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Art TODERIAN Obituary
1950 - 2013
Art Toderian passed away suddenly on March 7, 2013 at home in Calgary. Art leaves behind a legacy of love and special relationships. He enriched the lives of everyone he met. Left to celebrate his life is his wife Patricia, brother Wayne (Wendy), sister in-law Nadine, stepson Mike, and several nieces and nephews. A Memorial Service and Reception for Art will be held on March 15, 2013 from 12:00 noon to 4:00 p.m. at the Marda Loop Communities Association, 3130 - 16 Street S.W., Calgary, AB. In lieu of flowers, memorial tributes may be made to his wife Patricia Hatherly. Messages to the family may be left at www.southcalgaryfuneralcentre.ca. SOUTH CALGARY FUNERAL CENTRE and CREMATORIUM (at Lake Fraser Gate). Telephone: 403-297-0711. Honoured Provider of Dignity Memorial.
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77 Entries
Patricia Hatherly
May 14, 2014
Sweetheart, it's May 14th. I went to Denmark for a visit. It didn't help. I would give anything to hear your voice again. I love you.
Pat Hatherly
April 26, 2014
It's 26th of April and it's snowing and I'm thinking of you today, my love.
Pat Hatherly
April 2, 2014
I love you.
Patricia Hatherly
March 25, 2014
Second birthday coming up since you left. Don't want to celebrate. Just another day, without you.
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March 7, 2014
I miss you my friend! I spend as much time as I can with your girl. Pat, Jim and I miss our partner in nights of
food, fun and laughter. XX00
Love Bev
Brouse Judi
March 7, 2014
Dearest Arthur. You were a very special friend to me - more like a brother. I miss you a lot - your humor, your kindness, and last but not least,your cooking! You were the original "gentle bear" and I loved you. Judi xo
Pat Hatherly
March 6, 2014
Tomorrow (March 7th) you will have been gone for one year. My heart still aches for you, my love. I will always miss you and I will always love you.
Pat Hatherly
February 28, 2014
One week from today, you will have been gone for a year. It's just not right. I love you.
Cindy Scheuerman
February 16, 2014
Soon it will be a year since Art has left us physically. It is comforting to know that he is with all of his loved ones at your side spiritually. All our love to Pat. Mike & Cindy Scheuerman
Pat Hatherly
February 13, 2014
Tomorrow will be the first Valentine's Day without you in over 38 years. I miss you so very much, my love. Happy Valentin'e's Day.
February 7, 2014
It was 11 months ago today that you left this world, my love. You and I had so many plans left unfulfilled. We were going to Hawaii this past winter and you so wanted to go to Sochi for the Olympic Games. Wish we were there now. I love you very much.
February 1, 2014
I'm missing you very much today. Something happened that brought it all back. I wish people could be a little more sensitive. Guess they just don't get it.
January 20, 2014
Went out for dinner tonight with our friends, Bev and Jim. Had a nice time but it would have been better if you where here.
Patricia Hatherly
January 2, 2014
It is now 2014, my love. I thought Christmas would be the hardest but it was New Year's Eve and New Year's Day. I think maybe because that was our time for holding each other and making plans for the coming year. I love you. I so miss our time together.
Pat Hatherly
December 25, 2013
This was a hard "first". My first Christmas without you is almost over. I would give or do anything if it would bring you back where you belong. Merry Christmas, Arthur, my love.
Art and Pat
December 23, 2013
Merry Christmas, my beautiful Bear. I will always love you, Art.
Home at Christmas
Pat and Art
December 4, 2013
December 4, 2013
Hello, my love. Christmas is coming. I don't think it will ever be the same without you. You were my Santa.
Miss that smile and giggle!
Bev Lewis
November 19, 2013
November 18, 2013
Art, miss you buddy!
Last Year's Christmas Tree
November 17, 2013
Our Christmas tree was beautiful last year.
Merry Christmas, Baby.
November 17, 2013
Sweetheart, today I decorated for Christmas. Then I took everything down. Then I put everything up again. I don't know how to celebrate Christmas without you. I can't stop crying. I love you. I miss you so much.
Having a road coffee.
Pat Hatherly
October 31, 2013
Happy Hallowe'en, Sweetheart. I love you.
Hallowe'en at the Exshaw Legion.
Pat Hatherly
October 22, 2013
Hallowe'en is coming up, and I know how you used to love to hand out candy to all the kids and admire their costumes. We had a few Hallowe'en parties that we enjoyed as well.
Huggie-Bear
Pat Hatherly
September 6, 2013
September 7th will mark six months since you left. I can't believe you've been gone for half a year. I miss you so much, my love, my sweet, sweet Bear.
August 21, 2013
Today is your anniversary and Pat misses you deeply. We all do!!
Love
Bev & Jim
Judi Brouse
August 20, 2013
Arthur - I still remember that day 30 years ago when you married my best friend and I stood and watched the love between you as you took your vows. And neither of you ever strayed from those vows. I miss you very much my friend. Love, Judi xo
20 August, 1983
Pat Hatherly
August 20, 2013
Sweetheart, 30 years ago today you and I exchanged our wedding vows. I love you and I miss you very, very much. You were and still are the love of my life.
Patricia Hatherly
July 18, 2013
This is our unofficial Anniversary, Sweetheart. 38 years ago today, we had our first date, fell in love, and stayed together from that day on. I love you and I miss you very, very much.
June 14, 2013
happy birthday Art, think of you often. you have left a wonderful legacy of memories. sheena bienvenue
Mike & Cindy Scheuerman
June 14, 2013
We love and miss you so very much. You brought so much light and calmness to a impersonal world and made it a world of laughter and integrity.
June 13, 2013
We love and miss you Art and think of you everyday!
Kelly Kavanagh
June 13, 2013
You are thought of often and sadly missed!
Dan Johnson
June 13, 2013
Miss you, Art.
Happy Birthday!
Pat Hatherly
June 13, 2013
Happy Birthday, my darling Bear. I miss you very, very much. You will always be the love of my life.
Pat Hatherly
May 18, 2013
You filled my life
Now it's empty and hollow
Oh, Baby, you're a tough act to follow
May 2, 2013
many of your friends think of you often and fondly. you were an amazing person. x sheena
Pat Hatherly
May 2, 2013
I'm in my new place now, Sweetheart. It's nice but it's not home without you.
May 1, 2013
Art was my friend in Saskatoon at the university and later in Vancouver in the early 70's. We shared many good times from that era; Art was the leader of all the fun back then. I haven't seen him since 1993 but he came to mind just now. He will be missed across generations. David Anderson
Pat Hatherly
April 15, 2013
It will be 40 days tomorrow since you left. Safe journey to heaven, my love.
Pat Hatherly
April 11, 2013
I miss you, my love.
Missing you very much.
March 27, 2013
Wish you were going to be here tomorrow, my darling Bear.
Pat Hatherly
March 23, 2013
Things you catch in the Bow
Pat Hatherly
March 23, 2013
Pat Hatherly
March 23, 2013
Sophie & Brad Holtkamp
March 21, 2013
Art was our neighbour and we enjoyed many chats across the fence. We were always very envious and interested in the meals he was smoking on his front porch. In the limited way we knew Art, he always brought a smile to our faces when he arrived home in his truck. We will miss living beside such a wonderful man. Our sincere condolences to the family.
Ursula Da Rugna
March 19, 2013
My sincere condolences to Wayne, Pat and their families. I was a customer of Art's and feel lucky to have known him. He was always professional and knew how to take care of his customers. I was fortunate enough to see Art in my house in the beginning of February where we discussed various items plus of course the work. Even though I didn't know him for a very long time I'm truly glad to have known him at all.
Pat I have never met you but Art talked about you very lovingly. Take every day as it comes, some days will be better than others - but remember the sun comes up every day no matter what.
Heather Brooks
March 18, 2013
Take comfort in knowing that now you have a special guardian angel to watch over you, Pat. Love, hugs & prayers
Our wedding day.
Pat Hatherly-Toderian
March 17, 2013
Mike & Cindy Scheuerman
March 16, 2013
We were so shocked to hear of Arts sudden passing. We will miss his loving gentle ways. Art was always kind and had the best sense of humor to brighten all peoples day. Art made such a difference in our lives and we will miss him dearly. Although it will be difficult to heal from this loss, Art would want people to dance, sing, feast and embrace life and to be kind to one another. We are better people from having know such a incredible human being. All our love and prayers to Pat & Wayne and their families.
Mike and Karen Ruszkowski
March 16, 2013
ALthough we haven't seen Art for years We will always remember the ski trips and late night meals he shared with friends.
Jean Drouin
March 15, 2013
Being a friend of Mike I got the chance to meet Art on quite a few occasions. One of thoses most memorable moments was my first time at a football game. And then comes to mind the time when at The Bier Market they ran out mussels at 4 in the afternoon mostly cause of the bunch of us. All I can say in my on words is everytime I spent time with the man I felt myself leaving a happier and better person. In french we a man like Art "Un bon vivant" My condolences to Pat and all family and friends.
Garry & Violet Onofriechuck
March 15, 2013
Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
March 14, 2013
Dear Pat and Mike. I've been honoured to hear the musical talent that has inspired us all in some way. Truly am sorry for your loss. May his music forever live on!!!
Jane Dolyny
March 14, 2013
My sincere condolences to Wayne, Pat and their families.
As an interior designer, I had the pleasure of meeting Art and his crew a few years ago when we worked on a renovation project together.
He quickly earned my respect with his technical and creative knowledge on construction and design.
Over the years our professional relationship developed into a friendship and I enjoyed our conversations about food, his stories growing up on the farm, Pat's music career and construction just to mention a few.
I feel fortunate to have spent time driving to High River with Art to a client's home just a few weeks ago. It was a glorious sunny day with a clear view of the mountains, a successful meeting with the client complimented with great conversation.
Art was a likable "character" with endless stories he was always willing to share and a pleasure to work with.
To my "cowboy" contractor.
I raise my glass of scotch and toast to your full and varied life! You will be missed by all.
Randy Lukan
March 14, 2013
My sincere condolences Wayne, Wendy and family. I wish I would have had more opportunities to get to know Art better, but the memories I have are of a warm smile and a very friendly man. Wayne, you will always have the memory of having your brother as your best friend, and that is an amazing memory to have. You two were lucky to have each other! He will rest in peace having known that.
mike brown
March 14, 2013
i will always remember
Theresa and Chelsea Moffat
March 14, 2013
Dear Pat, Wayne, Wendy and family - we cannot express how much Art will be missed. Please take some comfort in knowing that we all have such fond memories of the kind, funny and true family man he alway was. Art was one of a kind. He will always be in our hearts and our thoughts.
Karen Glowa
March 14, 2013
Pat, my sincere condolences on the loss of your "Bear". Great memories came flooding back of wonderful meals in your home, "Black Pig" and playing and singing all hours with those crazy Danes. Art was such a gracious person, and his love for you and pride in your career was always evident. Those of us who got to know him, even a little bit, are better for the privilege.
Jane Dolyny
March 14, 2013
My sincere condolences to Wayne, Pat and their families.
I had the pleasure of meeting Art and his crew a few years ago when we worked on a renovation project together. He quickly earned my respect with his technical and creative knowledge of construction and design.
Over the years our professional relationship developed into a friendship and I enjoyed our conversations about food, his stories growing up on the farm, Pat's music career and construction just to mention a few.
I feel very fortunate to have spent time driving to High River with Art to a clients home just a few weeks ago. It was a glorious sunny day with a clear view of the mountains, a successful meeting with the client complimented with great conversation.
Art was a likeable "character" with endless stories he was always willing to share and a pleasure to work with.
To my "cowboy" contractor.
I raise my glass of scotch and toast to your full and varied life!
You will be missed by all.
March 14, 2013
We were so saddened and shocked to hear of Art's passing on Thursday, March 7, 2013. We were together on March 2, 2013 discussing about him going to Jamaica to build a Sportsdome, after which we had refeshment and drinks.
Our sincere condolences goes to Art's wife and family.
From everyone who were at the meeting.
- Frank McGOowan
President
Blue Mountain Terrace Canada Inc.
Layle Thompson
Jay Arumuga
Michael (Bobby) Bridgemohan
Doris Hoyka
Mike Brown
Shaun Kinghurn
REST IN PEACE ART.
Shenaz Jinnah
March 14, 2013
I am so saddended to hear of this> i had just seen him 2 days ago at the Flames game. We sat next to each other at the games and it was always a pleasure to see him. He always had a huge smile on his face. You will be sadly missed. May your soul rest in peace.
Gary Silkie
March 13, 2013
I just learned today of Art's sudden passing, I had the good fortune of knowing him for a number of years and was always amazed by his unfailing good humour. In our business dealings Art was always fair and helpful with work issues and always found a way to make it happen no matter how difficult the issue seemed to be. He was an influence in my life and is missed.
March 13, 2013
I was both saddened and shocked to hear of Arts sudden passing. He was a true gentleman and will be sorely missed by our league. Our thought and prayers are with his family.
Collin MacVicar
CPDA President.
David Smigarowski
March 13, 2013
I would like to offer my sincere condolences to Pat, Wayne, Wendy, Mike and to Art's extended family and his many dear friends. I have had the pleasure of knowing and working with Art for almost 30 years. We originally met through mutual friends and had the opportunity to become friends first and then business associates for many years. I am truly saddened to hear of Art's passing. It leaves a very large hole in my heart to know he's gone. He was a gentleman, always true to his word and his handshake was his bond. He was unique in today's world. I will miss him very much.
Dave Smigarowski
Calgary
Corrie Banman
March 13, 2013
Art and I played darts against each other quite a few times. He always had helpful pointers even though he was my opponent. He had an easy going attitude that was refreshing.
March 13, 2013
I was so saddened to hear of Art's passing today he was well liked and respected in the darting community and will be sorely missed by many of the members of the Calgary Pub Darts Associaiton. He was a lovely and very gracious man and will be missed. My sincere condolences to the family.
Margaret & Willi Heinermann
My loving husband. I will miss you and love you always
Pat Hatherly
March 12, 2013
Roy McMillan
March 12, 2013
I have had the honor to call Art my friend and enjoyed his company at many a Stampeder football game! The tail gate gatherings were fantsatic and I will always remember my good friend.
Doris Mielke
March 12, 2013
Pat - We were neighbors many years ago on 10A Street - I just happened to see Art's obituary in today's Herald. We have many fond memories of you both and we're so sorry that your man has passed on. I will keep you in my heart over these next few days. Love to you xoxoDoris and Paul Mielke
March 12, 2013
Art was truly a unique individual that enriched the lives of all he met. he made each person feel special. john and i are saddened by his sudden passing but thankful that we could call him 'friend'. xx sheena
Shelley Foley
March 12, 2013
Deepest sympathies to all of Art's family at this sad time. Art was a "one of a kind" gentle soul and was willing to help anyone who needed it. He always had a story to tell, and just last week, was telling me some of his travel stories of the Middle East - where he worked for a period of time. He will be missed by all who had the pleasure of knowing him.
Alvin & Martha Pentlichuk
March 12, 2013
We were so sorry to hear of Art's sudden passing. Please accepy our sincere condolances to you Pat and Wayne and family. May you find the strength to overcome this tragedy.
Wayne Vandale
March 12, 2013
I ran into Art by accident at a Stavros jam last August, we stared at each other not knowing but recognizing each other from many years ago. We went outside for a cigar and started talking about old days and all the people we knew past and present, especially the Party Band/ Crackerjack times. He talked about Pat's never ending love of music and entertaining and that's why they were there with their friends, wish I'd known him better.
Deepest sympathy to Pat, family & friends.
March 12, 2013
My favourite memories of Art is his deep and real knowlege of fine things, be they food, cigars or whatever was good quality. I will miss the rare times I had to share with him. My sympathy to all his family, he will be greatly missed by all of us.
Torben Angelo
Bev & Jim Lewis
March 12, 2013
Pat,
Your "Bear" will be missed so much by so many but none so much as you. Our love to you and Wayne and your families.
Art, you touched everyone that had the pleasure of meeting you. Your presence, energy, and warm spirit filled every room. Your giggle was infectious, soothing, and heart warming. Your love for Pat was known, admired and respected. We will miss our times with you my friend and I know your great energy will be around us always.
Love Bev & Jim
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