Ashlyn Dyer

Bruce & Marsha,
I know from personal experience that one year in the loss of a child can feel like an eternity, and yet the pain still feels as if tragedy struck only yesterday. My daughter Kelly also attended Simis & Meadows, and I know the girls played in RAMMS together. Kelly lives in San Francisco now, and of course was deeply saddened when she learned of Ashlyn's accident last year. Just yesterday she was taking a walk around the Presidio and came upon the memorial there. It breaks our heart that you have had to suffer such a tragedy. We too lost a child, Vance, in September 2005. He also has a plaque near the Angel of Hope, and we think of your family often. We can only pray they are all together doing the Lord's work.

Dear Bruce and Marsha,

We were heartbroken when we heard the news of Ashlyn's accident. The last time we saw you and Ashlyn was at her graduation from USC, when my son was also graduating. What a happy day for all. She was a beautiful girl. I can't begin to imagine how you both must feel but please know that you are in our hearts and prayers.Ashlyn is now your guardian angel. With lots of affection and sympathy, Nilsa and Roy Brugman

Please know that friends from the past are also surrounding you at this time and always...

I never met Ashlyn. Although I know people that have. I heard about her tragic accident from a woman at work. It moved me then. I then heard of her from another "fallen angels” Legacy guestbook signing. My friend Tracy's died 3 years ago also too soon. Someone that knew Tracy also knew Ashlyn. Her parting has touched me today. I recall the pain, the uncomfortable moments; keep the memories alive, talk of her as if she is still with us... because she is. They never leave.

I remember Ashlyn playing with Megan Murphy and I when we all went to Simis and Meadows-her smile and vibrant personality, Taryn driving me to school at Xavier, your family has always been a blessing and your daughter will continue to be in our hearts forever...

Dear Marsha and Bruce,

We want you to know you are in our thoughts and prayers during this difficult time.

Judy and Joel Zaft

My heart is breaking for you and your family this evening. When I learned the news and had to call my daughter, Bethany, in Ventura to tell her, I knew she would be devastated. At their young age, death is not often on their minds. When something so tragic as Ashlyn's death happens, it brings us all around to the reality of the fragility of life. May all of us learn from this sad event and cherish every moment that we have with our children. My thoughts are with you at this time.

Dear Marsha and Bruce,

I was so very sorry to hear about your precious Ashlyn. Please know that she has been in my thoughts and prayers, as have you.

Love,

Pauline

My prayers are offered up for you and your family. Rest in peace, Ashlyn.

Alison Tait (XCP Class of 1982)

I'm very sorry for your loss and want you to know that there are people you don't even know out there praying for you and holding you in their hearts. I lost my beautiful daughter Amy last June, so I think I know how you feel. She is on Legacy.com too.



Best wishes and may GOd bless you and help you through this time of great pain.



Sincerely



Steve Olson

Dear Marsha and Bruce:

We were so sorry to hear the news about Ashlyn. Please accept our heartfelt condolences and know you and your family are in our prayers. . .and will continue to be. Dave and Peg

Ashlyn's smile is the first thing that comes to mind when I think back to freshmen year at Xavier. I was nervous starting at a school where I knew so few people. Yet, I walked into first period and the first person I saw was Ashlyn. She had the friendliest smile and we quickly came to realize that we had spent many summers in the pool together at the dreaded PCC summer camp! My nerves were immediately calmed because Ashlyn was so warm and energetic. I do not know what to say other than the world will not be the same without her. Her ability to embrace people eagerly and make them feel loved will not be forgotten. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

Dear Bruce & Marsha,



We're deeply saddened to hear about the loss of your daughter Ashlyn. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.



In deepest sympathy.........Tom & Susan

My thoughts are prayers are with you all and I am deeply saddened by this whole event! There is a greater plan for all us all and we were all blessed to have Ashlyn come into our lives. Stay strong! Love Julie and Mattew Hyde

Dear Marsha and Bruce:



We are so very sorry to learn of your loss. Words cannot adequately express our sense of deep sorrow; please know that you are both in our thoughts and prayers.



Bob & Joanne Imler

Rest in Peace SWEET Beautiful Angel * * *

MARSHA AND BRUCE I AM SO SORRY TO HEAR ABOUT ASHLYN. I WILL ALWAYS REMEMBER HER AS AN ADORABLE 4 YEAR OLD COMMING IN TO SEE BRUCE AT CALMAT. MY PRAYERS ARE WITH YOU. GOD BLESS. CATHY FLOWERS

Dear Marsha and Bruce,

I was saddened to learn of the loss of your daughter Ashlyn. I will

remember her in my prayers.

Dearest Marsha, Bruce, Allyn & Taryn,

Our hearts are with you & we know Ash will live forever in your hearts and in the hearts of all of those who knew her.

Feel our arms around you!

Chip & Sandi & Courtney

My thougts and prayers are with you. I am very sorry for your loss. Ashlyn's spirit will continue on and she has given life and saved the life of others. God Bless.