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Anthony "AJ" Marciano
1976 - 2015
Anthony "AJ" Marciano
1976 - 2015
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BORN
1976
DIED
2015
Anthony Marciano Obituary
AJ's zest for life was displayed not only through teaching and exploring with his son, Ryder, but how he mentored and lead all of those around him. His passion for the arts and music were his life beat. AJ's love for travel began as a young child when his family moved to Saudi Arabia and continued taking him to many places throughout his lifetime.
AJ graduated from Missouri Southern State University in 1999 with a Bachelors of Business Economics and Finance. AJ has been employed by Chicago Bridge & Iron (CB&I) in The Woodlands, TX for the past seven years where he served as Senior Director of Global Project Controls. He was previously employed by Fluor Corporation of Greenville, SC as Project Control Lead from 2001 to 2008.
AJ is survived by his wife, Michelle Leclair Marciano and son, Ryder Avery Marciano of Montgomery, Texas; Mother, Remona J. Marciano, and Father, Anthony J. Marciano of Las Vegas, NV; Sister, Kristie Buswell, husband, Heath Buswell; nephew, DJ Buswell, and niece, Sammie Buswell of San Diego, CA; Father-in-law, Gary Griffin and Mother-in law, Rene Griffin; Sister-in-law, Meredeth Greene, and husband, Michael Greene, nephew, Gage Greene, and niece, Kylee Greene of Matthews, NC.
AJ will be missed immensely by his loving wife, Michelle and sweet, precocious son, Ryder. He will always be remembered for his positive outlook, sense of humor, humble nature, and giving heart.
In lieu of flowers, please consider making a memorial contribution to a scholarship fund that has been set up for AJ's son, Ryder, at http://www.gofundme.com/AJMarciano
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Kristie Buswell
September 25, 2015
AJ was my big brother and while we may not have always got along he was still and always will be my big brother. My brother could be an amazing person and he could also be a pain but that is seen through the eyes of a little sister. We had our disagreements and I wish there had been time enough to have a better relationship. He was special in so many ways and had an ability to make anyone around him feel like they were special. He took chances on people and gave them a way to view themselves that caused them to hold their heads up just a little bit higher. He will forever be the guy with a big smile and a bear hug waiting for his family. I love you AJ and wish you could have seen my children and yours grow into the special people you would have inspired them to be.
Dobber
September 23, 2015
I met AJ my senior year in High School, we were quick friends. We were roommates in five different places, across three different states, encompassing nearly 15 nonconsecutive years. His support and friendship helped me through a wandering time while I worked towards my professional career.
I have a trove of great memories with AJ. Everything from concerts, movies, uHauls, luxury boxes, horrible apartments the gamut of life experiences. But when I reflect back on those experiences, I realize that most often it was his demeanor, that shaped those experiences into lasting memories.
There has been an outpour of people talking about the goodness in AJ. His generosity. His compassion. His positive spirit. All of which are true. But one thing in particular that stands out to me, is how he was so non-reactionary. I don't believe I ever saw him snap to judgment or become suddenly angry. And while I have mellowed with age, I'm still to fault, a short fused firecracker. AJ recognized this and would laugh at my sudden anger. He would look at me with a smile, chuckle, then say, "You just get so mad. So quick.". And those few words often times defused the whole situation. And it forced me to think about my actions and to try to bring a calmer demeanor into the next frustrating situation.
Without his friendship, support and generosity my life would have much different narrative. And in reading what others have said about him, it has become clear to me, that everyone saw the goodness in AJ. And despite our long history, I didn't know AJ any better than anyone else. I just happened to have know him maybe a bit longer. But everyone saw the goodness. And I am grateful for knowing AJ.
Rene' Griffin
September 23, 2015
Our son in law AJ was a loving, special addition to our family. He was funny, a trait we enjoyed. He would jump in to help out at all family events, never asked, and we would say to other men, see AJ understands and helps.
He was professional and personal with every new person he met, and truly listened to them. You felt immediately his sincerity and caring spirit.
Michelle and Ryder had the best man for a husband and father. To know AJ Marciano was to love 'um. It was just that simple.
Now, playing games or cards, you saw different AJ, very sneaky and lot of game " trash talking". Half to say, he did play well and was hard to beat with his awesome math skills. AJ laughed at me a lot when it came to math, Michelle gets it from her Mom. Ha Ha.
He sweated in the heat at Hilton Head Island, SC beach trips, with us; trying to cover his fair skin and head as he was blistering up. He would not be out- done with us all day beach lovers. Bless him, he was miserable.
In his short 39 years, he left a legacy of love and caring that we will hold onto forever.
With sadness in my heart, I say farewell to you AJ. You loved and were loved and I promise to tell Ryder all about you, and he will know his daddy and feel the support of our family.
Hugs,
Rene Griffin, aka: Mom 2
Joseph Smith
September 21, 2015
I had the previlage of working with AJ on the Asheville Projects in North Carolina, he was a professional in every way and a great human being, he will be greatly missed by all who have met his aquaintance.
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John and Jill McClave/Shapard
September 21, 2015
Jill and I had the privilege of knowing AJ and his family in Charlotte and his death came as a shock, as I am sure to all his family and friends. May his great smile and jovial personality always be remembered and cherished. Our prayers are with Michelle, Ryder and all who grieve this sudden loss of such a great man. Our prayers are with you.
Benny & Jean Gambrell
September 18, 2015
AJ was a super nice guy and co-worker... Our condolences to the family.
Sherri Osgood
September 18, 2015
My thoughts and prayers to AJ's family. I am so sorry for your loss.
AJ was one of the most sincere people that I had the pleasure to work with. I treasured his friendship and his honesty. Heaven has another angel. AJ -- I will miss you!!
Juanita Richards
September 18, 2015
Colin and I are so sorry and we are thinking of you and Ryder! We love you
Jamie Spikerman
September 18, 2015
With joy and fun I will love and lead Ryder during this kindergarten year. We walk together.
="hug deposits" for you both
Love, Mrs Spikerman
Rose Franks
September 18, 2015
Remembering AJ brings only smiles to my face. My condolences to his family, prayers are with all of you.
September 18, 2015
Michelle and Ryder, I know your pain and the stunned feelings you have right about now. Please know I am with you and know first hand how it feels. You are NOT alone. [email protected]. Anna Everett
gary griffin
September 18, 2015
In a short period of time A.J. became an inspiration to our family always willing to pitch in on family endeavors and the first to ask "What can I do". I must say A.J. was the ultimate overachiever in just one day he became a husband, father, son, uncle, brother-in-law, grandson and cousin to our family a feat not many people have ever achieved. I will never forget the memories he engraved in my heart. Happy Trails until we meet again. Love Gary aka "Pops"
AJ and friends (& coworkers) with Mickey
September 18, 2015
Kevin Treacy
September 18, 2015
This was really awful news to hear. My thoughts and prayers are with AJ's family. He was great guy with amazing energy and enthusiasm, and will truly be missed.
September 18, 2015
My condolences to the Marciano family. AJ had a contagious smile and was a joy to be around. He was there through thick and thin and supportive to all that knew him. Rest in Peace Friend.
Jim McLaughlin (VC Summer)
Keith & Beth Pallesen
September 17, 2015
Our thoughts are with AJ's family. Though we have not seen him for some time--since Shaw and Charlotte--we won't forget his ready smile and abundant good humor. We also won't forget his joy at finding Michelle and Ryder, and are happy for the time he was able to share with them.
Lori Blackwell
September 17, 2015
Prayers for AJ's family
Christy Ramirez
September 17, 2015
A.J. you will be missed by all and left us way too early. I can take comfort that you will be watching us from above and I hope to make you proud! Blessings and prayers to your family.
Alla Goretoy
September 17, 2015
I've never once came across AJ without there being a smile on his face. He was compassionate, cheerful, full of wit, brilliant and proudly loved his family. My prayers and thoughts go out to the Marciano family. AJ is already truly missed.
Jessie Dills
September 17, 2015
AJ was not just a co-worker to many of us at CB&I, he was a friend. I, as many others, looked up to him even though he was so young. He was a mentor to many and truly cared about the people he worked with. My thoughts and prayers go out to AJ's family, especially Michelle and Ryder. I hope you take some comfort in knowing how loved AJ was by everyone that he worked with at Shaw/CB&I.
AJ, you will be greatly missed.
Melody Redmond
September 17, 2015
I light this candle in memory of a close friend that always had a smile, laugh and shoulder to lean on. May your family know the people you came in contact with, wish them the same as you gave to others. Peace, Happiness & Love
Jessie Dills
September 17, 2015
AJ was not just a co-worker to many of us at CB&I, he was a friend. I, as many others, looked up to him even though he was so young. He was a mentor to many and truly cared about the people he worked with. My thoughts and prayers go out to AJ's family, especially Michelle and Ryder. I hope you take some comfort in knowing how loved AJ was by everyone that he worked with at Shaw/CB&I.
AJ, you will be greatly missed.
September 17, 2015
AJ was an inspiration and always positive and joyful. His smile and good humor was contagious He truly made a mark in the world for the good and brightened the lives of myself and many. You will be missed dearly. My heartfelt sympathy to the Marcianos. May God be with you in your time of healing. Kimberly Bentz (VC Summer)
Aaron Gaskins
September 17, 2015
This Loss Is Overwhelming. Working With AJ Was Always A Pleasure Even During Critical & Pressing Matters. I Pray God's Love Will Sustain His Family During The Suffering. He Is Greatly Missed.
Cedric Jackson
September 17, 2015
I met AJ a little over a year a go and I could tell at that moment that he was a great individual. He was always about helping others and making sure that he always acknowledged his employees. God gained another angel! My prayers are with Marciano family...
Danielle
September 17, 2015
I only worked with AJ briefly, but he really made an impression on me! He was truly a pleasure to work with and had an infectious smile on his face all the time. He's going to be missed a whole lot from friends and coworkers. My thoughts are with his family.
A.J., Matt, and Preston-high school seniors
aunt Linda
September 16, 2015
September 16, 2015
A.J. was such a vibrant and caring person. He was a very intelligent person who was always willing to share his knowledge. He gave me the opportunity of a lifetime which was the opportunity to work with his team in Project Controls and for that I will never forget him. His bright spirit will definitely be missed. Rest in peace A.J.
Ricky and Tori Gill
September 16, 2015
Our thoughts and prayers are with the Marciano family. AJ was such a great friend and coworker. He was always fun to spend time with and he could always make you laugh. I am very sorry for your loss.
Faith Brewer
September 16, 2015
AJ was just a super great guy whom I've had the pleasure to work with for 10+ years! He was warm, compassionate, understanding, smart, funny, and most of all a friend. My prayers are with his family, and he will indeed be missed! Heaven gained one of the Best!
Holly Schoenfeld
September 16, 2015
I am so sorry to hear about AJ; he was such a wonderful man. My thoughts and prayers are with his family.
Lindsey Roper
September 16, 2015
May your hearts soon be filled with wonderful memories of joyful times together as you celebrate a life well lived.
Cyndy Sanchez
September 16, 2015
Condolences to the family of AJ Marciano
"While we are mourning the loss of our friend, others are rejoicing to meet him behind the veil." -John Taylor
Peace
September 16, 2015
A.J and I worked together with Fluor in Roxboro, NC. for a few years.
A.J. was very sweet and kind and a pleasure to work with.
I am so sorry for his loss. The family will be in my prayers.
Gwen Jones Hill (Roxboro, NC)
Ian Hunt
September 16, 2015
AJ was a great friend, a great mentor, and a fun guy to hang out with. I will miss him. My thoughts are with his family at this time.
September 16, 2015
AJ was a great colleague, mentor, and friend who left us much too soon... He inspired me with his random acts of kindness that I am now committed to pay forward in his honor. My thoughts and prayers to his family.
Judy & Larry Sharpe
September 16, 2015
A wonderful man so full of life, laughter, and hard work. A caring person and manager who always took a few minutes in his busy schedule to come by your desk, say Hi, and see how you're doing. Thanks for touching our lives AJ. You will be missed.
Mark Blalock
September 16, 2015
My family's thoughts, prayers and condolences go out to the Marciano family. AJ will be misssed by lots of people. He was a great coworker and a better friend. We are all better off having known AJ. Rest in peace my friend...
Alicia Bose
September 16, 2015
I only knew AJ through work and only for a couple of years but the time I worked with him, he was an absolute pleasure to work with. Fun, friendly and smart. My condolences and prayers go out to his family during this difficult time.
Alicia Bose, CBI, VC Summer
Victor Opiyo
September 16, 2015
Our prayers flow to you the AJ family. AJ is a good friend.
Christin Rose
September 16, 2015
For the short time I worked with AJ, his kind spirit shone through his words and actions and I will always remember him for that. Thinking of all of AJ's friends and family during this difficult time. Especially Michelle and Ryder. You're in my prayers...I grieve with you.
Matthew 11:28 "Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest"
Brent Bierce
September 16, 2015
Condolences to the Marciano family. RIP AJ Marciano you were a good man.
Daniel Yarbrough
September 16, 2015
Thoughts and prayers to the Marciano family. AJ has been a positive influemce on my life for 8 years now, professionally and personally. More importantly, he was a true friend that will always have a special place in our hearts.
September 16, 2015
When I think of AJ, I think of a man who smiles, laughs, is compassionate, happy, smart, witty, positive, loves his family like no other...there's so much more. He's touched all of our lives and we are forever changed for the better. AJ is forever.....
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