Ashlyn Dyer

Ashlyn Dyer

Ashlyn Dyer Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers from Mar. 19 to Mar. 20, 2006.
Ashlyn Dyer A legacy to inspire us all October 24, 1978 - March 12, 2006 After 27 years of happiness, love, laughter and true spirit, Ashlyn Dyer passed peacefully on Sunday, March 12, 2006 with family and friends by her side. Ashlyn, who was living in San Francisco, was out for an early morning jog on March 2 in the Presidio near her home when she was struck from behind by a hit-and-run driver. Had the person who hit Ashlyn stopped and called 911 immediately, Ashlyn could have recovered from the injuries she sustained. She suffered from a lack of oxygen for a period of probably greater than 10 minutes from the time she was hit until paramedics arrived and began resuscitation. When Ashlyn was found, she was unconscious and had no identification or keys on her, just an iPod. Investigators took her iPod to an Apple store, where store clerks contacted the company's headquarters and used identifying information contained on the device. Although there were early signs of improvement, it became apparent from tests that she had sustained severe and irreversible brain damage caused by lack of oxygen. Doctors were able to harvest all healthy organs which have provided the gift of ongoing life and love to many. A graduate of Madison Meadows Grade School, Ashlyn also attended Xavier College Prep in Phoenix. Her family moved to Manhattan Beach, California where she played volleyball and was team captain her senior year at Mira Costa High School. Graduating in 1997, she was also senior class president. She competed in the Six Man Volleyball tournament every year and played volleyball while attending University of Southern California. She studied broadcast journalism and graduated from USC in 2001. Ashlyn loved the beach and was an avid jogger. She had recently run the Phoenix Rock 'n' Roll marathon, and was planning to run in this weekend's Los Angeles Marathon. Her friends will be running in L.A. Marathon in her honor on Sunday, March 19, 2006. Ashlyn was an amazing person who had an enormous love for life. She put 100 percent into everything she did and had this incredible energy about her that lit up the room. She touched everyone who knew her and had the ability to make everyone feel special. Ashlyn is survived by her parents, Marsha and Bruce Dyer, who live in Phoenix during the winter and Manhattan Beach during the summer; two older sisters, Taryn Dyer-Smith and her husband, Trent Smith, of Phoenix, and Allyn Leoff and her husband, Justin Leoff, of Torrance; one niece, Elliot; and two nephews, Ben and George, and another soon to be born nephew; grandmothers, Nadine Dyer and Jean Lloyd; aunts, uncles and cousins. The Celebration of Life for Ashlyn Dyer was held Saturday, March 18, 2006 at 1 p.m. in the Mira Costa High School Gym in Manhattan Beach. Ashlyn's generosity, vibrancy, and enthusiasm for life so touched the lives of her close and loving family and her special and many dear friends, all of whom are heartbroken yet proud that her spirit will always live on. The Dyer family has established the Ashlyn Dyer Fund for Neurological Research through the Marin Community Foundation. Contributions can be made in her memory to help others. Information about the fund can be found at www.marincf.org.

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March 19, 2007

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April 7, 2006

Nilsa and Roy Brugman posted to the memorial.

March 22, 2006

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Candy Gadd

March 19, 2007

Bruce & Marsha,
I know from personal experience that one year in the loss of a child can feel like an eternity, and yet the pain still feels as if tragedy struck only yesterday. My daughter Kelly also attended Simis & Meadows, and I know the girls played in RAMMS together. Kelly lives in San Francisco now, and of course was deeply saddened when she learned of Ashlyn's accident last year. Just yesterday she was taking a walk around the Presidio and came upon the memorial there. It breaks our heart that you have had to suffer such a tragedy. We too lost a child, Vance, in September 2005. He also has a plaque near the Angel of Hope, and we think of your family often. We can only pray they are all together doing the Lord's work.

Nilsa and Roy Brugman

April 7, 2006

Dear Bruce and Marsha,

We were heartbroken when we heard the news of Ashlyn's accident. The last time we saw you and Ashlyn was at her graduation from USC, when my son was also graduating. What a happy day for all. She was a beautiful girl. I can't begin to imagine how you both must feel but please know that you are in our hearts and prayers.Ashlyn is now your guardian angel. With lots of affection and sympathy, Nilsa and Roy Brugman

kristin almquist

March 22, 2006

Please know that friends from the past are also surrounding you at this time and always...

KJS

March 22, 2006

I never met Ashlyn. Although I know people that have. I heard about her tragic accident from a woman at work. It moved me then. I then heard of her from another "fallen angels” Legacy guestbook signing. My friend Tracy's died 3 years ago also too soon. Someone that knew Tracy also knew Ashlyn. Her parting has touched me today. I recall the pain, the uncomfortable moments; keep the memories alive, talk of her as if she is still with us... because she is. They never leave.

Gabrielle Grothouse

March 21, 2006

I remember Ashlyn playing with Megan Murphy and I when we all went to Simis and Meadows-her smile and vibrant personality, Taryn driving me to school at Xavier, your family has always been a blessing and your daughter will continue to be in our hearts forever...

judy zaft

March 21, 2006

Dear Marsha and Bruce,

We want you to know you are in our thoughts and prayers during this difficult time.

Judy and Joel Zaft

Linda Weaver

March 20, 2006

My heart is breaking for you and your family this evening. When I learned the news and had to call my daughter, Bethany, in Ventura to tell her, I knew she would be devastated. At their young age, death is not often on their minds. When something so tragic as Ashlyn's death happens, it brings us all around to the reality of the fragility of life. May all of us learn from this sad event and cherish every moment that we have with our children. My thoughts are with you at this time.

Pauline Urbano King Hechler

March 20, 2006

Dear Marsha and Bruce,

I was so very sorry to hear about your precious Ashlyn. Please know that she has been in my thoughts and prayers, as have you.

Love,

Pauline

Alison Tait

March 20, 2006

My prayers are offered up for you and your family. Rest in peace, Ashlyn.

Alison Tait (XCP Class of 1982)

Steve Olson

March 20, 2006

I'm very sorry for your loss and want you to know that there are people you don't even know out there praying for you and holding you in their hearts. I lost my beautiful daughter Amy last June, so I think I know how you feel. She is on Legacy.com too.



Best wishes and may GOd bless you and help you through this time of great pain.



Sincerely



Steve Olson

Dave and Peg Kimball

March 20, 2006

Dear Marsha and Bruce:

We were so sorry to hear the news about Ashlyn. Please accept our heartfelt condolences and know you and your family are in our prayers. . .and will continue to be. Dave and Peg

Bethany Marrie

March 20, 2006

Ashlyn's smile is the first thing that comes to mind when I think back to freshmen year at Xavier. I was nervous starting at a school where I knew so few people. Yet, I walked into first period and the first person I saw was Ashlyn. She had the friendliest smile and we quickly came to realize that we had spent many summers in the pool together at the dreaded PCC summer camp! My nerves were immediately calmed because Ashlyn was so warm and energetic. I do not know what to say other than the world will not be the same without her. Her ability to embrace people eagerly and make them feel loved will not be forgotten. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

Tom & Susan Edwards

March 20, 2006

Dear Bruce & Marsha,



We're deeply saddened to hear about the loss of your daughter Ashlyn. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.



In deepest sympathy.........Tom & Susan

Julie Rizzo Hyde

March 20, 2006

My thoughts are prayers are with you all and I am deeply saddened by this whole event! There is a greater plan for all us all and we were all blessed to have Ashlyn come into our lives. Stay strong! Love Julie and Mattew Hyde

Bob Imler

March 20, 2006

Dear Marsha and Bruce:



We are so very sorry to learn of your loss. Words cannot adequately express our sense of deep sorrow; please know that you are both in our thoughts and prayers.



Bob & Joanne Imler

Kathy

March 20, 2006

Rest in Peace SWEET Beautiful Angel * * *

CATHY FLOWERS

March 19, 2006

MARSHA AND BRUCE I AM SO SORRY TO HEAR ABOUT ASHLYN. I WILL ALWAYS REMEMBER HER AS AN ADORABLE 4 YEAR OLD COMMING IN TO SEE BRUCE AT CALMAT. MY PRAYERS ARE WITH YOU. GOD BLESS. CATHY FLOWERS

John Clark

March 19, 2006

Dear Marsha and Bruce,

I was saddened to learn of the loss of your daughter Ashlyn. I will

remember her in my prayers.

Chip & Sandi Harrington

March 19, 2006

Dearest Marsha, Bruce, Allyn & Taryn,

Our hearts are with you & we know Ash will live forever in your hearts and in the hearts of all of those who knew her.

Feel our arms around you!

Chip & Sandi & Courtney

Jacque Moore

March 19, 2006

My thougts and prayers are with you. I am very sorry for your loss. Ashlyn's spirit will continue on and she has given life and saved the life of others. God Bless.

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