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2022
Anthony “Tony” Santi, 41, a lifelong resident of Kansas City, MO, passed away Thursday, October 6, 2022, in Independence, MO. Visitation will be 2:00 p.m. to 8:00 p.m. Tuesday, October 11, at The Rock of KC, 12750 N. Winan Avenue, Kansas City, MO 64163. Funeral Services will be 11:00 a.m. Wednesday, October 12, at The Rock of KC. Burial will follow at Resurrection Cemetery, Kansas City North.
Anthony was born May 6, 1981, in Kansas City, MO. His career began in 2011 with the Kansas City, Missouri Fire Department. He was dedicated to helping people through his role as a fire fighter and EMT. In his later years, Tony was an avid humanitarian changing many lives for the greater good. Tony was a dedicated father, and his daughter Jillian was the light of his life. He had a vast love for nature and being outdoors. Tony was happiest being at the lake paddleboarding, hiking and spending time with his beloved dog, Donnie.
Tony could be seen with an infectious smile on his face and was often the one to bring laughter into the room. He was very family oriented and loved family get togethers. Tony enjoyed travel and making memories with his mom, sister, daughter, niece, and nephews. He valued spending time on his father’s farm riding four wheelers and spending time with his thoughts. Tony has a special place in his heart working with the Floribama community. He was a true protector of his cousins and always looked out for friends and loved ones. Tony always stood up for what was right. He was very involved in his spirituality and wanted more than anything for world peace and people to be unified.
Tony was preceded in death by his maternal grandparents Salvatore “Sam” and Josephine (Radosta) Pernice; paternal grandfather Jerry Santi; and his aunt Linda Pernice.
Tony is survived by his daughter Jillian Santi; mother Angel Pernice; father Theodore “Ted” Santi; sister Christina Raines (Philip); niece Ava Raines; nephews Samuel and Benjamin Raines; uncles and aunts Philip P. Pernice, Jack Pernice (Robin), Steve Pernice (Lori), Annette Silvio (Tom), Tim Santi, Victoria Tran (Hieu), Coleen Ward (Paul), Carla Smith; and several cousins.
Pallbearers will be his cousins: Vincent Pernice, Salvatore Pernice, Dominic Pernice, Michael Pernice, Anthony Pernice, David Castro, Joe Mike Castro, Paul Silvio, Salvatore Silvio and Anthony Silvio.
Honorary Pallbearers: Shawn Collins, Chris Arzola and Woodie Bonds.
Condolences may be offered at www.passantinobros.com
Jillian Santi
November 22, 2024
i will always love and miss u dad, nothing in this world could ever hurt more , i just wish i could talk to u one last time
Patti Jo Shannon
October 27, 2022
Grief can be so hard, but our special memories help us cope. Remembering you and your loved one today and always.
Patricia Shannon
October 25, 2022
In loving memory of a wonderful person. We will love you and miss you always.
richi
October 23, 2022
To a true hero that always did his best.
Rest in peace brother.
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Pleb Plebberson
October 21, 2022
Rest in peace. Condolences to the family. May the lord ease their suffering.
Emily Igheghe
October 13, 2022
To the Pernice and Santi family the Browns of Flower Mound Texas send much love and prayers in this time of grief. Angel you raised two wonderful children. I know Tony was very much loved by you and many others from the top of his head to the tip of his toes. He will be dearly missed. We will be praying for you.
Love,
Emily Brown- Igheghe
Susan Speck
October 12, 2022
I was honored to play pipes for Tony today. I know you’ll probably hear this a lot, but Tony IS a hero as a fire fighter and as a person. It takes a special person to put other people first. I am the proud daughter of a KCMO fire fighter, retired, and again it was a honor to play for Tony’s last alarm. In peace, Susan Speck
Darlene Rose
October 12, 2022
Peggy, Ted & all the family: just finding out about this. I am so very sorry. Darlene Rose
Bryn & Sarah Henry
October 12, 2022
Sending our love & prayers during this difficult time . The world lost a wonderful human being and I pray Jesus will be near as his family/friends walk through their grief .
The Thunder soccer team also sends their condolences to Benjamin & the extended family.
Tara Baxter
October 11, 2022
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October 11, 2022
The world was a better place with Tony in it. I am so sorry for your loss. He will forever be remembered as a beautiful, kind human being full of love and light. May you Rest In Peace dear friend.
Tina Martin
October 11, 2022
May God keep your family close during this rough time and know God will be with you every step of this journey. All the love in the world to you and your family.
Frances Main
October 11, 2022
Tony was a neighbor of mine and was always so nice. I will miss seeing him at our pool and also out walking his little dog. His dog and my dog never seemed to get along, but we would always stop and talk. He was such a sweet guy and I will surely miss him! I am praying for his family during this tough time!
Louie Pisciotta
October 11, 2022
Angel,
I am very sorry for your loss and I hate seeing you go through this. I will keep you in my prayers and I hope time will heal your heart. I am here if you need me!
Your friend always,
Denise (Diviak) Ciliberti
October 11, 2022
To Angel and family. I am so deeply sorry for your loss. May God provide comfort to all who loved Anthony and may the special memories shared with Anthony bring all of peace.
Lorenzo
October 11, 2022
He was one of my workout buddies at the gym. We shared many deep conversations over the years. He was truly a great guy and one-of-a-kind. To Ted and Angel. I love you both.
Leonard/Beverly Occhipinto
October 11, 2022
Angel and family,
I am saddened to hear of your son passing. We send prayers to you and your family in this time of sorrow.
Michael Perez
October 11, 2022
I met Santi my first day on the job. He taught me the ropes on and off the job. He was very spiritually connected to his reality along with his favorite K9, Donnie. This man loved his daughter and always talked about her in any topic. Santi will be dearly missed as i always came to him for advice.
Teresa Leone
October 10, 2022
Sending prayers to the family..
Kala DeSimone
October 10, 2022
Angelwe send our sympathy and love.
Jack & Kala
Ronnie Millet
October 10, 2022
I met Anthony about a yr ago and was blessed to get together with him around 4 weeks ago and have a discussion about life and he definitely helped change my outlook on it. I will never forget the long chat we had that will forever change my life. Anthony checked up on me at least 2-3 times a week the last few weeks. You will dearly be missed my friend!
James Armster
October 10, 2022
Our condolences, the Armster family P28B
Carolyn Shatto
October 10, 2022
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow. You will be truly missed. I really enjoyed talking on my patio with you and pup sitting for your little dog. I'm so glad we met and my heart is full of sadness. There's definitely a special place in heaven for you. You will be missed by many.
Joelle & Ron Strzelecki & Family
October 10, 2022
Angel and family,
Words cannot express the sadness of Tony Mikes passing. May God comfort you in your time of profound pain and loss. Know that there are so many of us that will carry your sorrow with us.
We love you all.
Kenneth Warfield
October 10, 2022
I wish the family and friends my deepest condolences.
George Garrett
October 10, 2022
Thoughts and condolences are with his daughter and family. Gods speed
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