Art Tapia

Art Tapia obituary, Novato, CA

Art Tapia

Art Tapia Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers from Feb. 5 to Feb. 11, 2021.
Travis "Art" Tapia
May 1, 1935 - January 12, 2021
Art's passing leaves a hole in the hearts of many. He lost his beloved son, Lalo, in 2008 but is survived by a large loving family, including his wife, Andrea, and children, Albert, Eddie, Rick, Maria, Michelle, Marcos, John, and Adam and their families He was the patriarch of 5 generations that include 36 grandchildren. His family was his truest joy in life, especially the littlest ones. They always made him smile.
Art was 15 years old when he came to San Francisco from San Antonio, TX with his family. He attended Mission High, then worked at Kelly's Grocery in the Marina where he lived and started his family while attending SF State. In 1968, at the age of 33, he joined the San Francisco Police Department and served for 30 years, retiring in 1998 as a lieutenant. By then, he and his second family were living in Novato where he spent his final 27 years.
His police career began at the Ingleside District station where one of his first assignments put him on the law enforcement side of Vietnam War protestors, many of whom he'd known at State. He was quick to establish rapport with them in his new role and was an asset in keeping the peace at those demonstrations. He then paired up with his first partner, Joe Williams and they became the "school cops" at Balboa High. To this day, many of those kids and their families remember the black and brown duo fondly. Art made it a point to talk with them, to take them to their parents rather than to juvenile, and to care as a human being even though he wore a uniform.
From there, he moved on to Community Relations where his mission became clear. It was a tumultuous time both in and out of the department and with the support of strong and committed leaders, he found his niche. It was in helping the disempowered and righting the wrongs of police brutality and inequality in hiring. He willingly took on some unpopular positions and did not waiver in his dedication to them. He was getting himself into a bit of "good trouble" in those days and it suited him perfectly.
He became a proud member of the Officers for Justice and was elected their 4th president; he was the only non-black person to ever hold that office. It was during that time that the Consent Decree was signed by then-Mayor Feinstein paving the way for minorities and women to be hired and to move up the ranks of the department.
Art worked with minority youth gangs and could go anywhere in the City. He helped negotiate with them to cool tempers and keep the peace. He went to teen dances and stayed around afterward to be sure nothing bad spilled over into the community. And he joined boards of non-profits to better assist with things like playground equipment for kids, jobs for teens, and after-school programs for 'tweens. Coleman Advocates was one of Art's longest and closest affiliations. He was inspired by their work and especially by their founding members.
Sadly, the unit was disbanded by political forces in the late '80s. Art was transferred to the Richmond (as a Sgt) and later to the Tenderloin Task Force (as Lt). His reputation preceded him wherever he went. One of his officers at the Tenderloin laughingly called him a "friend to the friendless" – he liked that. But, without fail, his colleagues always ended up respecting him immensely, some even admiring his strong, quiet style. And they let him know it in so many ways. This was particularly gratifying after some years of struggle.
He loved being retired in Novato (he called it "the country") and working at Novato High with teens and families from other lands and customs. He was back to his own roots and they loved him. One of those "kids" even helped with his home care toward the end. "An honor", he said. And he was glad to be around his youngest 2 sons, who were also NHS students at the time. He spent a lot of time involved in their activities, including academics, sports & music.
He was a voracious reader and a lover of history and politics and crossword puzzles. And for all his life, he enjoyed doing these things in little coffee shops. He was a Bob Dylan aficionado and a poet in his own right. He spoke 4 languages fluently. He was able to travel a bit and was quite moved by a visit to his father's childhood home in Mexico in 2004. And everywhere he went, he connected with people – and they with him. He got a lot of satisfaction from the beauty he created in and around our house with his skill saw and his patience. And he was kind, always. Art was intelligent and street smart; a runner and a body-builder; a bad ass and a teddy bear. And he cared, really cared. Art's was a life well-lived.
We buried Art Tapia on January 20, 2021; it was Biden's Inauguration day. Nice touch. And the sun shone particularly brightly on all of us that day as we said our final good-byes.

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January 30, 2023

Jo-Ellen Radetich posted to the memorial.

May 2, 2022

Jo-Ellen Radetich posted to the memorial.

September 15, 2021

Janet Scarborough posted to the memorial.

Jo-Ellen Radetich

January 30, 2023

Art stepped up to the plate after my brother Richard was killed in the line of duty. Art already had a family of his own to take care of and yet he made time for me. I will never forget Art and I miss him until this day.

Jo-Ellen Radetich

May 2, 2022

Art looked after me when my brother Richard was killed in the line of duty. He had such a big heart.

He had a family of his own, yet he made time for me

With deep respect

Jo-Ellen Radetich

Janet Scarborough

September 15, 2021

Andrea, I would love to share how Art changed my life.sorry for your loss.

Carole Towle

February 17, 2021

The 1970's were turbulent times in San Francisco. While I was working in the Excelsior District, Officer Tapia was always available to intervene in chaotic situations. He was patient, supportive, intelligent, realistic, empathetic and brave. Officer Art Tapia was a true hero and a mentor to many. Sympathy and Condolences to the Tapia Family.

David L. Giovannini

February 14, 2021

Art always had a smile on his face and always willing to help out!

Cecilia and Christophe

February 13, 2021

Sr. Tapia, as we called him was a gentleman, he was wised, and knowledgeable man. He came into our lives in his later years. He became part of our family. We celebrated special events and he gave me comfort when I needed it.
My siblings were specially delighted by his charm, wisdom, kindness, and intellect.
He and Andrea met our extended family in Barcelona and in Mexico. The Tapias were present in the most important celebrations, my husband and my children; my siblings, their wives and husbands; enjoyed his charm. We feel so lucky that we got to meet him.
We are sure we will never meet someone like him again. He was special in many ways. We will miss his pumpkin pies at Thanksgiving, his hand simulating putting salt in the cut. He was one of a kind. A person with great integrity that never hesitated to do the right thing.
Thank you to the Tapia clan for sharing your dad with us.

Cecilia, Christophe, Bjorn, and Rafita (los padrinos).

Francisco Lopez

February 11, 2021

Fair winds and trailing seas.RIP amigo

Kitty Martin

February 10, 2021

Marc,

I was very sad to learn of your father's passing. My condolences to you and your siblings. I'm glad I had the opportunity to meet your father during the course of our friendship. My thoughts are with you and your family. I hope you are well.

Kitty Martin

Concha Castro

February 9, 2021

You are with God now, Art. Que en paz descanses con tus seres queridos.

Janet Di Sacco Holm

February 9, 2021

I was two years old when the family moved to San Francisco. The youngest of all the kids on the block.
I was teased by all but not viciously always with love!!
I may have not been family but always felt as if I was.
Eventually became family when my Sister Carole married Sergio(Checo).
I was the block babysitter at 9 years old for many of Art’s children.
I have nothing but fond memories of the whole family.

ROBIN ORTIZ

February 8, 2021

What a beautiful obituary, may he Rest In Eternal Peace. Robin Ortiz, Balboa Class of 1977. ❤❤

Linda B Lawrence

February 7, 2021

Thank you for the beautifully written tribute to our Dear Art Tapia. Blessings to you, Andrea. I met Art back in something like 1974 and we have always been friends. I love Art, truly! Art promoted Project 20 from the very beginning and helped to sponsor the program at its very start when it was given seed money from the San Francisco Foundation. This is ancient history but I can tell you so many times Art came to the rescue and how very much he shined in my eyes. Art represented the human race very very well. He was a model of a perfectly self contained man who could balance public service, friendship, family; he could think outside the box, he was always full of questions; he met others well, he appreciated people of all types and above all, he was generous. I am sorry not to be at Art's send off and will appreciate an opportunity to raise a glass - or a book - to Art when we have the opportunity to do so. Love to all Art's family.

Judy Gallwitz

February 7, 2021

Loved Art, worked with him at the Mission YMCA. He always helped with our dances. Great guy! R.I.P Art Tapia. You will be missed. for the family.
Judy Gallwitz

Lewis Nelson

February 7, 2021

Art and Joe were extremely positive forces when I attended Balboa High from September 1969 to June of 1972! They were very supportive of us athletes and students! I love those guys and Art was the most colorful! I was large for a sprinter and placed 5th out of six runners! Immediately after the race Art and Joe approach me laughing with handkerchiefs out yelling, “Come here Lewis and let us clean the dust out of your mouth!” We all cracked up! Rest In Heaven Art! You will never be forgotten!

George Fogarty

February 6, 2021

To the Tapia family I am sorry to read of your loss. Art was my Lt. at the Tenderloin task force and was a very good boss and funny man.

Mike Puccinelli

February 5, 2021

I played football with Art on the SFPD Flag Football team. Lots of good memories. I also worked with him at Tenderloin Task Force. He was a mentor and role model for the younger officers. He was oftentimes the voice of reason and calm when the chaos was mounting. My condolences to his family. Rest easy, my friend

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