Andrew Jr. of Middlebury, his son Joshua, and his two daughters: Rachel and Sarah all from Durham. Andy enlisted into the Navy at age 17 where he began the life he longed for. After being in the Navy, Andy did many odd jobs and completed his GED. He enrolled at Middlesex Community College which changed his life forever. He met Sharon, completed his degree and then married Sharon. Soon after he completed his degree Andy enrolled in Ona Wilcox School of Nursing; this decision helped spring-board him into a career where he flourished and became an outstanding Unit Director at Connecticut Valley Hospital. Andy loved to volunteer. He was a volunteer firefighter for CVH, a Boy Scout leader, Eucharist Minister, sang in the choir and was part of the Knights of Columbus all within St Mary of Czestochowa. He also volunteered many years for the Durham Fair Association and was a regular blood donor. Andy had a great sense of humor and loved life. He constantly joked and brought perpetual laughter and joy to his wife and children. Andy always wanted to live in the country and his dream came true when he and his wife purchased a home in Durham. Andy enjoyed his yard and home and was often found working to improve both. He was a family man and loved being with his wife and children. He was proud of his children and the life he built with his wife. Andy fought early on-set Alzheimer's for years. He constantly amazed his family by remaining within himself and then revealing a small glimpse of his personality throughout his fight with this terrible illness. In addition, he leaves behind, his sister Angela Fava from Seattle, WA, his brother, George Malone and sister, Sandra White both from Middletown, CT, his beloved Uncle Sal Malone (Champ) from Portland, CT, his in-laws Ellen and Stan Pietrzyk (Mom and Dad P.) from Middlefield, CT, his many sisters and brothers-in-law, and nieces and nephews. He was predeceased by his twin brother Anthony DiSilvestro and his mother Annabelle Malone. Calling hours will be at Biega Funeral Home, 3 Silver St., Middletown on Friday, July 5th from 5 to 8 p.m. The Funeral Liturgy will be held on Saturday at 10:30 a.m. at St. Mary of Czestochowa Church, Middletown. Burial in the State Veterans' Cemetery, Middletown, will be at the convenience of the family. In lieu of flowers, please make donations to Alzheimer's Association CT Chapter, 200 Executive Blvd., Suite 4B, Southington, CT 06489. To share memories or express condolences online please visit www.biegafuneralhome.com.



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July 15, 2019

Katie & Tim Kesten posted to the memorial.

July 8, 2019

Roxanne Sievert posted to the memorial.

July 6, 2019

Marilyn Slater posted to the memorial.

Katie & Tim Kesten

July 15, 2019

Sharon and family, we are so sorry for your loss of Andy. He was a bright light on this earth, he will be missed. with deepest sympathy...Katie and Tim Kesten

Roxanne Sievert

July 8, 2019

I was in complete shock and very sad to read of Andy's passing. I worked with him for many years as a Nurse at CVH. I retired six years ago so I had no idea what he was going through. He definitely lived a full life, but much too short. I'm sure he's at peace and I know he will be missed and remembered by so many people.

Marilyn Slater

July 6, 2019

Sharon and family;Sorry about your loss. I was glad to be able to see you for a few moments, what a pretty church and service. Sorry that Julie and I couldn't stay longer.God bless, my thoughts and prayers are with you.

Patricia Kimmel

July 5, 2019

I was so sorry to hear of Andy's passing. I worked with him at CVH.
He was a very kind person with a great sense of humor. He had a great contagious laugh and a wonderful singing voice. He was very caring towards patients and staff. He adored Sharon and his children. I would
used to laugh that I had worked at CVH so long that I had also worked with his grandmother,Angie. He was a very special man.

Wendy Dopslaff

July 5, 2019

Sharon,
I am so very sorry for your loss. I was blessed to meet Andy and you this past year. I could see in both your eyes the love you shared. My prayers are with you and your family.

Beth Carangelo

July 5, 2019

Deepest sympathies to you all....I am Andys cousin and have fond memories of him growing up. I will always remember his smile. Please know that you are all in my thoughts and prayers during this most difficult time.

Julie dale Gervasi

July 5, 2019

Sharon and family;So sorry to hear of your loss, my prayers are with you. I only met Andy a few times,as we were Godparents to Kailey. God bless.

Linda Sienkiewicz

July 5, 2019

Sharon and family,
I am so saddened to learn of this awful loss. Please accept my heartfelt condolences. Allow the loved ones around you to embrace you with their support and love.

Joanne Jukins

July 4, 2019

Sharon and kids, Im so sorry to hear that Andy has passed but Im so grateful that I knew him and laughed with him. It was so evident that his family was his whole world. He will live on in his children and I will keep you all in my thoughts and prayers.

Richard Otte

July 4, 2019

Sharon, Andrew Jr., Joshua, Rachel and Sarah I cannot express enough, my sadness and thoughts for all of you... I read this in Andy's obituary..... " Andy had a great sense of humor and loved life. He constantly joked and brought perpetual laughter and joy to his wife and children" Very true about Andy, but may be very understated....He had an "amazing sense of humor" and brought "perpetual laughter and joy " TO EVERYONE HE MET ! He was truly a treasure in all our lives and you all have to appreciate the time and life you had with him! and never forget that treasure !

Richard Otte
North Fort Myers, FL

Pam McDonald

July 4, 2019

Sharon and Children,
I am saddened to hear of Andy's passing. When tomorrow starts without him, don't think you're far apart. For every time you think of him, he's right there in your heart.

Michelle Watkins

July 3, 2019

My sincerest condolences to the family and friends of Andy. He was such a great person and has been missed since his departure.

Ginny Whittle

July 3, 2019

I worked with Andy for many years. His infectious,loud,exhuberant personality has been missed for many years. I am deeply saddened by his loss. My condolences to his family.

Theresa Ross Watersedge nursing and rehabilitation

July 3, 2019

Rip Andy it was a pleasure taking care of you and your beautiful eyes I remember I could see the person you were within miss you when you left the 4th floor Watersedge take care in heaven you will run your own unit up there!!!

Nancy Karpe

July 3, 2019

My thoughts and prayers go to the whole family.I remember Andy from St Mary's Church,where we sang together in the best choir there ever was.I am sure he is singing in Heaven and making all laugh as he did me.He will always be remembered,be at peace Andy

KAREN KINGSLEY

July 3, 2019

Sharon & family,
I am so very sorry for your loss of a great man. Andy was my Unit Director on DN3.Such a caring & compassionate U.D who cared about his patients & staff. The staff knew when Andy was coming on the Unit as you could hear him singing like he was in church with his baritone voice :) I am sorry he suffered with Alzheimer's. He was a man who truly loved his family & would bring a smile to his face when he spoke about them .Great stories.Gone to soon. My sympathy to all.RIP ANDY

July 3, 2019

Sharon and family
So sorry to hear of your loss. What a wonderful man who brought so much to his family and community. Thoughts and prayers to you and your family during this difficult time.

Maureen Aquino(McAllister)

Kelly Steinmiller

July 3, 2019

I am sorry for your family's loss. I worked with Andy at CVH when he was a staff nurse and then again years later when he was a Unit Director. Very kind man with a great sense of humor. RIP, Andy.You have been missed since you left Dutcher.

July 3, 2019

I am sorry for your loss. May prayer comfort you.
1 Thessalonians 5:17 "Pray constantly."

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Salvatore Malone

Sent Flowers

July 2, 2019

As you remember your love one, as God heals your broken hearts (Psalm 147:3), may your cherished memories bring you peace, comfort, and strength to endure.

With Heartfelt Sympathy,
Liz

Lisa & Gary Smith

July 2, 2019

Dear Sharon, you & Andy were the epitomy of a true marriage. The love & devotion you gave to each other was seen by all. You were both so blessed . Sarah, Rachel, Joshua & Andrew, you were so loved by your dad & you demonstrated such love & admiration for your dad. Love & prayers to all of you.

Lisa Caron

July 2, 2019

I had the pleasure of working with Andy at CVH. He was always smiling especially when he talked about his family. My thoughts and prayers are with his loved ones. Rest In Peace Andy

July 2, 2019

Dear Sharon and family,
My deepest sympathies go to you, Sharon, and your family. I feel privileged to have known Andy. He was smart, funny, caring and a true gentleman. I think you were one of the finest, most loving caregivers I have ever known Sharon. I'm sure he felt blessed to be surrounded by so much love. He certainly fought the good fight. Now may he rest in peace.
Lori Murphy, Madison CT

July 2, 2019

As you remember your love one, as God heals your broken hearts (Psalm 147:3), may your cherished memories bring you peace, comfort, and strength to endure.

With Heartfelt Sympathy,
Liz

Carolyn Barki

July 2, 2019

Dear Sharon and family,My condolences and deepest sympathies are extended to you. I worked with Andy also as a Unit Director in Dutcher for many years. He was an outstanding nurse, leader and friend. You should know (and you probably do) how much he loved his family. He would talk about all of you all the time!! I am sorry he had to suffer like this. He was a good person to many!!Fondly, Carolyn Barki, CVH

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Jessica Morison

July 2, 2019

Sharon and Family, so sorry for your loss.

Jeannie & Stash Ziomek

July 2, 2019

Dear Sharon, Andrew, Josh, Rachel & Sarah, please know that our thoughts & prayers are with all of you during this very difficult time. So many memories of your family through St. Mary's and the fun times we had with Andy in our years singing with choir. Andy will be missed by so many but we know he is singing his heart out now.

Edward Bero

July 2, 2019

Andy was a great guy,and a pleasure to work with.Rest in Peace man.

July 2, 2019

My heartfelt sympathy goes out to the friends and family on your loss. Our Heavenly Father promises to give you the strength and courage to cope with the pain of your loss for losing your precious love ones.

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James Mele

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Holly Augeri

July 2, 2019

Sharon and family,I am very sorry to hear of your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you all.

Kari Williams

July 2, 2019

My heartfelt condolences to the family, friends and coworkers of Andy. You will be missed but never forgotten.
Kari Williams
Christopher and DJ Santangelo JR.

L B

July 2, 2019

My deepest sympathy to your family.May you keep in mind the hope of life everlasting which can help sustain you through this difficult time. John 17:3

July 2, 2019

My heartfelt condolences to the family and friends. May you always cherish the memories that you have with your loved one, and remember that God is always there for us like it tells us at 1 Peter 5:6,7. I hope you continue to feel love and support from your family and friends.*

Stefanie Sapio

July 2, 2019

A gift to have known you and have been your caregiver. Much love and support to Sharon, Andrew, Josh, Rachel and Sarah

Stefanie

July 2, 2019

I will MISS you my dear friend. I was gifted with 6 months of being your support and knowing I won't see you really hurts.

I don't understand how you were taken from this earth to early, I never will.

You will NEVER be forgotten, you hold a special place in my heart.

VPG

July 2, 2019

So sorry for your loss. May your family draw comfort in knowing that those who pass are precious in God's eyes. (Psalm 116:15)

July 2, 2019

Please accept my deepest and heartfelt sympathy. I am so sorry for your loss. May the God who binds up the broken-hearted comforts all who mourn sustain your family during this challenging time.(Isaiah 61: 1,2.) Sincerely.

The Griffin family

July 2, 2019

Our condolences to your loving family.

July 2, 2019

Please accept my sincere condolences. May God bring everlasting comfort to your hearts and give you the strength to endure this difficult time.
(2 Thessalonians 2:16,17

Shontel Sorrells

July 1, 2019

He will truly be missed sending prayers to his family

Angela Marie Fava

July 1, 2019

In loving memory of my brother Andy. Thank you for your laughter, caring and strength. You are greatly missed.

Sheryl Slight

July 1, 2019

Sharon, Andrew, Joshua, Rachel, and Sarah,

We are so sorry for the loss of Andy. We hope that you will always feel the love Andy and have beautiful reminders of his love for you - he loved you all so much - more than words!

We are always here for each and every one of you and if you need anything, never ever hestiate to ask.

We love you so very much!

Love,
Eric (Uncle Eric), Sheryl (Aunt Sheryl), Victoria, Leo, Jakob, and Julia

Gail Mullaney

July 1, 2019

Garry and I are so saddened to hear of Andy's passing. He was loved by so many. We remember him as a wonderful person and nurse. Our hearts go out to all of you.

Taryn Ruffino

July 1, 2019

Rachel and Andrew (and family) we are so sorry to hear of the passing of your father. Hold tight to your fond memories, he will forever be in your hearts. You are all in our thoughts and prayers.
~ Taryn & Jason

Alan and Fran Pease

July 1, 2019

Andy and Sharon have given the world four beautiful and wonderful human beings, and it's been a pleasure always to know the whole family over the years. We're so sorry for your loss.

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