Arlene A. Holmes

1937 - 2016

Arlene A. Holmes obituary, 1937-2016

Arlene A. Holmes

1937 - 2016

BORN

1937

DIED

2016

Arlene Holmes Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Jan. 19, 2016.
Arlene A. Holmes (nee Sinkevicz), age 78, of Griffith, IN, formerly of Chicago, IL, passed away Monday, January 18, 2016. She is survived by her two sons: George H. (Bruny Lopez) Holmes and Ron L. (Char) Holmes; two granddaughters: Wendy and Samantha Holmes; great granddaughter, Skye; brother, Larry (Sharon) Sinkevicz; and several nieces and nephews. Arlene was preceded in death by her husband, George B. Holmes; daughter, Susan Mary Holmes; two sons: John A. Holmes and James A. Holmes; and two brothers: Charlie and Allen Sinkevicz. Funeral services will be held Saturday, January 23, 2016 at 9:30 a.m. at Kuiper Funeral Home, 9039 Kleinman Road (two blocks south of Ridge Road) Highland, IN. A Mass of Christian Burial will follow at St. Mary Catholic Church, 525 N. Broad, Griffith, IN at 10:00 a.m. with Rev. Theodore Mens officiating. Interment will be held at St. Casimir Cemetery, Chicago, IL. Friends are invited to meet with the family Friday, January 22, 2016 from 3:00 p.m.-8:00 p.m. at Kuiper Funeral Home. Arlene was a graduate of Procopius High School class of 1955. She married George Holmes in 1958 and was a stay at home mom raising their four sons. Please visit: www.kuiperfh.com.

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January 23, 2016

We loved and will miss your Mom. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all. Love, Ruth Holmes, Shannon, Keith & Shawnie.

Dean Vollette

January 23, 2016

Sorry I couldn't be there. Have a wonderful journey. Say hi to George.

Courtney Hemenway

January 21, 2016

Sending our prayers, love, and thoughts to all of you during this time. Love Matthew & Courtney (Pam's daughter) Hemenway

January 21, 2016

Dear Holmes family ,although your loved one have going to sleep in death, Jesus promise to awaken them in the time of the end,right here on this earth.John 11:17-29;

January 20, 2016

I wish you enough sun to keep your attitude bright.
I wish you enough rain to appreciate the sun more.
I wish you enough happiness to keep your spirit alive.
I wish you enough pain so that the smallest joys in life appear much bigger.
I wish you enough gain to satisfy your wanting.
I wish you enough loss to appreciate all that you possess.
I wish you enough Hello's to get you through the final Good-bye.

Wish we could be with you,
Dolores Topalian and Pamela Castleman

Dawn and Les Jenison

January 20, 2016

To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.

Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me and He said, "I welcome you."

It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here badly; you're part of my plan.
There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man.

God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.

When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years
because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.

I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.

There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
but together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too...
that as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.

If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain,
then you can say to God at night......"My day was not in vain."
And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile,
knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile.

So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low,
just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.

And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free,
remember you're not going.....you're coming here to me.

Ruth Ann Mahaffey (author)
©Copyright 1998

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