Arlan Henderson

Arlan Henderson obituary, Plainfield, IL

Arlan Henderson

Arlan Henderson Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on May 12, 2025.
Mr. Arlan Stanley "Lanny" Henderson, age 81, passed away peacefully on May 10, 2025, in Plainfield, Illinois.

Born on December 6, 1943, and raised in Maywood, Illinois, Lanny was the beloved son of Stanley Leroy Henderson and Arla Ruth Henderson (née Ullrey). He built a life rooted in dedication to family, faith, and hard work.

Lanny devoted 42 years of his professional life to R.R. Donnelley & Sons, where his commitment and work ethic left a lasting impression. His long-standing career reflected not only his reliability but also his deep sense of responsibility and pride in his work.

A man of faith, Lanny was a longtime member of Community Presbyterian Church in Lombard, where he served as a Trustee. In more recent years, he attended Community Christian Church at Carillon. His involvement in church life was an important part of his identity and a reflection of the values he held dear.

Lanny had an incredible sense of humor and was very involved in his active retirement community, Carillon in Plainfield. He and his wife Gloria organized dancing events and were avid Bocce ball players.

Lanny was first married to Dee Anne Watkins on March 13, 1965 with whom he shared 45 cherished years before her passing. He later found love again and married Gloria Orangias on February 10, 2016 who survives him.

He was a devoted father to his son Scott Henderson (Janet), daughter Missy Grove (Bill) and stepsons Christopher Hainsworth (Katie) and William Hainsworth (Allysa).

As "Papa," Lanny took great joy in the lives of his grandchildren: Trevor Grove, Megan Grove, Kaitlyn Grove, Amanda Henderson, Delaney Henderson and Billy Hainsworth. His love for them was evident in every moment spent together.

He was preceded in death by his parents, sister Sharon Gale Gordon and brother William Leroy Henderson.

A Celebration of Life will be held on Sunday, June 1st from 12:30 to 3:00 pm at Caddie's Bar and Grill, 21200 S. Carillon Dr., Plainfield, IL 60544. Those wishing to participate are requested to RSVP by e-mailing [email protected] or by calling (630) 538-6218.

Lanny's memory will live on through the family he loved so deeply and the many lives he touched throughout his journey. May his memory bring comfort to those who knew him.

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May 25, 2025

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May 25, 2025

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May 21, 2025

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Betsy Wrobke Remley

May 25, 2025

Lanny & I went to grade school at Irving. My Mom taught there too.
Mr. Clifford and my Mom, Audrey Wrobke taught us to treat each other fairly and so we were all friends,no matter what! I have been on Zoom and so glad to reconnect with Lanny & Gloria. My sympathies to the family. Betsy Wrobke Remley.

Karen Vazquez

May 25, 2025

Gloria - you and Lan were a beautiful couple then and remained so all of these years. Your's and Lan's involvement in Community Christian led so many people to get to know you both. He was a man of faith and he's with the Lord but will be sorely missed. Karen Vazquez

Mary Jo Martin

May 21, 2025

I will always remember Lanny´s beautiful welcoming smile. Gloria and family I am so sorry for your loss he will be missed by all who knew him.

Karen Cline

May 15, 2025

The love of friends and family carry you through your grief.

Sandra Hoiney

May 14, 2025

Lanny will be missed. I loved this kind fun loving man. My Deepest Condolences to the family. So many good memories to treasure.

Barb and Steve Simon

May 13, 2025

You will truly be missed Lanny!! Steve and I enjoyed our dinners with you and Gloria every Friday and the trips we took with you!! You were a great friend and will be missed!

Linda Eynard

May 12, 2025

Lanny, we were first friends in Kindergarten those many years ago. I will always remember you as a sweet young boy who loved building things. May you rest in peace my friend. Linda Eynard

Lezlie Heard Bishop

May 12, 2025

We met in the "H" homeroom in 1958 at Proviso High School. After decades we became reacquainted via our monthly Zoom gatherings. I am so thankful we had that time. Rest in Peace, Lanny.

Scott Henderson

May 12, 2025

Amanda Henderson

May 12, 2025

You were the best Papa anyone could ask for. I´ll always be grateful that you were there, proudly cheering me on at my college graduation. I know you're still with me in spirit, encouraging me through every step of school. And I´ll carry your love with me when I graduate and become a doctor. I hope I make you proud, now and always.

Delaney Henderson

May 12, 2025

Forever grateful for the world´s best Papa

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